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Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
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You just summed what i think up. Its good but hard not having that someone |
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Bit of both... time and place for things. Yes love the get up and go.. no one to answer to lifestyle...
Then.. sometimes...
Miss the cuddles..company with a meal..sharing a bed all night.. and get sometimes fedup with feeling like a spare part at weddings and parties when most people come with partners and kids and then there is me.. mr single. |
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over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
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Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship  |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship "
If only it were so easy  |
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over a year ago
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I'm single and very happy.
I enjoy my own company and space and never get lonely.
Because of the fact I'm perfectly happy with my life on my own.
I've found its made me uber choosey in finding a woman who I'd like to invite into my life to spend any more than a few of hours a week/fortnight with ? |
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"Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship "
These FWBs are hard to find  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship "
A genuine FAB or FWB is more difficult to find
than rocking horse poo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather. "
Waking up of a morning with no body heat to steal  |
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather.
Dark and cold nights and just being able to snuggle on couch and talk about anything. "
Exactly, I've just done a marathon of Netflix and chill (literally) sometimes my own conversation worries me |
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather.
Dark and cold nights and just being able to snuggle on couch and talk about anything.
Exactly, I've just done a marathon of Netflix and chill (literally) sometimes my own conversation worries me "
Oh no that's no good, nobody to cuddle up to and nobody to fetch the sweets from the cupboard...nightmare |
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I'm not as lonely as many singles because my youngest two still live at home with me! That said there are times when I really would love to have someone special to cuddle up to in the evening, chat shit to and make regular love to - though I'm not ready for that 24/7 I don't think!
In an ideal world I guess I'd like a non monogamous 'significant other' - where we spend plenty of time together but have time to ourselves/with our own kids too - and are 'emotionally faithful' to each other but free to have the occasional 'safe' one-off with others without it being an issue!
Finding it impossible to find though! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's rubbish and lonely, there's only so many kid cuddles you can have,can't even flipping get a fuck buddy let alone anything else "
Nobody to lie there and run their fingers teasingly up and down your spine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!"
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve "
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love  |
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Love the freedom and have no issues with living alone. Have friends over regularly, two or three different social groups and several swingers venues I go to. Really enjoying the lack of responsibility. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!"
I used to be like that. Soon learned my lesson with the ex's I have |
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over a year ago
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Yeah it's shit, if I had a guy here now I'd ask him to make me a cuppa tea and a cheese and cucumber sandwich but I've got to do it myself, would also be nice to just watch telly and cwtch up together on the sofa. |
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love "
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out  |
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"Yeah it's shit, if I had a guy here now I'd ask him to make me a cuppa tea and a cheese and cucumber sandwich but I've got to do it myself, would also be nice to just watch telly and cwtch up together on the sofa. "
That's the part I miss just sitting on sofa and chatting about anything and everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out "
You know you're more than welcome anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime "
That's an offer I can't refuse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse "
Can I join lol let me take it your both cancer sign |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse "
I'll get the brandy in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse
Can I join lol let me take it your both cancer sign "
Nope! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the freedom but I'd love to have someone to snuggle with more often than I do.
And to chat and put the world to rights "
Pretty much this. I do have a couple of "friends" I can do this with occasionally..... but sometimes available kinda "on demand" would be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse
Can I join lol let me take it your both cancer sign
Nope! "
Oh okay normally them type of people are from cancer I'm one of them by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very independent but I do miss having someone to certain do things with. A walk in the park, a good gig, a evening on the couch etc. It's hard to rely on friends to do those, especially when most are in relationships. I still don't want a serious relationship though so it's a trade-off I am currently happy to accept. |
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship "
Could not have said it better....but in time who knows how i will feel...but loving my life at the moment |
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I prefer being in a relationship I don't adapt to single life well but I have been single for sometime...I had a blip recently and I enjoyed the time spent with him but alas it was not meant to be |
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather.
Dark and cold nights and just being able to snuggle on couch and talk about anything.
Exactly, I've just done a marathon of Netflix and chill (literally) sometimes my own conversation worries me "
I talk to the plants or you lol |
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
You just summed what i think up. Its good but hard not having that someone"
Same here. Like being on my own but hate having no one to chat to or snuggle up in bed sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive not been single long, so theres certain things I can reallh enjoy about the freedom, but I know it wont last and i really enjoy the closeness, cuddling, giving massages, sharing and hanging out so im not sure ill stay single for long but found I can comfortably do those things with a fwb so dont have to totally miss out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather.
Dark and cold nights and just being able to snuggle on couch and talk about anything.
