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over a year ago
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That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of  |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes but same people like to make a point of it, if I see a thread I have no interest in or subject that does get my back up, I leave well alone, plenty of other subjects going on to comment about. |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
'listen to me, I'm amazing and you're all sh*t' thread? |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
I have sometimes wondered if simply having everyone ignoring them would work. But I know how it makes me feel when someone does it to me, and just as I am beginning to think maybe I'm the problem someone else pops up and says something supportive.
Maybe a compromise would be if everyone quoted the funsucker and just said "twonk".
Though then we'd become "The Twonk Clique".
Or others would pile in to say they had a valid point, and call all the Twonkers "dweebs".
Perhaps we should make one, measured comment, and then ignore them.
But I'm overthinking it again aren't I?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
'listen to me, I'm amazing and you're all sh*t' thread?"
Err not quite but if you think that just crack on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear "
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
'listen to me, I'm amazing and you're all sh*t' thread?
Err not quite but if you think that just crack on "
Nope. I was referring to the person spoiling the fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
I have sometimes wondered if simply having everyone ignoring them would work. But I know how it makes me feel when someone does it to me, and just as I am beginning to think maybe I'm the problem someone else pops up and says something supportive.
Maybe a compromise would be if everyone quoted the funsucker and just said "twonk".
Though then we'd become "The Twonk Clique".
Or others would pile in to say they had a valid point, and call all the Twonkers "dweebs".
Perhaps we should make one, measured comment, and then ignore them.
But I'm overthinking it again aren't I?
Mr ddc"
Possibly
Let's just wait for the funsuckers to pitch up and deal with it then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the fence with this one.
Whilst it can be annoying if a mood Hoover comes along and sucks the fun from the thread if we all ignored the threads we disliked then we'd never have some of the interesting debates that can arise. |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
I have sometimes wondered if simply having everyone ignoring them would work. But I know how it makes me feel when someone does it to me, and just as I am beginning to think maybe I'm the problem someone else pops up and says something supportive.
Maybe a compromise would be if everyone quoted the funsucker and just said "twonk".
Though then we'd become "The Twonk Clique".
Or others would pile in to say they had a valid point, and call all the Twonkers "dweebs".
Perhaps we should make one, measured comment, and then ignore them.
But I'm overthinking it again aren't I?
Mr ddc"
You complete and utter twonk
Just testing the theory  |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
I have sometimes wondered if simply having everyone ignoring them would work. But I know how it makes me feel when someone does it to me, and just as I am beginning to think maybe I'm the problem someone else pops up and says something supportive.
Maybe a compromise would be if everyone quoted the funsucker and just said "twonk".
Though then we'd become "The Twonk Clique".
Or others would pile in to say they had a valid point, and call all the Twonkers "dweebs".
Perhaps we should make one, measured comment, and then ignore them.
But I'm overthinking it again aren't I?
Mr ddc
You complete and utter twonk
Just testing the theory "
Dweeb 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. "
I've asked you to ignore my threads and you agreed it was a good thing to do, although I'm sure you meant for everyone.
You're right, I was wrong to comment the way I did. Although I don't believe what I wrote was appalling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer the term " joy hoover "
Or " will to live destroyer"
But I think that's giving the " twonks" too much credit!
The "positivity police" are the ones I want to slap really hard!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer the term " joy hoover "
Or " will to live destroyer"
But I think that's giving the " twonks" too much credit!
The "positivity police" are the ones I want to slap really hard!
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Knickers up or down?  |
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"I've asked you to ignore my threads and you agreed it was a good thing to do, although I'm sure you meant for everyone.
You're right, I was wrong to comment the way I did. Although I don't believe what I wrote was appalling. "
But isn't this LeggyLady's thread? There are plenty of people I ignore, but I'll still call out if I think they're being hypocritical, as I did last night.
