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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

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By *onny MCMan over a year ago

Crawley

The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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I send mine away

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I send mine away "

I send mine to the Colonies

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Have we had a sense of humour bypass then? I was one who posted that I wished to go to sleep Sunday and wake up next Sunday..However its tongue in cheek, this half term is usually a nothing one for us, walks in the woods (bat watching last night before bed) kicking leaves in the woods etc. Pics tomorrow..This one comes far too soon after the summer break, I'd only just recovered from that one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

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Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

We are very lucky ours have both slept through the night from three months old. 8-9pm till 8am like a log usually.. Gotta agree with the money thing though..

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

What??

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"I send mine away

I send mine to the Colonies "

Mine go to the mines

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

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whoosh....what?

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By *iver2015Woman over a year ago

middlesbrough

I'm not moaning. I'm just ignoring mine. They've been at friends a lot so my wank-a-thon has still been successful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love the holidays with my kids even though it can be stressful. That said mine are older now but they won't always be children so I make the most of my time with them

Kinky

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Mine are now getting to that age where I could leave them to their own devices.

The boy child is ether watching TV on the x box or tablet or lurking in his room.

Saying that he has made a Halloween pumpkin and pumpkin pies with me this afternoon so not that grown up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Love the holidays with my kids even though it can be stressful. That said mine are older now but they won't always be children so I make the most of my time with them

Kinky

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Thats lovely , they are there to be cherished

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

whoosh....what?

Something about a slut,a wank mum and a dozy mum I think. Oh and a child

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mine are now getting to that age where I could leave them to their own devices.

The boy child is ether watching TV on the x box or tablet or lurking in his room.

Saying that he has made a Halloween pumpkin and pumpkin pies with me this afternoon so not that grown up.

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equally as lovely as te previous poster

love them do not wish your time with them gone,they arent around for ever

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Zero affect on our own sex life, sure meets are more hassle, but part of that is that at our age whether a single fem or part of a couple they probs have family commitments too. Some of ours are taking months to arrange..so be it, no rush, it'll be worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Zero affect on our own sex life, sure meets are more hassle, but part of that is that at our age whether a single fem or part of a couple they probs have family commitments too. Some of ours are taking months to arrange..so be it, no rush, it'll be worth it

S"
When you say hassle ..is it your children your referring to or the meets/?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Ha ha !

We get sitters galore in the school holidays so we get to play way more than usual .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love the holidays with my kids even though it can be stressful. That said mine are older now but they won't always be children so I make the most of my time with them

Kinky

Thats lovely , they are there to be cherished

Yes they are

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Ha ha !

We get sitters galore in the school holidays so we get to play way more than usual .

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Were prob just seeng the statuses from tight arses not willing to pay for child labour

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I send mine away

I send mine to the Colonies

Mine go to the mines "

Fripperies! I send mine to the bottom of a lake in a plastic bag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like a jeremey kyle episode lol.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Glad its not just me who thinks this! Resenting your kids being there is not a nice trait!

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love the half term. Loads of lie ins, getting together with friends and their children, doing artsy stuff with mine, baking

It's the teacher friends I have on fb that wind me up doing a countdown the second they go back after a half term until the next one

*awaits the hate*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only have one and I love to spend time with him, and TBH swinging comes second to family every time

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Mine are now getting to that age where I could leave them to their own devices.

The boy child is ether watching TV on the x box or tablet or lurking in his room.

Saying that he has made a Halloween pumpkin and pumpkin pies with me this afternoon so not that grown up.

equally as lovely as te previous poster

love them do not wish your time with them gone,they arent around for ever

I'm fully aware of that my daughter no longer lives with me and I miss her so much it hurts

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Glad its not just me who thinks this! Resenting your kids being there is not a nice trait!

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It is though a great blocking filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mine are now getting to that age where I could leave them to their own devices.

The boy child is ether watching TV on the x box or tablet or lurking in his room.

