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My wife is back! Any idea?
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanna say be honest in that your just here for the forums. Hide any meets you have had n dick pics. Show her your pro you never no she mite join in.  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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Being on the website with the intention of chatting may not necessarily affect your relationship but if you've met or have looked for meets that may be different as there is an intention to cheat.
Only you know your wife and her limits but I would always say honesty is the best policy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What advice do you need?
If you care anything for her then leave here and maybe over time you could return as a couple.
If you care more for yourself then carry on as you are till the inevitable bomb drops then deal with the fallout from that. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"I wanna say be honest in that your just here for the forums. Hide any meets you have had n dick pics. Show her your pro you never no she mite join in. xxx"
Will you rent your sofa if she kicks me out lol |
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Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back"
This is perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wanna say be honest in that your just here for the forums. Hide any meets you have had n dick pics. Show her your pro you never no she mite join in. xxx
Will you rent your sofa if she kicks me out lol"
No chance xxx |
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In life we go through many instances of having conflicting needs, beliefs and values - it's part of our maturation process, where we're able to cast off certain things, in order to retain others.
I'd place my values in decreasing order of importance to me. What's important? Does your marriage signify your highest level of priority in life (other than remaining alive)? If so, then I'd expect that - unless you have agreed to an open relationship - you'd rescind your use of fab and also of sexual activities involving other partners.
It's your call, as it is for all of us. 'Addiction' sounds like something outside of you. It's your mind and body that you're involving with Fab and other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something here. 45 day Holiday without her husband and she doesn't already know fab !!!! Hmmm!!!"
he might figure that out with all the cum dripping out of her suitcase. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back"
I've done all jobs mate. She will be amazed lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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I get your drift OP but do you also know for sure what your wife was also up to for her entire 45 days holiday?
You being here to the point of being addicted it goes to show there is something good here so why not introduce her her so she gets to enjoy what you enjoy here as well let alone polishing her ego too if not the least.
OP it is "for better for worse" so go on and do the honest thing. |
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I dont know if you've had any meets or not. If not, tell her while she was away you got curious about swinging but you havent met anybody. You found this site and liked the interaction on the forum and sharing your stories. If you havent met you havent cheated but expressed an interest in swinging. Then gauge her reaction to it. Just my humble opinion,take it as you will. Jack. |
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You have a few options:
1. Delete your profile and go back to the real world.
2. Come clean and tell her about Fab. She may enjoy it or kick your arse.
3. Keep it a secret, carry on and hope she doesn't find out and take you for half of everything you own.
I personally would recommend either 1 or 2, but the choice is yours.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you think anyone on here knows you, your wife, your relationship, your history and current circumstances better than you?
I'd never ask for advice on here about anything!
This lot can't even agree how to eat a stone (jam goes on the cream, or the cream goes on the jam?) |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Do you think anyone on here knows you, your wife, your relationship, your history and current circumstances better than you?
I'd never ask for advice on here about anything!
This lot can't even agree how to eat a stone (jam goes on the cream, or the cream goes on the jam?) "
Cheers bro |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"I wanna say be honest in that your just here for the forums. Hide any meets you have had n dick pics. Show her your pro you never no she mite join in. xxx
Will you rent your sofa if she kicks me out lol
No chance xxx"
Well i am homeless then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only you can decide OP.
She may never find out that you're on here but is this something you want to do behind her back?
You could stay on here with a scaled down profile for the forums but I have a feeling you may just want more... |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Go on a 45 day holiday yourself as soon as she walks through the door go TA RA love see you in a month and a half."
I would probably go to Birmingham or Coventry as there are lots of beautiful ladies there lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think anyone on here knows you, your wife, your relationship, your history and current circumstances better than you?
I'd never ask for advice on here about anything!
This lot can't even agree how to eat a stone (jam goes on the cream, or the cream goes on the jam?) "
Good lord, you'll break your teeth on a stone man. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Do you think anyone on here knows you, your wife, your relationship, your history and current circumstances better than you?
I'd never ask for advice on here about anything!
This lot can't even agree how to eat a stone (jam goes on the cream, or the cream goes on the jam?)
Good lord, you'll break your teeth on a stone man. "
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"In life we go through many instances of having conflicting needs, beliefs and values - it's part of our maturation process, where we're able to cast off certain things, in order to retain others.
I'd place my values in decreasing order of importance to me. What's important? Does your marriage signify your highest level of priority in life (other than remaining alive)? If so, then I'd expect that - unless you have agreed to an open relationship - you'd rescind your use of fab and also of sexual activities involving other partners.
