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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
It makes far more sense to me for whoever to be proactive,.. looking for what you seek rather than reactive waiting for him /her coming to you.
After all you know what you're looking for far better than any descriptor in your profile text..
Seems logical to me anyway.. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Or just try and filter your way through the hundreds of clamouring guys in your inboxes? "
I've looked for men and women before and initiate the conversation (quite often poorly!). I find it easier to find what I'm looking for if I do the searching. I don't understand why anyone wouldn't to be honest? The only group I will no longer message first would be couples due to a disappointment when I attempted to previously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont go looking for them ..i like to have a perv ...i mean look at there profiles have a fab at there pics if they are good ..tend not to message them though i just move on to the next  |
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Usually just sift through the messages looking for a suitable play mate. Most profiles don't have public face pics so most of the time you message a decent sounding profile and end up with a reply off someone who doesn't exactly do anything for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't need to look now but i used to. tends to be not much on anyones profile when you go looking on here, although i've noticed some improvement during my time on this site.
you're more likely to get more attractive guys if you look yourself, according to dating science.  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Usually just sift through the messages looking for a suitable play mate. Most profiles don't have public face pics so most of the time you message a decent sounding profile and end up with a reply off someone who doesn't exactly do anything for you. "
Others may think the same when you send yours... It's the nature of the internet ..no one is for everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had one woman message me first. It didn't work out. So the odds are against me now completely.
100 percent failure unless I make the first move.  "
I'd say that's the general rule for 90% of guys....and it can take alot of patience. Most women wait for the guy to show interest.....none of us like disappointments....but I think guys can handle it better, or more used to it so we just get on with it.  |
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