(Not that I'm calling you hypocritical, obvs, I haven't seen the thread in question. I'd be happy to give it a gander though if it'd help?)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer the term " joy hoover "
Or " will to live destroyer"
But I think that's giving the " twonks" too much credit!
The "positivity police" are the ones I want to slap really hard!
Knickers up or down? "
Always down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "positivity police" are the ones I want to slap really hard!
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I agree, if that's their disposition then more power to them, just don't tell me how to be and everything will be hunky dory |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "positivity police" are the ones I want to slap really hard!
I agree, if that's their disposition then more power to them, just don't tell me how to be and everything will be hunky dory "
You're so negative!
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"I'll just try and stay positive and just post my usual crap on here
I'm positive most of this above ^ is crap. We're in good company.  "
we are I guess it's not about taking the forums too seriously and just enjoy it for what it is, I have a stressful real life so come on here for a bit of banter...I try and not piss people off however at times I have been a bit blunt towards others but I do try and treat others how I would like to be treated myself.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually I didn't read the OP correctly however I still stand by what I said.
If I started a thread about a thread I disapproved of to make a point then wouldn't someone else start a thread about mine & so on......it would be a Lounge filled up with rolling eyes emojis & disapprovals ~ rather boring.
It's an open, inclusive forum, that to me is the whole point of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll just try and stay positive and just post my usual crap on here
I'm positive most of this above ^ is crap. We're in good company.
we are I guess it's not about taking the forums too seriously and just enjoy it for what it is, I have a stressful real life so come on here for a bit of banter...I try and not piss people off however at times I have been a bit blunt towards others but I do try and treat others how I would like to be treated myself.... "
Totally agree with this...and whilst it's a public forum that all & everyone is entitled to express their opinions on, surely keeping a bit of class & respect to others isn't a tall order...fun sites should be errr fun, right?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm on the fence with this one.
Whilst it can be annoying if a mood Hoover comes along and sucks the fun from the thread if we all ignored the threads we disliked then we'd never have some of the interesting debates that can arise."
I agree to a certain extent, but there is often a fine line between 'interesting' and 'anarchic', which is what some debates often descend into ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm on the fence with this one.
Whilst it can be annoying if a mood Hoover comes along and sucks the fun from the thread if we all ignored the threads we disliked then we'd never have some of the interesting debates that can arise.
I agree to a certain extent, but there is often a fine line between 'interesting' and 'anarchic', which is what some debates often descend into ... "
In my _iew threads get diluted or go off in a tangential direction because of the wide caucus that is fab. If you post a statement, opinion or question I wouldn't be surprised by the strong opinions that will flow. Verbosity is not an issue on FAB forums as some replies are, shall we say, straight to the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll just try and stay positive and just post my usual crap on here
I'm positive most of this above ^ is crap. We're in good company.
'We'? "
I don't quite know if I'm capable to defend my self again 2 letters. We? Yes. You included. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. "
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
Just to clarify...
It's mainly about those who, for whatever reason, always seem to be negative about everything ....if you don't like something then that's fine but there are ways of saying you don't without offending everyone with your comments
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You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? "
Are you sure he was winking? It may have been half a scowl.
(PS Isn't this the tactic you used to try to stop dissent on that other thread too? As if a man can't have an opinion simply because he may, or may not, have once winked at you? )
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By (user no longer on site)
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You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on?
Are you sure he was winking? It may have been half a scowl.
(PS Isn't this the tactic you used to try to stop dissent on that other thread too? As if a man can't have an opinion simply because he may, or may not, have once winked at you? )
#justaskin"
If you wink someone doesn't that mean that you have to then agree with everything that person says and must not agree with others?...... I'm sure I read that in the forum commandments. ...right after "thou shalt not display cock pics" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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It depends on what it is.
If someone adds a meet thread for instance say for example asking for BB and then the thread ends up with people telling the OP he shouldn't be doing it then that is the time to go make your own thread to dicuss BB and leave the meet thread alone. Or other examples of a RIP thread or Birthday thread for people who are on the site then they should be left alone for what they are.
