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Why are we single?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Following on from the how long have you been single thread, seems a lot of us are single and not by choice and not loving single life so my question is this, why are we single?

I think it's many things, technology and the rise of dating apps, many people in my age range with handsome face/large penis combos have already been snapped up. What other reasons are there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I haven't met anyone that I want to be in a relationship with

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ain't a looker... up and down of it...

n'er mind eh'?

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

Nobody want's me, cue violin

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By *ni_ladMan over a year ago

Wiltshire

I am single because although sociable am struggling to find any females who view me as a relationship kind of person

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm single because I haven't met anyone that I want to be in a relationship with

Would that mean you're being single by choice, you enjoying it or are you open to the idea of a relationship?

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Its getting too much hard work nowadays

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single as I feel it's the option with the least drama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single as my ex didn't like me !!

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Its getting too much hard work nowadays

And this

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

The Internet makes it easier to meet someone but easier to find someone else. I think it tempts people to shop around more or approach dating with a "shopping list" creating an unobtainable ideal. Meeting someone thru a dating site doesn't involve the same emotional investment as a chance meeting in real life does.

Also certain sites make casual sex easier to come by so some people may decide against seeking a relationship if they can find NSA relatively easily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm single because I haven't met anyone that I want to be in a relationship with

Would that mean you're being single by choice, you enjoying it or are you open to the idea of a relationship? "

Enjoying life as a single but open to the idea of a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of reasons. I split up with my ex and then discovered I was pregnant with our second child so I put all my energy into the pregnancy and our 2 year old.

I said I'd start dating when my youngest was 3. He's 4 now and I have only just started putting myself out there (half heartedly) on dating sites.

However with two kids under 10 and us now living with my mum, I don't hold out much hope. Hardly a catch

Still, never say never

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I swore I would never get with a guy while my kids were at home

So untill all my kids have left home I will remain single, problem is by the time that happens I'll be to old to give a shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single cos I like doing what I want when I want with whoever I want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im single because my husband left 2 years ago and o aint been ready for a new one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm single because I haven't met anyone that I want to be in a relationship with

This... I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's kind of my problem too!

My brain is too analytical, I overthink everything, nobody can lie to me and I come on way too strong if I like someone!

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Single mainly because of my work and the awkward hours I have off and don't think it's fair for anyone to gave me as a b/f with the small amount of time we'd see each other

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By *itzhallMan over a year ago

birchington

I'm single due to lots of things not least because I work night's

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

Better yet someone amazing comes along and you don't have to give up anything

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By *ightfall79Man over a year ago

Dunbartonshire

Married twice and divorced twice (2nd ended months ago) from that I have 5 great kids.

Came to the conclusion now that I need me time. I can't even envisage settling down again.

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By *ostafunMan over a year ago

near ipswich

im single because i love it so many people are in relationships just because they cant stand to be alone,i actually like my life so not going to change that unless someone exceptional comes into it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Odds, lack of perseverance, laziness, diva complex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are many advantages. I am single because I dont want to care about someone else and I can do what I want, bodybuilding and meal prepping takes priority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I've relised that I'm not an easy person to live with. It was the best decision I ever made was to leave my family. My daughter's and I get on so much better now I have my own space and they come round for sleepovers. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am single because this makes me happy! I Am me .. I am free! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Following on from the how long have you been single thread, seems a lot of us are single and not by choice and not loving single life so my question is this, why are we single?

I think it's many things, technology and the rise of dating apps, many people in my age range with handsome face/large penis combos have already been snapped up. What other reasons are there?"

Perhaps caring less about physical attributes and more on what a person is like may help. Imho no relationship will last if built on purely physical attraction.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's kind of my problem too!

My brain is too analytical, I overthink everything, nobody can lie to me and I come on way too strong if I like someone! "

I'm a bit like that so H tends to take over messaging early on, i'm too, why,when,what,where? when all they've said is hello you guys look like fun..Curbed it a not now though hopefully..

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I swore I would never get with a guy while my kids were at home

So untill all my kids have left home I will remain single, problem is by the time that happens I'll be to old to give a shit

Following on from this and the previous poster, I was single for seven years when my children were growing up. I needed the space and time to dedicate to them and to me and my career. I didn't want any emotional issues to come between. After that I turned to fab to get certain needs met, but always quick meets out fi the house. after a couple of long term friends with benefits, I met the OH. I wasn't looking but my kids were teens, as were his, and we had both been out of a relationship for a long time as well as being on the scene for a while too. It took time to 'bump into' a man with the same values as mine, but when it happened, there was no doubt for either of us. Somehow having kids means I didn't want to compromise, its not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The obvious answer is that there's been no one I want to try and have a relationship with, but then the reason I don't Is because I wouldn't be able to go on dates that often as I don't have a babysitter.

