Hi all,
I've been here before as a couple and a single guy. So I know the scene and how some view single guys.
I'm not interested in a numbers game just good friends with the added naughty side.
I'd appreciate the more experienced or less experienced words of wisdom about my profile please.
Barry x |
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over a year ago
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"Hi all,
I've been here before as a couple and a single guy. So I know the scene and how some view single guys.
I'm not interested in a numbers game just good friends with the added naughty side.
I'd appreciate the more experienced or less experienced words of wisdom about my profile please.
Barry x"
You're boring mate. Just saying  |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
land of debauchery and kink |
Remove cock pics or try and make them more appealing and your profile text is far to waffly and long I just skimmed it. Blah blah blah.
Good luck but you've been here before so you know the dynamics |
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"Remove cock pics or try and make them more appealing and your profile text is far to waffly and long I just skimmed it. Blah blah blah.
Good luck but you've been here before so you know the dynamics "
Sexy feet  |
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Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
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"Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
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You're welcome  . Confidence is sexy so I've been told. Go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am happy to provide honest profile advice. I will warn you, though, I do not give flowery bullshit. Brutal truth, but unbiased. If you want this, then let me know through your thread.
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Love this woman |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I am happy to provide honest profile advice. I will warn you, though, I do not give flowery bullshit. Brutal truth, but unbiased. If you want this, then let me know through your thread.
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Love this woman"
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"Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
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I don't understand the syntax of the second paragraph...
But just be happy, try to make your profile fun and exciting. The cock pics aren't going to work I'm afraid. |
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"Remove cock pics or try and make them more appealing and your profile text is far to waffly and long I just skimmed it. Blah blah blah.
Good luck but you've been here before so you know the dynamics "
Thank you |
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"Personally I think your profile is a bit long but at least now I know the 'things' on your cocktail are beads!!! "
Thank you and I thought it best remove the pics and cross the beading bridge later lol |
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"I am happy to provide honest profile advice. I will warn you, though, I do not give flowery bullshit. Brutal truth, but unbiased. If you want this, then let me know through your thread.
L"
If I shy away from construction then I shouldn't have asked ?? No problem with advice, it's the pointless insults that serve no purpose
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I am happy to provide honest profile advice. I will warn you, though, I do not give flowery bullshit. Brutal truth, but unbiased. If you want this, then let me know through your thread.
L
If I shy away from construction then I shouldn't have asked ?? No problem with advice, it's the pointless insults that serve no purpose
X"
Is that a 'yes please'? |
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"I am happy to provide honest profile advice. I will warn you, though, I do not give flowery bullshit. Brutal truth, but unbiased. If you want this, then let me know through your thread.
L
If I shy away from construction then I shouldn't have asked ?? No problem with advice, it's the pointless insults that serve no purpose
X
Is that a 'yes please'?"
Yes please, nothing to lose is there. Those who want to take the piss will do so regardless |
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"Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
You're welcome . Confidence is sexy so I've been told. Go figure "
Difference between confidence and arrogance mate, fine line |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
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Who was non constructive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
I've been here before as a couple and a single guy. So I know the scene and how some view single guys.
I'm not interested in a numbers game just good friends with the added naughty side.
I'd appreciate the more experienced or less experienced words of wisdom about my profile please.
Barry x"
I am sorry to sound negative. Your profile text is beige. It gives no indication of what you enjoy, what you can bring to the party or your personality. It looks to me as though you have gone out of your way to avoid alienating any potential market and, in doing so, you have stripped your profile of any interest. |
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"Hi all,
I've been here before as a couple and a single guy. So I know the scene and how some view single guys.
I'm not interested in a numbers game just good friends with the added naughty side.
I'd appreciate the more experienced or less experienced words of wisdom about my profile please.
Barry x
I am sorry to sound negative. Your profile text is beige. It gives no indication of what you enjoy, what you can bring to the party or your personality. It looks to me as though you have gone out of your way to avoid alienating any potential market and, in doing so, you have stripped your profile of any interest."
Not negative but constructive, thank You. Clearly a balancing act between informative and waffle lol. Appreciate it's subjective and if we all felt the same way about what floats our boats then it's a sad place.
Thank you for the time though. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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You're never going to please everyone, so why try? Write a profile that reflects you.
I saw your profile at the start of this thread. In my opinion (not that it's worth much) it was better than your current one. It just needed condensing down a little, as you'd repeated yourself a couple of times.
I'd mention your beading and have a decent pic on public display. It's likely to be a deal breaker for quite a few. It's best to put it out there from the start, so to speak.
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"You're never going to please everyone, so why try? Write a profile that reflects you.
I saw your profile at the start of this thread. In my opinion (not that it's worth much) it was better than your current one. It just needed condensing down a little, as you'd repeated yourself a couple of times.
I'd mention your beading and have a decent pic on public display. It's likely to be a deal breaker for quite a few. It's best to put it out there from the start, so to speak.
Good luck "
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Personally I find untold cock pics a turn off. Yes the odd few but there are other parts of the body that are interesting. My profile, I've been told is too long BUT it's telling guys what I'm about and what I like. That way at least guys know whether to contact me or not.
DON'T big yourself up. Don't say you have a 10" cock - I met a guy at Kestrels who was around 6" and not very girthy yet his profile states 10" and very very girthy. Don't kiss like a washing machine either. Don't think the pleasure is all about you - it goes both ways.
First message to a lady, make it easy going, polite. Not one word or "can I fuck you". Some like that but not the majority of ladies.
Lastly. GIVE IT TIME!!!! |
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"Thanks for the constructive words, will amend accordingly.
For the non constructive of you, I guess it's tough being without imperfection and if your that negative to genuine that's how you get your rocks, go point a mirror.
You're welcome . Confidence is sexy so I've been told. Go figure
Difference between confidence and arrogance mate, fine line"
It's not about me dude |
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"Personally I find untold cock pics a turn off. Yes the odd few but there are other parts of the body that are interesting. My profile, I've been told is too long BUT it's telling guys what I'm about and what I like. That way at least guys know whether to contact me or not.
DON'T big yourself up. Don't say you have a 10" cock - I met a guy at Kestrels who was around 6" and not very girthy yet his profile states 10" and very very girthy. Don't kiss like a washing machine either. Don't think the pleasure is all about you - it goes both ways.
First message to a lady, make it easy going, polite. Not one word or "can I fuck you". Some like that but not the majority of ladies.
Lastly. GIVE IT TIME!!!!"
Thank you and hope my amends are ok, appreciate the words x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That isn't actually the worst profile I've seen on here.
I've seen a LOT worse.
One thing that will go against you is that you sound very inexperienced for a fella of your age.
As I say..it ain't the worst I've ever seen when advice has been asked, but it does read boring and quite bland.
The cock pic you have is not going to appeal to a great many ladies either.
Being brutally honest.
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"That isn't actually the worst profile I've seen on here.
I've seen a LOT worse.
One thing that will go against you is that you sound very inexperienced for a fella of your age.
As I say..it ain't the worst I've ever seen when advice has been asked, but it does read boring and quite bland.
The cock pic you have is not going to appeal to a great many ladies either.
Being brutally honest.
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Thanks mate and prefer honesty ?? |
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