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By *rabybaby OP Couple
over a year ago
south Lakes |
Have been in contact with a couple.
They are recently new to swinging and we have not spoken on the phone.
They are talking about cumming all over my wife, shooting hi swarm cum all over her.
We have been into this 'game' a while and never experienced anything like this before.
Are we being a tad prudish or is it just somebody 'getting off' at the thought and a bit excited? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not prudish or offended by messages like that, but I don't bother replying because those who are all talk are usually just that. All talk. Talk is fine but I like to actually meet people, and I'm not here for dirty chat or sexual conversations. |
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Not being prudish but i lose interest in someone when they say things like that, i find it boring and pointless as if im thinking of meeting them i am more interested in what they are like and if we will get on ok. |
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"It's probably a single man 'couple'  "
That's what I'd assume too.
We once had a couple where the 'wife' would regularly send us pictures of 'her' doing various extreme acts and ask me what I thought. It continued for a surprisingly long time considering I would only ever comment on the décor or something in the background.
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"It's probably a single man 'couple'
That's what I'd assume too.
We once had a couple where the 'wife' would regularly send us pictures of 'her' doing various extreme acts and ask me what I thought. It continued for a surprisingly long time considering I would only ever comment on the décor or something in the background.
Mr ddc "
You know what "wallpaper" and "curtains" mean, don't you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not prudish or offended by messages like that, but I don't bother replying because those who are all talk are usually just that. All talk. Talk is fine but I like to actually meet people, and I'm not here for dirty chat or sexual conversations."
Agree with Ruby.
And if they do meet, they're usually the ones who are shite in bed. Usually they just lay there expecting you to relive their porn gotten fantasies. |
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"It's probably a single man 'couple'
That's what I'd assume too.
We once had a couple where the 'wife' would regularly send us pictures of 'her' doing various extreme acts and ask me what I thought. It continued for a surprisingly long time considering I would only ever comment on the décor or something in the background.
Mr ddc
You know what "wallpaper" and "curtains" mean, don't you? "
Oops, that explains what she did when I suggested she pulled the curtains first  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
I/we tend to try and steer the conversation back to something less, in your face. If they persist, we ignore them.
The ones that constantly want to talk dirty, are in our experience, a let down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are most deffo not prude but 99% of the time sex chat is normally some guy wanking the other end so as others have said we don't bother and just delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not prudish or offended by messages like that, but I don't bother replying because those who are all talk are usually just that. All talk. Talk is fine but I like to actually meet people, and I'm not here for dirty chat or sexual conversations.
Agree with Ruby.
And if they do meet, they're usually the ones who are shite in bed. Usually they just lay there expecting you to relive their porn gotten fantasies."
I agree too. Straight into dirty chats a no go for me. Fantasists with no intention of meeting. Block and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a proper conversation, before talk turns to anything sexual.
It might sound prudish but if their brain & personality don't interest me, then neither will what's in their knickers.
If I've got to know someone beforehand, then a bit of flirty banter is fine.
I sometimes get asked by guys, to tell them what I'd like to do to their wife. The answer is usually "Nothing, because I don't know her, never seen her, never met her...". |
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If someone has to over-elaborate upon the supposed details of what will happen when we meet, I assume that they're either too self-obsessed, uninterested in me or having a wank. OK, knowing broad categories of fun is fine but I don't want something from the fantasies forum area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not prudish or offended by messages like that, but I don't bother replying because those who are all talk are usually just that. All talk. Talk is fine but I like to actually meet people, and I'm not here for dirty chat or sexual conversations."
Id be willing to meet you im not all talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has to over-elaborate upon the supposed details of what will happen when we meet, I assume that they're either too self-obsessed, uninterested in me or having a wank. OK, knowing broad categories of fun is fine but I don't want something from the fantasies forum area."
this for me too. sex chat also puts me off most guys if i haven't met them coz it makes me feel pressured to perform.
like most have said it's not prudish.
people should have their sexual interests on their profile and not really go into them in a descriptive way that seems like porn. you can also discuss limits without coming across as sexual. no need for sex chat at all. |
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"Not being prudish but i lose interest in someone when they say things like that, i find it boring and pointless as if im thinking of meeting them i am more interested in what they are like and if we will get on ok."
Totally agree, I've even cancelled meets when they've got overly explicit |
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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago
middlesbrough |
I find it disappointing when people go into it straight away. I had a message yesterday, asking if I liked The Arctic Monkeys because of my status. I said yes and his reply was "can I cum in ur ass?"
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"If someone has to over-elaborate upon the supposed details of what will happen when we meet, I assume that they're either too self-obsessed, uninterested in me or having a wank. OK, knowing broad categories of fun is fine but I don't want something from the fantasies forum area.
this for me too. sex chat also puts me off most guys if i haven't met them coz it makes me feel pressured to perform.
like most have said it's not prudish.
people should have their sexual interests on their profile and not really go into them in a descriptive way that seems like porn. you can also discuss limits without coming across as sexual. no need for sex chat at all."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not prudish or offended by messages like that, but I don't bother replying because those who are all talk are usually just that. All talk. Talk is fine but I like to actually meet people, and I'm not here for dirty chat or sexual conversations."
I'm with you on this
I find that kind of chat is coming from people wanking. They rarely turn into a meet. I wouldn't waste my time with them. But it's entirely your call.
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"I find it disappointing when people go into it straight away. I had a message yesterday, asking if I liked The Arctic Monkeys because of my status. I said yes and his reply was "can I cum in ur ass?"
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I hope you replied "Why'd You Only Call Me When You're High?"
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