Saying that he has made a Halloween pumpkin and pumpkin pies with me this afternoon so not that grown up.

equally as lovely as te previous poster

love them do not wish your time with them gone,they arent around for ever

I'm fully aware of that my daughter no longer lives with me and I miss her so much it hurts "
I feel for you, My daghter is 22 and were inseparable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always used to lock ours in the cellar during school holidays.

There weren't very impressed.

We haven't got a cellar

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By *iver2015Woman over a year ago

middlesbrough

"It's the teacher friends I have on fb that wind me up doing a countdown the second they go back after a half term until the next one

*awaits the hate*"

I do that! It's never longer than 7 weeks!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

SWhen you say hassle ..is it your children your referring to or the meets/?"

Neither, meets come after everything else, kids, work, family (elderly relatives) everything family/work related, mother nature comes before meets..Meets are an extra to our lives not a necessity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Half term has been and gone here, but it makes no difference to me as I don't meet when they're at school, because i have my own work to be doing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Family first and foremost (always) play second.

Although we have been looking forward to a child free weekend this weekend and some grown up playtime, but now we're both unwell

and will probably just spend it curled up on the sofa watching films.

Ess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been looking forward to half term because I swear my kids are the only people in this world who understand me.

And what happens?

Three out of five days they have been too busy to spend any time with their poor old dad.

But Thursday and Friday they are all mine, and were going to have a weeks worth of fun lol

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?"

Not yet and gave up trying too, head's hurting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I''m sure whoever posted that comment mean't it in a light-hearted way.

However, not all children are little bundles of joy, some are bloody hard work and maybe they've just had enough of them at that moment in time and wish they could have 5 minutes of peace and a stress relieving shag.

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By *amelhunterMan over a year ago

newcastle

"I only have one and I love to spend time with him, and TBH swinging comes second to family every time

rightly so

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

Yes, i see this every school holiday. The usual parent gripes don't bother me, it's the ones that make it obvious that their kids are stopping them from having their holes filled by random internet men, that get up my nose. Normally off the usual suspects, all women, couldn't say about couples or fellas, they don't show up on our news feed and we don't look for them.

Have noticed they use grrrrr a lot in their status's.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love the holidays with my son,jesus,if you cant wait a week or so,to go on the forums etc,wow,something definatley wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I''m sure whoever posted that comment mean't it in a light-hearted way.

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feel bad for the teachers of those kids

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

SWhen you say hassle ..is it your children your referring to or the meets/?

Neither, meets come after everything else, kids, work, family (elderly relatives) everything family/work related, mother nature comes before meets..Meets are an extra to our lives not a necessity.

I'd also add that up until this year we haven't been to so much as the pictures without our kids in five years..You ever leave yours for an evening out non Fab related?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?

Not yet and gave up trying too, head's hurting. "

Let's see...

Some woman got her kid out of her car while they were sat in traffic, but they got out and stood in the other lane. The kid then ran off from his mum as he was scared. The mum then panics as her son has ran off so goes after the kid, but goes the wrong way (will presume she got back in her car).

The poster wanted to scream at her but thought he'd make it worse. The mum then just cussed (swore) at the kid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear OP. Possibly light hearted comment? If you want angst and jumping up and down at perceived poor parenting try Mumsnet.

As a filter lacking a senses of humour works for us......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wish i had children,lost my only son

I envy those that have,they are truly blessed.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?

Not yet and gave up trying too, head's hurting.

Let's see...

The poster wanted to scream at her but thought he'd make it worse. The mum then just cussed (swore) at the kid. "

Ah! It was the 'having a wank' that threw me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?

Not yet and gave up trying too, head's hurting.

Let's see...

The poster wanted to scream at her but thought he'd make it worse. The mum then just cussed (swore) at the kid.

Ah! It was the 'having a wank' that threw me. "

When I read it I thought the mum was having a wank

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

Quite the talent to be able to judge people from a few words on a status update.

Parents are entitled to vent, surely?