If a general subject is being posted then people have to accept that not everyone will agree on it and may so so.
Of course if someone is disrupting that thread for devilment thats different again. |
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If you wink someone doesn't that mean that you have to then agree with everything that person says and must not agree with others?...... I'm sure I read that in the forum commandments. ...right after "thou shalt not display cock pics""
Shit, bearing in mind I wink at the end of nearly ALL my posts, I must come across as a really desperate sex maniac 
{must not wink at Scarlet, must not wink at Scarlet}
Doh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you wink someone doesn't that mean that you have to then agree with everything that person says and must not agree with others?...... I'm sure I read that in the forum commandments. ...right after "thou shalt not display cock pics"
Shit, bearing in mind I wink at the end of nearly ALL my posts, I must come across as a really desperate sex maniac
{must not wink at Scarlet, must not wink at Scarlet}
Doh! "
It's Ok to agree with me. ...i talk sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I saw a thread this morning and I thought oh that's different, wasn't negative in my opinion, but it had a comment on it bringing it down and I thought "why". I left it and thought I'd comment later when I had more time, but it's no longer there, so low and behold it must have turned sour and for what reason I have no idea, as it wasn't a thread giving an opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on?
Are you sure he was winking? It may have been half a scowl.
(PS Isn't this the tactic you used to try to stop dissent on that other thread too? As if a man can't have an opinion simply because he may, or may not, have once winked at you? )
#justaskin"
The point I was making is every guy that supports me is lambasted for white knighting. What's good for the goose etc.
And no, the point in the other thread was to tell the person in question I knew why he tried to piss me off at every opportunity. |
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Why not just ignore those that you don't like, sometimes you go from thread to thread and it's the same people having the same arguement on different threads...would you do that in real life run to different places where they were and say you have pissed me off because of A,B and C.... |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
So nerr! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not just ignore those that you don't like, sometimes you go from thread to thread and it's the same people having the same arguement on different threads...would you do that in real life run to different places where they were and say you have pissed me off because of A,B and C...."
I try, but they do tend to follow me about, itd seem... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on?
Are you sure he was winking? It may have been half a scowl.
(PS Isn't this the tactic you used to try to stop dissent on that other thread too? As if a man can't have an opinion simply because he may, or may not, have once winked at you? )
#justaskin
The point I was making is every guy that supports me is lambasted for white knighting. What's good for the goose etc.
And no, the point in the other thread was to tell the person in question I knew why he tried to piss me off at every opportunity. "
I only winked because I had dust in my eye |
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"It depends on what it is.
If someone adds a meet thread for instance say for example asking for BB and then the thread ends up with people telling the OP he shouldn't be doing it then that is the time to go make your own thread to dicuss BB and leave the meet thread alone. Or other examples of a RIP thread or Birthday thread for people who are on the site then they should be left alone for what they are.
If a general subject is being posted then people have to accept that not everyone will agree on it and may so so.
Of course if someone is disrupting that thread for devilment thats different again."
Please don't kill me but,
Could we also have clarification on filling up threads with flirting? When I joined, I was warned that Fab doesn't tolerate it at all (other than with an OP), and am still a bit paranoid about saying "ty" to a compliment about our pics when we don't meet their mail criteria.
And I'm not actually criticising anyone to be clear, this is such a rare serious question that I don't even know which emoji to use! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Is this a serious question?
Yes, seriously.
Hasn't many of the problems been related to this?
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That means nothing ....as your posts are not normally serious and the question is so out there I assumed it was a joke.
Saying Thankyou for someone mentioning your pic on a thread that you did or didn't start is fine |
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"Is this a serious question?
Yes, seriously.
Hasn't many of the problems been related to this?
That means nothing ....as your posts are not normally serious and the question is so out there I assumed it was a joke.
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humour is my default mask tbf.
Recently there's been a run of OP asks a question, someone replies, loads of people start flirting, someone else mentions the clique hijacking the original thread, all hell breaks loose, someone else takes it personally and goes off in a huff.
