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Single ??? are we swingers or not
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would like to know general opinion. Are us single females and males classed as swingers, because as soon as singles become couples they say single people are not swinging and swinging is only for couples, but what about threesomes and such and gangbangs and all that. Are we singles SWINGERS or not xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that any single that is on here primarily to find sex with other couples/singles/groups is a swinger.
Those that are on here with the sole purpose to find a relationship and there are a few, are not swingers.
Steve
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i know of one couple who met on fab and now live together and are still playing so therefor in my opinion they are swingers"
i met patrick on fab and we are still swingling....lol |
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Its an interesting question as the way I see it swingers have developed from couples into a wider thing. So many couples break up these days so its not just a couples thing more a lifestyle. Well that is the way I see it anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its an interesting question as the way I see it swingers have developed from couples into a wider thing. So many couples break up these days so its not just a couples thing more a lifestyle. Well that is the way I see it anyway.
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your a man...you dont see things, or think things.. |
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without a doubt swinging evolved from a couples activity and for me the interest is in the ability to have opportunities to meet and play in group situations . I have done this as part of a couple and ideally thats my aim again in the future , but for now i'm single .
my outlook is the same tho, just my circumstances are different ...im neither looking for dating or infidelity...so yes, i'd say i was still a swinger, who happens to be single at the moment ( so i'm a swingle ) |
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Its an interesting question as the way I see it swingers have developed from couples into a wider thing. So many couples break up these days so its not just a couples thing more a lifestyle. Well that is the way I see it anyway.
your a man...you dont see things, or think things.."
Charming im sure lol 
forgot what i was thinking now  |
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"Would like to know general opinion. Are us single females and males classed as swingers, because as soon as singles become couples they say single people are not swinging and swinging is only for couples, but what about threesomes and such and gangbangs and all that. Are we singles SWINGERS or not xxxx"
Depends how you define the act of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think swinging is more about attitude than marital status.
With singles and couples there are swingers and chancers.
W 
i take my chance wi plenty "
Take a chance on me, well us, but that's not how the song went.
W |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its an interesting question as the way I see it swingers have developed from couples into a wider thing. So many couples break up these days so its not just a couples thing more a lifestyle. Well that is the way I see it anyway.
your a man...you dont see things, or think things..
Charming im sure lol
forgot what i was thinking now "
am sure your radar popped up to remind u |
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Its an interesting question as the way I see it swingers have developed from couples into a wider thing. So many couples break up these days so its not just a couples thing more a lifestyle. Well that is the way I see it anyway.
your a man...you dont see things, or think things..
Charming im sure lol
forgot what i was thinking now
am sure your radar popped up to remind u"
Think it might have been Corrr nice tits! 
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Just my personal view but..
If your a single, wanting to meet couples, your a swinger...
If your a single female, wanting too only meet singles males, your just fucking, like every other vanilla single at a pub/club, except you were smart enough to find a safer hunting ground :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We consider swingers to be a couple willing to share the most precious thing in their lives (their partner)with like minded couples.
There will obviously be those who disagree but thats our basic interpretation of it.
XXXX |
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"Just my personal view but..
If your a single, wanting to meet couples, your a swinger...
If your a single female, wanting too only meet singles males, your just fucking, like every other vanilla single at a pub/club, except you were smart enough to find a safer hunting ground :P"
So wouldn't the single males be the same as the single females?  |
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"Just my personal view but..
If your a single, wanting to meet couples, your a swinger...
If your a single female, wanting too only meet singles males, your just fucking, like every other vanilla single at a pub/club, except you were smart enough to find a safer hunting ground :P
So wouldn't the single males be the same as the single females? "
Yep, but i'm too lazy to type it twice :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We consider swingers to be a couple willing to share the most precious thing in their lives (their partner)with like minded couples.
There will obviously be those who disagree but thats our basic interpretation of it.
XXXX"
Until recently that was our thought exactly however we have softened that approach to include GENUINE single guys and girls who only want to play with couples.
Like Wiggle we do believe that singles only looking for singles don't really fit the bill, hence in OUR opinion they are not really swingers.
There will always be exceptions to every rule but for us swinging is about sharing and in order to share at least one couple will have to be involved |
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"Just my personal view but..
If your a single, wanting to meet couples, your a swinger...
If your a single female, wanting too only meet singles males, your just fucking, like every other vanilla single at a pub/club, except you were smart enough to find a safer hunting ground :P
So wouldn't the single males be the same as the single females?
Yep, but i'm too lazy to type it twice :P"
So if you get divorced you shouldn't swing? Just asking like lol.
Is it less of a pure couples thing nowadays?
Car keys in a dish an old image i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess everyone's perception of swinger is different....
i'm single but class myself as a swinger...others may disagree. I don't thing its a status thing tho..as in single, married, divorcd, those who can't decide.....I think its a lifestyle choice....
my personal view xx |
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Used to see everyone at a swing club as a swinger, untill while sat in a Bristol club I heard 2 singles guys Where one complained at the lack of women that night.. the other replyed "hey it's cheeper than a pro, even at single entery prices"
Kinda jaded at singles reasons for going ever since.... |
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"We consider swingers to be a couple willing to share the most precious thing in their lives (their partner)with like minded couples.
