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Do you put family First .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ooh this is a tricky one.
If it's a really good offer then swinging every time.  
If it's just the usual shit then I'll settle for a cup of tea in front of the fire. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Football comes first, then family then swinging
My family knows football comes first !!! Always has done 
I know people will say that family should but at the end of the day they know what football means to me, but they know what family means to me also
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a silly question!
why I get loads of mail asking to meet , I cant right now."
Why does people mailing you asking to meet mean they don't put their family first?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who would put sex with strangers above their nearest and dearest?
To be fair I see them every day.
I don't get to shag a sexy stranger every day."
god when I get home from my mum its the last thing I think off , lol xxx |
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "
Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .
Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? "
some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica . |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"Family and friends...
Luckily we can ask family to look after children when required 
Oh that's handy!!  "
We don't ask often we try and arrange meets when we dont have the kids but sometimes some ppl are just worth getting a sitter for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get out to swing two or three nights a week .
We get a trusted sitter , and pay well .
If that's considered putting swinging first , then we do .
It's a lifestyle choice we have made , and we love it . It isn't a secondary thing to anything. It's an integral part of us . More than just a hobby if you like .
Perhaps this is why we have never bailed on a meet , let anyone down , or just not showed up and blamed family commitments .
Of course family are important too , but more important ... nope . Equally as important ... yes . |
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"My kids yes every time. The rest of my family or at least the majority of them can fuck right offlol kids first mum and dad second . "
I've no idea if mine are even drawing breath still. We are a close lot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "
Kids first. The main reason why I'll never accommodate. I don't think it's fair and it's not right. This is my kids home too and it's my duty to keep them safe under their own roof. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who would you miss most a person you have sex with or a family member?
That's gonna really confuse people in the south west.  "
The Isle of Sheppey more like lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get out to swing two or three nights a week .
We get a trusted sitter , and pay well .
If that's considered putting swinging first , then we do .
It's a lifestyle choice we have made , and we love it . It isn't a secondary thing to anything. It's an integral part of us . More than just a hobby if you like .
Perhaps this is why we have never bailed on a meet , let anyone down , or just not showed up and blamed family commitments .
Of course family are important too , but more important ... nope . Equally as important ... yes ."
Every parent is entitled to a night out. Where you choose to spend that night out and who with, is entirely up to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a weird thread.
Of course people are going to say family first.
Unsure as to what the OP is trying to achieve here o.O"
I get a lot of mail asking me to meet when I say my mum not well they go on and on ... |
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"What a weird thread.
Of course people are going to say family first.
Unsure as to what the OP is trying to achieve here o.OI get a lot of mail asking me to meet when I say my mum not well they go on and on ..."
Sorry to hear that. |
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .
Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica ."
Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!
Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?
The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .
Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica .
Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!
Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?
The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit! "
Noooo the whole point of Fab is to convince strangers that you love your family.
Get with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging is mearly an additional extra in my life ,to be fitted in around everything else . It has zero priority in my life and is just a great fun time when life allows  "
I agree xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first .
Do you really think anyone is going to come on here and confess that they put NSA shagging before their family? some think its not a big thing if your mum has demenica .
Of course it's a big thing - but I still don't understand the wording/point of the thread!
Are we really all to congratulate ourselves because we put our kids (or in your case mum's) needs before an NSA shag with a stranger?
The whole point of fab, surely, is that it's something we can pick up and put down when time/work/family commitments permit! "
years I have been here so I come and go and people get up set . I ask as like me some must put all this on hold . |
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"What a weird thread.
Of course people are going to say family first.
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Only because they feel they should.
We have kids, does that mean we can never swing without "putting them second"? No.
But if we had a meet planned and one of them was taken seriously ill, or needed us, would we cancel? Of course.
Surely the question depends on "need", "priority" and many other factors.
To pretend it doesn't, and that there is "one" answer is fatuous.
Isn't it?
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OR SWINGING ..To me its family . Can be weeks months or years but they come first . "
Family. I gave up Swinging for years when my son was younger, he was ill with an un-diagnosed heart condition and then needed an op once it was found. No way was I going to be miles away in some hotel room with a stranger, however good the sex promised to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to put your family first.
No you don't mine have never put me first, now my friends that's a different matterSee I under stand that x"
Yeah I got my back up a bit but the scenario is stupid really fi we are talking death bed situation its obvious but if we are talking going for a pint with my best mate or getting to meet a lovely woman on here I'd pick the woman then sort another date out for the pint. As they say on "friends" you can cancel plans with friends if there's a possibility of sex! |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
Essex |
Family first I'm not fucking that up for anyone.
I say keep your money in your pocket and your cock in your pants to stay out of trouble unless your on cam then its ok to give it a little wiggle lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the family member most of them I'd prioritise a slug before them but my siblings and close family/friends I'd put first always.
Work comes first though.
Then swinging is just something I do on the side not an essential or necessity in my life.
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"Do I have to give an honest answer?
Errmmm...
Can I let you into a little secret?"
Was busy shagging when the telephone went - it was a mother inquiring as to whether someone would be down to school to collect the child.
Ooops.
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To me, it seems the OP's question is actually:
Would you prioritise other swinger's families above swinging?
The people asking to meet her aren't (as far as we know) having important family issues. |
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