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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Completely agree OP! It's a turn off. Mind you, if I think you're uber hot..you might get away with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just spotted a case in point...how the hell can you Mis-spell the word 'cock'?

Seriously...what the hell is a 'big cokkk'?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

Out fucking raged.

Lock 'em up.

Kick them off the site, oafs!

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By *iercedItMan  over a year ago

Mcr

I think lots of it, it down to using a phone.

Spelling mistakes and grammar not to much, bt txt spk, and even worse abbreviations using txtspk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not particularly as long as I can still understand whatever has been typed.

I'm here to fuck not hand out spelling tests.....though there's probably a kinky game in there somewhere!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

Out fucking raged.

Lock 'em up.

Kick them off the site, oafs!"

That's too good for them! They should be lined up and shot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

Out fucking raged.

Lock 'em up.

Kick them off the site, oafs!

That's too good for them! They should be lined up and shot. "

Shot with what though?

Not vanilla bullets surely?

I'm thinking stinky knickers and 3 day old cum.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think lots of it, it down to using a phone.

Spelling mistakes and grammar not to much, bt txt spk, and even worse abbreviations using txtspk.

"

So many people blame the pony; sorry i mean phone!! All you have to do is read it before you hit send. Is that so hard??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What the fk does it matter, if you don't like someone's profile spelling,some people genuinely can't spell. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

uptite peple anoy me more then anyfing. i fukkkk happy frendly peple.

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By *umCum999TV/TS  over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Sorry guys but can someone tell me what a 420 meet is

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If we can get the gist of what someone is trying to say, that's good enough for us.

We're far from perfect ourselves, so don't expect others to be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry guys but can someone tell me what a 420 meet is "

Drugs.

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times."

Some people think you are a lesser person and not worth fucking.

I think they aren't worth anything.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

Out fucking raged.

Lock 'em up.

Kick them off the site, oafs!

That's too good for them! They should be lined up and shot.

Shot with what though?

Not vanilla bullets surely?

I'm thinking stinky knickers and 3 day old cum. "

I like your thinking. I'll start saving mine up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm thinking stinky knickers and 3 day old cum. "

My current state...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)"

Fabspelling!

The primordial soup though...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not particularly as long as I can still understand whatever has been typed.

I'm here to fuck not hand out spelling tests.....though there's probably a kinky game in there somewhere! "

I'll play

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times."

Don't you worry about it mate. Some people are able to look beyond.

Carry on what you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's usually auto carrot.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

Fabspelling!

The primordial soup though... "

Come on, never been in a hot tub?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm thinking stinky knickers and 3 day old cum.

My current state..."

Why am I jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

Out fucking raged.

Lock 'em up.

Kick them off the site, oafs!

That's too good for them! They should be lined up and shot.

Shot with what though?

Not vanilla bullets surely?

I'm thinking stinky knickers and 3 day old cum.

I like your thinking. I'll start saving mine up."

A fellow cumrade.

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"What the fk does it matter, if you don't like someone's profile spelling,some people genuinely can't spell. X"

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By *manda63Woman  over a year ago

Southampton

We aren't perfect but spelling mistakes can be sorted by spellcheck

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I once met a Brad Pitt lookie likely.

We were just about to 'do it' when I noticed an earlier text that said. See u l8tr granny luv Brad.

I said ......Oi ..... Brad......NO ...... now fuck off !

I was just so put off you know.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not particularly as long as I can still understand whatever has been typed.

I'm here to fuck not hand out spelling tests.....though there's probably a kinky game in there somewhere!

I'll play "

Right I want you to think of a question you'd like to ask me,then write it down on my body.......with your tongue n I'll see if I can answer before I get too distracted!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

Fabspelling!

The primordial soup though...

Come on, never been in a hot tub?

"

Only once. Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was chatting to someone via a Facebook app for ages. He was writing a book and his English, grammar and spelling were excellent and he had a lot of interesting things to say.

When we spoke in person he could barely string a sentence together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

Fabspelling!