Then I think of all sorts like who would want to get in a relationship with someone who has young children. If I was to get in a relationship then my kids are part of me and I worry that not many would accept that/want that, so then I don't bother.

I have been on sites but never gone any further than just looking because I think I'll just be wasting my time, so unless anything does happen I'm going to say I'll be single until my kids are older.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just don't seem to find anyone who fancies me x

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think I have just given up to be honest, single now for 10+ years and in the can't be arsed zone

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By *eliz NelsonMan over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Mainly through choice, but very happily single and comfortable in my own company

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I have just given up to be honest, single now for 10+ years and in the can't be arsed zone

I kind of feel like that now days

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I was quite happy being single , something and I've no idea what changed and I now miss the intimacy of being in a couple the opportunity to share those things,

I've just not met a lady who ticks my boxes and me hers ...it's only a matter of time

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

Apparently because I'm too nice and I deserve someone better and having kids was an issue. Coulda Fucking said that at the start of the two years we were together. Cunt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I cant find anyone hoo I clik with and no one seems to like me enuff to go out with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The overwhelming majority of people who are looking and have been single for an extended period of time, are more often than not looking for something that DOES'NT exist.

It DOES exist, but your representation of it is not something obvious to you.

When you STOP looking, someone will appear bang out of nowhere and will hit you stone cold in the face.

I'm not looking for a relationship as I've just come out of, that ended REALLY REALLY fucking badly.

A relationship, beyond FWB, is the last thing I want.

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's kind of my problem too!

My brain is too analytical, I overthink everything, nobody can lie to me and I come on way too strong if I like someone! "

This sounds exactly like me to be honest. I'm either all in or all out. Sometimes I'd like to be in the bliss of not knowing I'm being lied to for the head space lol I'm really hard work I think and can be quite demanding, very much my way or no way. Not exactly a walking advert for a gf

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

There you go

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's kind of my problem too!

My brain is too analytical, I overthink everything, nobody can lie to me and I come on way too strong if I like someone!

I'm a bit like that so H tends to take over messaging early on, i'm too, why,when,what,where? when all they've said is hello you guys look like fun..Curbed it a not now though hopefully..

That's what I'm like and I don't mean to be, I like facts and information and I give away too much in the early stages, like if I'm conversing with someone I don't create any mystery sort of thing I communicate with people in the way I want them to communicate with me.

But surely the person who is meant to end up with me won't be bothered by that sort of stuff? I dunno!

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

"Apparently because I'm too nice and I deserve someone better and having kids was an issue. Coulda Fucking said that at the start of the two years we were together. Cunt "

More fool him!..

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

There you go

Thanking you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The overwhelming majority of people who are looking and have been single for an extended period of time, are more often than not looking for something that DOES'NT exist.

It DOES exist, but your representation of it is not something obvious to you.

When you STOP looking, someone will appear bang out of nowhere and will hit you stone cold in the face.

I'm not looking for a relationship as I've just come out of, that ended REALLY REALLY fucking badly.

A relationship, beyond FWB, is the last thing I want."

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ok alone...

Better alone than with the wrong person.

But I like a relationship if one worked out.

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

It has been said it seems like a shopping list for some easy to find just what your after and well if your one of the guys who don't fit in then it's easyer to throw you away and find some one more fitting

Some one more hung or taller better looking or better body so it seems to be why spend time trying to fix a guy or work around a guys folts when you can just find a new one

For me now fuck it iam different and iam proud of it rather be happy with how iam then trying to be what others want me to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The overwhelming majority of people who are looking and have been single for an extended period of time, are more often than not looking for something that DOES'NT exist.

It DOES exist, but your representation of it is not something obvious to you.

When you STOP looking, someone will appear bang out of nowhere and will hit you stone cold in the face.

I'm not looking for a relationship as I've just come out of, that ended REALLY REALLY fucking badly.

A relationship, beyond FWB, is the last thing I want.

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode. "

I've been single 10 years and have never been looking but I've still never had any offers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im single because i refuse to be abused, controlled and treat like a circus act

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By *OOM696969Man over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Oh the classic..theres somebody for everybody...how patronising

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm handsome with a large penis,and single,after a 23 year marriage ended a year ago

I'm available??

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

Became single , with child , strived for a relationship , but work and parenthood stood in the way , and now I like my independence and freedom , not sure if I would actually want a full on relationship now as I'm mid mid life crisis , offspring is reaching adulthood and I'm actually content and happy !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of reasons. I split up with my ex and then discovered I was pregnant with our second child so I put all my energy into the pregnancy and our 2 year old.

I said I'd start dating when my youngest was 3. He's 4 now and I have only just started putting myself out there (half heartedly) on dating sites.

However with two kids under 10 and us now living with my mum, I don't hold out much hope. Hardly a catch

Still, never say never

Don't be silly I'm sure you'll make some "fisherman" feel extremely lucky when he hauls in his net.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh the classic..theres somebody for everybody...how patronising

There is some truth to this, but also so many on fab not getting none ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I'm handsome with a large penis,and single,after a 23 year marriage ended a year ago

I'm available??"

Longest for me is 6 year, god knows how it feels after nearly 3 decades

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The overwhelming majority of people who are looking and have been single for an extended period of time, are more often than not looking for something that DOES'NT exist.

It DOES exist, but your representation of it is not something obvious to you.

When you STOP looking, someone will appear bang out of nowhere and will hit you stone cold in the face.

I'm not looking for a relationship as I've just come out of, that ended REALLY REALLY fucking badly.

A relationship, beyond FWB, is the last thing I want.

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode.

I've been single 10 years and have never been looking but I've still never had any offers

See, proves that theory is bollocks. If you're trying to find your car keys they don't just turn up if you stop looking, you have to keep looking for the bastards till they're in your hand again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The overwhelming majority of people who are looking and have been single for an extended period of time, are more often than not looking for something that DOES'NT exist.

It DOES exist, but your representation of it is not something obvious to you.

When you STOP looking, someone will appear bang out of nowhere and will hit you stone cold in the face.

I'm not looking for a relationship as I've just come out of, that ended REALLY REALLY fucking badly.

A relationship, beyond FWB, is the last thing I want.

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode.

I've been single 10 years and have never been looking but I've still never had any offers

See, proves that theory is bollocks. If you're trying to find your car keys they don't just turn up if you stop looking, you have to keep looking for the bastards till they're in your hand again. "

But they are always in the last place that you look.

xxx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's kind of my problem too!

My brain is too analytical, I overthink everything, nobody can lie to me and I come on way too strong if I like someone!

I'm a bit like that so H tends to take over messaging early on, i'm too, why,when,what,where? when all they've said is hello you guys look like fun..Curbed it a not now though hopefully..

But surely the person who is meant to end up with me won't be bothered by that sort of stuff? I dunno! "

They shouldn't be, you just need to find a 6'+ younger me with a bigger cock & your laughing

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

Better yet someone amazing comes along and you don't have to give up anything

Oh gosh yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had this discussion with my daughter and best friend the other week and they hit the nail on the head.

I was always a daddies girl right up till my dad passed away. Mum and dad had a great 38 years of marriage etc, dad treated mum like a queen.

I've three serious relationships but I've never really truely been happy in them.

Then my daughter pointed out to me that maybe I'm single because I've never found a guy who has come up to the same par as my dad. And I think she had a point.

Your probably thinking weird but I think she is right.

Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for someone who looks like my dad. But I'm looking for someone who has the same values like my dad had if that makes sense.

I saw what mum and dad had and I want the same but there is no man out there that can match my dad.

It's hard to explain and put into the right context

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I refuse to compromise .. plus I enjoy doing my own thing

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Nobody want's me, cue violin

That's my 2nd violin woop woop

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By *gentlovedayWoman over a year ago

Tranmere

I've been single for 11 yrs now I think I'd be a pain to live with !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had this discussion with my daughter and best friend the other week and they hit the nail on the head.

I was always a daddies girl right up till my dad passed away. Mum and dad had a great 38 years of marriage etc, dad treated mum like a queen.

I've three serious relationships but I've never really truely been happy in them.

Then my daughter pointed out to me that maybe I'm single because I've never found a guy who has come up to the same par as my dad. And I think she had a point.

Your probably thinking weird but I think she is right.

Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for someone who looks like my dad. But I'm looking for someone who has the same values like my dad had if that makes sense.

I saw what mum and dad had and I want the same but there is no man out there that can match my dad.

It's hard to explain and put into the right context "

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im single because i refuse to be abused, controlled and treat like a circus act

Said the single guy that will meet couples....

Just kidding! No Seriously JUST KIDDING

Would anyone like a knife (turns around)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just can't seem to find the right mix of personality I'm looking for.

Would rather be single though than just settle down with someone who isn't right for me.

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

Im single because I choose to bring both my children up instead.

since saturday my ex has the daughter to look after, will they get on together time will only tell on that one

there has been damage done when they both fall out with each other

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By *itzhallMan over a year ago

birchington

I'm not young but i am free and single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because after many many moons he decided that he wanted Barbie.

But, barbie didn't want him lol

Sex on offer 24/7 despite not being Barbie but, no big squeezy hugs

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

Personally, I've had a blast since I've found fab (second time around I've been on here) and met some amazing people but lately been wanting a bit more .... I'm very happy in my own company but would be nice to find a like minded guy?

(As long as he fully understands who's in charge of the remote

)

I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im single because i refuse to be abused, controlled and treat like a circus act

Said the single guy that will meet couples....

Just kidding! No Seriously JUST KIDDING

Would anyone like a knife (turns around)"

Haha, what i mean is i cant be arsed having to look at a certain thing because someone tells me i should, telling a partner they should this or should that in an aggressive or faked emotion type way is domestic abuse and its a huge problem in the uk

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

"Personally, I've had a blast since I've found fab (second time around I've been on here) and met some amazing people but lately been wanting a bit more .... I'm very happy in my own company but would be nice to find a like minded guy?

(As long as he fully understands who's in charge of the remote

)

I live in hope

You'll be no good for a meet at my place , the dog ate my remote control , god bless his soul

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By *auren001Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Im single because i refuse to be abused, controlled and treat like a circus act

Said the single guy that will meet couples....

Just kidding! No Seriously JUST KIDDING

Would anyone like a knife (turns around)

Dude what happened to you

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

"Single mainly because of my work and the awkward hours I have off and don't think it's fair for anyone to gave me as a b/f with the small amount of time we'd see each other "

This ... working unsociable hours .. as I work in care ....most people I chat to on here seem to have weekends off ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im single because i refuse to be abused, controlled and treat like a circus act

Said the single guy that will meet couples....

Just kidding! No Seriously JUST KIDDING

Would anyone like a knife (turns around)

Dude what happened to you

I seen the light

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

(As long as he fully understands who's in charge of the remote

)

I live in hope

You'll be no good for a meet at my place , the dog ate my remote control , god bless his soul"

Then it'd just be a meet .... defeats the object

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I'm handsome with a large penis,and single,after a 23 year marriage ended a year ago

I'm available??

Longest for me is 6 year, god knows how it feels after nearly 3 decades "

great just great,freedom at last freedom at last

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(As long as he fully understands who's in charge of the remote

)

I live in hope

You'll be no good for a meet at my place , the dog ate my remote control , god bless his soul

Then it'd just be a meet .... defeats the object

like minded guy calling with 2 remotes??

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By *ostafunMan over a year ago

near ipswich

"Apparently because I'm too nice and I deserve someone better and having kids was an issue. Coulda Fucking said that at the start of the two years we were together. Cunt "
love it

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I decided after being married 14years and living with someone for another ten, that monogamy was not for me. 16years on and I am happy as a sandboy.

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

(As long as he fully understands who's in charge of the remote

)

I live in hope

You'll be no good for a meet at my place , the dog ate my remote control , god bless his soul

Then it'd just be a meet .... defeats the object

like minded guy calling with 2 remotes??"

One to wash and one to wear?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm perfectly happily single. I have everything I need. If I'm ever with someone, he'll be someone pretty amazing. I feel these days I have unrealistic expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been thinking about why I'm single a lot recently - as I have been in a few relationships but for the majority of my adult life (apart from between 22 - 32 ish) I have been on my own!

I thought it was because I was fat - but there are many women out there bigger than me that have husbands / boyfriends!

I can only put it down to being a negative person!

I feel like I'm kind of amusing and not that ugly!

But I really don't enjoy idiots and would rather be alone with pizza!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because my wife died 5 years ago. I've not been interested in finding someone to replace her, because no one ever will. At the end of the day though, a guy still has "needs" so i ended up here as well as another contact site.................enjoying myself a lot and have no intention of changing now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I had this discussion with my daughter and best friend the other week and they hit the nail on the head.

I was always a daddies girl right up till my dad passed away. Mum and dad had a great 38 years of marriage etc, dad treated mum like a queen.

I've three serious relationships but I've never really truely been happy in them.

Then my daughter pointed out to me that maybe I'm single because I've never found a guy who has come up to the same par as my dad. And I think she had a point.

Your probably thinking weird but I think she is right.

Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for someone who looks like my dad. But I'm looking for someone who has the same values like my dad had if that makes sense.

I saw what mum and dad had and I want the same but there is no man out there that can match my dad.

It's hard to explain and put into the right context "

It's not weird at all. Your childhood shapes how you have relationships in adult life.

My mum had just turned 20 when she me and her and my biological father weren't together, I've never bothered with him but have heard from various women his age that he was quite the lothario 30 odd years ago, I've seen pictures of him and he was very handsome and spookily looks like they type of guys I go for, very handsome, dark hair, tall, bushy eyebrows! I was close to his parents and my grandfather had an affair and left my nan, his brothers my 2 uncles both had affairs and left their wives. My mother went to Ibiza twice a year and left me with my grandparents. I don't think I have faith in men to be faithful and I like to know what's going on cos I was always waiting for my grandad to pick me up and take me out for the day. I was always staying over some bodies house for my mum to go out so I need structure and to know what's going on. Totally believe your childhood shapes how you are as an adult!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too lazy for a full on relationship

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By *rimo4uMan over a year ago

north kensington w10

"Following on from the how long have you been single thread, seems a lot of us are single and not by choice and not loving single life so my question is this, why are we single?

I think it's many things, technology and the rise of dating apps, many people in my age range with handsome face/large penis combos have already been snapped up. What other reasons are there?"

Never had a girlfriend or relationship yet. Have no idea as to why it just seems so hard to get a women interested. Same with casual sex it is a bit of a worry at times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lack of trust on my part.

plus i don't find i'm compatible with many people as a life partner.

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan over a year ago

Kent

Came on this site n its totally ruined anychanxe of a normal relationship lol . Totally hooked on different pussy on fabs

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I'm single because no one has said "hey sandy would you like to be with me"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had this discussion with my daughter and best friend the other week and they hit the nail on the head.

I was always a daddies girl right up till my dad passed away. Mum and dad had a great 38 years of marriage etc, dad treated mum like a queen.

I've three serious relationships but I've never really truely been happy in them.

Then my daughter pointed out to me that maybe I'm single because I've never found a guy who has come up to the same par as my dad. And I think she had a point.

Your probably thinking weird but I think she is right.

Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for someone who looks like my dad. But I'm looking for someone who has the same values like my dad had if that makes sense.

I saw what mum and dad had and I want the same but there is no man out there that can match my dad.

It's hard to explain and put into the right context

It's not weird at all. Your childhood shapes how you have relationships in adult life.

I agree

I spent a long time being ping ponged round the system, me and my sister were taken from my parents at a young age, and for years we were put in care homes and sent from one foster home to another never spending more than 6 months in any one place and at times being split up for long periods

I believe it's because of that family has never had any meaning to me, I have my children who I love with all my heart but other than that I have nothing to do with any of my family not do I think relationship are important, I spent most of my life fending for myself I'm just used to being alone and having nobody to rely on

Maybe had I been raised in a loving environment relationships would have more meaning to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hooefully not for long been speaking to this lingerie model for a while now just need to find a suitable day to meet up both have busy lives

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

It might also be that I've a spot forming on my top lip..(who'd have thought teenage spots at my age

) . It's one of those deep tissue lumps that you just know won't pop ...

You'll try anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

... I've had a think... it's because I am a cu$t and a Tw@t... I was worried it might be something serious, but the last few hours of Pm's have confirmed the above...

Woot...!

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Single - but I have friends with benefits. I enjoy having my freedom, I have reservations about entering into a full blown thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode. "

You've missed my point...

Someone else kind of made my point a few posts above.

What I'm getting at is, you'll find it in the last place you look.

I'd also say you're probably on the wrong site.

