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over a year ago
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Ok, so I have messaged women and sent a face pic. Most have deleted, no surprise there, but some have just 'been read'. Some of these are a couple of weeks old now and I have received no reply. The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied. So what's next? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete all of your sent items. That way any reply will be a surprise and you'll have a lot less stress about them being left unread.
It's not cool to message again if there's been no reply. It's pestering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, so I have messaged women and sent a face pic. Most have deleted, no surprise there, but some have just 'been read'. Some of these are a couple of weeks old now and I have received no reply. The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied. So what's next?"
"The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied" - Answered?
In truth when I have 5+ pages of mail, I cannot be arsed to go through them all and delete the ones I don't want and keep the ones I do, so once a week I delete all messages (having learnt to use the save feature for the ones I wish to keep)..
However, the pages of mail you can end up with leads to a bloody chore and once they drop of the first page I tend to not bother with them, until I go searching for a message I should have replied too, and then I have to delete on an individual basis until I find the one I am looking for.
The person/s you messaged may just block delete once a month or something; they may have saved your message for a future time; or it may have rolled off of page one of their mail list and is now forgotten...
...either way, I wouldn't message again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, so I have messaged women and sent a face pic. Most have deleted, no surprise there, but some have just 'been read'. Some of these are a couple of weeks old now and I have received no reply. The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied. So what's next?
"The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied" - Answered?
In truth when I have 5+ pages of mail, I cannot be arsed to go through them all and delete the ones I don't want and keep the ones I do, so once a week I delete all messages (having learnt to use the save feature for the ones I wish to keep)..
However, the pages of mail you can end up with leads to a bloody chore and once they drop of the first page I tend to not bother with them, until I go searching for a message I should have replied too, and then I have to delete on an individual basis until I find the one I am looking for.
The person/s you messaged may just block delete once a month or something; they may have saved your message for a future time; or it may have rolled off of page one of their mail list and is now forgotten...
...either way, I wouldn't message again."
Exactly what ^^^^^^ he said  |
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I only kept them in my 'sent' to know who I had messaged, but I suppose the site will tell me if I select them again by mistake. Trouble is though, that's everyone I like the look of and hadn't filtered me out in a 40 mile radius. So I guess I'm fucked?........or rather...not..  |
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"Ok, so I have messaged women and sent a face pic. Most have deleted, no surprise there, but some have just 'been read'. Some of these are a couple of weeks old now and I have received no reply. The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied. So what's next?"
Forget them. Find someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, so I have messaged women and sent a face pic. Most have deleted, no surprise there, but some have just 'been read'. Some of these are a couple of weeks old now and I have received no reply. The site advises not to message them again if they haven't replied. So what's next?"
You need to imply something,adress it to the person in question and briefly mention what you are looking for,
Example : "Do you fancy a fuck?" |
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You've behaved correctly by not following up messages that aren't responded to with even more.
Once you've sent them, put them out of our mind. Send lots of messages to lots of appropriate people, expecting that you'll only be compatible with a few of them. If you ever forget someone who replies back, just view their profile. You'll need to communicate very well anyway, in order to really get to know them.
Beef up your profile so that when they view it, from receipt of your mail, they will feel impressed and - we'd hope - more inclined to message back.
Remember that many here get tons of mail - they may respond slowly, though it's likely that if you've not heard in a few days that it is not going anywhere.
Expand your circle of people that you know, either as friends or swinging partners. Get out and about and don't just rely on a website. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..pages of mail..ROFL...!
It's true and he's right. Messages can fall off the pages and a mass delete will wipe them."
Was that a reference to me do you think? Bloke says he gets pages of mail... gets disbelief..... I don't get it....because blokes don't get messages? Am I missing something?
Every Monday I have to delete all the mail I have received and find the ones I should have saved... not bragging, it just is... sorry
Its not people jumping up and down to shag me; its normally death threats to be fair...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right, who fancies a fuck 
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative  "
Aye, but I might mind!  |
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"Right, who fancies a fuck
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative
Aye, but I might mind! "
Maybe so, but who's asking you though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right, who fancies a fuck
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative
Aye, but I might mind!
Maybe so, but who's asking you though "
He will be dumbass as I am in your neck o' the woods! |
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"Right, who fancies a fuck
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative
Aye, but I might mind!
Maybe so, but who's asking you though
He will be dumbass as I am in your neck o' the woods! "
Ah shit, I've got a stalker |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right, who fancies a fuck
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative
Aye, but I might mind!
Maybe so, but who's asking you though
He will be dumbass as I am in your neck o' the woods!
Ah shit, I've got a stalker "
In your dreams would I stalk a Rams fan!! |
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"Right, who fancies a fuck
If you can copy'n'paste this message to all unicorns within the Cloud Cuckoo Land area, then I would be most appreciative
Aye, but I might mind!
Maybe so, but who's asking you though
He will be dumbass as I am in your neck o' the woods!
Ah shit, I've got a stalker
In your dreams would I stalk a Rams fan!!"
I don't blame you, we don't seem to be able to score against a team even if they had Stevie Wonder in goal! |
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