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How long have you been single?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"3 years... well.. actually 7 years wit a few dalliances in between... fuck I am ugly!"
Positive attitude or I'll get a complex that I've been single so long too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 years... well.. actually 7 years wit a few dalliances in between... fuck I am ugly!
Positive attitude or I'll get a complex that I've been single so long too."
no, no, no.... but I am a bug.. s'life; I am sure you are gorgeous but picky... I am a tart; ugly bugly one... it's cool though, cos we all look hot in a gimp suit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 years... well.. actually 7 years wit a few dalliances in between... fuck I am ugly!
In which dimension?"
Was that a complement? Did I get a complement? Woot!
If it wasn't a complement I am still claiming it, so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 years plus? I choose to be mostly haven't the time same sob story as anyone else and I'm selfish like things my way ...
Rather not have someone, make it work and then in this day and age most can't be happy with what they have! People looks for someone better if something is broken just gets throw away what a shame.
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20 years. Have tried dating a couple of times and have had fwbs but have never got close to finding someone I want to settle with. Have chased a couple who didn't work out along the way too.
I would love to find someone special. |
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"divorced about 8 years , had a couple of relationships with ladies ...last one ended about 3years ago..
I'm looking for a lady to be a more permanent feature in my life..seems to get harder the older I become$ -)  "
Mmmwah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"7 years for me... kinda ready to share adventures with someone now 
So am I it would be nice
We are at our prime so hell yea!!!"
Hahaha we most definitely are  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"7 years for me... kinda ready to share adventures with someone now
So am I it would be nice
We are at our prime so hell yea!!!"
I crossed over into 'all downhill from here' last year.
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"7 years for me... kinda ready to share adventures with someone now
So am I it would be nice
We are at our prime so hell yea!!!
I crossed over into 'all downhill from here' last year.
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Bullshit young lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been single for over 9 years, have dated a few people for a couple of months during that period but we never got round to being in a proper relationship
Last person I dated was nearly 3 years ago now though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't remember when I split from my ex.
We split up but we lived together for a few months after until he found somewhere to live and we continued to work together so the timing is unclear to me.
It was probably the easiest break up ever |
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Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.?? |
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??"
I can only speak for myself and no I would t want a monogamous relationship again id rather stay single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??
I can only speak for myself and no I would t want a monogamous relationship again id rather stay single "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??
I can only speak for myself and no I would t want a monogamous relationship again id rather stay single "
Monogamus relationships can be done either the right way or the wrong way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??"
i wanted a cuckold relationship kind of for this reason. i like the idea of cuckolding someone anyway coz most stuff about that turns me on.
i wouldn't be into a swinging relationship at all though. |
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"divorced about 8 years , had a couple of relationships with ladies ...last one ended about 3years ago..
I'm looking for a lady to be a more permanent feature in my life..seems to get harder the older I become$-) "
Sure does!!!!!
Oh hang on..... what gets harder the older you become???? |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
between havant and chichester |
"I don't want a serious relationship . Just a wife 3 kids and a dog . And a cottage with a thatched roof . Nothing serious "
you forgot the roses and wisteria around the door |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't want a serious relationship . Just a wife 3 kids and a dog . And a cottage with a thatched roof . Nothing serious you forgot the roses and wisteria around the door"
oh yeah and a bit of that |
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??
I can only speak for myself and no I would t want a monogamous relationship again id rather stay single
Monogamus relationships can be done either the right way or the wrong way. "
If you don't want a monogamous relationship there isn't a way to do it "right", you'd be going through the motions and frigging miserable as you'd constantly crave more, so no thanks it's swinging/open relationship or being single for me |
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??
i wanted a cuckold relationship kind of for this reason. i like the idea of cuckolding someone anyway coz most stuff about that turns me on.
i wouldn't be into a swinging relationship at all though."
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"Does anyone think that because we are on a swinging site...that maybe they don't want to go back to a monogamous relationship. Or are they afraid of being hurt again in a permanent one. Or of telling a future partner that you are involved in this lifestyle, that it may scupper any future relationships.??
I can only speak for myself and no I would t want a monogamous relationship again id rather stay single
Monogamus relationships can be done either the right way or the wrong way.
If you don't want a monogamous relationship there isn't a way to do it "right", you'd be going through the motions and frigging miserable as you'd constantly crave more, so no thanks it's swinging/open relationship or being single for me "
couldn't agree more with you.xx |
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I would give up this lifestyle in a heartbeat if I met the right person...it's all become a bit tainted for me. There is more to me than swinging and I'm not really a true swinger anyway...I don't have meets on here and I rarely have sex when I go to a club... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want a man that sticks around
I do believe it's a me thing rather an a them thing I'm working on it "
My ex stuck around, for 10 years after he forced me to divorce him. It was like getting a sticky bogey off my fingers |
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Single for about 12 years. I am single by choice as I do not want the monotonous existence I had whilst married. I have male friends who I have great sex with. I have a career, my house, my family and money in the bank. I enjoy life now to the max |
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"Single for about 12 years. I am single by choice as I do not want the monotonous existence I had whilst married. I have male friends who I have great sex with. I have a career, my house, my family and money in the bank. I enjoy life now to the max"
I'm confused..... |
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"I just want a man that sticks around
I do believe it's a me thing rather an a them thing I'm working on it
My ex stuck around, for 10 years after he forced me to divorce him. It was like getting a sticky bogey off my fingers "
Should have just used a tissue or sand paper |
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"I would give up this lifestyle in a heartbeat if I met the right person...it's all become a bit tainted for me. There is more to me than swinging and I'm not really a true swinger anyway...I don't have meets on here and I rarely have sex when I go to a club... "
me too |
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I've been single longer than I've had relationship...I think the most recent blip gave me a valuable lesson...don't meet someone that has just come out of a long term relationship, don't put up with being spoken to like shit and know my self worth... |
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"I've been single longer than I've had relationship...I think the most recent blip gave me a valuable lesson...don't meet someone that has just come out of a long term relationship, don't put up with being spoken to like shit and know my self worth..."
Oh and don't meet anyone in a swingers club....it's a recipe for disaster |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"I've been single longer than I've had relationship...I think the most recent blip gave me a valuable lesson...don't meet someone that has just come out of a long term relationship, don't put up with being spoken to like shit and know my self worth...
Oh and don't meet anyone in a swingers club....it's a recipe for disaster "
I met my ex in a swingers club as well  - agreed it was a bit of a mess |
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"I've been single longer than I've had relationship...I think the most recent blip gave me a valuable lesson...don't meet someone that has just come out of a long term relationship, don't put up with being spoken to like shit and know my self worth...
Oh and don't meet anyone in a swingers club....it's a recipe for disaster
I met my ex in a swingers club as well - agreed it was a bit of a mess "
Yes it can be but I think that's down to a number of factors and the people involved |
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it. I'm never going back to any of the relationship nonsense. 
