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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought the forums were for light hearted discussion, but some of the comments I have seen tonight have made me question how are they still able to comment, bans have been given for less.
No it's not offended me, but that's what it's all seems to be about tonight. If something offends you surely you can just ignore it or have an adult discussion about it, like a debate? Everyone has different perspectives and beliefs.
I've never seen so much swearing and aggressiveness in the forums.
Cheer up people, aren't we all here for just a little extra fun and to chat with likeminded people?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs. 
Mr ddc"
You may as well have a pool of both, different preferences and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?  "
What oil can you use? Oil wrestling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just stay off those kind of threads and don't get involved. A lot of people think there opinions are so important that they must be heard. Can't be arsed with it. |
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Indeed totally blowing my buzz
Been enjoying them the past few weeks and now dealing with dramatics and personalisation of comments on others opinions
Fuck me i haven't explained myself this much since I was married  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
What oil can you use? Oil wrestling?"
Fine, oil.
Though I think Mr. ddc was using jelly to try and insult me as a vegetarian. I've blocked him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't say I've noticed but then I've not been in many threads either tonight.
The forums get bitchy sometimes..you can just try and skirt around it as best you can. .the mob settles after a bit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then? "
Jelly has gelatine in it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just stay off those kind of threads and don't get involved. A lot of people think there opinions are so important that they must be heard. Can't be arsed with it. "
Likewise, I know my own opinion and not going to try and make others have the same or side with others to make it seem like theirs is more valid. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it. "
Waitrose and M&S sell vegetarian friendly jellies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it. "
Buttery mashed potato?
Had a fantasy of watching Nigella Lawson and Rose McGowan wrestling in a ring full of it once |
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"Without the swings,and the slide.
I prefer the roundabout...."
Good lord, no.
Haven't we been going round in circles enough? Let's get swinging.
As for the slides, I suspect it's all downhill from here anyway... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a full moon tonight. "
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then? "
Jelly is generally gelatine based, a meat by product. You can get vegan jelly, but it's not as good.
I opt for mud wrestling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Waitrose and M&S sell vegetarian friendly jellies.
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It's too late. I've ready taken offence and must defend it to the end.
(Btw, thanks for the info, I think I'll buy some ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out. "
Wtf? That's horrible. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's a full moon tonight.
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round "
It is a full moon tonight and there is a noticeable trend towards narkier threads on the forum at the full moon.
I always want to howl at the moon and get hornier than usual. Sadly, the full moon rarely coincides with my ability to have legitimate reason to howl with pleasure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Buttery mashed potato?
Had a fantasy of watching Nigella Lawson and Rose McGowan wrestling in a ring full of it once "
When you say "once.........." |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Waitrose and M&S sell vegetarian friendly jellies.
It's too late. I've ready taken offence and must defend it to the end.
(Btw, thanks for the info, I think I'll buy some )"
I highly recommend the Waitrose ones with cherries in the bottom. The raspberry one isn't quite right. At M&S I'd recommend the Royale as that has sponge and cream to go with the jelly all in one lovely delicious pot. (See 'Fat' thread for my post on why I am fat. ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a full moon tonight.
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round
It is a full moon tonight and there is a noticeable trend towards narkier threads on the forum at the full moon.
I always want to howl at the moon and get hornier than usual. Sadly, the full moon rarely coincides with my ability to have legitimate reason to howl with pleasure.
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I always think these things are myths... Change of mood with a full moon etc... Now I'm thinking otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a full moon tonight. "
I don't think it's backed up by any research, but if you ask anybody who's worked in emergency services it's a known phenomenon. |
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Waitrose and M&S sell vegetarian friendly jellies.
It's too late. I've ready taken offence and must defend it to the end.
(Btw, thanks for the info, I think I'll buy some )"
It's worse than that, I checked, it's pork gelatine, so now I've offended two major religions too 
On the plus side, at least I've finally united the Jews and Muslims by providing them with a common enemy, so some good has come of it.
I guess
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like it.
It's real.
The times when people are just being false and overly nice makes me want to  "
I don't find either real. I haven't become involved in the thread where it's all gone mental because I wouldn't get involved in real life.
With the over nice ones I ignore too, like I would ignore complete attention seekers in real life too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Buttery mashed potato?