The primordial soup though...

Come on, never been in a hot tub?

Only once. Never again. "

Cum scum *shudders*

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times."

Seriously?

Do I really need to put an explicit disclaimer in case people think I'm attacking people with SLD?

Is common sense so thin on the ground in these forums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)"

I would have thought that it goes without saying that I was speaking with the exemption of those who suffer from Dyslexia or similar SLDs...

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By *tickyfingers60Couple  over a year ago

rochdale

As long as you can understand what they mean.......does it really matter, I have met people in clubs that cant string a sentence together ! but can type one !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Seriously?

Do I really need to put an explicit disclaimer in case people think I'm attacking people with SLD?

Is common sense so thin on the ground in these forums?"

Not everyone is as put off by poor spelling.

We are all different.

UKIP voters offend me far more, for example.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a bit off putting but it's not a deal breaker.

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By *eedsmale36Man  over a year ago

Leeds


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

Not bothered really, I only want to fuck them not form a university challenge team

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

I would have thought that it goes without saying that I was speaking with the exemption of those who suffer from Dyslexia or similar SLDs..."

Unless they put it on their profile, how would you know? Sorry I just don't understand your point; "people that don't proof read etc. etc." should we put all out faults/conditions/issues in our profiles so that people can form a judgement...

...NOT having a go OP, probably sounds like it, I have a tendency for that (thats one of my many faults).. but what you ask for, cannot be found unless people explicitly state, "by the way dyslexic, just look at my foof and make a decision"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Seriously?

Do I really need to put an explicit disclaimer in case people think I'm attacking people with SLD?

Is common sense so thin on the ground in these forums?"

Common sense to me suggests that despite the spelling errors , there may be a very shaggable person behind the keyboard or phone ,

So no , it doesn't put me off at all .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not particularly as long as I can still understand whatever has been typed.

I'm here to fuck not hand out spelling tests.....though there's probably a kinky game in there somewhere!

I'll play

Right I want you to think of a question you'd like to ask me,then write it down on my body.......with your tongue n I'll see if I can answer before I get too distracted! "

Oh.....twitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Some people think you are a lesser person and not worth fucking.

I think they aren't worth anything. "

How do you come to the conclusion that I see them as 'lesser people who aren't worth fucking'?

I said that I find poor spelling 'off-putting' because the majority of the time, the people concerned are sending me one-liners like 'wanna suck my cok?' or 'hi m8. Do you want to fuk?'

Maybe that doesn't annoy you, but I find it frustrating...

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS  over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

if i wanted said person to ghost write a novel for me it would put me off ,but as I'd only be meeting people on here for sex .. no... infact it would probably make me want to contact them.. i remember the girl in the group 8 English class... thick as shit... but could she suck..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Some people think you are a lesser person and not worth fucking.

I think they aren't worth anything.

How do you come to the conclusion that I see them as 'lesser people who aren't worth fucking'?

I said that I find poor spelling 'off-putting' because the majority of the time, the people concerned are sending me one-liners like 'wanna suck my cok?' or 'hi m8. Do you want to fuk?'

Maybe that doesn't annoy you, but I find it frustrating..."

Then filter the offending sub-set of peeps that do this (in your described example this would be guys I am guessing); instigate messaging with people that appeal to you and well... win...

Fab has very few utilities, but it does have filters.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

Honestly no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, written communication is important to me. There can be a long build up to some of my meets due to logistics, and I don't talk on the phone or go on cam, so we will be contacting each other by message or text in the run up. Really bad spelling etc grates on me, I find it difficult to read, those people generally don't get me or my sense of humour either, and I don't particularly care if it's due to laziness or dyslexia.

If I really struggled with written communication I'd find another avenue that played more to my strengths like socials or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone has their standards op and if grammar is important to you then that's cool but at least have an open mind and give people the benefit of the doubt .I often make spelling mistakes sometimes its the phone.altering words I have typed and sometimes it's me going so fast the phone can't keep up and I'm so engrossed I don't check what I have sent

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Some people think you are a lesser person and not worth fucking.