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By *onforming_deviantWoman over a year ago

hull

"The Internet makes it easier to meet someone but easier to find someone else. I think it tempts people to shop around more or approach dating with a "shopping list" creating an unobtainable ideal. Meeting someone thru a dating site doesn't involve the same emotional investment as a chance meeting in real life does.

Also certain sites make casual sex easier to come by so some people may decide against seeking a relationship if they can find NSA relatively easily."

This guy.... Hits the nail on the head!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ahhh I hate it when people say when you stop looking it will happen. I've been single over 7 years, I'm always going to be open to finding someone so can't get my brain into 'not looking' mode.

You've missed my point...

Someone else kind of made my point a few posts above.

What I'm getting at is, you'll find it in the last place you look.

I'd also say you're probably on the wrong site.

I'm not on here looking for a partner. I've been here long enough to know there's nothing on here I want. I just use the forum, site is perfect for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i just want someone i can have regular bareback sex with, who is also good company, who isn't a liar, who isn't ugly, and is needy but doesn't take up all my time. but i don't wanna live with them.

not even sure i want a relationship really.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

The reason I'm single is partly through choice and partly due to circumstances.

It was choice for the first 4 years, then i moved in with my mum to be her carer which made relationships difficult. Three years on i have had a relationship which lasted nearly a year. We were meant to be just fwb but it evolved into more and we fell for each other. He got made redundant and ended up moving away for work, asked me to go with him but i couldn't leave my mum.

He left about 2 months ago now. The right person at the wrong time

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Hooefully not for long been speaking to this lingerie model for a while now just need to find a suitable day to meet up both have busy lives "

Is her name Victoria and is she a secret

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Because...

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

"Hooefully not for long been speaking to this lingerie model for a while now just need to find a suitable day to meet up both have busy lives

Is her name Victoria and is she a secret

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Following on from the how long have you been single thread, seems a lot of us are single and not by choice and not loving single life so my question is this, why are we single?

I think it's many things, technology and the rise of dating apps, many people in my age range with handsome face/large penis combos have already been snapped up. What other reasons are there?"

I'm single because men don't know a good thing till it's gone

Haven't met the right person or right person, wrong time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I class myself as 'single' because I have no desire to be seen as 'one half of a couple'. I'm financially independent, I live with one of my partners *as housemates*, I answer firstly to myself before anyone else, and I decide exactly what I do with my life.

Technically I'm 'solo-poly' which is the more modern term for it - but I'm quite happy to tell people I'm single, but in several partnerships.

And it's all definitely through choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No idea why I am single. Been dating but havent met my match. Im sure its just a matter of time. I do go for personality over looks but there has to be something that attracts you.. i.e humour, a smile, the way they walk etc to begin with.

Rather be single than in a bad relationship.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I class myself as 'single' because I have no desire to be seen as 'one half of a couple'. I'm financially independent, I live with one of my partners *as housemates*, I answer firstly to myself before anyone else, and I decide exactly what I do with my life.

Technically I'm 'solo-poly' which is the more modern term for it - but I'm quite happy to tell people I'm single, but in several partnerships.

And it's all definitely through choice."

You've got a new name but that description and writing style is inimitable. Good to see you back.

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By *artletWoman over a year ago

Kerry

I struggle with the idea of monogamy and I don't want children, its not easy to meet someone with the same outlook.

I also keep an emotional barrier, self protection I guess and add the fact that I can be socially awkward I'm probably a difficult person to date anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Technically I'm 'solo-poly' which is the more modern term for it - but I'm quite happy to tell people I'm single, but in several partnerships.

And it's all definitely through choice.

You've got a new name but that description and writing style is inimitable. Good to see you back.

Still got the old name too.

Still waiting for fab to give more gender options...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"... I've had a think... it's because I am a cu$t and a Tw@t... I was worried it might be something serious, but the last few hours of Pm's have confirmed the above...

Woot...!"

Take no notice my sweet, they just want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im single because im a dress size 26/28.. im a lone parent with no social time to myself.. i am paranoid, im not that confident and have anxiety issues.

i dont like myself so how can i expect anyone to like me..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'm single as it's a simple option - I only have to consider myself, not a partner. No arguments, no difficult situations, no financial issues together and I can travel and go to wherever I want to. OK, there are some shortcomings, but there are many, many other benefits of single life.

And a big one is rest. OK, I have no one helping with chores: but no one creating chores for me. But I can rest as much as and when I want to, so that I'm in good strength to achieve all that I want.

If my partner comes along, that's fine - but I do really love being single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just a fussy git and won't settle for just anyone

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By *oachman 9CoolMan over a year ago

derby

"lack of trust on my part.

plus i don't find i'm compatible with many people as a life partner."
If you take away certain things like trust and compatibility its only so long before everything comes crashing down some sooner than others... physical attributes and sex alone won,t mend a broken heart..

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By *ezzelsMan over a year ago

cheshire and north wales

My job keeps me single to some extent...I travel all over the world ..I'm in saudi as write this...lol..so at moment being single suits me..but is sort of imposed..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a cunt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My job keeps me single to some extent...I travel all over the world ..I'm in saudi as write this...lol..so at moment being single suits me..but is sort of imposed.."

But do you ever look for company whilst you are working away? Or are you ok going months without company/sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because according to my ex, all I'm good for is sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was married once for many years, it ended very amicably. I love being single, have always been a pretty independent person.

I love coming and going as I choose, no little daily compromises. Eat when I want, when I want. Eat beans on toast for 3 days if it suits. After a long shift, I come home to a house that is exactly how I left it. I don't have to make polite conversation. I can stay up til midnight and watch what I want, or crawl straight into bed. Don't have to rebuff advances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too busy for a relationship and I don't want to share my life with anyone at the moment. I'm still recovering from a bad 30 yr relationship too.

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By *candiumWoman over a year ago

oban

All the men in my small town are into football and beer. Not my thing.

Men my age have kids. Also not my thing

Also I don't do the getting close to people- they always stab me in the back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apparently I'm an amazing and fantastic guy but that's not what you ladies want!

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

Because I always end up in the friend zone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

I can relate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

I find it difficult to find places to find people like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was married once for many years, it ended very amicably. I love being single, have always been a pretty independent person.

When you put it like that .. it kinda makes sense.

Still, i miss cuddles, kisses and just some nice big arms around me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

I find it difficult to find places to find people like that. "

Plus, I don't really like the company of men my age or older,which makes it even more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't mind sex whenever I wanted it though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also certain sites make casual sex easier to come by so some people may decide against seeking a relationship if they can find NSA relatively easily.

This guy.... Hits the nail on the head!"

I agree this is true for a lot of people. Personally for me timing has been the issue with the 2 I felt could be a life time commitment.

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I'm open to meeting someone special.

I just feel a bit "paralysed" as I get older. There's a few women I like who move in the same circles. I find I constantly analyse which I like the best though - it means I never try my luck with any of them and kinda wait for that moment when someone amazing I don't know walks into the room.

In fairness, it's because I don't want to mess any of them around. For example, I do like Woman A, but the other day Woman B walked in the room and I my heart leapt (but it'll never happen).

Then there's someone I still think about from a while back - it just feels wrong to embark on something when that's still in my head.

A mess basically

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Apparently I'm an amazing and fantastic guy but that's not what you ladies want!"

No, that's not what THOSE women wanted at that time.

I get told I'm amazing and lovely too. Then there's the 'but...'. It just means that they want to let me down gently when they are telling me that they're just not that into me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because I always end up in the friend zone"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

I find it difficult to find places to find people like that.

Plus, I don't really like the company of men my age or older,which makes it even more difficult. "

It is difficult to find places to meet people like that, especially when you don't really like people.

I also find it very difficult to attract women my around my age... or who are single... or not a bit mentally unstable.

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By *issLissCouple over a year ago

south east

I'm single because when I actually like a guy I go bat shit crazy! It's like I get possessed and I don't know who I am - do not like it at all. I like who I am when I'm single and I don't like who I am when I'm in a relationship.

I don't like living with boys, I don't like cuddles every night, I need my own space and enjoy my own company more than I enjoy other people's. I go on dates and just wish I was at home doing my own thing lol

So it's the single cat lady life for me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Because I got dumped....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I always get you are one of the nicest women I've met......but lol I don't think people want "nice" girls

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

Amen

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

Exactly, and the older you get, the smaller the pool, and the fewer of them I actually fancy! !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single as pre fab days I used to get bored before in a relationship after 7 years or so. A few cases of the 7 year itch! But I choose to be single as I am having the most fun I've had since my teenage years and not just in the sexual context...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find it difficult to find anyone who captures my interest enough or inspires me to care enough.

Exactly, and the older you get, the smaller the pool, and the fewer of them I actually fancy! !