Had a fantasy of watching Nigella Lawson and Rose McGowan wrestling in a ring full of it once
When you say "once.........." "
.....a week  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out. "
Report them, block them and don't give them the oxygen of caring. I know it's hard (I was harassed by a woman before I created Licketysplits) but you hurt them most when you are indifferent to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it.
It's real.
The times when people are just being false and overly nice makes me want to "
Amen. If I called you a cunt would that make you feel better? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's a full moon tonight.
I don't think it's backed up by any research, but if you ask anybody who's worked in emergency services it's a known phenomenon. "
It's a known phenomena here... just look back at threads from 4 weeks ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a full moon tonight.
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round
It is a full moon tonight and there is a noticeable trend towards narkier threads on the forum at the full moon.
I always want to howl at the moon and get hornier than usual. Sadly, the full moon rarely coincides with my ability to have legitimate reason to howl with pleasure.
I always think these things are myths... Change of mood with a full moon etc... Now I'm thinking otherwise."
Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's a full moon tonight.
I don't think it's backed up by any research, but if you ask anybody who's worked in emergency services it's a known phenomenon. "
Here's one from two moons ago: https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/517652#message_10486626 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes things ought to be settled with a good old-fashioned bout of jelly-wrestling.
Sugar-free, obvs.
Mr ddc
What about us vegetarians?
Isn't jelly vegetarian?
Cold custard then?
Jelly has gelatine in it.
Buttery mashed potato?
Had a fantasy of watching Nigella Lawson and Rose McGowan wrestling in a ring full of it once
When you say "once.........."
.....a week "
I doubt if you're alone.
Although the choice of foodstuffs may differ.
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"I thought the forums were for light hearted discussion, but some of the comments I have seen tonight have made me question how are they still able to comment, bans have been given for less.
No it's not offended me, but that's what it's all seems to be about tonight. If something offends you surely you can just ignore it or have an adult discussion about it, like a debate? Everyone has different perspectives and beliefs.
I've never seen so much swearing and aggressiveness in the forums.
Cheer up people, aren't we all here for just a little extra fun and to chat with likeminded people?
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Oh dear, and I haven't even been on the forums this evening '... too much work to catch up on before tomorrow .... oh well, I guess it isn't only me who is a Nutter then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmm interesting thread
*gets out my peters pasty, steak McCoys, 2 milky ways and a litre of lucozade*"
You can only do that in here if I can have one of the milky ways |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"I like it.
It's real.
The times when people are just being false and overly nice makes me want to
I don't find either real. I haven't become involved in the thread where it's all gone mental because I wouldn't get involved in real life.
With the over nice ones I ignore too, like I would ignore complete attention seekers in real life too."
Oh shit!!!I was just about to say you had a lovely arse.
Phew!!!Dodged that bullet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm interesting thread
*gets out my peters pasty, steak McCoys, 2 milky ways and a litre of lucozade*"
Do you mind? You're in my peripheral vision and the smell of your pasty is ruining my aftershave smell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a full moon tonight.
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round
It is a full moon tonight and there is a noticeable trend towards narkier threads on the forum at the full moon.
I always want to howl at the moon and get hornier than usual. Sadly, the full moon rarely coincides with my ability to have legitimate reason to howl with pleasure.
I always think these things are myths... Change of mood with a full moon etc... Now I'm thinking otherwise.
Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic "
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like it.
It's real.
The times when people are just being false and overly nice makes me want to
I don't find either real. I haven't become involved in the thread where it's all gone mental because I wouldn't get involved in real life.
With the over nice ones I ignore too, like I would ignore complete attention seekers in real life too.
Oh shit!!!I was just about to say you had a lovely arse.
Phew!!!Dodged that bullet.
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lucky you didn't say it then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm interesting thread
*gets out my peters pasty, steak McCoys, 2 milky ways and a litre of lucozade*
Do you mind? You're in my peripheral vision and the smell of your pasty is ruining my aftershave smell "
That's not a pasty, that's my pussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution. "
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution. "
Unless they're in there because they're hysterical rather than lunatics. In which case it's because they have a uterus. Luckily the Victorians invented a cure for that as well as the female disease; which is why we now have vibrators. Hooray! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me! "
SAD. Seasonal Affective Disorder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm interesting thread
*gets out my peters pasty, steak McCoys, 2 milky ways and a litre of lucozade*
Do you mind? You're in my peripheral vision and the smell of your pasty is ruining my aftershave smell
That's not a pasty, that's my pussy. "
Interesting odour! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me! "
Yes I've heard of that. Colder days and shorter ones too. I'm more lively during summer months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me!