It was common on Dogging, but used to be very rare here. But it may just be I'm reading different threads nowadays. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Well thats totally different to the question you asked about saying TY for your pic compliment.
As like everything , nothing is black and white so sometimes a definitive answer is hard to give. Like I mentioned up there if there is disruption of a thread for lots of reasons ( not all mentioned up there as I could be there forever ) then people could fall foul of the rules, but flirting isn't against rules.
Nice pics btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on what it is.
If someone adds a meet thread for instance say for example asking for BB and then the thread ends up with people telling the OP he shouldn't be doing it then that is the time to go make your own thread to dicuss BB and leave the meet thread alone. Or other examples of a RIP thread or Birthday thread for people who are on the site then they should be left alone for what they are.
If a general subject is being posted then people have to accept that not everyone will agree on it and may so so.
Of course if someone is disrupting that thread for devilment thats different again.
Please don't kill me but,
Could we also have clarification on filling up threads with flirting? When I joined, I was warned that Fab doesn't tolerate it at all (other than with an OP), and am still a bit paranoid about saying "ty" to a compliment about our pics when we don't meet their mail criteria.
And I'm not actually criticising anyone to be clear, this is such a rare serious question that I don't even know which emoji to use! "
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"Well thats totally different to the question you asked about saying TY for your pic compliment.
As like everything , nothing is black and white so sometimes a definitive answer is hard to give. Like I mentioned up there if there is disruption of a thread for lots of reasons ( not all mentioned up there as I could be there forever ) then people could fall foul of the rules, but flirting isn't against rules."
Thanks
"Nice pics btw "
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By (user no longer on site)
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i find it very hard to ignore something if it's roused my indignation. I don't get indignant often, but when I do I do. I do try to keep it civil.
This is why I wish if you block someone you wouldn't have to see their forum posts either.
Saying to ignore a thread, if you've already seen a comment that has made you feel a bit miffed is easier said than done (for some).
I don't have a beef with any particular forumite, but some do and I really think it would help in that case.
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"Recently there's been a run of OP asks a question, someone replies, loads of people start flirting, someone else mentions the clique hijacking the original thread, all hell breaks loose, someone else takes it personally and goes off in a huff."
I've been noticing this exact same trend. It is recurring at a high frequency and can be tiring (all of it, not the flirting or the claims of cliques alone). Maybe, like you, it's more a matter of perception for me, rather than intent by others. I dunno. |
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"Is this a serious question?
Yes, seriously.
Hasn't many of the problems been related to this?
That means nothing ....as your posts are not normally serious and the question is so out there I assumed it was a joke.
humour is my default mask tbf.
Recently there's been a run of OP asks a question, someone replies, loads of people start flirting, someone else mentions the clique hijacking the original thread, all hell breaks loose, someone else takes it personally and goes off in a huff.
It was common on Dogging, but used to be very rare here. But it may just be I'm reading different threads nowadays. "
Love your pic's |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And I would hope I'm not a joy sucker. I ignore threads where others are all pally as obviously I don't know them and have nothing to give/offer."
I enjoy your comments..
They appear to be pitched just right IMO and more often are light hearted and humorous |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Actually I didn't read the OP correctly however I still stand by what I said.
If I started a thread about a thread I disapproved of to make a point then wouldn't someone else start a thread about mine & so on......it would be a Lounge filled up with rolling eyes emojis & disapprovals ~ rather boring.
It's an open, inclusive forum, that to me is the whole point of it."
it is? i thought it was full of people trying to ignore certain peoples threads, because its easier to leave those people alone, than deal with their bullshit. just my perception, these days |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? "
no, they were (imo) appalling.... |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. "
A slate fetish? Boy be careful, you could fall off a roof! |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling...."
