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Ladies, would you pay for sex?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its too easy to get sex without paying for it. However, if I couldn't find someone who would have sex with me, and there was a really attractive guy who would sleep with me for money, then yeah, I would pay for it.   |
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Having never been in that situation I have no idea. I doubt it tho, as I only have sex with people I connect with on a mental level as well as a physical one, and that can't be gauged if you're paying for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story 
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol "
So do women... If we know what we're doing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
So do women... If we know what we're doing "
True true I can see that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All women could get a fuck when they want lol.
We can,but that's not what he asked"
That is right. I reckon if paying they would get the one they wanted a lot quicker and without the drama lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a consideration
1pence? i'll even throw in a cuppa for free 
Who is tempted to take up his kind offer? "
my inbox has never been so busy
#sarcasm |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol "
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date... |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"To compare like with like the question should be women would you pay for sex if their was a chance the person was trafficked and abused?"
definitely no..obviously.safe, sane and consensual all the way here....with whomever...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."
However, now take another 4 years of walking up to guys asking of they want NSA sex and you'll have a good percentage agreeing to your offer.
You may have not been looking for it, but it doesn't mean it couldn't have happened if you wanted it to |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...
However, now take another 4 years of walking up to guys asking of they want NSA sex and you'll have a good percentage agreeing to your offer.
You may have not been looking for it, but it doesn't mean it couldn't have happened if you wanted it to "
really? im kind of shy about approaching men in vanilla world..i think the idea of them, in their pair of hot boots and nice ass in their two tone combat work trousers. is probably more kinky, than what they would be, in the bedroom...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Have done in the past several times. Wouldn't hesitate to do it again in the future. (Have someone booked in for next month actually, I'm looking forward to seeing him again.) |
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I wonder if this is the opposite situation to the simillar thread also running for the men..
I wonder how, firstly, women on this forum, and secondly, women think society in general would feel about their paying for sex, given the previous comments that any woman can get a shag anytime.
Would there be a view that, all other things being equal, this actually empowered women to make a choice, and would remove the risk of critisicism of slaggish behaviour from other women?
And how does this compare/contradict the more commonly held belief that men would be somehow dirty/desperate if they did the same?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a consideration
consider this,ill charge you nothing xx"
Whenever I say to people that I would pay for sex, random blokes offer it to me 'for nothing', missing the point that they're not the kind of person I would want to pay to have sex with, and therefore are just part of the reason I am paying for it... |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I wonder if this is the opposite situation to the simillar thread also running for the men..
I wonder how, firstly, women on this forum, and secondly, women think society in general would feel about their paying for sex, given the previous comments that any woman can get a shag anytime.
Would there be a view that, all other things being equal, this actually empowered women to make a choice, and would remove the risk of critisicism of slaggish behaviour from other women?
And how does this compare/contradict the more commonly held belief that men would be somehow dirty/desperate if they did the same?
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some women have issues, some men have issues and so do some couples, from my perception...people if they want. will find a way to dislike you. im like marmite, you love me or hate me, rarely is it 'shes ok'..but what other people say. think or perceive me as, is really not my business. i live with myself in the mirror everyday, quite happily..the labels people place upon you tell you more about that person, than the person they wish to label...usually that truth comes out about them eventually, meanwhile, i carry on being happy to be me, live and let live x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too bloody right I would, if it got to a point that I couldnt attract the people I want to have sex with then yes I totally would as I couldn't go with out sex. Luckily I have Paul and other guys I can call on for my needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's been those old school chanel 5 documentaries about male escorts. Apparently lots do
Clients said:
- conveniece as too busy with work
- single mum 3 kids no time to herself
- want someone really really good looking
- sometimes want something discreet quick and easy
- works away and always in hotels so may pay for company (meal and hotel sex)
- others were shy or insecure or same as anyone else really
- others were married and this was quick and discreet
However it won't even be a fraction of men paying for it. And for men, probably for the same reasons. |
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I once paid for a man to spend the night with me in a posh hotel, so it is pretty much the same as paying for sex. At ten thirty he said he was tired and went to sleep. I was fuming. At least if I had paid for sex I could have expected to be left satisfied!
Sally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with this posted in the "Men, would you pay for sex?" Thread:
We all pay for sex already, whether it's financially or emotionally. "
I don't actually agree with that. I don't pay financially or emotionally for most of the sex I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."
If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you will find women often pay for sex or love, there seems to be quite a market for con men to use sex to drain women's bank accounts, particularly foreign waiters I understand.
So yes some do. others don't. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...
If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move "
i made the move i went to a club on my own, when i was ready... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date...
If you'd approached a man, perhaps the situation would have been different. Not only men need to make the first move i made the move i went to a club on my own, when i was ready... "
Going a while without it, you must have had so much fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem is OP this is reality. Any woman can get a shag... True story
It's the men who have to put in the hard graft though lol
dont think this is the case at all..'any woman can get a shag'...in my four years of celibacy ( my choice) i went walking around in the world, i didn't see any men approaching me for sex or even a date..."
But thats the point- you chose to be celibate, and the avoided the body language and situations which would lead to sex.
If you were looking you would been aproached. And even if not aproached you could still ask and get a one night with anything. Men practically need to beg or be super hot.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm available and also very cheap.....fill my car with petrol,get us some vodka n irn bru n feed me n I'm all yours until morning!
Oh, go on then. The larder's overstocked  "
Should've realised I was opening myself up for meat n two veg puns there!  |
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