SAD. Seasonal Affective Disorder."
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Unless they're in there because they're hysterical rather than lunatics. In which case it's because they have a uterus. Luckily the Victorians invented a cure for that as well as the female disease; which is why we now have vibrators. Hooray!"
I coined the word testerical for men. I'm still pushing for its wider adoption. I don't know what to use for women like me with no uterus though.
Technically, women can't testify as we don't have testes to hold. Could this be a service all those single men on here could provide? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Unless they're in there because they're hysterical rather than lunatics. In which case it's because they have a uterus. Luckily the Victorians invented a cure for that as well as the female disease; which is why we now have vibrators. Hooray!
I coined the word testerical for men. I'm still pushing for its wider adoption. I don't know what to use for women like me with no uterus though.
Technically, women can't testify as we don't have testes to hold. Could this be a service all those single men on here could provide? "
Give an explanation of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"All the bitchin n nastieness suddenly becomes insignificant when you hear that your neighbours husband has died tonight from cancer.
Just saying xxx"
It is anyway. It's sad news for those who know about your neighbour's husband but people close to someone else are dying all time. There are hundreds dying on boats right now. Of course all of this is insignificant. Knowing that won't stop it.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Unless they're in there because they're hysterical rather than lunatics. In which case it's because they have a uterus. Luckily the Victorians invented a cure for that as well as the female disease; which is why we now have vibrators. Hooray!
I coined the word testerical for men. I'm still pushing for its wider adoption. I don't know what to use for women like me with no uterus though.
Technically, women can't testify as we don't have testes to hold. Could this be a service all those single men on here could provide?
Give an explanation of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected "
Inexplicable hissy fits and irrational behaviour. Running around flapping their arms at moths and spiders. You know the sort of thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Unless they're in there because they're hysterical rather than lunatics. In which case it's because they have a uterus. Luckily the Victorians invented a cure for that as well as the female disease; which is why we now have vibrators. Hooray!
I coined the word testerical for men. I'm still pushing for its wider adoption. I don't know what to use for women like me with no uterus though.
Technically, women can't testify as we don't have testes to hold. Could this be a service all those single men on here could provide?
Give an explanation of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
Inexplicable hissy fits and irrational behaviour. Running around flapping their arms at moths and spiders. You know the sort of thing.
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I'm sure he's affected. Any cure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Inexplicable hissy fits and irrational behaviour. Running around flapping their arms at moths and spiders. You know the sort of thing.
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Oh, I'm not affected then. That's upsetting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
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I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible."
Yes you are, got your results yet? |
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible.
Yes you are, got your results yet? "
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I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible."
Did you know that when they printed the Oxford Dictionary, they missed that word out? Check it out if you don't believe me...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible.
Did you know that when they printed the Oxford Dictionary, they missed that word out? Check it out if you don't believe me...
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I thin it's time for bed. I was thinking you meant they missed Oxford dictionary out.
I don't know why I admit some things, it just gives those I know stuff to laugh at. |
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over a year ago
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible.
Yes you are, got your results yet?
(Middle finger)"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
I thought they'd been a real thread about it then! I'm so gullible.
Yes you are, got your results yet?
(Middle finger)
You know I love a good prostate massage "
You're mended then? Let me just slip the glove on and go in dry! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's a full moon tonight.
Ooh I just looked at the moon... I don't know whether you're right or not and I'm not going to look it up, but it is pretty round
It is a full moon tonight and there is a noticeable trend towards narkier threads on the forum at the full moon.
I always want to howl at the moon and get hornier than usual. Sadly, the full moon rarely coincides with my ability to have legitimate reason to howl with pleasure.
