i'd be supicious,if she want to meet why should u pay? Its nt a date but 2 people meeting for mutual pleasure.
If u were all ready fuck buddies,perhaps it would be different,but it seems very cheeky for a first meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Have been offered money when i've traveled due to no accommodating, but as thats my choice never take it "icky" but shows good manners.
would never dream off asking someone to pay
but good job we are all different
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *hiz2112 OP Man
over a year ago
south wales and gloucestershire |
yea thing is how am i going to pay for her travel,if she cant get to me anyway,perhaps she was going to ask me to put it in the post,lol does she think i was born yesterday or what |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"yea thing is how am i going to pay for her travel,if she cant get to me anyway,perhaps she was going to ask me to put it in the post,lol does she think i was born yesterday or what"
someone else did this recently silly money too, then got blocked and no visit had been chatting a while too
There's got to be better meets on the cards |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"was chatting to someone this afternoon,they wanted to meet,but said she would travel to me,if i pay for her travel,do others get asked this"
I personally am not fond of the idea of money exchanging hands when it comes to swinging, but that is perhaps just me! I can understand though that funds can be an issue especially if longer journeys are involved. My suggestion would probably be if one does the travelling, the other could perhaps sort out the meal/ accommodation? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"was chatting to someone this afternoon,they wanted to meet,but said she would travel to me,if i pay for her travel,do others get asked this"
I wouldn't think of asking as it makes the whole experience seem cheep. I will travel so far and no further.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"was chatting to someone this afternoon,they wanted to meet,but said she would travel to me,if i pay for her travel,do others get asked this
Definitely NOT. report them"
Why?,
You only have one side of a story!,
She may have been out of work with children to support...or have other hard circumstances.....REPORT? when you don't know the full story about ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
No.
I'm not comfortable with that at all. I would never ask someone to pay for my travel and I would politely decline if they offered.
I am quite capable of paying my own way and if I wasn't then I wouldn't be going. Simple. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic