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over a year ago
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself  "
So...are you feeling worse or better than before? |
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself "
Only if you let them after all 99% of them you'll never meet or know in the real world so fuck em |
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I don't mean this in an aggressive way but if its not fun or is having a negative impact on you it might be time to think about stopping. Otherwise maybe view it as a bit of a distracting pastime with no expectations. |
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself "
Hey fella
No one put you here; you put you here.... you are one of 1000s of men trying to get laid (thats brutally honest isn't it); we are probably talking about a 15-1 ration (15 single guys to 1 couple/single female); so... for every 1 person/couple you would like to connect with there are 14 others trying to do the same; if you cannot face those odds; or the sometimes nasty words that come back after you message, then you either need to toughen up or find another hobby...
I know that this is brutal; but this is fab; take it, or leave it... |
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself
Hey fella
No one put you here; you put you here.... you are one of 1000s of men trying to get laid (thats brutally honest isn't it); we are probably talking about a 15-1 ration (15 single guys to 1 couple/single female); so... for every 1 person/couple you would like to connect with there are 14 others trying to do the same; if you cannot face those odds; or the sometimes nasty words that come back after you message, then you either need to toughen up or find another hobby...
I know that this is brutal; but this is fab; take it, or leave it... "
Fuck it I will leave it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are probably talking about a 15-1 ration (15 single guys to 1 couple/single female)"
I personally don't care...but I can tell you it is definitely a LOT higher than that.
It's probably around 40:1..and that's pretty conservative. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we are probably talking about a 15-1 ration (15 single guys to 1 couple/single female)
I personally don't care...but I can tell you it is definitely a LOT higher than that.
It's probably around 40:1..and that's pretty conservative."
I did kinda pluck the figures out of my arse... but the point stands... I think the expectation level of some people (single males/females/couples) is quite unrealistic.. this falsely high expectation can lead to disappointment and the feeling that one has low "worth", low worth damages self-esteem ergo; people get upset...
... if you are unable to ride the disappointment (I don't mean YOU i mean you); then fab really isn't where you should be.... sorry |
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself "
I read that as if you are the one doing the kicking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself
Only if you let them after all 99% of them you'll never meet or know in the real world so fuck em "
Agree fully! Who are view to think they are allowed to judge you or anyone else?! Fuck em! |
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By *uicy jones OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your words and taking the time to post a comment ,
I'm just feeling down today and festering in my own self pity  ,
Got a few things going on and shouldn't of really posted , but did so hey hoe ,,,,
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all your words and taking the time to post a comment ,
I'm just feeling down today and festering in my own self pity ,
Got a few things going on and shouldn't of really posted , but did so hey hoe ,,,,
Thanks again "
Chin up and march on chap... thats the way... you'll be right.. self pity chap; ditch that; I was in one of those last week.... now, fuck it... bollocks... march on! |
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By *uicy jones OP Man
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
"Thanks for all your words and taking the time to post a comment ,
I'm just feeling down today and festering in my own self pity ,
Got a few things going on and shouldn't of really posted , but did so hey hoe ,,,,
Thanks again
Chin up and march on chap... thats the way... you'll be right.. self pity chap; ditch that; I was in one of those last week.... now, fuck it... bollocks... march on!"
Cheers Pauly 
I'll bounce back again soon , just feeling a tad fragile and sensitive ATM , having a crap month all in all , be glad to see October out   |
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I think some people can get a false self esteem from here or vice versa - but, if one is getting any ideas about who they are or their value from a site where they interact with strangers, it's time to take a step backwards and move away and into real life - self esteem should start with self. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for all your words and taking the time to post a comment ,
I'm just feeling down today and festering in my own self pity ,
Got a few things going on and shouldn't of really posted , but did so hey hoe ,,,,
Thanks again
Chin up and march on chap... thats the way... you'll be right.. self pity chap; ditch that; I was in one of those last week.... now, fuck it... bollocks... march on!
