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New Here but so far disappointed
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I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....
Haven't given up though but disappointed so far |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex  |
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take "
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.  |
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site. "
Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon
Sally"
Love your photos Sally ... blue is my favourite colour and in pvc it's well let's say it gets certain parts of me aroused  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.
Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all"
You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend  |
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"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "
Thanks a lot ... yes I agree
I also have started enjoying forum more than anything actually |
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.
Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all
You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend "
Sounds so true right this minute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google  "
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude  |
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I had a single profile on here and thats how I met Miss. I ended doing relatively well i.e met quite a few singles and couples.
This is just my experience but having a well written profile and a variety of pics that arent your cock are very important.
You are doing the right thing sending polite messages. Try and include something from the profile of the recipient so they know you have read it.
I didnt have any meets for the first five months. As others have said patience is important. A key move for me was attending socials and clubs and meeting people face to face. Yes it is nerve wracking at first but you soon realise the majority of people are friendly and everybody started somewhere.
Keep your chin up and keep at it. Jack. |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really? "
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude
Yes it is .... "
In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile  |
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"I had a single profile on here and thats how I met Miss. I ended doing relatively well i.e met quite a few singles and couples.
This is just my experience but having a well written profile and a variety of pics that arent your cock are very important.
You are doing the right thing sending polite messages. Try and include something from the profile of the recipient so they know you have read it.
I didnt have any meets for the first five months. As others have said patience is important. A key move for me was attending socials and clubs and meeting people face to face. Yes it is nerve wracking at first but you soon realise the majority of people are friendly and everybody started somewhere.
Keep your chin up and keep at it. Jack."
Bless you ... cheers mate much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude "
Hahaha!! Very good detective work! I think we've found the reason why he isn't getting meets |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude
Yes it is ....
In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile "
Very knowledgable nice one mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude
Yes it is ....
In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile
Very knowledgable nice one mate "
Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read "
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot  |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude
Yes it is ....
In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile
Very knowledgable nice one mate
Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity "
Ah cheers mate that's what I would call support bless you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Good ol' google
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suniel_Shetty
Its this dude
Yes it is ....
In that case your married to Mana Shetty maybe have a couples profile
Very knowledgable nice one mate
Fair play, the guy's been busted and he's still playing along got to admire that tenacity
Ah cheers mate that's what I would call support bless you "
https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/64/Suniel_Shetty,_Mana_Shetty_at_the_special_screening_of_'Bol_Bachchan'_15.jpg
Make a nice couple tho. |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot "
It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot
It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it "
So it's a dick pic |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot
It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it
So it's a dick pic "
Haha no not really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot
It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it
So it's a dick pic
Haha no not really "
VIP tickets to your next red carpet screening? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.
Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all
You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend "
We are VERY fussy...choosy...discerning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "
How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .
You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you! |
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"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex
How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .
You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you! "
Hahahaha not really ... no I am down here in South Dorking |
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take
Without being rude, its a swingers site not a sex site.
Agree. Although this all ends up on sex let's be fair about it but I wasn't only expecting sex in first go but a swinging experience meet but point I am making that no action or movement in this direction at all
You are more likely to find a woman to sleep with on a night out, than on here OP. It's just another stereotype that women are an easy lay on a swinging site... I'm sure you've figured out by now, that we are a bunch of fussy buggers, and it's just an urban legend
We are VERY fussy...choosy...discerning"
Indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex
How is distance such a barrier for you ? You live in Birmingham and from my searches I know there's plenty of hot women there .
You're scaring them with beheading for a bad blow job, aren't you!
Hahahaha not really ... no I am down here in South Dorking "
Oh really? According to my sources you live in maharashtra, India |
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"You've only been here 2 months....
Yes I know but thought if you are on this platform something should happen but let's see how long does it take "
If only the Something should happen were true, there'd be a lot of happier guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!"
Unless the OP's lying about his age on here too. As he already comes across as so honest.  |
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"I think your photos and profile look good. I hope you find some fun soon
Sally
Love your photos Sally ... blue is my favourite colour and in pvc it's well let's say it gets certain parts of me aroused "
Thanks for your kind words.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!
Unless the OP's lying about his age on here too. As he already comes across as so honest. "
Damn! |
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"Four months for me without a meet from here, I just enjoy the forums now and maybe if time and distance barriers can be overcome I'll be able to arrange a meet or two.
Don't get disheartened, enjoy the banter and don't use this as your sole means of getting sex "
Great advice, guys forget that there are plenty of horny women out in the real world away from fab |
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"Your face pic is also on a Celebrity Bollywood site, is it really you OP?
Haha really?
Well talking about celebrity, I sent you a message yesterday miss little which I notice you have not read yet ... you would love it I am sure please have a read
Sorry OP, I miss a lot of messages. Tend to hang around the forums a lot
It is very recent one ... it has something in it which you would like and don't want to disclose here. How spooky I sent it to you out of blue and now bumped into you here ... oh love it
So it's a dick pic "
A bollywood dick pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm late to the show, but there's only one pic showing now and not having read the thread I checked it as it has that fake quality to it. OP please join the ranks of other stars we encounter on Fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are going to pass yourself off as this guy at least get the age right.....you're a good 10 years out!"
The body doesn't match a 40 or 50 something guy either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This thread is spinning me out.
Hey fella!! Patience. Your 46. You should have learned that by now... patience is the key.
Right is he elvis? OR a movie star?
Confused of Devon |
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"whats worring is hes photo verified yet using a pic off the interwebz  "
It doesn't have to be a face pc in the PV photo, it can be a full body nude......if I remember right, it has been years since I PV'd this profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It took me about 3 months before I got my first reply from a message and over 9 months before my first meet.
Having said all that and with now a handful of veris to display, it doesn't get easier.
Expect the unexpected and you'll be just fine.
Just because it's a swinging site, that doesn'mean women flock to mens feet for fuck.
It's hard work my friend, you will get disappointed and you will suffer frustrations too.
My advice is try and enjoy the site but keep expectations to a zero level. That way the only way is up (excuse the pun) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....
Haven't given up though but disappointed so far "
It took me almost a year to have my first meet on here and then about another 3 months for the next. Nothing in the last 9 months.
I still try messaging but hardly ever get a response, not that it bothers me as I know I'm not the best looking and it's not a dating site where people want to get to know you...
Biggest problem you have...your male |
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By (user no longer on site)
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New here! ?
Your 2mth old. Your like an old timer to the usual moaning bastards who post about how they think this site is shite.
And you havn't left yet after starting this post. Your dreamy.
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"I am new to this. Despite writing nice and genuine messages to so many people who are apparently looking for fun n change with anyone yet no meet ....
Haven't given up though but disappointed so far "
Hello
The ratio of women to men is HIGHER in civvy street than it is online.
Add to the above that you are more than likely to meet a female face to face on a night out whereas the women you MIGHT speak to on here are geographically diverse. ( fucking miles away )
Add to both of the above that many people use the internet imagining that they are swingers and stretching imaginations further that they are highly desired.
If you really want a swinging lifestyle go to clubs / meets etc. It'd be good if you had a friend to go with. Even then it'd take time for you to strike up friendships and trusts.
Despite the regular protestation here that most people are swingers and this is not a sex site, I feel it IS mostly used as a quickie sex site though I can't prove it not having done research.
I'd say most meets here go ...... meet, smile, hi , shag , cheers , bye.
Maybe 'swinging' has come of age  |
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