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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see from status updates that females are being offered cash for sex. This is instead of guys bothering to make an effort. I guess the art of seduction is dying. I love that part of the game. Seduction, the dance of messages, texts, kik chats, photo swaps, phone calls, leading to that sweet sweet moment of anticipation and then....
But why are more and more guys choosing to shortcut this and just offer cash?
Are they watching porn sites where some guy in the Czech Republic bumps into a stranger, offers her a few hundred euro, then fucks her, and copying this approach?
Human behaviour is driven by economics. If this approach had not once, in the history of fab and rival sites/apps, actually been successful, it would quickly die out. I guess that for every hundred simple cut and paste messages where money is offered for sex, there are positive responses.
Indeed some single female status updates, a small number, actually highlight financial circumstances, broke/skint/etc is this to encourage such offers? Should these words be banned There must be single females on fab responding favourably to these outright offers of cash for sex which in turn encourages the unwanted behaviour of offering cash outright for sex. As I'm sure that's against site rules shouldn't females be reporting every single instance, as repeated bans overtime should restrict this antisocial behaviour?
Should we be tackling issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would hope those guys realise the Czech porn is staged and not real!
If anyone either asks for, or offers, cash on here report.
I guess some people confuse this site with Adultwork and there may be a crossover of users. Or just lack tact.
I think there are women on here that take cash for sex and men that opt to utilise this route. I'm sure many take a chance that a lady will accept. Ask 100 women if they want cash and 2 say 'OK' and it's job done for them isn't it? |
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There are men on here who offer financial reward and women who accept it but it is absolutely against the rules.
Whenever i see anyone offering or asking for payment i report them. Admin can't deal with it if we don't flag it up to them so we all need to play our part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...
He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...
He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...
He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy offer me £150 to spend a hour with me n do what ever I wanted...
He soon blocked me when I said that sounds great when can he come do washing, ironing and cleaning while me n other half go sleep lol x
Well he did say anything lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been offered money (well the female has) but we just humour them and laugh it off, no point in getting her knickers in a twist is there ( half the time she never wears any anyway lol)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds
Pure class
Sorry but I needed nuggets   "
I'm surprised it was only a bj she offered!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was invited to make a donation by a lady the other morning because I wasn't in the age range. I can't say I wasn't tempted but I don't see the point here!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a lady on here who is quite local to me who regularly puts in her status that she needs a lift somewhere and offers sexual favours in return, I haven't taken up the offer before anyone asks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did see a post from a female offering anyone a blow job for a lift to Mcdonalds
Pure class"
Now that's a drive thru I'd love.
I'll take a mcflurry with head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was invited to make a donation by a lady the other morning because I wasn't in the age range. I can't say I wasn't tempted but I don't see the point here!? "
You should really report them. For every person who is asking for cash on this site, it makes others here think that's acceptable behaviour.
It isn't - those kind of arrangements need to happen elsewhere. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We've been asked regulary if I (Suzi ) does escort services.
Is that the same as offering cash ???? Which, I might add, we have also been offered.
Should I report these people ??? I just tend to ignore the message. Xxxxx Suzi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference.
£2.50 and I'm yours lol"
No thank you. Lol. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
On a serious note.
I have replied to "single fems" and "couples" profiles and was offered their "services" for cash.
I then report them and next thing I see is, they are still on the site BUT they have blocked me.
How does that work? |
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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago
heath hays |
The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot."
But I mean look at that booty!  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot."
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?"
No admin block you both so you can't be asked again  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?
No admin block you both so you can't be asked again "
But why don't they get banned? |
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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago
heath hays |
"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?"
Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you. |
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"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?
Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."
So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.
Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger... |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
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Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you.
So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.
Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger..."
Personally speaking. Yes. I think swinging is swinging. Maybe have a section on here for escort services, but I find an ad that says "Mrs loves cocks blah blah blah" then when I have replied, was told o have to be "generous" to be involved. Why not state that straight away? Then men offering can find women/couples offering. Then keep swingers swinging with peace of mind. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"The amount of guys in here that offer cash for sex is staggering.I think it's not only against every that swinging is stands for its also a insult like saying are you a prostitute and it also makes the guys doing it look so desperate.Its one of the all time lows and happens a lot.