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left. "
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. "
and this is where i don't comment further, for obvious reasons...another appalling personal comment... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll just try and stay positive and just post my usual crap on here
I'm positive most of this above ^ is crap. We're in good company.
we are I guess it's not about taking the forums too seriously and just enjoy it for what it is, I have a stressful real life so come on here for a bit of banter...I try and not piss people off however at times I have been a bit blunt towards others but I do try and treat others how I would like to be treated myself.... "
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
I disagree op on grounds of where's the fun in that,
look I can be guilty of all the things you mention in fact most of us will be at some point in time but that's what makes for a fun forum .
take the disagreeing out of the equation and it will just be a post full of thumbs up how boring .
I don't take offence to anything said to me online by lets be honest here strangers in fact I enjoy the debate and truthfully respect those who stand up for what they believe in voice a opinion on because like I said with out such behaviour the forums would become boring and stale in my humble opinion . |
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though. "
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea  |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
I disagree op on grounds of where's the fun in that,
look I can be guilty of all the things you mention in fact most of us will be at some point in time but that's what makes for a fun forum .
take the disagreeing out of the equation and it will just be a post full of thumbs up how boring .
I don't take offence to anything said to me online by lets be honest here strangers in fact I enjoy the debate and truthfully respect those who stand up for what they believe in voice a opinion on because like I said with out such behaviour the forums would become boring and stale in my humble opinion . "
I wondered when you would show up..
It was because of your comments on my previous thread that I started this one...
Pissing on people's chips is one thing ... having an actual opinion on the subject is another ... your comments smacked of the former IMO |
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over a year ago
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"Tink... you need to start another sparkly, swirly thread!
Shit's about to go down!
Thanks for another unhelpful comment "
Its not unhelpful its just about balance. Leggy I have enjoyed reading this thread |
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"Tink... you need to start another sparkly, swirly thread!
Shit's about to go down!
Thanks for another unhelpful comment
I aim to please..."
Haha. You just can't help yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe pit fighting for the aggrieved, i'll provide a 12 ft pool of jello and the happy chappies on here can run a book for the forum lurkers and fence sitters to place wagers (sexual or cake related) on the outcome? |
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"Tink... you need to start another sparkly, swirly thread!
Shit's about to go down!
Thanks for another unhelpful comment
Its not unhelpful its just about balance. Leggy I have enjoyed reading this thread "
When I say balance I mean this is a serious thread and mine are usually pretty silly |
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"Maybe pit fighting for the aggrieved, i'll provide a 12 ft pool of jello and the happy chappies on here can run a book for the forum lurkers and fence sitters to place wagers (sexual or cake related) on the outcome?"
Well that just sounds like a fun thing to do. What flavour Jelly? |
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"Tink... you need to start another sparkly, swirly thread!
Shit's about to go down!
Thanks for another unhelpful comment
Its not unhelpful its just about balance. Leggy I have enjoyed reading this thread
When I say balance I mean this is a serious thread and mine are usually pretty silly "
Serious threads are always going to invite some sort of debate. Your threads are lovely, Tink... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm beginning to curse my new meds. Now I'm sleeping im missing all the fun!  xxx
This isn't fun  "
I agree in my defence your honour I posted this comment after reading the first few comments and then read the whole thread.
*raises arse in the air n wiggles for a smack* xxx |
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"Maybe pit fighting for the aggrieved, i'll provide a 12 ft pool of jello and the happy chappies on here can run a book for the forum lurkers and fence sitters to place wagers (sexual or cake related) on the outcome?
Well that just sounds like a fun thing to do. What flavour Jelly?"
Mmmmm raspberry and orange |
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"Maybe pit fighting for the aggrieved, i'll provide a 12 ft pool of jello and the happy chappies on here can run a book for the forum lurkers and fence sitters to place wagers (sexual or cake related) on the outcome?
Well that just sounds like a fun thing to do. What flavour Jelly?
Mmmmm raspberry and orange "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though.
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea "
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx |
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though.