I think they aren't worth anything.

How do you come to the conclusion that I see them as 'lesser people who aren't worth fucking'?

I said that I find poor spelling 'off-putting' because the majority of the time, the people concerned are sending me one-liners like 'wanna suck my cok?' or 'hi m8. Do you want to fuk?'

Maybe that doesn't annoy you, but I find it frustrating..."

I didn't say that *you* see some as lesser people, I said some people do. I should have explained better, sorry.

Spelling mistakes grate on me. Just the way I am and I can't help that. Spelling doesn't put me off meeting people though. I like people for who they are.

I respect people's preferences and if they don't want to meet for bad spelling or bad teeth or ginger hair or height or whatever that's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Seriously?

Do I really need to put an explicit disclaimer in case people think I'm attacking people with SLD?

Is common sense so thin on the ground in these forums?

Not everyone is as put off by poor spelling.

We are all different.

UKIP voters offend me far more, for example. "

damn I best stop voting ukip lol sorry nige u lost my vote

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dose it relly matta as lung as u knuw what day wer sayin is it relly sutch a big deal?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm with you. I once said I didn't wanna meet someone as their spelling and grammar were worse than a 7 year olds and my ex was like, 'Jesus K, they're fucking us not doing our homework'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm with you. I once said I didn't wanna meet someone as their spelling and grammar were worse than a 7 year olds and my ex was like, 'Jesus K, they're fucking us not doing our homework'"
well u could always bend them over and spank them as punishment lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.

....and wot about thos hoo have/are dyslexic and find it verry hard to spell at times.

Some people think you are a lesser person and not worth fucking.

I think they aren't worth anything.

How do you come to the conclusion that I see them as 'lesser people who aren't worth fucking'?

I said that I find poor spelling 'off-putting' because the majority of the time, the people concerned are sending me one-liners like 'wanna suck my cok?' or 'hi m8. Do you want to fuk?'

Maybe that doesn't annoy you, but I find it frustrating...

I didn't say that *you* see some as lesser people, I said some people do. I should have explained better, sorry.

Spelling mistakes grate on me. Just the way I am and I can't help that. Spelling doesn't put me off meeting people though. I like people for who they are.

I respect people's preferences and if they don't want to meet for bad spelling or bad teeth or ginger hair or height or whatever that's cool. "

Apologies for misinterpreting your comment.

Perhaps, on my part, I should have included references to the Equality Act 2010 in the OP, so as to make it clear and transparent that I was excluding those with SLD or other relevant conditions.

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By *ureTemptationWoman  over a year ago

Off the grid

I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for."

I agree

(Although I also reject based on height, I'm a tough crowd)

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS  over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

yes i feel the same.i always think their either stupid or lazy

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By *ureTemptationWoman  over a year ago

Off the grid


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for.

I agree

(Although I also reject based on height, I'm a tough crowd)"

I do reject based on men wearing a necklace. Or having a beard. If I reject on height too there's pretty much no one local left!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ahhh I just see it as a tool to disregard. Just another person who who doesn't fit my preference. I'm the same with text speak. Not a fan of that either. I don't get annoyed by it though. I'm more indifferent, and not interested in conversing any further with that person. I like chatting too much, and don't want to get distracted by endless spelling mistakes .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for."

so a 5'6 bradpitt armpit lookalike who says hey u little hot thing how about we bump and grind a little would be in with a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for.

I agree

(Although I also reject based on height, I'm a tough crowd)

I do reject based on men wearing a necklace. Or having a beard. If I reject on height too there's pretty much no one local left!"

Oh I hear you on necklaces. I'm ok with beards though

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By *ureTemptationWoman  over a year ago

Off the grid


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for.so a 5'6 bradpitt armpit lookalike who says hey u little hot thing how about we bump and grind a little would be in with a chance lol"

Your profile says you're only 5'5 though?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not particularly as long as I can still understand whatever has been typed.