I don't have kids, but if I did I imagine I'd want some time to myself sometimes, however much I loved them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kids as a swinger are all about bars.

0-1 a cot with bars

1-4 stairgate with bars

5-16 the bars and chains of education, sending them away to grandparents and holiday clubs

16+ encourage them to go to bars and stay at friends

All the child free time you want for as sex as you can manage.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I just annoyed mine by refusing the Wi-fi key.

The joys of modern parenting

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

I often see it on here parents bemoaning the fact the school holidays mean they have to look after their own kids and can't get to shag strangers.

Just seemed like the other day I was taking my girls into work with me as we had a holiday play scheme.

Now they are married with families of their own.

Enjoy them people, there'll always be people to fuck!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I just annoyed mine by refusing the Wi-fi key.

The joys of modern parenting

I do that all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just annoyed mine by refusing the Wi-fi key.

The joys of modern parenting

Why not just fart on her head again?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just annoyed mine by refusing the Wi-fi key.

The joys of modern parenting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Glad yo see the back of the kids tbh ( I work in a school and during holidays). My kids are all grown up now but can remember having to work and find childcare (thank heavens for my parents and occasionally their dad)

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I dont think they are child haters, probably just get bored with being a parent sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm basically an unpaid babysitter for my kids now, they're all old enough to do what they want when they want but still need me around ...just in case.

anyway they've gone to their dads, yay. sex tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh dear OP. Possibly light hearted comment? If you want angst and jumping up and down at perceived poor parenting try Mumsnet.

As a filter lacking a senses of humour works for us......"
see it as you want it's the same women every half term,so for us filtered out through no sense of humour will hardly bother us you being in Kent lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dont think they are child haters, probably just get bored with being a parent sometimes."
don't we all....

don't mean to say we want them gone, outa the way so Mr random shag van turn up and take up our quality time, our kids youngest is 20,most of them have little time to spare for us through working other commitments of their own..they are not kids for long so give them your time and devotion

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Quite the talent to be able to judge people from a few words on a status update.

Parents are entitled to vent, surely?

I don't have kids, but if I did I imagine I'd want some time to myself sometimes, however much I loved them."
You miss the point, and they do have their own time... Every fookin day their darling children are in school and off their plates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

What part of that was slutty? I don't get it....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I imagine a lot of it is said tongue in cheek.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And those who dred the summer holidays

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really like school holidays...an extra 20 mins in bed due to lack of traffic...bliss

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

Has anyone worked this out yet?"

'I' saw a woman let her child out of the car whilst it was in traffic. The child was standing in 'our' lane. She ran because of her age and being scared and having a less than adequate parent. What is worse she ran the wrong way.

'I' was going to scream but to be honest i'd have probably made matters worse.

The mother , who appeared not very bright' then walked off with the child. What a cunt.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I imagine a lot of it is said tongue in cheek. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

First time round I thought someone was wanking and not doing the green cross code.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Makes you wonder if these children they spawned were all pure accidents, some really don't deserve the gift that keeps on giving

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

What part of that was slutty? I don't get it...."

Ah well ....... it's generally a derogatory term for any woman, however respectable, if someone wants to defame them.

Maybe she was dressed like a hooker and wanking as she locked the car door.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The male posting I assume. Do you have children?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes you wonder if these children they spawned were all pure accidents, some really don't deserve the gift that keeps on giving"

Yeah we get it...you love your kids and are amazing parents who put them first and these people who are out there putting off the cuff statuses up are all horrible Un deserving parents who hate nothing more than pulling all those Cocks out of their orifices just to go and have to feed there inconvenient rug rats.

Here. Have a medal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

What part of that was slutty? I don't get it....

Ah well ....... it's generally a derogatory term for any woman, however respectable, if someone wants to defame them.

Maybe she was dressed like a hooker and wanking as she locked the car door."