Well, that's made me feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im far too shy and lack self confidence in social situations...yes i can chat away to till girl in Tesco...

But no confidence if i saw some i liked in a bar,pub etc

Guess i big the girl im missing to life myself in Samantha...and she does get treated to some lovely gifts,like a man would treat a special lady too

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

"I'm single because when I actually like a guy I go bat shit crazy! It's like I get possessed and I don't know who I am - do not like it at all. I like who I am when I'm single and I don't like who I am when I'm in a relationship.

So it's the single cat lady life for me

Me too. Exactly that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Kind of have myself to blame the last 2 years or so, my last remaining single friend was taken off the market and so I haven't been putting myself out there, but my other best friend has separated from her husband in August, she's not going back and is hitting the floor running after 9 years of being with him, she's still only 29 so we're gonna start going out again!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was married once for many years, it ended very amicably. I love being single, have always been a pretty independent person.

When you put it like that .. it kinda makes sense.

Still, i miss cuddles, kisses and just some nice big arms around me. "

But that is what I get from here, on my terms, when I am in the mood. We say goodbye after a lovely evening, and look forward to the next relaxed meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single because, Dick too big scares away the girls lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

IM SINGLE BECAUSE OF FUCKING FAB !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ooking for bbwsCouple over a year ago

secret garden chilling, always something to do in the garden

"I am single because I left exes who were no good for me.

I am not going to give up my freedom now unless someone amazing comes along

But also for me it's my medical issues guys struggle with, an when I'm in pain i snap! I'm strong pain killers an there not working this holiday!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm single because, Dick too big scares away the girls lol

Who told you that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My grandchildren would scare away any sane man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm single because, Dick too big scares away the girls lol

Who told you that? "

All the girls my age I've dated haha last ex cried 1st time we got frisky, felt terrible why I like more seasoned women experienced with big equipment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My grandchildren would scare away any sane man."

My personality scares away any sane women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im single because I got hurt bad by my ex and now dont want another relationship.

This life suits me just fine

Its going to take a seriously amazing lady to change that

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By *ohnaronMan over a year ago

london

"My grandchildren would scare away any sane man.

My personality scares away any sane women. "

That's one kind of woman I've yet to meet.

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

I was initially single by choice. Tried a fb set-up but it wasn't enough so then I tried a fwb...that was good for a while but we weren't compatible long term. I'm not sure if I want a 24/7 relationship but a fwb with the right person would be pretty awesome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hooefully not for long been speaking to this lingerie model for a while now just need to find a suitable day to meet up both have busy lives

Is her name Victoria and is she a secret

Lol unfortunately not no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon it's because I'm a little bit insane,but sane enough to know I don't want a woman that's as unbalanced as myself!

This n the fact I'm crap at dating are what conspires against me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My grandchildren would scare away any sane man.

My personality scares away any sane women.

That's one kind of woman I've yet to meet."

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Odds, lack of perseverance, laziness, diva complex."

That ^^^^^^^^ is exactly why I'm still single after 30 years.

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By *lla_maiWoman over a year ago

staffordshire

Im single because i no longer trust a person in a relationship. Been hurt too many times, apparently im too gulable, so staying single seems the only cure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the whole I enjoy being single although I do sometimes miss the companionship and affection.

But I'm still single because I think I'm not really ready to give it up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cause I'm a minger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cause quismodo is better looking than me

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Same as my Undatable thread yesterday, my lifestyle scares most away.

Plus I won't stand for any bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cause I'm a minger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cause I'm a minger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cause I'm a minger

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Because I'm Fag ugly boring twat !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Same as my Undatable thread yesterday, my lifestyle scares most away.

Plus I won't stand for any bullshit. "

My love scares people away!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im single because i no longer trust a person in a relationship. Been hurt too many times, apparently im too gulable, so staying single seems the only cure

i've just bought a book off ebay last week called 'how to spot a dangerous man before you get involved', hoping it has some good insight so i can figure out who is alright to date. expecting delivery on tuesday.

if it's any good i'll make a fab topic about it.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"I'm single because, Dick too big scares away the girls lol

What a load of crap, we have married friends who once we got to know them confided he had a 10" cock & he proved it, been together 15yrs, we'd known them 5 before he had the balls to tell us..up until then you would never have known he's so quiet and meek..

Perhaps a lesson to be learned there I dunno..

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