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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a few.

A crooked mouth,a saggy chin, a lopsided belly.

I'm ashamed to say it's only now at 43 I'm beginning to accept my imperfections, celebrate them even.

Who wants to celebrate with me?

What are your imperfections?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My outtie belly button

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My outtie belly button

That's not an imperfection.

Is it?

Let me get a closer look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My outtie belly button

That's not an imperfection.

Is it?

Let me get a closer look.

look as close as you want, a persons imperfection can be their perfection, its all in the eye of the beholder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have far too many to list but with the help of some nice people on fab I'm coming to realise that just because you see them as imperfections it doesn't mean everyone will and others may like you more for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My boobs are going south

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My outtie belly button

That's not an imperfection.

Is it?

Let me get a closer look.

look as close as you want, a persons imperfection can be their perfection, its all in the eye of the beholder

I've seen outier outies I'll be honest.

I know.

I knew a man who loved a belly on a woman and even tried me to stop losing weight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apart from my weight I have the worst stretch marks across my tummy from pregnancy, and horrible feet, but I don't care

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My boobs are going south

Oh yeah I forgot to mention my breasts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mind is wildly imperfect. And my eyes don't work.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a mole on my foreskin...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Apart from my weight I have the worst stretch marks across my tummy from pregnancy, and horrible feet, but I don't care

I have stretch marks too.

It's only nature and nature is the Queen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a mole on my foreskin..."

Moley mole mole.

Sorry.

Austin Powers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a mole on my foreskin...

Moley mole mole.

Sorry.

Austin Powers."

MOLE MOLE MOLE!

yeah baby

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My mind is wildly imperfect. And my eyes don't work. "

Oh yeah.

I should maybe mention my errant, erratic mind.

Hmmm.

Damn.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let your imperfections shine, and be proud because its all part of who you are.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?"

Bet I can beat you

Scars on a woman aren't as sexy as scars on a man, but I'm so used to mine, they don't make me any less confident

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm ugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Bet I can beat you

Scars on a woman aren't as sexy as scars on a man, but I'm so used to mine, they don't make me any less confident "

scars are sexy in my eyes,especially on you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Bet I can beat you

Scars on a woman aren't as sexy as scars on a man, but I'm so used to mine, they don't make me any less confident

scars are sexy in my eyes,especially on you xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let your imperfections shine, and be proud because its all part of who you are.....

It's liberating.

There's a poem by a Canadian poet called Shane Koyczan.

I'll need to look it up.

It's powerfully enticing in its description of the ordinary you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Bet I can beat you

Scars on a woman aren't as sexy as scars on a man, but I'm so used to mine, they don't make me any less confident "

I can't see mine, plus it was from an operation to improve me so not an imperfection, more an upgrade!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive known alot of women who hate their scars and stretch marks, i always tell them their just the signs that they brought life to the world, without these you wouldn't have some thing so beautiful in your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ive known alot of women who hate their scars and stretch marks, i always tell them their just the signs that they brought life to the world, without these you wouldn't have some thing so beautiful in your life

Reminds me of Shirley Valentine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mine is a bit of a squidgy belly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My mind is wildly imperfect. And my eyes don't work.

Oh yeah.

I should maybe mention my errant, erratic mind.

Hmmm.

Damn."

Keeps things interesting at least

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I have a few too - some wrinkles, eyes that aren't sure if they're green, my arse is a little big, skin tone that's pale and sometimes get eczema on legs, wonky nose a somewhat crooked tooth - I could go on.

But it is better to accept all with grace, including others' bits and bobs. There's a heart in all of us.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I love all my imperfections as they show the journey I have been on to get here today

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My mind is wildly imperfect. And my eyes don't work.

Oh yeah.

I should maybe mention my errant, erratic mind.

Hmmm.

Damn.

Keeps things interesting at least"

That's one adjective.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm short, bald, false teeth, bad bo, smelly, unfashionable and have a tiny cock.... But hey I'm a millionaire... Who's playing hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have far too many to list but with the help of some nice people on fab I'm coming to realise that just because you see them as imperfections it doesn't mean everyone will and others may like you more for them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I love all my imperfections as they show the journey I have been on to get here today

Hurrah!