Running after the kid leaving loops and whorls of leaking spunk on the tarmac in her wake...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

saw some slut

i fail to see how that story warrant's calling somebody a slut

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By *anes HubbyCouple over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

And that makes them child haters?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

And that makes them child haters?"
lol and children hate there parents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP - out of interest how many of these statuses have you seen?

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By *anes HubbyCouple over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

And that makes them child haters?lol and children hate there parents

Lol....good point

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By *anes HubbyCouple over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

"OP - out of interest how many of these statuses have you seen? "

At least Three......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

saw some slut

i fail to see how that story warrant's calling somebody a slut

She still had the gearstick up her when she ran off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Unbelievable content ,

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Makes you wonder if these children they spawned were all pure accidents, some really don't deserve the gift that keeps on giving

Here. Have a medal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They just shouldn't let them out if prison...sorry I mean school!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Makes you wonder if these children they spawned were all pure accidents, some really don't deserve the gift that keeps on giving"

Pretty sure some kids just keep on taking too from the Bank of Mum & Dad

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Makes you wonder if these children they spawned were all pure accidents, some really don't deserve the gift that keeps on giving

Pretty sure some kids just keep on taking too from the Bank of Mum & Dad

Oh yes indeed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think my parents have ever referred to me as the gift that keeps on giving

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't think my parents have ever referred to me as the gift that keeps on giving

No me neither.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think my parents have ever referred to me as the gift that keeps on giving

No me neither.

"
I van believe that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think my parents have ever referred to me as the gift that keeps on giving

No me neither.

I van believe that

"
oops can....

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By *onny MCMan over a year ago

Crawley

"I don't think my parents have ever referred to me as the gift that keeps on giving

No me neither.

I'll ask mine next time I see them, but I've a good idea what the answer will be.

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By *igdodger13Man over a year ago

sompting

Sent mine to boarding school from 3 y o

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Sent mine to boarding school from 3 y o "

Sent mine to the lead mines of Sicily

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"Sent mine to boarding school from 3 y o

Sent mine to the lead mines of Sicily

They would have seen mine then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wasnt planning on posting on here as i love my kids dearly

But this evening ...one texting if she can stay out later and the other shouting for help

Whilst i am about to cum ....i am sure they do it on purpose

Anyway school holidays ..mine are older ..i leave them to it as they dont want there mum interfering ...nice to have them off and all that

really ...honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I 100% couldn't cope with having kids

No desire what so ever!

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Sent mine to boarding school from 3 y o

Sent mine to the lead mines of Sicily

They would have seen mine then "

Yes, and then I send them to be starched in Egypt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I send mine away "

Me too!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

Thinking of selling our two to the Arabs tbh. Should be worth a few £ being blonde blue eyed girls..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never see men post these kind of status updates only women / couples informing people of their lack of availability due to 1/2 terms.

I love school holidays as it means time some time off for me too ~ I think it's pretty sad if you can't wait a week or so to have a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I 100% couldn't cope with having kids

No desire what so ever!"

+1.

I love kids..my Nephew is Ace, he concentrates so hard and never breaks eye contact when he's sat on his potty having a dump.

But kids aren't for me at this point in time.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF) over a year ago

south

"I love the holidays with my son,jesus,if you cant wait a week or so,to go on the forums etc,wow,something definatley wrong "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sounds a bit judgemental over a status...

suppose it'd be worse if they had said the kids playing Wii in the next room, cum round...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I felt blessed when I won custody for a second time. Two daughters. Two ex's.

I didn't care that I had no time to myself. No sitters. No family for hundreds of miles.

I loved every day.

Now I have my freedom as the youngest is 21.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the gift that keeps giving might be a bit of a stretch, but bugger me, if they don't grow up quick! Don't wish your life away whatever the motivation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont care who you are, everyone has at some point thought "i wish i could find this kids off switch" but there are days, when my son will make me forgive a box of 200 googley eyes being tiped all over the floor, just because he needed the box to play space ships, and thats the days when he looks at me, and for no reason just says "daddy, i love you" thats all i need, that and my daughter not telling me im embarasing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though."

agreed....and just a bit judgey

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By *andS_GlasgowCouple over a year ago

Giffnock

We had a guy ask us to join him in his studio apt in spain - said his son sleeps through anything

Tempted to call social services

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though."

