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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

... Okay... look its just a thing right; I don't have to be shy about it... but I am... fearing the judgement of the forums (not really, bollocks to you)

Anyway....

I wish you all a Happy Samhain; whether you celebrate this as the new year turning; the end of summer; a harvest festival or well whatever....

anyway... Blessed Be/Bright Blessings...

I imagine this is what it feels like to "come out"... phew

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's very nice of you.... But what is it your wishing on us?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do your neighbours give you food?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I shall put out food and wine... although I live in a rural setting so there shouldn't be a gang of d*unken youths rolling around on my doorstep! (although the occasional d*unken badger may be present)

Anyway; it's a beautiful day here in the wilds... as clear and blue as the last day of summer should be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I shall put out food and wine... although I live in a rural setting so there shouldn't be a gang of d*unken youths rolling around on my doorstep! (although the occasional d*unken badger may be present)

Anyway; it's a beautiful day here in the wilds... as clear and blue as the last day of summer should be."

There's food and wine on doorsteps? I'm in

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

What's your address save me going shopping?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm still unsure on what's going on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's your address save me going shopping?!"

I don't think you want to know really....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here "

same here but not gonna comment until I've figured it out...don't want to appear clueless like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I too live in the countryside, however, I am firmly in the "Halloween is a load of pish marketing scheme" camp.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here "

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wine you say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat"

.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?"

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat"

So thats what it is ...i was reading and thinking but wasnt sure ..nearly googled it even

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By *iamondjoeMan  over a year ago

Glastonbury

Fuckin' hippies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out...."

.

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fuckin' hippies"

((Remembers to get Joe an invitation to the Great Rite.......... next year; maybe?))

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out.....

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?"

From reflection? Many things; but mostly acceptance.... which can be so very hard to learn, that the transitory nature of existence is at odds with the demands that we place upon ourselves in everyday life; thus we become frustrated which leads to sorrow (the "we" is of course the royal "we"; you (the royal "you") may in fact be content beyond stress and such sorrow))

I grow mean carrots too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out.....

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?

From reflection? Many things; but mostly acceptance.... which can be so very hard to learn, that the transitory nature of existence is at odds with the demands that we place upon ourselves in everyday life; thus we become frustrated which leads to sorrow (the "we" is of course the royal "we"; you (the royal "you") may in fact be content beyond stress and such sorrow))

I grow mean carrots too "

.

Is that a complicated way of saying you've come to realise that your born you live you die and anything else is a bonus.... Including good carrots

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out.....

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?

From reflection? Many things; but mostly acceptance.... which can be so very hard to learn, that the transitory nature of existence is at odds with the demands that we place upon ourselves in everyday life; thus we become frustrated which leads to sorrow (the "we" is of course the royal "we"; you (the royal "you") may in fact be content beyond stress and such sorrow))

I grow mean carrots too .

Is that a complicated way of saying you've come to realise that your born you live you die and anything else is a bonus.... Including good carrots"

If you like

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out.....

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?

From reflection? Many things; but mostly acceptance.... which can be so very hard to learn, that the transitory nature of existence is at odds with the demands that we place upon ourselves in everyday life; thus we become frustrated which leads to sorrow (the "we" is of course the royal "we"; you (the royal "you") may in fact be content beyond stress and such sorrow))

I grow mean carrots too .

Is that a complicated way of saying you've come to realise that your born you live you die and anything else is a bonus.... Including good carrots

If you like "

.

Makes sense I suppose, I gave up on believing stuff years ago... There's just too much belief required and that belief stuff is hard work, now I drink alcohol knowing that the chemical effects will relieve me of some of the god almighty boredom in life.... The best thing about alcohol is I don't need no belief in its powers, it just works every time, I like stuff like that, I don't want a car that you need a festival of spirituality for it to start, you don't need belief that it will reach its destination(coz I've got sat nav).... It's uncomplicated, you turn the key and it goes brum brum.... I struggle to understand why humans need to complicate there already complicated life's with more complications of stuff that may or may not do anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat.

So like November the 11th but a different outfit?

November the 11th is for those we have lost through war (either whilst on active service or as a result of active service) and those that were lost during war (as civilians); it is a good thing to remember the sacrifices that people have made; they will not be forgotten.

Samhain is more about those we have lost on a personal level; those of our family and friends... some would tell you it is a time when the "veil"/"shadow"/"gap" between the world of the dead and the world of the living are "thinnest" (although the analogy is poor); and that we have halloween because "bad spirits" are able to "cross-over"; I make no comment regarding this....

For me... It is a time to remember those I have lost; what they have taught me and how I can use what they have taught me (through reflection) to make positive changes in my life....

.... this really is like coming out.....

Ahh cheers for explaining.... So what have you learnt from it?

From reflection? Many things; but mostly acceptance.... which can be so very hard to learn, that the transitory nature of existence is at odds with the demands that we place upon ourselves in everyday life; thus we become frustrated which leads to sorrow (the "we" is of course the royal "we"; you (the royal "you") may in fact be content beyond stress and such sorrow))

I grow mean carrots too .

Is that a complicated way of saying you've come to realise that your born you live you die and anything else is a bonus.... Including good carrots

If you like .

