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Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok...  "
Lol xxx |
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over a year ago
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"This is what our teenagers do .... not us. I dont think all women do this, just perhaps the ones who can't communicate with their OH ... not sure its always their fault though"
This. I've never been one for outbursts, but my kids do....a bit of understanding and a cuddle goes a long way to someone's needs being listened to.... |
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"Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok... "
Lol xxx"
see you in a bit love I'm going for a pint or two or three  |
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"This is what our teenagers do .... not us. I dont think all women do this, just perhaps the ones who can't communicate with their OH ... not sure its always their fault though"
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"Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok... "
Lol xxxsee you in a bit love I'm going for a pint or two or three "
If only they did this. Xxx |
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Another single guy who's not single
I don't do drama and I would tell you what was wrong.
However, if she assumes you should know then it means YOU did something wrong.
Best way to deal with is is to give hugs, apologise and then carefully try to get her to spill the beans on what it was.
If it is something you didn't know was the wrong thing to do then explain that calmly and ask if there's anything else you're doing wrong.
Once everyone is chilled you can tactfully bring up things that bug you. If this results in renewed hysteria then find someone new  |
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"Another single guy who's not single
I don't do drama and I would tell you what was wrong.
However, if she assumes you should know then it means YOU did something wrong.
Best way to deal with is is to give hugs, apologise and then carefully try to get her to spill the beans on what it was.
If it is something you didn't know was the wrong thing to do then explain that calmly and ask if there's anything else you're doing wrong.
Once everyone is chilled you can tactfully bring up things that bug you. If this results in renewed hysteria then find someone new "
Assume she's found you on fabs, op, or you sent her profile your face pic .... or even, has she found your secret stash of stilettos? |
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I learnt years ago that I would get absolutely nowhere saying "nothing's wrong / you should know" because 9 times out of the 10 they didn't have a clue what was wrong.
Tell someone if you're pissed off, allow them the opportunity to rectify it in an adult manner. |
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"Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok... "
Lol xxxsee you in a bit love I'm going for a pint or two or three
If only they did this. Xxx"
I do lol I cant stand drama if what's wrong cant be said then ill get out the way until it can |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok... "
Lol xxxsee you in a bit love I'm going for a pint or two or three
If only they did this. XxxI do lol I cant stand drama if what's wrong cant be said then ill get out the way until it can "
My marriage mite of suvived if my ex had gone the pub. Xxx |
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over a year ago
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i door slammed once - i was shouted back into the room and then told to leave but quietly this time - i was about 8 and parents had friends round - i still feel the embarassment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a test...your reaction is important here. If door slamming takes place best to keep your distance and mouth shut. Guys you need to sense when it's best not to ask "What's wrong?"."
hell no, do ask her what is wrong. have some consideration for your neighbours.
stupid bitch next door to me spends 4 hours stamping about and slamming doors, sometimes longer.
or knock her out so i can have some peace and quiet, thanks. |
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over a year ago
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F^ck her off??
Stands by for incoming
Seriously my ex did this as few times to test me - she was quite insecure and told me later it was to gauge my reaction. Eg why did i not run after her when she slammed the doors and stomped off?
After 3 years getting increasingly more shouty etc I called it a day.
Adults talk not shout.
Not to say I was perfect.... but I was
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'be been known to door slam back in the day. It's very therapeutic but plays havoc with the paintwork.
I also used to explain what was wrong with me so folk were quite clear as to what it is that they had done to piss me off. The door slam is like the full stop or exclamation to the point i've just made. I'm quite fiery when I get going. The make-up sex was always amazing 
I blame my mum. She once threw a tin of baked beans at me in temper, I ducked and they smashed through the kitchen window and sat in the middle of the car park (we lived in maisonettes).
I don't door slam now I have kids though.
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Same reason there's no women astronauts.
"Houston we have a problem"
What's wrong ?
"Nothing"
But you said there was a problem
"It's fine"
Is there something wrong?
"Doesn't matter"
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"Same reason there's no women astronauts.
"Houston we have a problem"
What's wrong ?
"Nothing"
But you said there was a problem
"It's fine"
Is there something wrong?
"Doesn't matter"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lols, we've all been here guys... How do you/did you deal with your wife of gf when she does/did this shit?
Lols, also this;
"What's wrong?"
"YOU SHOULD KNOW"
"Should I?"
"YES"
"Ermmmmmmm, ok... "
Lol xxxsee you in a bit love I'm going for a pint or two or three
If only they did this. XxxI do lol I cant stand drama if what's wrong cant be said then ill get out the way until it can
My marriage mite of suvived if my ex had gone the pub. Xxx"
its better to get out of the way than to stand there waiting for the inevitable argument to happen. . How many marriages would of survived if one of them just walked away and waited for things to calm down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bullshit this type of crap, u like a world in which folk just say what there thinking instead of playing pointless silly games, if your pissed off then say |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Same reason there's no women astronauts.
"Houston we have a problem"
What's wrong ?
"Nothing"
But you said there was a problem
"It's fine"
Is there something wrong?
"Doesn't matter"
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Love this, just made me giggle thanks x
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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"Same reason there's no women astronauts.
"Houston we have a problem"
What's wrong ?
"Nothing"
But you said there was a problem
"It's fine"
Is there something wrong?
"Doesn't matter"
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"Ill sort it out myself" is uaually the next statement |
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