Good morning!

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I have a horrible scar on my stomach that looks like a fanny..

It's the reason why I will never get involved in group sex.. It could all end up going wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm short, bald, false teeth, bad bo, smelly, unfashionable and have a tiny cock.... But hey I'm a millionaire... Who's playing hehe

How many millions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a horrible scar on my stomach that looks like a fanny..

It's the reason why I will never get involved in group sex.. It could all end up going wrong!!

ha ha ha class I love it pissing myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?"

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

some journeys are not to be repeated though x

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By *emplarWarriorMan over a year ago

Nottingham

I have a split uvula that looks like a snakes tongue

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

some journeys are not to be repeated though x"

Well unless you can recycle your carcass.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The beer belly definitely needs to go on me but struggle to find the time or energy to do anything about it. Also I'm blind d as a bat .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My mind is wildly imperfect. And my eyes don't work.

Oh yeah.

I should maybe mention my errant, erratic mind.

Hmmm.

Damn.

Keeps things interesting at least

That's one adjective. "

It is indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm ugly

This ^

I'm fairly happy with the neck down. Could do with toning a bit here and maybe adding a bit of muscle there but neck up is where I've always been unhappiest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reminds me of Shirley Valentine.

Yes that scene popped in to my head too, although I was going to say something similar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

some journeys are not to be repeated though x

Well unless you can recycle your carcass."

I meant from how the scars got there,is a journey not to be repeated x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm ugly

I have known as lot of people in my life and ugly is only on the inside.

Cheesy but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

some journeys are not to be repeated though x

Well unless you can recycle your carcass.

I meant from how the scars got there,is a journey not to be repeated x

No, no reversing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Reminds me of Shirley Valentine.

Yes that scene popped in to my head too, although I was going to say something similar. "

I remember watching that and thinking "I'll never have stretchmarks"

Eejit.

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By *ureTemptationWoman over a year ago

Off the grid

My body is pretty fucked. And that's before I started swinging.

I could write a whole list but instead I'll stick with "I'm mildly deranged".

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"I love all my imperfections as they show the journey I have been on to get here today

Hurrah!

Good morning! "

Mawning sexy lady xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We should always see the true beauty of some one.....thats what should shine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where do I start?

Are we allowed a continuation sheet if I run out of my word limit on here?

As the OP says you have to accept your imperfections - many of mine I can do absolutely nothing about, and those that I can I do try. Now and then. Until I lapse. Then it's my own fault.

So criticise me for my imperfections that are within my control - but accept those that are outside my control.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rough as fuck hands from work n big lugs,apart from that I'm perfect!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't really think of them as imperfections but the things on my body that are outside of what other people call normal are a very hairy chin, odd looking feet and scars

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Where do I start?

Are we allowed a continuation sheet if I run out of my word limit on here?

As the OP says you have to accept your imperfections - many of mine I can do absolutely nothing about, and those that I can I do try. Now and then. Until I lapse. Then it's my own fault.

So criticise me for my imperfections that are within my control - but accept those that are outside my control."

Hush.... is it dessert time yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where do I start?

Are we allowed a continuation sheet if I run out of my word limit on here?

As the OP says you have to accept your imperfections - many of mine I can do absolutely nothing about, and those that I can I do try. Now and then. Until I lapse. Then it's my own fault.

So criticise me for my imperfections that are within my control - but accept those that are outside my control.

Hush.... is it dessert time yet?"

who wants puddin lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where do I start?

Are we allowed a continuation sheet if I run out of my word limit on here?

As the OP says you have to accept your imperfections - many of mine I can do absolutely nothing about, and those that I can I do try. Now and then. Until I lapse. Then it's my own fault.

So criticise me for my imperfections that are within my control - but accept those that are outside my control.

Hush.... is it dessert time yet?"

Tick tock! I hope it's creamy ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Saggy belly, with stretch marks.

Hips too wide.

Bum too big.

Breasts beginning to sag.

Hate my feet.

Disordered mind.

Irrational at times.