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx"
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. "
. This has to be the most appalling, abhorrent comment I have ever seen in all my time of frequenting the forums, you apologised earlier for things that you had said on another thread, imo, this is an extension of those things, you're apology was in no way genuine, to make such a comment because of someone's lifestyle choice is positively sickening and I would imagine you have no idea of the fettish itself or you wouldn't make such comments, it's not my fettish, I actually no nothing of it myself, but I am respectful enough to believe everyone is entitled to live out thier fantasy or fet as they see fit, Mrs blue eyes |
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though.
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
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Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them.  xxx |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
I disagree op on grounds of where's the fun in that,
look I can be guilty of all the things you mention in fact most of us will be at some point in time but that's what makes for a fun forum .
take the disagreeing out of the equation and it will just be a post full of thumbs up how boring .
I don't take offence to anything said to me online by lets be honest here strangers in fact I enjoy the debate and truthfully respect those who stand up for what they believe in voice a opinion on because like I said with out such behaviour the forums would become boring and stale in my humble opinion .
I wondered when you would show up..
It was because of your comments on my previous thread that I started this one...
Pissing on people's chips is one thing ... having an actual opinion on the subject is another ... your comments smacked of the former IMO "
well I'm sorry you see it that way op here have lunch on me with out me of coarse because like I said no real offence was meant by me I was just voicing a opinion on what I saw in that over post that's all.
oh well no ham done after all its hardly life and death now is it .
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. . This has to be the most appalling, abhorrent comment I have ever seen in all my time of frequenting the forums, you apologised earlier for things that you had said on another thread, imo, this is an extension of those things, you're apology was in no way genuine, to make such a comment because of someone's lifestyle choice is positively sickening and I would imagine you have no idea of the fettish itself or you wouldn't make such comments, it's not my fettish, I actually no nothing of it myself, but I am respectful enough to believe everyone is entitled to live out thier fantasy or fet as they see fit, Mrs blue eyes"
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. . This has to be the most appalling, abhorrent comment I have ever seen in all my time of frequenting the forums, you apologised earlier for things that you had said on another thread, imo, this is an extension of those things, you're apology was in no way genuine, to make such a comment because of someone's lifestyle choice is positively sickening and I would imagine you have no idea of the fettish itself or you wouldn't make such comments, it's not my fettish, I actually no nothing of it myself, but I am respectful enough to believe everyone is entitled to live out thier fantasy or fet as they see fit, Mrs blue eyes"
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. . This has to be the most appalling, abhorrent comment I have ever seen in all my time of frequenting the forums, you apologised earlier for things that you had said on another thread, imo, this is an extension of those things, you're apology was in no way genuine, to make such a comment because of someone's lifestyle choice is positively sickening and I would imagine you have no idea of the fettish itself or you wouldn't make such comments, it's not my fettish, I actually no nothing of it myself, but I am respectful enough to believe everyone is entitled to live out thier fantasy or fet as they see fit, Mrs blue eyes"
Oh dear Mrs Blue Eyes its all going to be fine. Somethings are said without really thinking. Cookie? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though.
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them. xxx"
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of
Hear hear
Says the woman who slated people for their fetishes a month or so ago.
Truly appalling comments you left.
You've winked at me since then, so you obviously didn't think they are that bad at the time. Bit of white knighting harlot going on? no, they were (imo) appalling....
That's because you condone the brutalisation of women. . This has to be the most appalling, abhorrent comment I have ever seen in all my time of frequenting the forums, you apologised earlier for things that you had said on another thread, imo, this is an extension of those things, you're apology was in no way genuine, to make such a comment because of someone's lifestyle choice is positively sickening and I would imagine you have no idea of the fettish itself or you wouldn't make such comments, it's not my fettish, I actually no nothing of it myself, but I am respectful enough to believe everyone is entitled to live out thier fantasy or fet as they see fit, Mrs blue eyes. * their"
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"That if people think they have a point to prove about threads that annoy them, then they should post their own thread and say so on there, rather than sucking the fun out of threads they don't approve of "
Hmm. I think you can still make a valid point whilst being annoyed. It's when you keep harping on that it becomes totally annoying and fun sucking. And makes me revert back to the 90s in my head and do the whole Vic and Bob "you wouldn't let it lie!" routine. |
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"I think the Op did have a point.