Drama?

Here?

Noooooo, surely not.

*Jazzhands*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People who start judgy threads about people who's lives they know nothing about.......

Lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though.

agreed....and just a bit judgey

Yep.

But I admit I roll my eyes and think really ?!

when I see those kind of status updates.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

heres my view(no kids myself) but with around 10 nieces n nephews:

sending kids out to play can be dangerous.

keeping kids inside is not good for them.

kids will normally want to play with other kids and that means them going out to a friends,friends coming,or going to somewhere where other kids are.

it can be costly during holiday periods, whether it even be for 'free' things like parks/museums etc etc, even more costly something like the cinema.

One might have had to take time off work, as perhaps childcare costs might be astronomical..

these are the things I would consider before effectively slagging off someones status...at maybe just being a little fucked off at having no 'me' time..perhaps they rarely ever even get a weekend free either?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun "

I love my kiddo but I'm a single parent with chronic health conditions and a brain tumour. I struggle sometimes and I'm only human. You never know what's going on behind the scenes.

She's currently staying with her nanny for a few days but this is the first time we've been apart in a year so I'm sure you can figure out the impact that can have.

Since being a mama the one thing I've learnt that to do my best I need to be well rested and have some sort of life outside of being mum. If that makes me a crap mum in your eyes then so be it. Most mamas just want the best for their kids but we are humans not robots.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

I didn't swing when my kids were young, only since they have been in their mid to late teens. I didn't date or go out without them, spent all the time working but off in the school holidays so we would do lots of things together. I have no idea why sex with random strangers would be more important than one's children .... I want to spend time with my kids and my family more than anything. Sadly now they are teens, they are very independent (but always know I am there) so we do have more time. One or the other of the three of them always turns up where we are ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun

I love my kiddo but I'm a single parent with chronic health conditions and a brain tumour. I struggle sometimes and I'm only human. You never know what's going on behind the scenes.

She's currently staying with her nanny for a few days but this is the first time we've been apart in a year so I'm sure you can figure out the impact that can have.

Oh and terms of my sex life.. I haven't had sex in 6/7 months. I don't have the opportunities to go out and meet people at bars or pubs. I can only do socials when she's at school due which can be difficult to arrange. So yes, it probably does impact my sex life but I still wouldn't change my situation. Just maybe get a bit more help more often! ??

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By *candiumWoman over a year ago

oban

I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I don't mind kids

I get on well with them

Enjoy spending time with them (some) just as long as they are not mine and I can give them back I have also found going out or just fucking single mums works for me as most don't want another child and don't want me to play step dad so don't have to meet the kids or I meet them every so offen and iam just a friend of mummies

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"I don't mind kids

I get on well with them

But I do have friends with kids that iam happy to meet and have meals with and talk about football or lion king or what ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Children give you the creeps?

I've read it all now.

You do realise you were a child once.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Saw some slut get her kid out of a car in traffic and the kid was standing in our lane and ran..obviously due to age ,being scared ,and having a wank mum she panics and goes the wrong fucking way

I was gonna scream but tbh i'd of probably made it worse ,the dozy mum then just cos off with the kid.... whatta cunt

What part of that was slutty? I don't get it...."

She had sex to conceive the child, innit!

"Oh dear OP. Possibly light hearted comment? If you want angst and jumping up and down at perceived poor parenting try Mumsnet."

Amen to that.

Regular good orgasms make good mums! Helps with patience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun

I love my kiddo but I'm a single parent with chronic health conditions and a brain tumour. I struggle sometimes and I'm only human. You never know what's going on behind the scenes.