Exactly, I've just done a marathon of Netflix and chill (literally) sometimes my own conversation worries me
I talk to the plants or you lol "
Talk to the plants to avoid talking to the men seems to scare them away, not sure why  |
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"I go through phases of loving it and hating it. Right now I'm hating it, I blame the colder weather.
Dark and cold nights and just being able to snuggle on couch and talk about anything.
Exactly, I've just done a marathon of Netflix and chill (literally) sometimes my own conversation worries me
I talk to the plants or you lol
Talk to the plants to avoid talking to the men seems to scare them away, not sure why "
Hahaha I scare men away anyway lol |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
You just summed what i think up. Its good but hard not having that someone
Same here. Like being on my own but hate having no one to chat to or snuggle up in bed sometimes"
Yep, suppose it depends on how long you have been single as well. As to how it feels ect..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been seeing someone since mid September so its still super early days and we are just playing it cool..
previous times with guys ive rushed everything and wanted the 'in relationship' label.. but this time im content. maybe its my age that im not fussed. i just know i like him a lot |
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"ive been seeing someone since mid September so its still super early days and we are just playing it cool..
previous times with guys ive rushed everything and wanted the 'in relationship' label.. but this time im content. maybe its my age that im not fussed. i just know i like him a lot"
Awesome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse
I'll get the brandy in "
How do you know about me and the brandy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the single life and enjoy my own company too much to let anyone in, as I have done for 7 years now. It would take a special kind of individual for me to even remotely consider giving this up. Would be nice to have a couple of local fuck buddies but hey-ho. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship
If only it were so easy "
I agree..I met a great guy where the sex is awesome. He is confident and we have fun alongside great intimacy too but he lives in bloody Australia ffs.
A local guy who understands the life of a single mum with no car, also fabulous sex is like a needle in a haystack. I have been on this sce8for about 9 years and still not found that. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I have been single for 9 years and very fed up of being single. It's my birthday next week (45th) and no other half to take me out for a nice evening. Even just a meal or something like that. I sort of hope my mum will arrange something but unlikely. Just seems so false really. |
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"I have been single for 9 years and very fed up of being single. It's my birthday next week (45th) and no other half to take me out for a nice evening. Even just a meal or something like that. I sort of hope my mum will arrange something but unlikely. Just seems so false really. "
I was genuinely saddened, reading that. You should get on a dating site (think it's against the rules to post other websites on here, but I'm sure you know the famous ones) - I say the same to my dad, there's nothing "sad" about it and there are loads of men on these sites within your age group, due to not finding the time to meet women socially because of work or whatever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like it or hate it.
I like the freedom of single life but really at times hate the solitude it brings.
Actually miss just sitting and having a conversation where you can drop barriers and just talk about anything.
Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship
If only it were so easy "
You live in middle England! Women in every direction! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve
Exactly the same here..that's the only reason we haven't met yet I think lovely. . we know we'll fall in love
You never know, I guess there's only one way to find out
You know you're more than welcome anytime
That's an offer I can't refuse
I'll get the brandy in
How do you know about me and the brandy "
Mwahahaha |
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
One of my down falls...I wear my heart on my sleeve "
I would,nt call it a downfall its who you are I,d rather be who I am than not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!"
I let my guard down this year. I didn't even know i had. = fingers burned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single about 5 years ish and happiest I've ever been. Though I have those sort of chats with good friends and am always surrounded with family and friends. I actually can't imagine myself ever wanting a long term relationship and settling down again.
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"Get yourself a FAB (Friend And Benefits) then. With them comes a good sex life, hugs, cuddles, sexy sleepovers or go out places etc. Like dating but no commitments, no ties, no expectations and no guarantees. Just a stress free special friendship
These FWBs are hard to find "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i like being single and selfish. although my nature is fundamentally caring (so i miss doing that too lol), but i have enjoyed focusing on just me lately and continue to enjoy giving myself that self care.
do miss intimacy that means something, really love cuddles and feeling safe. i'd like to find someone that would be honest with me and never hurt me. someone like a male version of my sister would be good. someone who is sensitive so gets me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like other people very much really. An hour or two is bearable but sooner rather than later you all piss me off with something you say or do and I want to go or you to piss off. |
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"I don't like other people very much really. An hour or two is bearable but sooner rather than later you all piss me off with something you say or do and I want to go or you to piss off. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to be alone too. I was with someone for 8 years and we parted a few years ago and I've been single ever since.
I'm not really mad about people and I'd sooner share my life with animals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to be alone too. I was with someone for 8 years and we parted a few years ago and I've been single ever since.
