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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wear glasses, and hate them far more than anybody else could dislike me for wearing them!
Looking at your profile, I'd be far more concerned that you don't appear to have a head  ( 3rd pic down) |
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How many is a few? Ive never once known it to be a deal breaker for a man or woman. But then do your glasses suit your face, do you mention you wear glasses? If you send a clear face pic they will see you wear glasses. You dont have to mention it. Who brings the subject up? |
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"I wear glasses, and hate them far more than anybody else could dislike me for wearing them!
Looking at your profile, I'd be far more concerned that you don't appear to have a head ( 3rd pic down)"
No worries there that seemed to be a good idea at the time |
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"How many is a few? Ive never once known it to be a deal breaker for a man or woman. But then do your glasses suit your face, do you mention you wear glasses? If you send a clear face pic they will see you wear glasses. You dont have to mention it. Who brings the subject up?"
Well I'd say 4 or 5 people but it may be a convenient reason because the think I'm a vicar. |
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"How many is a few? Ive never once known it to be a deal breaker for a man or woman. But then do your glasses suit your face, do you mention you wear glasses? If you send a clear face pic they will see you wear glasses. You dont have to mention it. Who brings the subject up?
Well I'd say 4 or 5 people but it may be a convenient reason because the think I'm a vicar."
4 or 5 people have rejected you in a week because you wear glasses!!!!!!!!!? |
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"How many is a few? Ive never once known it to be a deal breaker for a man or woman. But then do your glasses suit your face, do you mention you wear glasses? If you send a clear face pic they will see you wear glasses. You dont have to mention it. Who brings the subject up?
Well I'd say 4 or 5 people but it may be a convenient reason because the think I'm a vicar."
I thought you were a vicar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
How did you shorten the story? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
Youll probably find that some people are attracted to different things on here  |
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
It's a positive thing for me, Love a guy in glasses so it's just a personal preferen-ce... Glasses and an accent and am weak at the knees lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger the glasses, I've always wanted to shag a vicar 
Actually..... 
You may be ordained, but you need the outfit too
Dagnamnit! Wait... will it matter if it's coming off anyway? "
Lol the shirt and dog collar stays! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger the glasses, I've always wanted to shag a vicar
Bless you my child, meet me in the vestry after service 
Yes father "
I shall introduce you to Canon Throbbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger the glasses, I've always wanted to shag a vicar
Actually.....
You may be ordained, but you need the outfit too
Dagnamnit! Wait... will it matter if it's coming off anyway?
Lol the shirt and dog collar stays! "
Ha! Oh well, Thought a d*unken joke became useful then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger the glasses, I've always wanted to shag a vicar
Actually.....
You may be ordained, but you need the outfit too
Dagnamnit! Wait... will it matter if it's coming off anyway?
Lol the shirt and dog collar stays!
Ha! Oh well, Thought a d*unken joke became useful then "
There are costume shops my dear... Ask the OP |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
Never been an issue here, no one has said they font want to meet us because of H's glasses, plenty of other reasons to do with me though. Meh. Perhaps I should put a pick up of me in my reading glasses, but I do look a bit like Pengold from DangerMouse in them so perhaps not 
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Never been an issue here, no one has said they font want to meet us because of H's glasses, plenty of other reasons to do with me though. Meh. Perhaps I should put a pick up of me in my reading glasses, but I do look a bit like Pengold from DangerMouse in them so perhaps not
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Ffs Penfold!! |
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"Did they actually say, they won't meet you because you wear glasses?
Or, are you guessing that's the reason?"
see i find it hard someone has been on the site a week as a single guy and had enough replies back to be rejected 4/5 times because of wearing glasses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
Really? They've specifically said the glasses were a deal breaker? I rather like a guy in nice glasses, and there are previous threads with people saying the same (although in fairness mostly about women)
And I take mine off when things start heating up anyway so don't understand why it would be an issue for a lot of people. |
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OP, there may be an issue with some. Our experience is as follows:
Pink has worn glasses since childhood and was teased etc for it at school.
A while back we attended a swingers club (Decs in Somerset) one of the regulars called Pink 'Specky four eyes' mid way through the evening. Pink was angry and upset. No action was taken by the organisers despite them being aware of what happened so we left.
In our experience this childish playground type behaviour is all to common and prevelent amongs some; despite being completely unacceptable.
S&P |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Did they actually say, they won't meet you because you wear glasses?
Or, are you guessing that's the reason?see i find it hard someone has been on the site a week as a single guy and had enough replies back to be rejected 4/5 times because of wearing glasses"
You cynic you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
Were they 10 years old? |
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I've never had any rejection because i wear glasses and i wouldn't turn someone down for that reason either.
The only problem i have found is a clash of specs when snogging. Easy enough to remedy - one or both just take them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd only turn someone down for wearing glasses if the glasses were really shit.