Makes sense I suppose, I gave up on believing stuff years ago... There's just too much belief required and that belief stuff is hard work, now I drink alcohol knowing that the chemical effects will relieve me of some of the god almighty boredom in life.... The best thing about alcohol is I don't need no belief in its powers, it just works every time, I like stuff like that, I don't want a car that you need a festival of spirituality for it to start, you don't need belief that it will reach its destination(coz I've got sat nav).... It's uncomplicated, you turn the key and it goes brum brum.... I struggle to understand why humans need to complicate there already complicated life's with more complications of stuff that may or may not do anything"

We all walk different paths chap; which is a good thing, if we all walked the same one it would get awfully crowded... may you find what you seek; if you seek anything and as I say "Happy Samhain"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cheers or down the hatch as I like to say

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By *iamondjoeMan  over a year ago

Glastonbury

Just what the fudge happened in 'ere?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Blessed be my dear

I have already done my smudging lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just what the fudge happened in 'ere?"

I came out Joe... sorry you missed it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm still unsure on what's going on here

It's like old skool Halloween; does that help?

Its a day to remember and honour our dead; for those that we have lost. It also a time of reflection; of inward looking in an effort to find some peace we look to our flaws and faults and try to divine (or meditate or just you know "think") about acceptance of those flaws and faults or finding a way to change them....

.....or you know, dress up and go banging on doors dressed as ghouls/ghosts/Disney characters demanding sweets with menaces... whatever floats your boat"

I like the sound of old skool Halloween better than new skool Halloween, which is shite.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What's your address save me going shopping?!

I don't think you want to know really.... "

Free food I'm not fussy where it comes from

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's your address save me going shopping?!

I don't think you want to know really....

Free food I'm not fussy where it comes from "

Bowl or glass for the wine? Food is seasonal...

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By *sianmale89Man  over a year ago

Stockport


"... Okay... look its just a thing right; I don't have to be shy about it... but I am... fearing the judgement of the forums (not really, bollocks to you)

Anyway....

I wish you all a Happy Samhain; whether you celebrate this as the new year turning; the end of summer; a harvest festival or well whatever....

anyway... Blessed Be/Bright Blessings...

I imagine this is what it feels like to "come out"... phew "

Given it's Celtic/pagan roots I heard that Halloween became commercialised by the Americans in the 1950's and then it came over here eventually with the whole trick or treating dress up etc which never used to happen before?...

Anyway Happy Halloween anyway folks..

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'll be doing something for Samhain but mine will be a simpler, more 'naturalistic' and personal evocation.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What's your address save me going shopping?!

I don't think you want to know really....

Free food I'm not fussy where it comes from

Bowl or glass for the wine? Food is seasonal... "

Glass,please!

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What's your address save me going shopping?!

I don't think you want to know really....

Free food I'm not fussy where it comes from

Bowl or glass for the wine? Food is seasonal...

Glass,please!"

Here you go.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's done

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"... Okay... look its just a thing right; I don't have to be shy about it... but I am... fearing the judgement of the forums (not really, bollocks to you)

Anyway....

I wish you all a Happy Samhain; whether you celebrate this as the new year turning; the end of summer; a harvest festival or well whatever....

anyway... Blessed Be/Bright Blessings...

I imagine this is what it feels like to "come out"... phew "

thank you and your ancestors thank you too, may you be well protected this winter with health and happiness x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What's your address save me going shopping?!

I don't think you want to know really....

Free food I'm not fussy where it comes from

Bowl or glass for the wine? Food is seasonal...

Glass,please!

Here you go....."

Oh thankyou

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By *sianmale89Man  over a year ago

Stockport


"I'll be doing something for Samhain but mine will be a simpler, more 'naturalistic' and personal evocation.

"

Does that mean painting yourself to look like a pumpkin steve?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP good post and ty for the explanation..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP good post and ty for the explanation..

"

I would hasten to add that this is but one interpretation and the one that sits well with my way of life... I respect all interpretations. Regardless of the reasons I hope all have a great evening x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"OP good post and ty for the explanation..

I would hasten to add that this is but one interpretation and the one that sits well with my way of life... I respect all interpretations. Regardless of the reasons I hope all have a great evening x"

fair point, quite like the interpretation you said and its triggered my curiosity so will have a look see..

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I can smell it..... I'm lying here as dusk has fallen with both velux windows wide open as its been such a glorious day, and I can smell a faint trace of wood or leaf burning through the woods with the first of that distinctly autumnal night air, it's a glorious, magical smell!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It has been a glorious day for it. Peace to you all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It has been a glorious day for it. Peace to you all.

"

Peace to you too Ms Lickety...

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'll be doing something for Samhain but mine will be a simpler, more 'naturalistic' and personal evocation.

Does that mean painting yourself to look like a pumpkin steve? "

No, so put that little dream out of your head this instant

It's more making a connection with Mother Earth (he said in a hippy-like manner)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Happy Samhain. Sending you all

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Happy Samhain. Sending you all "

You've been kissing TT.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Happy Samhain. Sending you all

You've been kissing TT. "

Eh??!

Oh my pic!! Ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If i knew all you ladys were so easily brought id have bribed you all with wine ling ago. Ha ha ha........ THERE IS LOADS OF WINE ON MY DOORSTEP

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