Clumsy.... To name a few. But I accept my flaws, they are what make me who I am, and without them, I wouldn't be able to recognise my good points, and appreciate them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My biggest imperfection is my self-perceived image of myself. My body issues, intelligence issues, wit issues etc, and the resulting perpetual need to post in a forum as a result, in order to get attention as I can't seem to self-satisfy (no smirking) my craving for adoration and being accepted.

It's true. Please love me!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us swinging is funnily enough part of the reason we've dealt with our imperfections better -seeing everybody else just getting on with it is inspiring.

Although my malfunctioning brain is still something difficult to deal with lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Saggy belly, with stretch marks.

Hips too wide.

Bum too big.

Breasts beginning to sag.

Hate my feet.

Disordered mind.

Irrational at times.

Clumsy.... To name a few. But I accept my flaws, they are what make me who I am, and without them, I wouldn't be able to recognise my good points, and appreciate them

You sound great.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a nasty scar on my back from an operation?

Scars are a map on the human body.

A journey.

some journeys are not to be repeated though x

Well unless you can recycle your carcass.

I meant from how the scars got there,is a journey not to be repeated x

No, no reversing. "

ha ha ha ok x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fat

Very saggy boobs

Spotty bum

Birthmark

Surgery scars

Suffer with nightmarish PMT that may or may not be peri menopausal

Suffer with depression on and off

Painfully shy

Other than that i'm a dream

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My biggest imperfection is my self-perceived image of myself. My body issues, intelligence issues, wit issues etc, and the resulting perpetual need to post in a forum as a result, in order to get attention as I can't seem to self-satisfy (no smirking) my craving for adoration and being accepted.

It's true. Please love me!!

Well, to be fair I feel a lot of women have these issues.

Maybe in time you'll see what others do.

A vivacious, intelligent, funny beautiful woman.

Oh God I'm turning sycophantic.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

i'm naturally a hairy man and want generally to be a smooth girl- thank God for waxing

Other than that hat 'i'm practically perfect in every way' hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's true. Please love me!!

Well, to be fair I feel a lot of women have these issues.

Maybe in time you'll see what others do.

A vivacious, intelligent, funny beautiful woman.

Oh God I'm turning sycophantic.

Total

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am only just accepting all of mine, there are a few...

Lopsided smile - have a scar in my smile line from a misadventure as a child so one side is slightly more pulled than the other.

An over bite - a head brace was not for me in my teens so I still have it, just sneakily covered by a beard these days

Burn scars on my left shoulder - another misadventure as a child and a tea service

My right eye is slightly smaller than my left, you probably wouldn't notice, but I do

Some other scars on my left arm from a misguided attempt to deal problems in my teens

Little scar in my eyebrow - people think I shave it in, I don't

So a few I guess, but they are part of me so I accept them, and most have a good story behind them and I love a good story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's true. Please love me!!

Well, to be fair I feel a lot of women have these issues.

Maybe in time you'll see what others do.

A vivacious, intelligent, funny beautiful woman.

Oh God I'm turning sycophantic.

Total

Yeah I know.

Fuck sake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fat

Very saggy boobs

Spotty bum

Birthmark

Surgery scars

Suffer with nightmarish PMT that may or may not be peri menopausal

Suffer with depression on and off

Painfully shy

Other than that i'm a dream

Well we could be sisters apart from the shy part!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im actually quite happy with myself.

Apart from..

I wouldn't mind a slightlier buff body.

Better eyesight.

Happy being bald, but aware its not everyones cup o tea.

Oh and I'd love more tats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few.

A crooked mouth,a saggy chin, a lopsided belly.

I'm ashamed to say it's only now at 43 I'm beginning to accept my imperfections, celebrate them even.

Who wants to celebrate with me?

What are your imperfections? "

You're lovely as you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few.

A crooked mouth,a saggy chin, a lopsided belly.

I'm ashamed to say it's only now at 43 I'm beginning to accept my imperfections, celebrate them even.

Who wants to celebrate with me?

What are your imperfections? "

I broke a few ribs so my chest is not straight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's true. Please love me!!

Well, to be fair I feel a lot of women have these issues.

Maybe in time you'll see what others do.

A vivacious, intelligent, funny beautiful woman.

Oh God I'm turning sycophantic.