It's your call, as it is for all of us. 'Addiction' sounds like something outside of you. It's your mind and body that you're involving with Fab and other people. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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Erm ... Let me think.
Yes, now I have got it. It took me a while.
You are sure it would affect your relationship if she found out you were on here.
I am slowly coming to a conclusion. Can you guess what it is, Mr Sugar? |
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Why are you on this web site in the first place if you are happily married
What exactly are you looking for and would it bother you if she did the same thing
Sounds a bit weird to me
I think yoh should tell her the truth before she finds out from someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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Your wife is back??
Show her your profile on here!
Tell her you do not want to leave.
You have made your decision, now let her make her's. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
Your wife is back??
Show her your profile on here!
Tell her you do not want to leave.
You have made your decision, now let her make her's."
Ok will you accomodate me for the night if she kicks me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back
I've done all jobs mate. She will be amazed lol"
It's amazing what guilt can do to a man pmsl x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
Your wife is back??
Show her your profile on here!
Tell her you do not want to leave.
You have made your decision, now let her make her's.
Ok will you accomodate me for the night if she kicks me out "
Nope, if you have behaved badly then face the consequences.
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back
I've done all jobs mate. She will be amazed lol
It's amazing what guilt can do to a man pmsl x"
Am i guilty now? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back
I've done all jobs mate. She will be amazed lol
It's amazing what guilt can do to a man pmsl x
Am i guilty now? Lol"
You are on here looking for sex with others.
We think most people would say you are. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Don't think we can give you the right answer.
Only you know your wife and how she would react. If you are going to keep your profile then it would probably be best to come clean about fab because if she does find out then it would look like you had something to hide. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr Sugar. You have a whimsical way with words.
Try talking to your wife. You may reap dividends.
Divorce settlements rarely work out well for either party. |
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
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Personally I think you need to take a step back and look at your relationship.
You say happily married.. though also say you like receiving naughty messages to boost your ego.
If you need your ego boosted then I wouldn't say you are very happy in your relationship.
If you are happily married and think this will hurt her then I would be deleting my account. |
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
Being on the website with the intention of chatting may not necessarily affect your relationship but if you've met or have looked for meets that may be different as there is an intention to cheat.
Only you know your wife and her limits but I would always say honesty is the best policy"
jokin surely! Honesty is quickest fckin route to divorce court. Delete profile pretty damn quick. Tell misses a mate told you about this site and judge your wife's reaction. And for fcks sake keep your mouth shut about being on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I'd be more concerned with her reaction to 6 weeks of pots cluttering up the sink and the 8 loads of washing she's gonna have to get done, offer an olive branch by sorting it into whites and darks before she gets back
I've done all jobs mate. She will be amazed lol
It's amazing what guilt can do to a man pmsl x
Am i guilty now? Lol"
Like most married men you probably don't give a shit x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wanna say be honest in that your just here for the forums. Hide any meets you have had n dick pics. Show her your pro you never no she mite join in. xxx
Will you rent your sofa if she kicks me out lol"
The sort of flippant attitude that will hopefully see you get what you duly deserve .
Imagine if it were her doing the same to you  |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you think anyone on here knows you, your wife, your relationship, your history and current circumstances better than you?
I'd never ask for advice on here about anything!
This lot can't even agree how to eat a stone (jam goes on the cream, or the cream goes on the jam?) "
He's not you though is he and he is asking |
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"Well I am not sure if i am doing right by writing here. But i can't find a solution.
My friends on here know that i am married. It is writing on my profile as well. My wife has been on a long holiday for 45 days and she will be back on tomorrow. By this time i found this website. First weeks it was for finding a lady to have nice moments. But it has turned to something else. It is like an addiction now. It is good to see that some of ladies here like me and they send naughty messages etc. It is polishing my ego. I also write stories about my single days in forum area. I love it to get nice comments as I was a playwright and actor once upon a time.
Long story short... I don't want to leave this website. But i am sure it would affect our relationship if she finds out i am here. Any idea what to do?
Personally I think you need to take a step back and look at your relationship.
You say happily married.. though also say you like receiving naughty messages to boost your ego.
If you need your ego boosted then I wouldn't say you are very happy in your relationship.
If you are happily married and think this will hurt her then I would be deleting my account. "
This. There is nothing on here worth risking a good marriage for. If in fact you are unhappy, then all I can suggest is you talk to her - I would be cut to the quick to see my husband talking about me, disrespectfully, behind my back, to a bunch of strangers on a sex site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if she is open to the idea really, have you had any meets? If you haven't, you haven't cheated.
You could show her but they if it goes badly the next time 'she goes away' she might not trust you.
Only you know
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Thanks for everyone who gave ideas here.