I'm not really mad about people and I'd sooner share my life with animals "
Yep, my cat keeps me company just fine she's just like me really, not into socialising for the sake of it and happiest in an environment she controls ( I'm her human slave lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been single around 6 years now and I'm really tired of it
I spend far too much time on my own - and I miss intimacy.
I've given up really - I'm invisible to men now I'm over 40 |
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"I've been single around 6 years now and I'm really tired of it
I spend far too much time on my own - and I miss intimacy.
I've given up really - I'm invisible to men now I'm over 40 "
Pretty much this if I'm honest. Been single about 5 years now and can't see it changing now |
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"I'm single and very happy.
I enjoy my own company and space and never get lonely.
Because of the fact I'm perfectly happy with my life on my own.
I've found its made me uber choosey in finding a woman who I'd like to invite into my life to spend any more than a few of hours a week/fortnight with ?"
This was me!
I met my other half here three years ago by chance, he's just enhanced my already happy life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been single around 6 years now and I'm really tired of it
I spend far too much time on my own - and I miss intimacy.
I've given up really - I'm invisible to men now I'm over 40 "
Don't go giving up there is somebody out there who'd snap you up I know I would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got divorced a year ago after a 23 year marriage,i must admit I do miss company sometimes,but I also love the fact I can do what I want when I want,go anywhere and keep all of my earnings,to have fun |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships "
This is what happened with me. I never wanted to feel lonely and I adored that feeling or being loved and loving him back.
Now I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years and I love it! Being is past relationships whereas I was taken advantage of financially, emotionally and physically, really put me off relationships. Enough was enough and I decided to stay single and see how I felt. Well I'd say I feel exactly like a news article I read just the other day. It read...
"Single women as a whole are healthier, happier and less stressed then married women"
Oh isn't that the truth! Lol.
[A] new study s |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships
This is what happened with me. I never wanted to feel lonely and I adored that feeling or being loved and loving him back.
Now I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years and I love it! Being is past relationships whereas I was taken advantage of financially, emotionally and physically, really put me off relationships. Enough was enough and I decided to stay single and see how I felt. Well I'd say I feel exactly like a news article I read just the other day. It read...
"Single women as a whole are healthier, happier and less stressed then married women"
Oh isn't that the truth! Lol.
[A] new study s "
I just don't think it's healthy to jump from one relationship into another straight away...but what do I know I'm unlucky in love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships
This is what happened with me. I never wanted to feel lonely and I adored that feeling or being loved and loving him back.
Now I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years and I love it! Being is past relationships whereas I was taken advantage of financially, emotionally and physically, really put me off relationships. Enough was enough and I decided to stay single and see how I felt. Well I'd say I feel exactly like a news article I read just the other day. It read...
"Single women as a whole are healthier, happier and less stressed then married women"
Oh isn't that the truth! Lol.
[A] new study s
I just don't think it's healthy to jump from one relationship into another straight away...but what do I know I'm unlucky in love "
I know and I agree with you. Which is why I wrote that last message lol. I prefer single life. I'm far happier now and far less stressed. |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships
This is what happened with me. I never wanted to feel lonely and I adored that feeling or being loved and loving him back.
Now I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years and I love it! Being is past relationships whereas I was taken advantage of financially, emotionally and physically, really put me off relationships. Enough was enough and I decided to stay single and see how I felt. Well I'd say I feel exactly like a news article I read just the other day. It read...
"Single women as a whole are healthier, happier and less stressed then married women"
Oh isn't that the truth! Lol.
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I just don't think it's healthy to jump from one relationship into another straight away...but what do I know I'm unlucky in love
I know and I agree with you. Which is why I wrote that last message lol. I prefer single life. I'm far happier now and far less stressed."
No I know you was agreeing I was just adding onto my post...I just don't think that the relationships last when you are hoping from one to the other..I'm glad that you enjoy being single now though |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships
This is what happened with me. I never wanted to feel lonely and I adored that feeling or being loved and loving him back.
Now I've been single by choice for nearly 3 years and I love it! Being is past relationships whereas I was taken advantage of financially, emotionally and physically, really put me off relationships. Enough was enough and I decided to stay single and see how I felt. Well I'd say I feel exactly like a news article I read just the other day. It read...
"Single women as a whole are healthier, happier and less stressed then married women"
Oh isn't that the truth! Lol.
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I just don't think it's healthy to jump from one relationship into another straight away...but what do I know I'm unlucky in love
I know and I agree with you. Which is why I wrote that last message lol. I prefer single life. I'm far happier now and far less stressed.
