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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi guys,

I have been on and off a few over the last 3 years, had a few meets an a good time. Recently started noticing a trend of women just stop replying half way through a conversation or the conversation slowly dies.

Aside from obvious sex talk which can only last so long I try asking other questions about life away from fab, nothing to personal, just hobbies etc but with no luck.

Am I simply boring or is this a common thing for other guys?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I very often find I lose track of conversations annoyingly. Speaking personally I find it an absolute mare to keep up and having a decent conversation here is a trial. I find if I reach a stage where I feel I'm talking to someone I could meet I ask for a contact number. The fact that I'm online means other messaging are piling in. It's like Tetris sometimes! I dread to think of how many messages younger women get. Sorry OP, it's probably NOT your fault.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi guys,

I have been on and off a few over the last 3 years, had a few meets an a good time. Recently started noticing a trend of women just stop replying half way through a conversation or the conversation slowly dies.

Aside from obvious sex talk which can only last so long I try asking other questions about life away from fab, nothing to personal, just hobbies etc but with no luck.

Am I simply boring or is this a common thing for other guys?

Thanks"

It is just me, I am sure, but I find anyone who spells "and" as "an" intolerable.

It is a small thing and should not irritate me, I know, but it does. I hate myself sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks Dolphina, that is good to know that it might not just be me!

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

I can lose track of convos, especially if the avatars are similar. Which a lot of men's are.

And if messages fall off the page I'll do a 'delete all read' to find the unread ones.

I tend to find that the meeting type of guys chat a bit and then make plans for a social pretty quick. So it doesn't bother me if the chat only guys get missed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if the messages start to tail off or become intermittent, then I simply lose interest, regardless of what the conversation is about...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I very often find I lose track of conversations annoyingly. Speaking personally I find it an absolute mare to keep up and having a decent conversation here is a trial. I find if I reach a stage where I feel I'm talking to someone I could meet I ask for a contact number. The fact that I'm online means other messaging are piling in. It's like Tetris sometimes! I dread to think of how many messages younger women get. Sorry OP, it's probably NOT your fault. "

This . As soon as I know someone is right for me/us I'll give them details away from fab as its a nightmare with messages dropping off the page

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks Kinky-minx, I tend to avoid asking for meets, even socials as I know some women don't like guys doing but I'll try to be more assertive for social meets in future!

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