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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I really want to reach out into this style meets , long, controlling (collar , handcuffs , gags etc , but also the cuddling afterwards but I don't seem to get people messaging me with the same intentions? Do the two not go together or am I missing a lot of people ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm meeting a woman tomorrow with this scenario...she wants her limits pushing. So you be suggested we make sure there's enough time for some down time afterwards.
Aftercare is something that should always be taken into consideration |
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"I don't think it has to be limited to a relationship as long as there's a good connection after a while of meeting "
Depends what you enjoy.
I love edgeplay and I'm not putting that on the hands I've met once or twice. |
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I wonder how you find out what you like, someone suggested porn but like you said to enact anything you need trust. But how do you know you like something is no one has told you about it? |
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Please choose wisely, A d/s meet is not something you should do without talking through the dynamics and a social first. There are so many wannabe Doms about who think after reading the book, watching the film can do it, but he wasn't a true Dom, sexually bully yes. If you'd like to chat then pm me hun xx |
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Trust is key, never forget that, bdsm on a one off meet is never a good idea, you have to know as much as you can about a sub in order to deliver the right balance of debauchery and care.
Talk to people, understand what it is that appeals to you, and start slowly, its better to walk away from your first experience feeling that it wasn't enough, than walk away feeling that you did things that you didn't want to do, build upon that and eventually you will feel comfortable in letting go, and being intensely pleasured.
And remember its supposed to be fun |
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Bdsm isn't something you can just meet someone and get straight into the role and then expect the whole relationship dynamic to be there.. You need that report with someone,a connection for that to work..
All you can expect from here is a bit of soft play..
Maybe sign up to a bdsm workshop, you will be there with a handful of like minded people and may be lucky enough to meet someone there. |
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If the other person isnt willing to give you aftercare Avoid them...
For me I go into subspace and i fall really fast after playing .. so aftercare is a massive part in playing  |
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There are plenty of people out there . . Not sure if FABS is the right place to look though.
They do exist on this site, boobs is a Domme, but keeps swinging separate to that side of her . . As we've had issues with people on here with regards to her Domme side.  |
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