Some people thougt that i am guilty, some thought i can't use my brain, some thought i had to what i feel...
I don't feel guilty... I like this forum place. Because there is a community here and i like to share my ideas here. I just wanted to learn that what you think about my position.
I like sharing thoughts... Now i feel that i had a bad reputation here by doing that. |
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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago
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If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place?  |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place? "
I saw some "you wouldn't do that if you are happily married" sentences today. I don't agree. Wouldn't I look for more in sex life? This is not a dating site at the end of the day...
There are lots of happily married couples, happily married men and women on this website. Is the only problem about me asking your thoughts? I couldn't understand that. |
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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place?
I saw some "you wouldn't do that if you are happily married" sentences today. I don't agree. Wouldn't I look for more in sex life? This is not a dating site at the end of the day...
There are lots of happily married couples, happily married men and women on this website. Is the only problem about me asking your thoughts? I couldn't understand that. "
You asked for opinions we give it. Maybe it's the lifestyle your happy with not the wife in the bed |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place?
I saw some "you wouldn't do that if you are happily married" sentences today. I don't agree. Wouldn't I look for more in sex life? This is not a dating site at the end of the day...
There are lots of happily married couples, happily married men and women on this website. Is the only problem about me asking your thoughts? I couldn't understand that.
You asked for opinions we give it. Maybe it's the lifestyle your happy with not the wife in the bed "
Please don't think that i got angry or something. It was suprising that people love to critisize about "happily married" point
Thank you very much for your opinion |
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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago
gillingham |
"If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place?
I saw some "you wouldn't do that if you are happily married" sentences today. I don't agree. Wouldn't I look for more in sex life? This is not a dating site at the end of the day...
There are lots of happily married couples, happily married men and women on this website. Is the only problem about me asking your thoughts? I couldn't understand that.
You asked for opinions we give it. Maybe it's the lifestyle your happy with not the wife in the bed
Please don't think that i got angry or something. It was suprising that people love to critisize about "happily married" point
Thank you very much for your opinion "
You're welcome Do let us know if your wife joins FAB if you tell her |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"If I was happily married I wouldn't be here to be honest and if I found out my other half was on this site, he be shown the door (as did my ex-husband in 2009). You sure the 'happily' married and prepared to risk your marriage for this place?
I saw some "you wouldn't do that if you are happily married" sentences today. I don't agree. Wouldn't I look for more in sex life? This is not a dating site at the end of the day...
There are lots of happily married couples, happily married men and women on this website. Is the only problem about me asking your thoughts? I couldn't understand that.
You asked for opinions we give it. Maybe it's the lifestyle your happy with not the wife in the bed
Please don't think that i got angry or something. It was suprising that people love to critisize about "happily married" point
Thank you very much for your opinion
You're welcome Do let us know if your wife joins FAB if you tell her "
Hahaha please don't let her know that i started this thread if you see us in a "happily married couple" profile lol |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"i hope you have success OP. whatever you decide to do..be well and be happy xx
Best message ever lol"
sweet, its not my relationship..so i cannopt advise you...im not going to judge you or tell you what to do..i dont know you or your OH.
i know i woulodnt vanilla date again after being on here..i suppose i understand that this place can change people..just hope that change can work for both of you, in some way x |
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Decide what's more important, only you know your wife, you could come clean and tell her, but then you run the risk of her not believing you are only on here for the forums.
Or you can keep it a secret and then run the risk that she finds out anyway (if you decide to stay without her knowing).
Or you can just delete your account and just remember the good times you had and not tell her.
Speaking from personal experience I was lied to from someone in my past and the wall of trust can never be fully restored as there will always be doubt in the back of her mind.
I do hope you make the right decision for both of you and whatever you decide will be the right choice for you. Good luck!
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Me personally I'd delete profile .u say your a writer tell her u got an idea for a story but u need to do some research ask her if she wants to help then discover a few sites brfore you find fab by accident ask her what she thinks of this site could she see u both on it fantasy/reality and take it from there |
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Don't risk your life for this. Delete it, tell her you you've been thinking about spicing up your sex life and swinging would be an option, and see her reaction.
At least I tried a few years ago. It didn't work out, hence over the years ended up here without her.
You also need to be honest with yourself: are you open to share your lovely wife with the guys here? Because it's a very different to have a few flings here than becoming a swinger!
Good luck, mate, whatever you decide.
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By *rbrandon OP Man
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"Me personally I'd delete profile .u say your a writer tell her u got an idea for a story but u need to do some research ask her if she wants to help then discover a few sites brfore you find fab by accident ask her what she thinks of this site could she see u both on it fantasy/reality and take it from there "
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