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Just checking, does the mood go when the moon does? It's still out at the minute and I'm not sure I'll be able to put up with people in person whose mood has changed due to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wonder sometimes if people were face to face they'd make the same comments........hmmmmmmmmm
I would. However, I am more tolerant here than in the 'real world'"
Agree with that. It's far more easier to ignore/not get involved on here, in person the people are there in front of you and no block button to remove them. |
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There's a certain amount of people who seem to be on here day in day out who take everything rather seriously and don't tolerate light hearted humour in THEIR forums it's quite sad really and I can't be doing with people on here that say they use the forums of a way of working out who to block !!! Them cretins should try meeting people  . Block away I say be my guest |
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"I wonder sometimes if people were face to face they'd make the same comments........hmmmmmmmmm
I would. However, I am more tolerant here than in the 'real world'
Agree with that. It's far more easier to ignore/not get involved on here, in person the people are there in front of you and no block button to remove them."
And apparently I'm too chirpy on here
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"There's a certain amount of people who seem to be on here day in day out who take everything rather seriously and don't tolerate light hearted humour in THEIR forums it's quite sad really and I can't be doing with people on here that say they use the forums of a way of working out who to block !!! Them cretins should try meeting people . Block away I say be my guest "
Do you think that is because when things are written they can be perceived differently to how they are meant? Whereas when speaking to someone you can support words with expression and gesture.
I often find that to be the case, I'm quite witty and my humour is mostly lost via text. |
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"I wonder sometimes if people were face to face they'd make the same comments........hmmmmmmmmm
I would. However, I am more tolerant here than in the 'real world'
Agree with that. It's far more easier to ignore/not get involved on here, in person the people are there in front of you and no block button to remove them."
No, but then you won't have a moderator giving you a time out for telling someone what a rude, obnoxious cunt they are either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a certain amount of people who seem to be on here day in day out who take everything rather seriously and don't tolerate light hearted humour in THEIR forums it's quite sad really and I can't be doing with people on here that say they use the forums of a way of working out who to block !!! Them cretins should try meeting people . Block away I say be my guest
Do you think that is because when things are written they can be perceived differently to how they are meant? Whereas when speaking to someone you can support words with expression and gesture.
I often find that to be the case, I'm quite witty and my humour is mostly lost via text. "
Yes. . Everything I say is here is miss understood.
I say - do you like coffee? . What I meant was - will you swallow my cock?
When they say no, it upsets me.
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"I wonder sometimes if people were face to face they'd make the same comments........hmmmmmmmmm
I would. However, I am more tolerant here than in the 'real world'
Agree with that. It's far more easier to ignore/not get involved on here, in person the people are there in front of you and no block button to remove them.
No, but then you won't have a moderator giving you a time out for telling someone what a rude, obnoxious cunt they are either "
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"There's a certain amount of people who seem to be on here day in day out who take everything rather seriously and don't tolerate light hearted humour in THEIR forums it's quite sad really and I can't be doing with people on here that say they use the forums of a way of working out who to block !!! Them cretins should try meeting people . Block away I say be my guest
Do you think that is because when things are written they can be perceived differently to how they are meant? Whereas when speaking to someone you can support words with expression and gesture.
I often find that to be the case, I'm quite witty and my humour is mostly lost via text. "
Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset. For example I was branded homophobic once simply for sayin "not for me but each to there own" |
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"There's a certain amount of people who seem to be on here day in day out who take everything rather seriously and don't tolerate light hearted humour in THEIR forums it's quite sad really and I can't be doing with people on here that say they use the forums of a way of working out who to block !!! Them cretins should try meeting people . Block away I say be my guest
Do you think that is because when things are written they can be perceived differently to how they are meant? Whereas when speaking to someone you can support words with expression and gesture.
I often find that to be the case, I'm quite witty and my humour is mostly lost via text.
Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset. For example I was branded homophobic once simply for sayin "not for me but each to there own" "
Ah but those emojis could suggest sarcasm to some, which people also struggle to understand at times.
The joy of words. Take it as you will, none of this is real right? no it's not really sunny here, don't take my shades literally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also, if you don't litter your post with emoji's after every sentence you're considered rude, aggressive, horrible etc.
Actually no, I'm an adult and couldn't give two shits how my posts read because I chose not to use them to help people understand my tone. |
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"Also, if you don't litter your post with emoji's after every sentence you're considered rude, aggressive, horrible etc.
Actually no, I'm an adult and couldn't give two shits how my posts read because I chose not to use them to help people understand my tone. "
I'm sorry but I can't understand this. Are you being serious or sarcastic? |
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset. "
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc"
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat!  |
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat! "
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat!