I'm here to fuck not hand out spelling tests.....though there's probably a kinky game in there somewhere!

I'll play

Right I want you to think of a question you'd like to ask me,then write it down on my body.......with your tongue n I'll see if I can answer before I get too distracted!

Oh.....twitch "

Twitch n throb

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I said this earlier on the other thread.

It's a personal preference for me. I need the really well crafted flirty banter, written very eloquently, as it's a huge turn on for me.

Other women will reject guys based on their height, which I find really odd and a bit judgy.

So reject based on who you want to meet and who you don't. But as with everything, there's no one type that everyone goes for.so a 5'6 bradpitt armpit lookalike who says hey u little hot thing how about we bump and grind a little would be in with a chance lol"

Brad Pit armpit pmsl!

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By *ifferent69Man  over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Jesus, sorry op thread " jet a fookung life"

Really ?

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By *uicy jonesMan  over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

In my experience it is mainly down to the phone are use my phone 99% of the time and often very spelling errors or so because their predictive text decided to put other words down instead I do go and check what I wrote but sometimes I don't before I press done or send so do then go back when I've realise usually

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can't we just respect the fact that different people have different skill sets and have done; OP thank you for telling us what puts you off; but really?

I guess what puts me off is negative people; either in forum posts or status messages; people that cannot or will not accept that fabswingers is a primordial soup of people of all backgrounds; academic attainment and ability.

My Phd mentor had dyslexia, couldn't spell particularly well, and was hot... would I have spent an evening in entangled passion

This is a swinging site. isn't it? I mean, I haven't joined fabspelling by mistake (again)

I would have thought that it goes without saying that I was speaking with the exemption of those who suffer from Dyslexia or similar SLDs..."

How do you know who is dyslexic and who isn't? Is your first question 'are you dyslexic or just rubbish at spelling?'

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By *est Wales WifeCouple  over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Always dangerous to play the grammar/spelling police then have errors in your own profile.

If you're looking it's the repetition of the indefinite article in the first sentence after the salutation.

Hoist by your own petard methinks?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Always dangerous to play the grammar/spelling police then have errors in your own profile.

If you're looking it's the repetition of the indefinite article in the first sentence after the salutation.

Hoist by your own petard methinks?"

That's a little excessive. He clearly said "riddled with spelling mistakes". We all make the odd mistake here and there but there's a huge difference between that and something you have to read five times to work out what the fuck they are talking about. I really don't have the patience for that, and if people think I'm a snob/judgemental/missing out by not taking it further then so be it.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple  over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"That's a little excessive. He clearly said "riddled with spelling mistakes". "

He actually also said;

"If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I could overlook a a but an excessive, unnecessary misuse of quotation marks for no apparent reason .......... well ...... I just shudder to think how the world will decline because of them........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"That's a little excessive. He clearly said "riddled with spelling mistakes".

He actually also said;

"If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort.""

Well I only skimmed his profile so I'm sure there's something incorrect there which you'll enlighten us all about, but it was quite obvious to me the kind of profiles and messages he is talking about.

It still baffles me that people who have so much difficulty with written communication choose the internet, where they are completely reliant on the written word, as their means of meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is anyone else really put off by people whose profiles/status updates are riddled with spelling mistakes?

In my opinion, it doesn't reflect well on you. If you can't be bothered to proof-read, it suggests a lack of effort."

For some folk it is an effort. doesnt bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Always dangerous to play the grammar/spelling police then have errors in your own profile.

If you're looking it's the repetition of the indefinite article in the first sentence after the salutation.

Hoist by your own petard methinks?"

Touché. Well spotted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am wondering if this is a reason for apparent timewasters and no shows??

When they write "You know I will be there because I am keen to cum!" they really meant to type....

" You! NO I won't be there because I am in Kent with my mum." and autocorrect has altered it?

Poor lambs! They get so much stick because their English is not up to scratch.

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