She's currently staying with her nanny for a few days but this is the first time we've been apart in a year so I'm sure you can figure out the impact that can have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

This is me also

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By *candiumWoman over a year ago

oban

Children give you the creeps?

I've read it all now.

You do realise you were a child once.

Yup. Verging on phobic about them and yes I know I was one. A pretty horrible one too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love school hols and spending time with my girls family will always come first x

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun "

Well they do don't they...,and not only that but kids are a pain in the arse..they are expensive , needy, they expect you to provide for em. They require feeding at least once or twice a day, and hydrating!!! Plus you can't just lock em in their room with the iPad, that shit is frowned upon. You have to go out with em, you got to entertain em....ffs

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

Its the women that already have that constantly complain every holiday that their own children are a problem and get in the way of their sexual fun

They hunt in packs and smell fear.

Round up and shoot the ringleaders, separate in to groups. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I 100% couldn't cope with having kids

No desire what so ever!"

Future kidney donors?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

This is me also

Yup, us too. Cats are so much nicer - they don't scream day and night, they don't grow up and resent you, we can get friends/neighbours to feed them when we go on the many holidays we can afford because we don't have kids

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

This is me also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't have children you won't be passing on your genes to the gene pool.

Thank you for that

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"If you don't have children you won't be passing on your genes to the gene pool.

Thank you for that

I wont thank you for passing on yours though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My son used to make football strips during the holidays to pay his digs money when he was at school.

Then he got too big and the gangmaster sent him back.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

"The couples and women who post statuses every half term about having to look after their own children and wishing the week away so they can play at swinging on Monday.

Great parents and lovely people

Silly silly people imo but different strokes for different folks I guess

I play on here but my family along with my kids is my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there anyone with kids that would admit to wishing they didn't have them?

Or rather they love their children but if they had the choice again they wouldn't have had any!?

I don't hate children but I believe that they are only lovable if they're your own or family!

I can only cope with them in very small doses!

I have no desire to be up all night with a baby or have to deal with a naughty toddler or a grumpy teenager!

But then everyone chooses a different path.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there anyone with kids that would admit to wishing they didn't have them?

Or rather they love their children but if they had the choice again they wouldn't have had any!?

I don't hate children but I believe that they are only lovable if they're your own or family!

I can only cope with them in very small doses!

I have no desire to be up all night with a baby or have to deal with a naughty toddler or a grumpy teenager!

But then everyone chooses a different path."

Guilty.

I love my daughter and wouldn't change her for anything. I've taken two days off work to spend time with her during the holidays (she's ignoring me and playing minecraft currently)

But!

If I could do it again, I'd not have done something I wasn't ready for to make someone else happy. And there is no chance of me having another one. Ever,

Let the hate commence!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there anyone with kids that would admit to wishing they didn't have them?

Or rather they love their children but if they had the choice again they wouldn't have had any!?

I don't hate children but I believe that they are only lovable if they're your own or family!

I can only cope with them in very small doses!

I have no desire to be up all night with a baby or have to deal with a naughty toddler or a grumpy teenager!

But then everyone chooses a different path.

Guilty.

I love my daughter and wouldn't change her for anything. I've taken two days off work to spend time with her during the holidays (she's ignoring me and playing minecraft currently)

But!

If I could do it again, I'd not have done something I wasn't ready for to make someone else happy. And there is no chance of me having another one. Ever,

Let the hate commence! "

If more people where honest with themselves they would admit it too!

You have to want children 100%

And there's always one out of the couple that doesn't! ........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I booked the week off to spend with mine even though he is growing up fast!

Been out for lunch today and even though he is glued to his games console now it's still lovely to be at home with him.

Any fun can wait till I am free.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Is there anyone with kids that would admit to wishing they didn't have them?

Or rather they love their children but if they had the choice again they wouldn't have had any!?

I don't hate children but I believe that they are only lovable if they're your own or family!

I can only cope with them in very small doses!

I have no desire to be up all night with a baby or have to deal with a naughty toddler or a grumpy teenager!

