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"Today, 19th October, is Evaluate Your Life Day. Apparently.
I apply the CARD method to quality and evaluations:
Consistent
Accessible
Recent
Dated
How does your Fab life rate?
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. I think I'll use the FAF method to evaluate our fab life.......
Not what your thinking 
Fabulous
And
Fun
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Today, 19th October, is Evaluate Your Life Day. Apparently.
I apply the CARD method to quality and evaluations:
Consistent
Accessible
Recent
Dated
How does your Fab life rate?
. I think I'll use the FAF method to evaluate our fab life.......
Not what your thinking
Fabulous
And
Fun
Mrs blue eyes "
Faf about as much as you like.
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"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
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Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what 
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard"
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
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"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
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That's an interesting idea, I missed out on attending your 50th and I was sorry to have done so. I'm not sure if a club party would be appropriate so maybe your idea is a goer
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
That's an interesting idea, I missed out on attending your 50th and I was sorry to have done so. I'm not sure if a club party would be appropriate so maybe your idea is a goer
Beard"
Ooo, now I have to try and work out who you are. The Fab party at Jaydees was great, but I had it a few weeks after my actual birthday. I think you'd have lots of people there and you'll really throw yourself into your fabulous forties.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Work in progress
Always room for improvement"
My primary school head started every assembly with, Good better best; never let it rest until your good is better and your better is best.
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My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.
Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.
Eating every 2hrs
Studying spanish all day
Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day
Being on the fab forum
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"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
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You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.
How does the CARD thing work? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Not sure I want to evaluate my life. I'm feeling depressed enough as it is today"
It might be a good thing to do.
Take a serious look and list all the good things. Be honest about when something has made you smile or feel happy. Then just read the list. It's all part of your life too.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.
Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.
Eating every 2hrs
Studying spanish all day
Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day
Being on the fab forum
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Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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I'm alive, it's great!
One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.
If I do that I'll pass out.
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Have someone there to give you oral... sorry, I mean mouth to mouth.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.
How does the CARD thing work?"
Look at how consistent you are. Are there moments when you act or feel differently and in ways that fall below what you expect/want for yourself? What can you do to be more consistent?
Accessible is open to interpretation, depending on what you are looking for. Are you open to new things? Are you open with those around you or are you blocking people from getting into your life?
Recent is about keeping things in the present and up to date. It can be about what you are putting off doing and/or about dwelling on the past and not letting go.
Dated is about knowing when things have happened/need to happen. I use this one for my sexual health checks, amongst other things.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My life hasn't gone how it was projected in primary school.
But, in letting myself down, I have helped a lot of people up. So, I'm ok with it.
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I'm not sure how my life was projected in primary school.
It doesn't sound like you've let yourself down at all.
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"I'm 40 next year, it's not like I can get any more introspective and maudlin about my life already
Beard
Forty is FAB U LOUS!
Ha! I'm feeling very ambivalent towards it. Feel like I should do something epic to mark it but really not sure what
Beard
I did 50 things I'd never done before for my fiftieth. Perhaps do one thing for each decade?
You inspired me to do things I don't normally do and I'm having a blast.
How does the CARD thing work?
Look at how consistent you are. Are there moments when you act or feel differently and in ways that fall below what you expect/want for yourself? What can you do to be more consistent?
Accessible is open to interpretation, depending on what you are looking for. Are you open to new things? Are you open with those around you or are you blocking people from getting into your life?
Recent is about keeping things in the present and up to date. It can be about what you are putting off doing and/or about dwelling on the past and not letting go.
Dated is about knowing when things have happened/need to happen. I use this one for my sexual health checks, amongst other things.
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I'm alive, it's great!
One breath at a time. Make some of them really big gaspy ones.
If I do that I'll pass out.
Have someone there to give you oral... sorry, I mean mouth to mouth.
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Hang on!
I'll be back.
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"It hasn't always gone to plan, but all things considered, I've been blessed.
Twenty working days before I retire. Looking forward to being a hands on grandma and travel the globe.
It's all good! "
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It hasn't always gone to plan, but all things considered, I've been blessed.
Twenty working days before I retire. Looking forward to being a hands on grandma and travel the globe.
It's all good! "
That's put a big smile on my face and a little envy in my eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.
Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.
Eating every 2hrs
Studying spanish all day
Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day
Being on the fab forum
Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?
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No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.
Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.
Eating every 2hrs
Studying spanish all day
Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day
Being on the fab forum
Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?
No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you?"
I like my routines too, but they are less rigid than yours.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Interesting.
It rates as interesting.
Reading your 'CARD' system, I am definitely a work in progress, this has given me food for thought, thanks OP xx"
Interesting is usually better than dull. Not always, but usually.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My life day looks the same mostly everyday as bodybuilding is the priority.
Was working 4hrs this morning. I go to the gym evey other day.
Eating every 2hrs
Studying spanish all day
Watching tv and relaxing mostly all day
Being on the fab forum
Do you ever feel like breaking out of the routine?
No. I dont, but I do sometimes take a active 1 week rest from the gym, to recover better. I like routines yoo know, what about you?
I like my routines too, but they are less rigid than yours.
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That is good as well and its good to mix it up sometimes too. |
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"I don't understand the question
If you were to evaluate your Fab/fab life, what would you say?
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Oh, Fab life, I misread the question 
All's good thanks |
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"I don't understand the question
If you were to evaluate your Fab/fab life, what would you say?"
Lots of things:
Annoying, time-consuming, enlightening, joyous, surprising, stupid, squalid, outrageous, madness, beautiful, fun...
I dunno.
How succinct do you want me to be? |
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