Threads should start from insperation from other threads. rather than what happened here. Turning it into what somebody else wants it to be.
Well done Op. your to blame for the arguments though.
Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them. xxx
no that wasn't me I'm now beginning to wish it was those "
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Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them. xxx
no that wasn't me I'm now beginning to wish it was those
I've decided mince n slow cookers don't mix. Tonight I'll do my tacos in the wok. xxx"
Let us know what time. We'll all log on ready. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them. xxx
no that wasn't me I'm now beginning to wish it was those
I've decided mince n slow cookers don't mix. Tonight I'll do my tacos in the wok. xxx
Let us know what time. We'll all log on ready. "
I'm not going to be around fella otherwise I'd join you do me a favour do your best to distract her burn tacos's sounds like fun to me . |
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Don't blame me for this...
All I did was express something that triggered in my mind from a couple of threads this morning and how I thought the person in question was pissing on people's chips for no reason other than he thought it was a good idea
Is it the same guy who pissed on my crap cooking last nite! I manadged to just about ignore the comment. Xxx
Your pink meat thread? Was that about cooking?
Piss off!!! I'm very good at killing people yano. I just feed them. xxx
no that wasn't me I'm now beginning to wish it was those
I've decided mince n slow cookers don't mix. Tonight I'll do my tacos in the wok. xxx
Let us know what time. We'll all log on ready. "
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Hmm. I think you can still make a valid point whilst being annoyed. It's when you keep harping on that it becomes totally annoying and fun sucking. And makes me revert back to the 90s in my head and do the whole Vic and Bob "you wouldn't let it lie!" routine."
I miss Vic and Bob. |
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"Maybe pit fighting for the aggrieved, i'll provide a 12 ft pool of jello and the happy chappies on here can run a book for the forum lurkers and fence sitters to place wagers (sexual or cake related) on the outcome?"
We second that. |
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"Well I saw a thread this morning and I thought oh that's different, wasn't negative in my opinion, but it had a comment on it bringing it down and I thought "why". I left it and thought I'd comment later when I had more time, but it's no longer there, so low and behold it must have turned sour and for what reason I have no idea, as it wasn't a thread giving an opinion."
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I just noticed 2 threads that are are the same, one started by a woman and one by a man, it is the usual kiss and avoid, she did one in the launge, he did it in the swingers chat and guess what? Yes, the woman got all the the kisses and the man the opposite, it is getting too predictable lol. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"I just noticed 2 threads that are are the same, one started by a woman and one by a man, it is the usual kiss and avoid, she did one in the launge, he did it in the swingers chat and guess what? Yes, the woman got all the the kisses and the man the opposite, it is getting too predictable lol."
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"I just noticed 2 threads that are are the same, one started by a woman and one by a man, it is the usual kiss and avoid, she did one in the launge, he did it in the swingers chat and guess what? Yes, the woman got all the the kisses and the man the opposite, it is getting too predictable lol.
Could just be because there are more straight men on fab than straight women so the demographics naturally skew that way?"
That is right as well, it could be that too as there are more men too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like the contentious posts and different opinions.
All the regular arse kissers, white knights, voices of reason, jumping on anyone with a different opinion, it just gets boring.
The flirty going off subject posts are annoying, and don't get me started on the ones posting "get the popcorn", haribos, etc, i roll my eyes and think grow up! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I like the contentious posts and different opinions.
All the regular arse kissers, white knights, voices of reason, jumping on anyone with a different opinion, it just gets boring.
The flirty going off subject posts are annoying, and don't get me started on the ones posting "get the popcorn", haribos, etc, i roll my eyes and think grow up! "
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