But then everyone chooses a different path.

Guilty.

I love my daughter and wouldn't change her for anything. I've taken two days off work to spend time with her during the holidays (she's ignoring me and playing minecraft currently)

But!

If I could do it again, I'd not have done something I wasn't ready for to make someone else happy. And there is no chance of me having another one. Ever,

Let the hate commence! "

I admire your honesty, just because you regret having kids doesnt mean you dont love them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I regret is being tied to someone for the rest of my life. Someone I've grown to dislike a lot.

Kids are a drain. On your time, your wallet. Your life. However! I don't mind that all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a father who sadly leaves apart from his beautiful kids

I would love nothing more than for them to live with me

Be it in the holidays or permanently

Please do not take for granted saying good morning to them every day

Tucking them in at night

I miss my kids every day

To think some people consider them a burden and gets in the was of a shag....

Saddens me deeply

I've seen these status's

Try not having them there

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"heres my view(no kids myself) but with around 10 nieces n nephews:

sending kids out to play can be dangerous.

keeping kids inside is not good for them.

kids will normally want to play with other kids and that means them going out to a friends,friends coming,or going to somewhere where other kids are.

it can be costly during holiday periods, whether it even be for 'free' things like parks/museums etc etc, even more costly something like the cinema.

One might have had to take time off work, as perhaps childcare costs might be astronomical..

"
and maybe they fuck 4 guys s week every week....but there you go eh

Pity the dole can't catch out these women

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The negative impact on my sex life is one of the many reasons I don't want kids. Along with having no sleep, no money, no social life.

I really don't think I'm cut out for parenting.

This is me also

"
we've had four kids..holiday abroad every year twice...what's kids got to do with holidaying....this only counts if your poor

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

My eldest has been away all week & I can't wait to get him back on Saturday (will have had enough of him by Sunday

)

Youngest has had quality time with me & got to know Frank better. It's been lovely!

JG x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying."
your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do think the title of this thread is over dramatic though.

agreed....and just a bit judgey

"
says the woman who judges people on their status updates and user names

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

Actualy she isnt in the minority lots of women and men decide they dont ever want kids and most people dont consider women who are in their 40s and 50s oddballs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

Actualy she isnt in the minority lots of women and men decide they dont ever want kids and most people dont consider women who are in their 40s and 50s oddballs.

"
ok the majority of women don't want children as they find them creepy...your right she isn't in the minority

signed off from the planet zog..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there anyone with kids that would admit to wishing they didn't have them?

Or rather they love their children but if they had the choice again they wouldn't have had any!?

I don't hate children but I believe that they are only lovable if they're your own or family!

I can only cope with them in very small doses!

I have no desire to be up all night with a baby or have to deal with a naughty toddler or a grumpy teenager!

But then everyone chooses a different path.

Guilty.

I love my daughter and wouldn't change her for anything. I've taken two days off work to spend time with her during the holidays (she's ignoring me and playing minecraft currently)

But!

If I could do it again, I'd not have done something I wasn't ready for to make someone else happy. And there is no chance of me having another one. Ever,

Let the hate commence! "

No hate here , an honest appraisal .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

I've never known anyone to be considered and oddball for not having kids...what...are we back in Victorian times again?

Nobody needs to be having children that doesn't want them in this day and age and it's perfectly accepted

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

Actualy she isnt in the minority lots of women and men decide they dont ever want kids and most people dont consider women who are in their 40s and 50s oddballs.

ok the majority of women don't want children as they find them creepy...your right she isn't in the minority

signed off from the planet zog..

No i didnt say that the majority of women dont want children or that they find them creepy. Not everyone wants or likes the same things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

In fact..that's a massively backwards attitude.

Women are for breeding essentially.

So much no...just no

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

In fact..that's a massively backwards attitude.

Women are for breeding essentially.

So much no...just no "

Couldnt agree more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any one need a chimney sweep

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

I've never known anyone to be considered and oddball for not having kids...what...are we back in Victorian times again?