I'm in full body armour today,come at me "
Ha ha I'm saying fuck all but vanilla today
In a year on fab that's the first time my melons have been twisted on here lol
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat!
I'm in full body armour today,come at me
Ha ha I'm saying fuck all but vanilla today
In a year on fab that's the first time my melons have been twisted on here lol
I'm the grey man today... matches my pants "
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat!
I'm in full body armour today,come at me
Ha ha I'm saying fuck all but vanilla today
In a year on fab that's the first time my melons have been twisted on here lol
I'm the grey man today... matches my pants
Mine are black, suits my mood "
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I am having the same issue on a non swinging forum - there is a sarcy twat that I know through friends who last 4 times has twisted the knife about a valid comment that I made
Don't get me wrong, it was a valid point if near the mark anyway. This guy has become annoying but on forum I just don't take the bait and make it clear with fishing emoji that he is trying to bait me - and I won't bite lol
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Definitly but you can use imogies such as to let people know your not being serious but still they get upset.
That's because they then think you are laughing *at* them instead of *with* them. It's why of use the cheeky-chappy wink guy. It's a minefield on here sometimes...
Mr ddc
Although the cheeky chappy wink guy is right next to the sad face guy so sometimes inadvertently reinforce the negative point you suspected they might take!! It's a minefield grab a tin hat! "
My new phone regularly adds the overly-worried, nervous, self-conscious guy when I press pre_iew.
Maybe it's trying to tell me something
{shrugs}
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"Looks like, I logged off at the right time last night.
From some of the thread titles this morning, something obviously went on.
I'll stay in my, none the wiser bubble.
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And a fine bubble it is too... stay right there |
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over a year ago
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"I'd much rather have a heated debate than all the superficial love in shite, I _iew that as "playground" behaviour.
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If much rather have a debate, I have to have debates quite regularly, but what happened last night was not a debate in my opinion; it was aggressive and bitter, very little intellect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I don't bother on the forums so much now, too many are out to argue and cause shit, belittling others and making out they're better than anyone else, as I said before, you wouldn't say it face to face, bloody keyboard warriors |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd much rather have a heated debate than all the superficial love in shite, I _iew that as "playground" behaviour.
Exactly... feisty like it "
Lick arse.
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"I'd much rather have a heated debate than all the superficial love in shite, I _iew that as "playground" behaviour.
If much rather have a debate, I have to have debates quite regularly, but what happened last night was not a debate in my opinion; it was aggressive and bitter, very little intellect."
There was some intellect within the thread, however some can't handle when "challenged" on the substance of their initial thoughts.
Still, it makes for an interesting read imo. |
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"Much ado about nothing if you want my honest opinion. I'm just surprised the popcorn comments didn't turn up."
Especially with all the spin off threads. That is proper playground crap. |
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me! "
SAD season affective disorder, all to do with a lack of vitamin d from the sunlight |
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me!
SAD season affective disorder, all to do with a lack of vitamin d from the sunlight"
I get that! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out. "
Did you report it? |
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?"
Someone took my photos yesterday too. Am yet to track them down |
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me!
SAD season affective disorder, all to do with a lack of vitamin d from the sunlight
I get that!"
A lot of people do to some degree, I suffer quite badly with it, poor em has to put up with me being all grumpy through the winter, you can buy lamps for your house to combat the condition but they're expensive, ess |
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?
Someone took my photos yesterday too. Am yet to track them down "
All ours are watermarked, but anyone that's good with Photoshop could still use them |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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The forum isn't always fluffy and light and I doubt anyone would want them to be totally but sometimes when it does kick off people are best reading the forum summary and logging off. I will paste it to the bottom of this thread.
Also, can people please remember that mods sometimes sleep, work, eat etc so may not be online to read things as they are posted. If you think a mod has missed something please report it rather than attack what they do on the forum as that is against forum rules.
If you have specific mod feedback send it to Admin from the contact button, they read every contact and trust me, they will speak to the mod if needed. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?
Someone took my photos yesterday too. Am yet to track them down "
When you do don't forget to report, how did you know they took them? |
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"The forum isn't always fluffy and light and I doubt anyone would want them to be totally but sometimes when it does kick off people are best reading the forum summary and logging off. I will paste it to the bottom of this thread.