No I know you was agreeing I was just adding onto my post...I just don't think that the relationships last when you are hoping from one to the other..I'm glad that you enjoy being single now though "
Oh sorry.  . Yes I do and feel happier. A nice friend and benefits would be the cherry on the cake though. |
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I did that
I put an edvert out
2 weeks later a 22 year old part time model and store worker turned up she worked in a designer men's store in Wakefield and did some modelling for soft advertising in Leeds
About two weeks in
I was doing laundry and found some of her thongs so I just put it sticking out my pocket like tucked it in an inch and carried on with rest of my stuff
Any way she walked in and I'd been flirting but not really got much back to be fair but she came in and said she was knackered and would love a brew
We started chatting and she started grinning I was like what's up
She asked why I was hanging her knickers ,
She said , I quote
Why don't you take these of you can keep these ones and there I'd nailed the girl in my house for 3 months everyday
And destroyed the fuck out of her she still now txts for us to meet in a bar in Leeds she loves me to turn up when she's nearly d*unk take her to the car or toilets , she's facing the wall she bends right down touching the floor legs wide I'll push her hard to the wall or tree
And fuck her hard and cum deep in her tight pussey and then put her in a taxi
And send her home
This was 2 years ago now and she's moved but still visits Leeds and loves to come for the dick |
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I do miss the cuddling and intimacy. I miss cooking for someone, waking up with them and having a partner to go on adventures with. Then I speak to some of my friends who are dating or in relationships and see how stressful they are and think FUUUUUUCK THAT! |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships "
That always rings alarm bells for me! You gotta be happy being single! |
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Love being single most of the time. Freedom to do as you like, when you like. I love not having to answer to anybody only myself.
Although as the nights get darker it does feel a little lonely. |
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"I know some that jump from one relationship straight into another...without being single I have never really got that...sometimes you have to take time out of relationships
That always rings alarm bells for me! You gotta be happy being single! "
Some aren't but I look at the relationships and some only last a few months then it's onto the next one..you do have to be happy single |
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I'm recently single and although not all ties with my ex have been cut, I'm much happier now than I have been for years.
It would be nice to have someone to snuggle up to during the cold winter nights though. |
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In my opinion you have to be happy being on your own and as an individual before you can be truly happy in a relationship.
Too many people are in relationships for all the wrong reasons. |
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I became a singleton in March, and yes, I have moments where I'd love to be treated (taken out for meals/go out in general) but I never had that with my ex so not something I was used to anyway. I felt more lonely when I was in that 11 yr relationship than I do now and he was in my bed every night.
I have friends now which I never had before due to his controlling personality
I can go out now, which again, I couldn't do. The only thing stopping me is limited funds. Financially I'm struggling, but I'd rather that than be where I was before.
Also, my springer spaniel gives awesome cuddles |
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"I'm so fed up of being single. ..need a regular friend with benefits but it doesn't work for me cos I can't help but get too attached!
I let my guard down this year. I didn't even know i had. = fingers burned."
Same |
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"In my opinion you have to be happy being on your own and as an individual before you can be truly happy in a relationship.
Too many people are in relationships for all the wrong reasons. "
I agree with that, I have told some of my friends they need to have some time being single before getting in a relationship again, as they need to love themselves first; they never listen.
I've been single for 4 years and I've had people tell me that I've been single for too long and that I've become so independent that I wouldn't be able to have a relationship again. Personally I think I could, but will only know if the opportunity arises. |
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"In my opinion you have to be happy being on your own and as an individual before you can be truly happy in a relationship.
Too many people are in relationships for all the wrong reasons.
I agree with that, I have told some of my friends they need to have some time being single before getting in a relationship again, as they need to love themselves first; they never listen.
I've been single for 4 years and I've had people tell me that I've been single for too long and that I've become so independent that I wouldn't be able to have a relationship again. Personally I think I could, but will only know if the opportunity arises. "
That's a great outlook that is |
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"In my opinion you have to be happy being on your own and as an individual before you can be truly happy in a relationship.
Too many people are in relationships for all the wrong reasons.
I agree with that, I have told some of my friends they need to have some time being single before getting in a relationship again, as they need to love themselves first; they never listen.
I've been single for 4 years and I've had people tell me that I've been single for too long and that I've become so independent that I wouldn't be able to have a relationship again. Personally I think I could, but will only know if the opportunity arises. "
Your friends are talking rubbish as I'm in exactly the same position as you.
I know if the right person came along I would be in a relationship again.
All that being happy and content being single does... Is make you more selective who you want to share your time and life with.
And to me that can only be a positive thing rather than wasting your time and life with people who arn't right for you ! |
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As mentioned before: some people are in relationships for the wrong reason.
Personally, I would like to be in a relationship one day (if it ever happens lol) but I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. |
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