Cheers Pauly
I'll bounce back again soon , just feeling a tad fragile and sensitive ATM , having a crap month all in all , be glad to see October out "
oi none of that! don't be wishing no days away ; you have 7 days left of October; turn it around; shit God mad a planet in 7 days (allegedly; other beliefs, pantheons, theories, science shit and all kind of whizzy bollocks exist; I just use this one as an example), think what you can do (he didn't even exist!) what? |
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It's made me more confident! I grew up thinging I was nothing to women. Now I realise I'm only nothing to 99% of women! Haha!
Seriously though, it has made me more confident. I'm able to do my own thing and be myself and get rewards for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chin up buttercup. There is more to life than sex. Not much more i grant you, but still.....positivity garners more shags!
Right....pep talk over....go get em tiger!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chin up buttercup. There is more to life than sex. Not much more i grant you, but still.....positivity garners more shags!
Right....pep talk over....go get em tiger!!"
Gareth Cheeseman couldn't have put it better  ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might be a bit deep for fab but here's some Martin Luther King Jr, says it all perfectly to me:
'Whenever men and women straighten their backs up, they are going somewhere, because a man can't ride your back unless it is bent.'
Cue innuendo but see the point? If you allow people to treat you in a certain way, then they will.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like that sometimes. But I refuse to let a few arseholes keep me down for long. You just have to take it day by day on here, and remember this is fab. Not real life. Men outnumber women on a grand scale, and though there is arrogance in some, the real world doesn't wield the same power for them. Take comfort in that, and jump back on the horse  |
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"Thanks for all your words and taking the time to post a comment ,
I'm just feeling down today and festering in my own self pity ,
Got a few things going on and shouldn't of really posted , but did so hey hoe ,,,,
Thanks again "
Been there and done that as they say. Being down is a pain in the arse , more so if your self esteem has taken a kicking away from fab. Just be yourself.
As a wise man once said conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites "
Well aren't you charming..... |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites
Well aren't you charming..... "
Your profile says you are looking for women 18-99 years...so some are going to be 45...
Also, you cannot travel or accomodate. You have no pics or veris, you have been here 3 weeks and your profile blurb is shit.
Sort yourself out before you critisise others. Who, by the way, are having a much better time than you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
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As I said, sort your own shit out first... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
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How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
As I said, sort your own shit out first..."
What do you mean?
I was only telling the truth lol
As far as my profile goes who cares what my profile is like my friend who i was talking about dosent even have any photos on hers either it dosent stop her getting messages.
The op shouldnt get himself down over this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself "
I dunno. You have to ask those 'some people'. Without research your just speculating.
Is anyone kicking your self esteem? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling? "
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban..."
One can always hope x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites "
Everthing you wrote. I would strike from the record. Because you sound like a twat.
I can't believe anything you say from here on in.
Especially your first line. 'Where you insinuate that you have a friend.  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
As I said, sort your own shit out first...
What do you mean?
I was only telling the truth lol
As far as my profile goes who cares what my profile is like my friend who i was talking about dosent even have any photos on hers either it dosent stop her getting messages.
The op shouldnt get himself down over this site "
As you already said, men vastly outnumber women on here. So, faced with so many mens' profiles to choose from, what, exactly, does yours offer a woman?
Women don't need to put much on their profile, and could still have as many meets as they want... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban..."
Im hardly being rude your the one being rude to me
its only my opinion about this site i wasnt being nasty its only random thoughts going through my head
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban...
Im hardly being rude your the one being rude to me
its only my opinion about this site i wasnt being nasty its only random thoughts going through my head
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Read back what you wrote. You were very rude! Making an assumption that the site is full of ugly people and transvetites.... Then on your next comment stating it to be the truth.. Your perception is just that.. A perception. Unless you have looked at every single females profile on here, you cannot confirm it to be the truth. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban...
Im hardly being rude your the one being rude to me
its only my opinion about this site i wasnt being nasty its only random thoughts going through my head
Read back what you wrote. You were very rude! Making an assumption that the site is full of ugly people and transvetites.... Then on your next comment stating it to be the truth.. Your perception is just that.. A perception. Unless you have looked at every single females profile on here, you cannot confirm it to be the truth. "
Since he hasn't even posted any pics, one can only assume he is either as beautiful or ugly as the rest of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban...