Also, can people please remember that mods sometimes sleep, work, eat etc so may not be online to read things as they are posted. If you think a mod has missed something please report it rather than attack what they do on the forum as that is against forum rules.
If you have specific mod feedback send it to Admin from the contact button, they read every contact and trust me, they will speak to the mod if needed. "
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it. |
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?"
Thanks Ruggers. I'm told it's gone now. I couldn't see the profile to report it as I was blocked but someone kindly assisted on my behalf. Drama over. |
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?
Thanks Ruggers. I'm told it's gone now. I couldn't see the profile to report it as I was blocked but someone kindly assisted on my behalf. Drama over. "
Thats totally horrid MrsB |
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"The forum isn't always fluffy and light and I doubt anyone would want them to be totally but sometimes when it does kick off people are best reading the forum summary and logging off. I will paste it to the bottom of this thread.
Also, can people please remember that mods sometimes sleep, work, eat etc so may not be online to read things as they are posted. If you think a mod has missed something please report it rather than attack what they do on the forum as that is against forum rules.
If you have specific mod feedback send it to Admin from the contact button, they read every contact and trust me, they will speak to the mod if needed.
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it."
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There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked. |
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?
Someone took my photos yesterday too. Am yet to track them down
When you do don't forget to report, how did you know they took them?"
I'll pm you if that is ok?
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Did you report it?
Thanks Ruggers. I'm told it's gone now. I couldn't see the profile to report it as I was blocked but someone kindly assisted on my behalf. Drama over. "
Aahh I understand the hidden profile now. I thought you were another on the way out.
I hate to see you go, but I love to watch you leave . (It doesn't quite work on a forum does it?) |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked. "
Very true. But if I had been blocked I would stay away from said persons post. But sometimes it's the comments on other people's posts that ruin it for some. I'm sure it's been covered, but why are you allowed to see blocked people's posts/comments? You can't in the chat rooms. |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked. "
Great idea, but there'd be nothing for us all to read. |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
Very true. But if I had been blocked I would stay away from said persons post. But sometimes it's the comments on other people's posts that ruin it for some. I'm sure it's been covered, but why are you allowed to see blocked people's posts/comments? You can't in the chat rooms."
Yes, and you're right about staying away from their posts. However, when they insist on making snide comments in reply to threads you've started, it's all the more difficult, but even so, yes, I, for one, should still ignore them. |
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There are far too many people on here who just post sarcastic comments just to try and make themselves look cool..
There is a thread up ATM about hair colour which is obviously tongue in cheek but you would think the OP had accused everyone of eating their own babies!! People need to lighten the fuck up...
I do notice also, that if one gets away with it, the rest of the mob follow suit and the next thing you know .. it has descended into chaos and the jist of the thread is lost..
It is very sad, and childish that the forums should end up like this |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked. "
Yes the level of passive-agression is high at times, and it's something us Brits are good at. It's easier to deal with someone when they're being directly confrontational.
I suspect we're on the same wavelength. Try not to see it as them winning if you're being the bigger person and moving away from it.
And I'm not sure hiding posts from blocked people would work, it would possibly make the forums unworkable. |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
Yes the level of passive-agression is high at times, and it's something us Brits are good at. It's easier to deal with someone when they're being directly confrontational.
I suspect we're on the same wavelength. Try not to see it as them winning if you're being the bigger person and moving away from it.
And I'm not sure hiding posts from blocked people would work, it would possibly make the forums unworkable. "
Yes, I thought that it could make threads difficult to read. However, many other forums do this and it seems to work ok for them. Also, with some you have the option to unhide messages to read them without unblocking the person. |
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And I'm not sure hiding posts from blocked people would work, it would possibly make the forums unworkable.
Yes, I thought that it could make threads difficult to read. However, many other forums do this and it seems to work ok for them. Also, with some you have the option to unhide messages to read them without unblocking the person. "
Ah fair do's, it's not something I've seen before. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked. "
You are right, as a lot is dressed up as "banter" or tongue in cheek" when challenged then it is harder for other people including mods to know whether it is or not.
The best thing to do is quote the person and ask them to ignore your posts and it will let the mods know that it isn't banter. They can then deal with it if it carries on.