Nobody needs to be having children that doesn't want them in this day and age and it's perfectly accepted"

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By *ureTemptationWoman over a year ago

Off the grid

Some children, through no fault of their own and no fault of the parent, are incredibly hard work.

And those kids are impossible to get babysitters for. And also often impossible, or incredibly challenging (to the point of aggression, violence, or extreme withdrawal) to do the usual kid fun stuff with. Family day to day life can be very traumatic for both the child and parent in many more families than you realise.

Enjoy the rest of your week people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

In fact..that's a massively backwards attitude.

Women are for breeding essentially.

So much no...just no "
no the fact a male has sperm and a dick and a woman has a fanny and a womb says reproduce....get with the program stavros

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 27/10/16 21:15:10]

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I dislike all children apart from one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

Actualy she isnt in the minority lots of women and men decide they dont ever want kids and most people dont consider women who are in their 40s and 50s oddballs.

ok the majority of women don't want children as they find them creepy...your right she isn't in the minority

signed off from the planet zog..

No i didnt say that the majority of women dont want children or that they find them creepy. Not everyone wants or likes the same things."
Jesus. The woman your spouting off on behalf of did...do you even keep track of your comments and arguments

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'm guessing this isn't the place to admit to having a count-down chart until the little feckers sod off to University?

(then I'm changing the locks too, just in case... )

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kids so yes, I find certain things in peoples profiles, certainly those who portray their parenthood in a negative light due to their lack of personal freedom, chilling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I certainly wouldn't whinge, moan or whine about my children on here let alone whinge because my sex life was lagging because of them

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By *albec26Man over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

We never wanted children until a bundle of joy suddenly appeared (concealed pregnancy) then three more. Wouldn't change it for the world. But agree with above post it can be so stressful not just by looking after them but all the other stuff life throws at you. We joke about half term, summer holidays etc but its tongue in cheek although there are times when by the end of the day you've had enough so yes just impact on our sex life. Its nearly over and Kat been sectioned and i have blisters on my right hand lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Folk think I'm nuts at work cos i have 4 boys and I love the holidays.we have the added bonus of really long hols in ireland.3 months in the summer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

In fact..that's a massively backwards attitude.

Women are for breeding essentially.

So much no...just no no the fact a male has sperm and a dick and a woman has a fanny and a womb says reproduce....get with the program stavros "

Apparently we have brains too...you choose not to use yours so women get to choose not to use their reproductive bits

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"I don't have kids. Never wanted any. To be quite honest I find them... well they give me the creeps. I've never understood why anyone would have them, especially women. And the obsession of society with children really annoys me. Rationally I understand it but it's still annoying.your clearly the minority... World's evolved but women in the majority are classed as keepers and carers of children who they duly love and will do anything for..Women in their 40s and 50s without children are considered oddballs by most

Actualy she isnt in the minority lots of women and men decide they dont ever want kids and most people dont consider women who are in their 40s and 50s oddballs.

ok the majority of women don't want children as they find them creepy...your right she isn't in the minority

signed off from the planet zog..

No i didnt say that the majority of women dont want children or that they find them creepy. Not everyone wants or likes the same things.Jesus. The woman your spouting off on behalf of did...do you even keep track of your comments and arguments

Was it having four kids that made you this happy.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Come on, peeps, only a couple more posts to go

"we'd have finished it by now if it wasn't for those pesky kids"

{shakes fist}

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've read the first and the last... I take there has been a difference of opinion about children, child care and swinging?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've read the first and the last... I take there has been a difference of opinion about children, child care and swinging?

Some people think that women should be bare foot and breeding all the time, and some people don't. There has been...ructions.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've read the first and the last... I take there has been a difference of opinion about children, child care and swinging?

Some people think that women should be bare foot and breeding all the time, and some people don't. There has been...ructions."

Ah! The usual 'woman for breeding and nurturing... and if she hasn't she's weird' argument?

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