Im hardly being rude your the one being rude to me
its only my opinion about this site i wasnt being nasty its only random thoughts going through my head
Read back what you wrote. You were very rude! Making an assumption that the site is full of ugly people and transvetites.... Then on your next comment stating it to be the truth.. Your perception is just that.. A perception. Unless you have looked at every single females profile on here, you cannot confirm it to be the truth.
Since he hasn't even posted any pics, one can only assume he is either as beautiful or ugly as the rest of us "
That did make me laugh. Fair play! |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Really thinking lately this site really does give some people's self esteem a right kicking by some of the members on here !!! Including myself
Only if you let them after all 99% of them you'll never meet or know in the real world so fuck em "
this post is oh so true fella I feel for you because as a guy I know first hand what site life is like for us guys.
all I can say fella is chin up and stick at it I'm sure at some point you will catch someone's eye if you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was only telling the op whos struggling to pull a woman on here why hes not getting success.
Theres about 100 men trying to meet the same girl as hes trying to.
How is saying the place is full of ugly women and transvetites telling the OP thats why he's struggling?
Don't worry, he'll just keep being rude, and will hopefully get a ban...
Im hardly being rude your the one being rude to me
its only my opinion about this site i wasnt being nasty its only random thoughts going through my head
Read back what you wrote. You were very rude! Making an assumption that the site is full of ugly people and transvetites.... Then on your next comment stating it to be the truth.. Your perception is just that.. A perception. Unless you have looked at every single females profile on here, you cannot confirm it to be the truth.
Since he hasn't even posted any pics, one can only assume he is either as beautiful or ugly as the rest of us "
Lol yes im def no tom hardy and no way am im uploading a pic of me naked or a photo of my dick
Its nothing special anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites "
holly shit Jesus fella what the fuck is wrong in your life to make you feel this twisted and bitter .
you have my sympathy for what ever it is that's wrong in your life and I hope things improve in your life soon so you don't have to feel this way any more . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too. "
This is true. Timing can be very paramount in certain replies some will get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites
holly shit Jesus fella what the fuck is wrong in your life to make you feel this twisted and bitter .
you have my sympathy for what ever it is that's wrong in your life and I hope things improve in your life soon so you don't have to feel this way any more . "
I was wondering how long it would take you to see that haha |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites
holly shit Jesus fella what the fuck is wrong in your life to make you feel this twisted and bitter .
you have my sympathy for what ever it is that's wrong in your life and I hope things improve in your life soon so you don't have to feel this way any more . "
I'll tell you what's wrong...he's pissed off because he thought that by joining here, he would get a guaranteed fuck. Silly boy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too. "
I actually had a good time with her that day i never seen any nasty messages i have to say this site is totally differwnt from the perspective of a woman most times im on here it bores the tits of me hard to even get a conversation and now i know if im talking to a girl on here shes more than likely talking to about 5 differnt men at the same time |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites
holly shit Jesus fella what the fuck is wrong in your life to make you feel this twisted and bitter .
you have my sympathy for what ever it is that's wrong in your life and I hope things improve in your life soon so you don't have to feel this way any more .
I was wondering how long it would take you to see that haha "
morning gorgeous have I ever told you how divine you look in the morning  no well one day I hope to rectify that in the flesh  
catch you later alligator works calling me so I'm off until I've done my work for the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too.
I actually had a good time with her that day i never seen any nasty messages i have to say this site is totally differwnt from the perspective of a woman most times im on here it bores the tits of me hard to even get a conversation and now i know if im talking to a girl on here shes more than likely talking to about 5 differnt men at the same time "
Not every woman. If I'm chatting properly, then it's only to one. I only toggle between them and the forums. Depends on the flow you have going. Though I'm sure this comment will also be overlooked. Feel like I've developed a super power with you... The power of invisibility |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my friend the other day she was showing how it was for a woman on here.