There will obviously be those who disagree but thats our basic interpretation of it.
XXXX"
Pretty much agree with that - but I wouldn't limit the sharing to be with only other couples. But there is a need for a pre-existing relationship to exist between at least two of the people involve. By this definition 1-2-1 sex between two singles is not swinging.... yep I am happy enough to agree with that too.
I don't feel the need to dress up a shag as anything other than what it is... recreational sex.
Am I a swinger - more than probably yes, though I am not precious about it if people think I am or not... it's a handy label I can use to save time explaining. I say I probably am (even though I am single) because... does a trucker stop being a trucker just because they are driving their car? Or are they a trucker who just happens to be driving a car today?
I may not be in a relationship but that doesn't mean I can't be a swinger.
Do I think all recreational sex is swinging just because I am a swinger - do I bollox.
When I meet couples I am involved in swinging.
When I meet 2 couples I am involved in swinging.
When I meet several couples I am involved in a bloody good time
When I meet a guy... I'm having a shag (well usually a few more than one).
If any single feels the need to differentiate the recreational sex (shag) they have with another single from anyone else’s recreational 1-2-1 by making some sort of hierarchy of swinging/non-swinging shagging… then they really should take the plum out of their arse or lose a few inner guilt/shame hang-ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol, can I do that and leave the plum in?
I agree, and frankly couldn't care less what I'm called... I'm just doing what I want to do and that's all that counts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to me that if your looking for long term then it's better to be on dating site...therefor your single!?!
If your on FAB then your probably looking for fun, excitement, NSA etc etc therefor swinging fits better...although, i love swingle title!!
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We consider swingers to be a couple willing to share the most precious thing in their lives (their partner)with like minded couples.
There will obviously be those who disagree but thats our basic interpretation of it.
XXXX
Pretty much agree with that - but I wouldn't limit the sharing to be with only other couples. But there is a need for a pre-existing relationship to exist between at least two of the people involve. By this definition 1-2-1 sex between two singles is not swinging.... yep I am happy enough to agree with that too.
I don't feel the need to dress up a shag as anything other than what it is... recreational sex.
Am I a swinger - more than probably yes, though I am not precious about it if people think I am or not... it's a handy label I can use to save time explaining. I say I probably am (even though I am single) because... does a trucker stop being a trucker just because they are driving their car? Or are they a trucker who just happens to be driving a car today?
I may not be in a relationship but that doesn't mean I can't be a swinger.
Do I think all recreational sex is swinging just because I am a swinger - do I bollox.
When I meet couples I am involved in swinging.
When I meet 2 couples I am involved in swinging.
When I meet several couples I am involved in a bloody good time
When I meet a guy... I'm having a shag (well usually a few more than one).
If any single feels the need to differentiate the recreational sex (shag) they have with another single from anyone else’s recreational 1-2-1 by making some sort of hierarchy of swinging/non-swinging shagging… then they really should take the plum out of their arse or lose a few inner guilt/shame hang-ups."
hear hear!!! but chuffing hell you wore me out just reading that one....did you take a deep breath before typing
and i like plums in me mouth not in me arse unless theres a cock atached to it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ty for all your replies and opinions. But if two ppl get together and say they not swinging anymore they must have classed themselves as swingers while single, now a couple they say singles are not swingers. so i think the name pure silk gave us SWINGLES is good. Thats enuff for me, I am a swingle lol oops p.s. and i dont shag every single man is a bit fussy |
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"ty for all your replies and opinions. But if two ppl get together and say they not swinging anymore they must have classed themselves as swingers while single, now a couple they say singles are not swingers. "
I can say I am not leading the NASA space programme anymore - it don't mean I was before lol
Singles can of course be swingers - doesn't mean everytime they have sex it is swinging .
I'd be sceptical about just how much of a swinger someone was who wanted to stop swinging at the very point when they now actually could swing. Taking a break from the scene for some 'getting to know eachother time' - yeah I get that. Quitting now I bagged me a partner....???????????? wtf? Yet I have seen it time and time again.... usually followed by a post 3 weeks later saying "I'm Back!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ty for all your replies and opinions. But if two ppl get together and say they not swinging anymore they must have classed themselves as swingers while single, now a couple they say singles are not swingers. so i think the name pure silk gave us SWINGLES is good. Thats enuff for me, I am a swingle lol oops p.s. and i dont shag every single man is a bit fussy"
like that ..... swingles......not the only hun I am a Bit picky lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your single and class yourself as a swinger, who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks...it is a label , nothing else.
end game, they will, shag you or they wont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like to know general opinion. Are us single females and males classed as swingers, because as soon as singles become couples they say single people are not swinging and swinging is only for couples, but what about threesomes and such and gangbangs and all that. Are we singles SWINGERS or not xxxx"
I honestly don't think it matters. It's just a label. Call me a swinger, or a swingle or just someone who loves sex who's found a safe and happy hunting ground.... call me whatever you like! Labels aren't important, it's attitude and character that counts.
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