How do you think it feels when I the other way round? I reply as a genuine swinger with veris and everything.
Then get told if I want fun I have to pay for it? Makes me feel like a stupid punter. Leaves a nasty taste in the mouth especially as when I report them, they stay on but suddenly block me. Do the admin, tell them and then believe them when they deny it?
Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you."
Agree completely. Offering to pay, however it is disguised, is quite simply prostitution. We are not here to be bought, we are here to swing, swap partners and have fun with like minded couples. Xxxxx Suzi |
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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago
heath hays |
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Anyone offering cash for sex is not a true swinger and basically there not only insulting themselfes but there also insulting you.
So what you just said there is, that people are only allowed to swing 'the one true way' and cannot do sex and relationships differently in different parts of their lives.
Somehow paying for sex away from a swinging site makes you not a truuuuuue swinger..."
I didn't say that and you may find that's just your interiptation of what I said.
What MY view is on swinging is it be FUN.We all have our own wants and likes and that's what we should all look for.A fun partner(s) that's compatable with your wants and likes.
Surely having sex for cash is not only taking away the fun,friendship,likes wants,compatibility and just turning it into a soulless no morels business transaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Surely having sex for cash is not only taking away the fun,friendship,likes wants,compatibility and just turning it into a soulless no morels business transaction."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I like to seduce a man, sometimes I like to pay for their company. Neither way is more or less valid than the other. It's just personal preference.
£2.50 and I'm yours lol
No thank you. Lol."
Ok, I'll raise the stakes - if I buy you a Latte and you buy me a piece of cake we're quits! And get each other's company as a bonus! Deal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a similar discussion with a friend who was on here. She had been chatting to someone on here she wanted to meet but neither could accommodate. She refused to let him pay for a hotel because she considered it prostitution and she didn't have the money to pay for a room.
I've bought girls drinks in clubs when I was younger hoping to get lucky. Is that prostitution?
It's not black and white. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say no lady's ever offerred me money to either come or go! Whetber that's a good thing or not depends on whether I'm coming or going!
I've never offerred money - I can't give away what I don't have!
Money doesn't grow on trees but us guys can at least happily and freely donate to ladies our one natural and absolutely free resource in great quantities - our cum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many have offered to buy my used knickers and that seems to be a big thing.
I presume offering people on here cash is some sort of thrill bigger than just paying for a professional.
I haven't reported the ones asking for knickers but would report anyone asking for sex in return for money |
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"Women in Greggs offered me a free cheese and onion bake in return for sex. Obvioulsly I said no.....can't stand the cheese and onion bake"
Couldn't agree with you more. Cheese and onion's a bit crap, to be fair. What if she offered you a steak bake. Would your little eye have lit up in anticipation?
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I've had similar messages.
Offers of money for my lingerie, pictures,time and even a phonecall.
Ive also been offered money to attend private events and to be taken on shopping sprees with guys old enough to be going my grandad.
I just think it's sad and delete the msgs. |
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By *imky69Woman
over a year ago
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"I've had similar messages.
Offers of money for my lingerie, pictures,time and even a phonecall.
Ive also been offered money to attend private events and to be taken on shopping sprees with guys old enough to be going my grandad.
I just think it's sad and delete the msgs. "
I have had the same offers and even cash via pay pal for pics with me doing things to myself.
I just instantly block them with no reply. |
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"Women in Greggs offered me a free cheese and onion bake in return for sex. Obvioulsly I said no.....can't stand the cheese and onion bake
Couldn't agree with you more. Cheese and onion's a bit crap, to be fair. What if she offered you a steak bake. Would your little eye have lit up in anticipation?
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Stake maybe but sadly I am now banned from every Greggs in the country after I told a busty assistant how her Babs looked delicious |
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