She scrolls the phone screen down to refresh the message page thats how it works for her
Total sausage fest mate it was actually good craic reading some of the messages
id say she got on average 1 message a minute
Theres way way to many men on this site and not enough good looking woman the average age for a woman is about 45 ffs wtf is that all about.
Tell ya what my mums in her 50s id slap her if she was on a site like this
The place is full of ugly woman and transvestites
holly shit Jesus fella what the fuck is wrong in your life to make you feel this twisted and bitter .
you have my sympathy for what ever it is that's wrong in your life and I hope things improve in your life soon so you don't have to feel this way any more .
I was wondering how long it would take you to see that haha
morning gorgeous have I ever told you how divine you look in the morning no well one day I hope to rectify that in the flesh
catch you later alligator works calling me so I'm off until I've done my work for the day "
Ahhh you have me blushing 
Have a great day in work handsome |
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too. "
Exactly!
It all needs to be taken with a pinch of salt!
It's meant to be fun!
If it's not fun anymore then it's time to go!
It's not the Hotel California |
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too.
Exactly!
It all needs to be taken with a pinch of salt!
It's meant to be fun!
If it's not fun anymore then it's time to go!
It's not the Hotel California "
I know a song about that |
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too.
I actually had a good time with her that day i never seen any nasty messages i have to say this site is totally differwnt from the perspective of a woman most times im on here it bores the tits of me hard to even get a conversation and now i know if im talking to a girl on here shes more than likely talking to about 5 differnt men at the same time
Not every woman. If I'm chatting properly, then it's only to one. I only toggle between them and the forums. Depends on the flow you have going. Though I'm sure this comment will also be overlooked. Feel like I've developed a super power with you... The power of invisibility "
Single men get a raw deal on here at least they make an effort to make the site fun to be on.
Tell you what see if i was to get a message from a random woman that made me laugh id love that the only messages i get are the admin couple telling me om banned for 48 hours or getting another final warning
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too.
I actually had a good time with her that day i never seen any nasty messages i have to say this site is totally differwnt from the perspective of a woman most times im on here it bores the tits of me hard to even get a conversation and now i know if im talking to a girl on here shes more than likely talking to about 5 differnt men at the same time
Not every woman. If I'm chatting properly, then it's only to one. I only toggle between them and the forums. Depends on the flow you have going. Though I'm sure this comment will also be overlooked. Feel like I've developed a super power with you... The power of invisibility
Single men get a raw deal on here at least they make an effort to make the site fun to be on.
Tell you what see if i was to get a message from a random woman that made me laugh id love that the only messages i get are the admin couple telling me om banned for 48 hours or getting another final warning
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I'd love to send you a message but I'm 50 in only 9 years and I wouldn't want to giving me a slap - that's not what I'm into.
So I think I'll steer very clear. |
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"I think a lot of "single" lads seem to think that just signing up means guaranteed sex. Then they barrage the female population with messages which get worse as their frustration grows. Then some poor sod whos probably a dencent guy trys to message that girl, but she is already weary by that point. Not just blaming the guys, some couples and fems can be rather off putting too.
I actually had a good time with her that day i never seen any nasty messages i have to say this site is totally differwnt from the perspective of a woman most times im on here it bores the tits of me hard to even get a conversation and now i know if im talking to a girl on here shes more than likely talking to about 5 differnt men at the same time
Not every woman. If I'm chatting properly, then it's only to one. I only toggle between them and the forums. Depends on the flow you have going. Though I'm sure this comment will also be overlooked. Feel like I've developed a super power with you... The power of invisibility
Single men get a raw deal on here at least they make an effort to make the site fun to be on.
Tell you what see if i was to get a message from a random woman that made me laugh id love that the only messages i get are the admin couple telling me om banned for 48 hours or getting another final warning
I'd love to send you a message but I'm 50 in only 9 years and I wouldn't want to giving me a slap - that's not what I'm into.
So I think I'll steer very clear."
Dont worry your not my type anyway the whole slap thing was i dont know what the word is you just want to make me out to be a cunt and a woman beater not really on tbh
I was only trying to cheer the guy up and now im the worst person ever for doing so |
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