Brilliant. Now I'm going to have performance anxiety at the opticians..."
Haha, well I can state it's never happened yet. Although I'd probably turn me down on the basis of my glasses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find the opticians a bit of a turn on? Sat in the dark with a guy that close to you, door closed.
Just me then?
(are there any opticians in here?)"
Not a turn on per se but I had a hot one once and it was a turn on in that case |
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Well maybe it was me bing a little like a kid in a candy shop after first discovering fab.
More fool me but I guess it's because I've only just started needed glasses and if I told you what my job was you'd wonder how I got away with it for so long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't turn someone down for having glasses.
Although if they were the size of your average solar panel per lense.
I'd respectfully ask to remove them immediately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, there may be an issue with some. Our experience is as follows:
Pink has worn glasses since childhood and was teased etc for it at school.
A while back we attended a swingers club (Decs in Somerset) one of the regulars called Pink 'Specky four eyes' mid way through the evening. Pink was angry and upset. No action was taken by the organisers despite them being aware of what happened so we left.
In our experience this childish playground type behaviour is all to common and prevelent amongs some; despite being completely unacceptable.
S&P"
I'm utterly amazed that adults behave like that. So childish and unnecessary, not to mention hurtful. |
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"OP, there may be an issue with some. Our experience is as follows:
Pink has worn glasses since childhood and was teased etc for it at school.
A while back we attended a swingers club (Decs in Somerset) one of the regulars called Pink 'Specky four eyes' mid way through the evening. Pink was angry and upset. No action was taken by the organisers despite them being aware of what happened so we left.
In our experience this childish playground type behaviour is all to common and prevelent amongs some; despite being completely unacceptable.
S&P
I'm utterly amazed that adults behave like that. So childish and unnecessary, not to mention hurtful."
We were shocked and very disappointed. Sadly this type of behaviour seems to be more common than we would have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find the opticians a bit of a turn on? Sat in the dark with a guy that close to you, door closed.
Just me then?
(are there any opticians in here?)"
I keep hoping to find the optician we use on here, he's gorgeous and has a fantastic accent. Not saying I may be predictable but G had an eye test with him recently and as soon as he came out asked if I thought he was fabbable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find the opticians a bit of a turn on? Sat in the dark with a guy that close to you, door closed.
Just me then?
(are there any opticians in here?)"
My Optician is gorgeous. I just repeat "Don't kiss her, don't kiss her, don't kiss her" in my head while she does her job.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else find the opticians a bit of a turn on? Sat in the dark with a guy that close to you, door closed.
Just me then?
(are there any opticians in here?)
My Optician is gorgeous. I just repeat "Don't kiss her, don't kiss her, don't kiss her" in my head while she does her job.
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Donald Trump SO needs you as a life coach! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
I can't see it myself.... *feels around for my glasses 
Ess |
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts?
I can't see it myself.... *feels around for my glasses
Ess"
I actually laughed at that
Thanks for all the positive feedback was starting to get a complex and if you knew me you'd know I'm not that sort of person at all  |
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"Does anyone else find the opticians a bit of a turn on? Sat in the dark with a guy that close to you, door closed.
Just me then?
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(are there any opticians in here?)
My Optician is gorgeous. I just repeat "Don't kiss her, don't kiss her, don't kiss her" in my head while she does her job.
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Is she bi foc all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op. Is my eyesight making me see things
You look like a vicar in your avatar
Haha I'd love to keep that going but it was a Halloween thing "
Well that's a shame , ... always fancied a meet with a vicar |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Op. Is my eyesight making me see things
You look like a vicar in your avatar
Haha I'd love to keep that going but it was a Halloween thing
Well that's a shame , ... always fancied a meet with a vicar "
you are priceless xxx |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'd only turn someone down for wearing glasses if the glasses were really shit.
Brilliant. Now I'm going to have performance anxiety at the opticians...
Haha, well I can state it's never happened yet. Although I'd probably turn me down on the basis of my glasses "
Your loss |
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
That's the first I've heard of that. With a face like mine we tend to find people with dodgy eyesight a blessing
I suspect they just didn't fancy you, and latched on to the first excuse they could think of. I'd definitely redo your face-pic without the dog-collar though, I can see how people might find that a little weird.
(Personally I spotted that the shirt-collar wasn't right for a real vicar... )
Mr ddc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find glasses can be a nuisance sometimes, you take them off, can't find them, then you sit down and find they're a real pain in the bum ..... ah!!! Found them! Of course they do have magical properties of a kind, when I take them off I don't look quite so wrinkled in places. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Whether or not I wear my glasses doesn't make a blind bit of difference to whether or not people fancy me. I've been vacillating between glasses and lenses since I was a teenager and think I look OK both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well long story short I'm a guy who wears glasses most of the time
But I never realised it was such a deal breaker after talking to a few people.
So anybody have any thoughts? "
Seems rather short sighted of them. |
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