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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Couldn't give a hoot what they drive. What's he/she/they like and are we compatible meet wise on a mutual basis is what's in our thoughts. A regular we meet travels all around the country by train for meets, no car, it matters absolutely not a jot, a Londer so not much of a surprise tbh. Not that shallow. |
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By *uicy jones OP Man
over a year ago
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Yes I agree to the comments , my one thought is , if the cars a nail and an filthy mess , what does that say about the owner ?
Just something came across a while ago , Made me think |
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over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git "
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting. |
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting. "
Not at all, I'd think flash git and then get to know him if he's nice  |
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
Isn't that the same as judging them negatively for having a non-flash car?"
Probably, but it would only be a quick thought. Nothing that would stop me carrying on with the social if we'd got that far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
Isn't that the same as judging them negatively for having a non-flash car?
Probably, but it would only be a quick thought. Nothing that would stop me carrying on with the social if we'd got that far "
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By *uicy jones OP Man
over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting. "
No , take them for what they are , but if their car is not clean and healthy inside , what is / could their personal hygeine be like ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
Not at all, I'd think flash git and then get to know him if he's nice "
Why would you even think flash git in the first place?
The man clearly has a job and puts in some hard work, why judge him negatively for that? |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
No , take them for what they are , but if their car is not clean and healthy inside , what is / could their personal hygeine be like ?
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Don't get this at all. Right now we're a bit peeved that our car has a bit of damage due to and accident whilst we slept, we have to fix it at our cost, and guess what, we're a bit down about it and slightly neglect it because of this, it's a nice car too. Now our home is spotless because that's how we'd like to live, that's just us, we're clean too by anyones standards. Point is our car say sod all about us and our personal hygiene. |
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I don't give a flying fuck what car someone drives, after all it's just a mode of transport and tells me nothing about the person.
I drive an old banger, as a relatively new driver it's all i can afford to insure.
If someone has negative opinions on what car I drive then they are not the kind of person I want to meet anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
No , take them for what they are , but if their car is not clean and healthy inside , what is / could their personal hygeine be like ?
Don't get this at all. Right now we're a bit peeved that our car has a bit of damage due to and accident whilst we slept, we have to fix it at our cost, and guess what, we're a bit down about it and slightly neglect it because of this, it's a nice car too. Now our home is spotless because that's how we'd like to live, that's just us, we're clean too by anyones standards. Point is our car say sod all about us and our personal hygiene."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give a flying fuck what car someone drives, after all it's just a mode of transport and tells me nothing about the person.
I drive an old banger, as a relatively new driver it's all i can afford to insure.
If someone has negative opinions on what car I drive then they are not the kind of person I want to meet anyway."
This.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't care about someone's car.
We drive all over the place and put more miles on our car in a month than many people do in half a year. It's used and looks like it. I guess people could look at our car instead of us and make their minds up that way, but I think its a bit of a silly reason not to have sex with someone. It's not like I want to fuck in the back seat.  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't care about someone's car.
We drive all over the place and put more miles on our car in a month than many people do in half a year. It's used and looks like it. I guess people could look at our car instead of us and make their minds up that way, but I think its a bit of a silly reason not to have sex with someone. It's not like I want to fuck in the back seat. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I drive a van, my van is my car.
I drive my van when I'm covered in mud/cement/paint/grass/grout etc and no I don't keep the inside spotless....I, however have a bath every evening and change my clothes so no, the inside of my van is no reflection of my personal hygiene |
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
Not at all, I'd think flash git and then get to know him if he's nice
Why would you even think flash git in the first place?
The man clearly has a job and puts in some hard work, why judge him negatively for that? "
We need to define flash car here. I'm not talking about BMWs, Audis etc. I'm talking about the kind of car that someone wanting to look flash would drive
Put it this way, if a car was going to affect my opinion of someone, and I did say that it wouldn't, it would be more likely to be someone with a flash car than someone with a banger  |
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By *uicy jones OP Man
over a year ago
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"I drive a van, my van is my car.
I drive my van when I'm covered in mud/cement/paint/grass/grout etc and no I don't keep the inside spotless....I, however have a bath every evening and change my clothes so no, the inside of my van is no reflection of my personal hygiene "
I see your point , just it was a meet where the car was the venue !
But empty food boxes , (lots ) some banana skins and the car didn't smell good either !!
Just put me off ,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
Not at all, I'd think flash git and then get to know him if he's nice
Why would you even think flash git in the first place?
The man clearly has a job and puts in some hard work, why judge him negatively for that?
We need to define flash car here. I'm not talking about BMWs, Audis etc. I'm talking about the kind of car that someone wanting to look flash would drive
Put it this way, if a car was going to affect my opinion of someone, and I did say that it wouldn't, it would be more likely to be someone with a flash car than someone with a banger "
Well what cars are you talking about exactly? I've drove and drive the two brands you've listed so far including the other famous german luxury brand that you haven't.
I don't try to look flash, I work hard and I like a nice car, would that make me a flash git for having a nice car?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git
So you judge a person based on their car not their personality?
That's interesting.
Not at all, I'd think flash git and then get to know him if he's nice
Why would you even think flash git in the first place?
The man clearly has a job and puts in some hard work, why judge him negatively for that?
We need to define flash car here. I'm not talking about BMWs, Audis etc. I'm talking about the kind of car that someone wanting to look flash would drive
Put it this way, if a car was going to affect my opinion of someone, and I did say that it wouldn't, it would be more likely to be someone with a flash car than someone with a banger
Well what cars are you talking about exactly? I've drove and drive the two brands you've listed so far including the other famous german luxury brand that you haven't.
I don't try to look flash, I work hard and I like a nice car, would that make me a flash git for having a nice car? "
Totally agree with this, I've got a couple of nice cars because I work bloody hard, drive a lot and want something nice to spend that time in. It doesn't make me flash whatsoever... compared to some of my neighbours I'm the pauper round here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I've got as far as meeting someone, the mode of transport is inconsequential. I've mostly not got to see it anyway, or only on a later meet when going somewhere out in the sticks (country house hotel perhaps, together). |
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I wish I'd not said anything now but I said "I'd think flash git". Didn't say the thought would last long.
And factor this in - I would never be meeting someone I hadn't already decided was a nice guy.
I don't actually judge anyone on cars, I'm not fussed about them at all.
Having said that I've been invited to the new Porsche Panamera launch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it doesn't.
In fact if a car was really fancy I'd think flash git "
I wouldn't really care what they drove.
Not all people who drive nice cars are flash just like a nice car. I pay in road tax what my first car cost me Im not flash i eat fish and chips in mine, just get upset when i spill the curry sauce  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if they they turned up in a car with a big exhaust and couloured wheels, all that jazz ?
It's amazing the judgement boyracers (brother) get from women in the street.
Dont think we cant tell when your eye judging lol
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"Wouldn't bother me, most gorgeous girl I ever dated drove a battered old allegro, it's a car at the end of the day"
Not seen one of those for a bit. Not a bad little motor really.
Always love people who drive classics.
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