If a mod misses it then still report saying why you are reporting and it will be watched |
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Yeah a lot of people are up their own ass I just block and move on so many demands when they prob need to take a breath and check there own profile lol. Some people think they are so hi and mighty I guess it's easy for some online, face to face they would crumble just enjoy and have fun and steer clear of the nutters lol |
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
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Before I look, that's not one of mine is it? |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
You are right, as a lot is dressed up as "banter" or tongue in cheek" when challenged then it is harder for other people including mods to know whether it is or not.
The best thing to do is quote the person and ask them to ignore your posts and it will let the mods know that it isn't banter. They can then deal with it if it carries on.
If a mod misses it then still report saying why you are reporting and it will be watched "
Thank you, that's appreciated |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
Yes the level of passive-agression is high at times, and it's something us Brits are good at. It's easier to deal with someone when they're being directly confrontational.
I suspect we're on the same wavelength. Try not to see it as them winning if you're being the bigger person and moving away from it.
And I'm not sure hiding posts from blocked people would work, it would possibly make the forums unworkable. "
some of us are really blunt though, and it's worth it.
BBcode forums they automatically hide blocked peoples posts and can give the option to look at the post if you really think it's necesaary to follow the thread.
i'd like the blocking on forums coz i posted in someones thread who i had blocked coz they were nasty to me, and i didn't recognise them then i got pissed off about doing that when i did realise who they were. |
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
You are right, as a lot is dressed up as "banter" or tongue in cheek" when challenged then it is harder for other people including mods to know whether it is or not.
The best thing to do is quote the person and ask them to ignore your posts and it will let the mods know that it isn't banter. They can then deal with it if it carries on.
If a mod misses it then still report saying why you are reporting and it will be watched "
That's great advice, will keep that in mind. |
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
Before I look, that's not one of mine is it? "
No, it's just a private thread that only us special people have access to. We mainly use it to talk about other people
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I agree wholeheartedly. Sadly someone on here has decided that public photos are fair game and it's not enough to slight me with thinly veiled insults. So in the spirit of 'fun' have set up a profile in my locality with my pictures mixed with lurid pictures of naked fat genitals and a profile full of filth and offers to do pretty much anything to anyone, anytime.
So thanks ladies. I use that term loosely. MrsB is out.
Wtf? That's horrible. "
arsehole
love you mrs B hugs xxx
im not on here much...i miss the good times..so instead i go out and have good times |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"There are too many snide underhand remarks made that without knowing the background, make it impossible for a mod to see the nastiness behind them and therefore pointless to report. By logging off, you allow the perpetrator to feel they've won.
A long way to solving this would be to hide the posts on the forums from people you've blocked.
You are right, as a lot is dressed up as "banter" or tongue in cheek" when challenged then it is harder for other people including mods to know whether it is or not.
The best thing to do is quote the person and ask them to ignore your posts and it will let the mods know that it isn't banter. They can then deal with it if it carries on.
If a mod misses it then still report saying why you are reporting and it will be watched "
Just to clarify this, people disagreeing with one another is allowed and normal and people have to expect this.
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
Before I look, that's not one of mine is it?
No, it's just a private thread that only us special people have access to. We mainly use it to talk about other people
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Platinum members you mean? |
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"Give an example of a man being testerical? I'm unsure whether I'm affected
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/561658
Before I look, that's not one of mine is it?
No, it's just a private thread that only us special people have access to. We mainly use it to talk about other people
Platinum members you mean? "
"No such thing I'm afraid."
(1st rule of Platinum membership... )
Besides that threads nearly full, it's up to 859 posts...
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Why do you think anything to do with the moon is Lunar, and a term for someone affected by the moon is called a Lunatic
Well I didn't know that a lunatic was someone affected by the moon. I just thought it was someone that belonged in a mental institution.
Not necessarily, also people suffer depression during winter months and are fine during summer. There's a condition for it but the name escapes me!
SAD season affective disorder, all to do with a lack of vitamin d from the sunlight
I get that!
A lot of people do to some degree, I suffer quite badly with it, poor em has to put up with me being all grumpy through the winter, you can buy lamps for your house to combat the condition but they're expensive, ess"
You can buy vitamin d with calcium to help the body absorb it.... worked for a natural health shop for a fair while remember some stuff
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