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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle"
then ask yourself how everyone else with one managed to get one?
when you answer that..you'll be further up the road to meeting someone. |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle
then ask yourself how everyone else with one managed to get one?
when you answer that..you'll be further up the road to meeting someone."
Took me 3 days to get my first. Plus I'd meet non verified men, I use other filtering methods and verified to me just means genuine nothing more nothing less |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is an organised no play social in London in the meets and events section on the 5th Nov. There is also a thread about it on the London forum so get involved, you can get several veris on one hit then. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
Canm veries?, although we put little importance to them. Or just go to one of the clubs on here & they'll usually do it..Just dont expect meets to come falling like apples just because your verified.
Just proves your real, doesn't prove your nice
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
"I need to find a way around this lol??"
You can do what I did !!!! Apparently according to someone who was on my freinds list Now blocked  you could make a load of profiles !! Then get then verified , then those profiles can verify you lol !!  what some people say lol
Seriuosly , just have paitience and you will get what you desire   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle"
Pish...we meet non verified users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need to find a way around this lol??
You can do what I did !!!! Apparently according to someone who was on my freinds list Now blocked you could make a load of profiles !! Then get then verified , then those profiles can verify you lol !! what some people say lol
Seriuosly , just have paitience and you will get what you desire "
My God really? That actually makes no sense as one of the fake profiles has to get a veri as does the real profile so why bother as one way or the other, you still need a veri on one of those accounts??! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle
Pish...we meet non verified users."
Not everyone is as caring as you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle
then ask yourself how everyone else with one managed to get one?
when you answer that..you'll be further up the road to meeting someone.
Took me 3 days to get my first. Plus I'd meet non verified men, I use other filtering methods and verified to me just means genuine nothing more nothing less"
as a rule of thumb it's normally a bit easier/quicker for ladies to meet on here just a numbers thing for the most part but yeah, some folk will happily meet unverified people, they must do because first verifications have to come from somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do "
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes you wonder how the first verified user got verified if no one else was verified to verify them.
Lol exactly that is some mind boggling shit"
there were a certain number of verifications given out in the early days by the creators of the site i believe. i did start a thread on it many many moons ago  |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
"I need to find a way around this lol??
You can do what I did !!!! Apparently according to someone who was on my freinds list Now blocked you could make a load of profiles !! Then get then verified , then those profiles can verify you lol !! what some people say lol
Seriuosly , just have paitience and you will get what you desire
My God really? That actually makes no sense as one of the fake profiles has to get a veri as does the real profile so why bother as one way or the other, you still need a veri on one of those accounts??!"
exactly , he was having a hissy fit because I never replied to his messages as I'd logged off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need to find a way around this lol??
You can do what I did !!!! Apparently according to someone who was on my freinds list Now blocked you could make a load of profiles !! Then get then verified , then those profiles can verify you lol !! what some people say lol
Seriuosly , just have paitience and you will get what you desire
My God really? That actually makes no sense as one of the fake profiles has to get a veri as does the real profile so why bother as one way or the other, you still need a veri on one of those accounts??!
exactly , he was having a hissy fit because I never replied to his messages as I'd logged off lol "
Bit difficult to reply when you've logged off, some people are just sooooooo unreasonable! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone."
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified "
Not really sure what you're getting at there. Are you saying people don't read your messages because you're not verified? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified
Not really sure what you're getting at there. Are you saying people don't read your messages because you're not verified? "
As i said at beginning of this topic i find people tend to steer away from interacting with un verified users which makes it hard to secure a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're not allowed to give profile critique. "
Indeed. I don't think not being verified is the main reason why people are not reading/replying to your messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified "
Get a meet with a verified person if you wish to be verified. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified
Get a meet with a verified person if you wish to be verified. "
Erm this is the objective |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified
Get a meet with a verified person if you wish to be verified.
Erm this is the objective"
Personally I wouldn't go mad messaging until you are verified, we have ladies on our friend list who delete messages from unverified sources out of hand. They have been quite shocked sometimes to find we would have been one of those messages, so now once you are verified do you go back through those you've messaged previously or leave it?
It's a conundrum equaling the first veri one in my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle"
Not always the case. Some of my best meets have been with newbies or non verified guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle
Not always the case. Some of my best meets have been with newbies or non verified guys. "
Thats it...sell the dream lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheeky beer or 2 lol this i plan to do
Well, for the last decade, everyone on here was unverified. Don't put that one down to your lack of success. Everyone here is unverified until they meet a verified member.
Concentrate instead on why you can't meet someone.
I am confident with my abilitys to secure meets dont worry about that iam talking about strugling to getting messages read etc due to not being verified
Get a meet with a verified person if you wish to be verified.
Erm this is the objective"
Being verified will not open the door to you being knee deep in clunge.
Perhaps just present yourself in a better light? You know, an interesting and attractive profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems you can only be verified by a verified user but a verified user will not interact without a verify. Its a vicious circle
Not always the case. Some of my best meets have been with newbies or non verified guys.
Thats it...sell the dream lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having checked the Hillingdon social thread in the London forum I advised you to as they have an up and coming no play social on the 5th Nov, I see you haven't made yourself known. Ideal opportunity to get several veris in one go there. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Having checked the Hillingdon social thread in the London forum I advised you to as they have an up and coming no play social on the 5th Nov, I see you haven't made yourself known. Ideal opportunity to get several veris in one go there."
Problem for sum thoe is not everyone can traval a long distance as sum don't drive. Then Thar is thos hoo work and can't just go off wen thay fill like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having checked the Hillingdon social thread in the London forum I advised you to as they have an up and coming no play social on the 5th Nov, I see you haven't made yourself known. Ideal opportunity to get several veris in one go there.
Problem for sum thoe is not everyone can traval a long distance as sum don't drive. Then Thar is thos hoo work and can't just go off wen thay fill like it."
True but its not that far from him. There are also those that have no intention of making an effort. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Having checked the Hillingdon social thread in the London forum I advised you to as they have an up and coming no play social on the 5th Nov, I see you haven't made yourself known. Ideal opportunity to get several veris in one go there.
Problem for sum thoe is not everyone can traval a long distance as sum don't drive. Then Thar is thos hoo work and can't just go off wen thay fill like it.
True but its not that far from him. There are also those that have no intention of making an effort."
I do see your point.
il also add that Thar is a fine line between ......carnt be bothered ! and just carnt do a lot cos of living condishouns , location ect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having checked the Hillingdon social thread in the London forum I advised you to as they have an up and coming no play social on the 5th Nov, I see you haven't made yourself known. Ideal opportunity to get several veris in one go there.
Problem for sum thoe is not everyone can traval a long distance as sum don't drive. Then Thar is thos hoo work and can't just go off wen thay fill like it.
True but its not that far from him. There are also those that have no intention of making an effort.
I do see your point.
il also add that Thar is a fine line between ......carnt be bothered ! and just carnt do a lot cos of living condishouns , location ect."
Some people come up with all sorts of reasons for not being able to do things suggested on here, usually its everthing and everyone else's fault. If people really want a veri that badly then they will have to go out of their way to get it, if they don't then all I can say is, they didn't want it that badly. |
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