It's sycophantic if you aren't sincere......otherwise it's just a compliment. ....or arse licking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's true. Please love me!!

Well, to be fair I feel a lot of women have these issues.

Maybe in time you'll see what others do.

A vivacious, intelligent, funny beautiful woman.

Oh God I'm turning sycophantic.

It's sycophantic if you aren't sincere......otherwise it's just a compliment. ....or arse licking

Well it's sincere so that's a relief!

Phew.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and my imperfections are far too many to list here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and my imperfections are far too many to list here."

Wimp.

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By *imnherx69Couple over a year ago

county durham

I am imperfect from head to toes but once I've had a few vodkas I'm full of confidence

Vicky

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By *rKinkedKuntMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Too many to list imo. My biggest one used to be my build. Got to me loads in my 20s been very slim. Tried nutritionists, hard regimes and just couldn't really gain enough weight. Just ended up with a gut regardless of how much work I did in the gym.

I've now accepted its just me and the way I'm meant to be. Much more relaxed now and hopefully it shows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have a few.

A crooked mouth,a saggy chin, a lopsided belly.

I'm ashamed to say it's only now at 43 I'm beginning to accept my imperfections, celebrate them even.

Who wants to celebrate with me?

What are your imperfections?

I broke a few ribs so my chest is not straight.

Ouch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am only just accepting all of mine, there are a few...

Lopsided smile - have a scar in my smile line from a misadventure as a child so one side is slightly more pulled than the other.

An over bite - a head brace was not for me in my teens so I still have it, just sneakily covered by a beard these days

Burn scars on my left shoulder - another misadventure as a child and a tea service

My right eye is slightly smaller than my left, you probably wouldn't notice, but I do

Some other scars on my left arm from a misguided attempt to deal problems in my teens

Little scar in my eyebrow - people think I shave it in, I don't

So a few I guess, but they are part of me so I accept them, and most have a good story behind them and I love a good story."

Well if it's any use, I can perhaps study these scars and other interesting things to confirm them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apart from my weight I have the worst stretch marks across my tummy from pregnancy, and horrible feet, but I don't care

I have stretch marks too.

It's only nature and nature is the Queen. "
oh these are particularly unnatural ones, but I don't mind them anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Apart from my weight I have the worst stretch marks across my tummy from pregnancy, and horrible feet, but I don't care

I have stretch marks too.

It's only nature and nature is the Queen. oh these are particularly unnatural ones, but I don't mind them anymore

Good!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a huge imperfection, it's about 5'8 with big muscles and a beard and it's called Templar

Tease

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Too many to list imo. My biggest one used to be my build. Got to me loads in my 20s been very slim. Tried nutritionists, hard regimes and just couldn't really gain enough weight. Just ended up with a gut regardless of how much work I did in the gym.

I've now accepted its just me and the way I'm meant to be. Much more relaxed now and hopefully it shows. "

and happier for it.

Fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Japan they have a phrase that represents and celebrates aesthetic imperfection, wabi-sabi.

It celebrates asymmetry, roughness and simplicity whilst appreciating the ingenuous integrity of natural objects.

I think it's very apt here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have a split uvula that looks like a snakes tongue

Wow.

What does the uvula actually do?

I had an infection in my uvula causing it to swell.

That was unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In Japan they have a phrase that represents and celebrates aesthetic imperfection, wabi-sabi.

It celebrates asymmetry, roughness and simplicity whilst appreciating the ingenuous integrity of natural objects.

I think it's very apt here."

This is why I like talking to you.

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

When I was younger, I started to grow a boon on my right hand side. If just joined the army, so communal living, no private space (except the toilet). I got very self conscious about it and it took me years to feel comfortable about it.

In my late 20's, it became painful so it was removed. I now have a debt in my chest which is even more noticable than the the lump but this doesn't bother me one not, even though it looks odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a huge imperfection, it's about 5'8 with big muscles and a beard and it's called Templar

Tease

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op. as much as I can see imperfections in people, and they exist as we see them, that's why I listed what I think mine is.

There what make us. Those little touches that attract. A persons smile has me every time. Especially when s beautiful woman is wearing that smile.