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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
Yes.
It was the 90's and I had a lot of cider. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
Yes XXX
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person 
I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years!
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you'll wear out the strings on me violin Dan! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up "
That's coyote ugly |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
no OP I don't get d*unk on grounds of being a control freak so the answer is I've always had my wits about me so I have no excuse to who I've slept with which means I've never woke up in the morning thinking why did I fuck her .
I wake up knowing full well why I fucked her it was because I wanted to plain and simple be she gods gift or miss average slim or chubby she was my choice not the alcohols choice .
so regrets my end  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up
That's coyote ugly"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up
Gnaw your arm off..that so made me giggle!  "
fancy meeting a 1 armed man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings
no OP I don't get d*unk on grounds of being a control freak so the answer is I've always had my wits about me so I have no excuse to who I've slept with which means I've never woke up in the morning thinking why did I fuck her .
I wake up knowing full well why I fucked her it was because I wanted to plain and simple be she gods gift or miss average slim or chubby she was my choice not the alcohols choice .
so regrets my end "
Paradise where you are innit, what, what? |
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up "
Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
I have years ago when I was an innocent lol. I thought it was expected and I'm was to polite to say no. Didn't do a social back then. Went purely by his pics online. He booked a hotel. I knocked on the door. He obviously answered. I walked him and after turning around to look at him probably I could clearly see he was much much older then he'd previously let on. I went on with the evening. He gave me lots of vodka which I drank due to nerves. Sex happened. I let it. Next morning I rush out as fast as I could crying, shaking and angry with myself for going through with it. Never again! This is one reason why I insist on socials, chats on kik with swapping very resent face pics before promising further meet ups. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves    "
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person
I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years!
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this for me too but then again drink account's for meny encounters of youth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up
Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know "
You do look better when yer slap a bit of lippy on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?"
Quite easily lol
Engage your brain and everything else falls into place
Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?"
I get one on a bus  So a naked body is no problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?
Quite easily lol
Engage your brain and everything else falls into place
Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye "
Ah you simply imagine it's another woman whom you adore that's under you? Naughty boy! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?
Quite easily lol
Engage your brain and everything else falls into place
Theres alot more to attraction than meets the eye
Ah you simply imagine it's another woman whom you adore that's under you? Naughty boy! Lol."
No not at all, i know fine well who im with at all times and i dont try and make a diamond out of a pebble,
I just get stuck in and get the job done
Everyones a winner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?"
oh so true sadly us heterosexual guys are biologically programed to go hard when faced with tits and a ripe fanny .
which sadly means we are capable of fucking any woman cant guarantee a good fuck but we are capable of the act when faced with the female form no matter how unappealing that form maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" "
Hi 5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!"
Hi 5 "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Slept with more than 1 person i was not attracted to, and before anyone says where are your morals or anything like that
I dont care, its sex and everyone enjoyed themselves
How do you get an erection when you're not sexually attracted to that person?
oh so true sadly us heterosexual guys are biologically programed to go hard when faced with tits and a ripe fanny .
which sadly means we are capable of fucking any woman cant guarantee a good fuck but we are capable of the act when faced with the female form no matter how unappealing that form maybe "
How hilarious lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I've gone a few months/years down the line and thought why did I go near that, but that was due to seeing them in a different light.
I'd never sleep with someone because it was expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!" "
So quick and witty, I always think of good comebacks way after the fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!"
Hi 5 "
*stores riposte for future use* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes quite a lot in the beginning but Hubby has since introduced a "no pity shags" rule!
I couldnt put anyone into a class of pity shag  "
To me the pity shag is kind of selfish outlook, why fuk so.eone if your not fully interested how much fun they have |
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up
Ah shit, sorry about that. I know I looked a bit rough that particular morning, but I do scrub up well ya know You do look better when yer slap a bit of lippy on "
Canna beat a bit of bj lippy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once hammered I met a girl in town took her back to my mates house when I woke up she looked like Olive from on the busses I left before she woke up leaving my mate to kick her out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
No. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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No, But I have woken up naked in bed with another guy & thought "What the Fucking hell!!"..
Turns out the night before was heavy & we went back to a friends house, me and this guy flaked out later & the girl & her bf thought it would be funny to put us in bed together & strip us naked.
Nasty people
I was about twenty when it happened..
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"Sadly, I'm 'that' other person
I'm sure there's been many WTF! moments from others I've met over the years!
you'll wear out the strings on me violin Dan!"
Surely a little vibrato on the G string wouldn't go amiss? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes in my youth . I woke up next to them and they have been laid on my arm . I've looked and thought. I would rather gnaw my arm off then wake em up
Gnaw your arm off..that so made me giggle! "
me too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem here is determining what is meant by “attraction.”
I can be sexually aroused by a man or woman I’m not aesthetically attracted to. Notice I didn’t say “physically attracted,” since, by definition, I wouldn’t be having sex with them if some physical attraction weren’t involved. But the arousal comes from their own desire and/or skill. If those things sync up well with mine, then they would have to be horribly repulsive in appearance for me not to respond. Does that even make sense....on the vino early tonight!!!
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"The problem here is determining what is meant by “attraction.”
I can be sexually aroused by a man or woman I’m not aesthetically attracted to. Notice I didn’t say “physically attracted,” since, by definition, I wouldn’t be having sex with them if some physical attraction weren’t involved. But the arousal comes from their own desire and/or skill. If those things sync up well with mine, then they would have to be horribly repulsive in appearance for me not to respond. Does that even make sense....on the vino early tonight!!!
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perfect sense your talking about if there sexual animal gels with your sexual animal you would be a fool not to go there ,
[people often forget that the biggest sex organ in the human body is our brains .
now pass me some of that vino please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep had a wank recently and couldn't believe how ugly the fucker I'd just given a handjob to was. Couldn't look his face in the mirror. So embarrassing 
Have you heard from them since? "
Yep the fucker is still there every time I look in the mirror |
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
Yes, several times with the same girl. I never learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, but send them my way.
A few sympathy shags with some uggos will boost my chances of getting into heaven
(disclaimer anyone who actually takes this comment seriously needs to think about having a humour implant, or is it me that needs one? Oh well)
you are one ugly muther fucker.
Rooooaarrrrr |
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In my 20s, out for my birthday with a group of friends. friend of a friend took a shine to me. For lots of reasons she wasn't my thing. About 3am everyone else went to bed, she wouldn't stop flirting. Decided shagging her was the best way to get some sleep! |
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"In my 20s, out for my birthday with a group of friends. friend of a friend took a shine to me. For lots of reasons she wasn't my thing. About 3am everyone else went to bed, she wouldn't stop flirting. Decided shagging her was the best way to get some sleep!"
A very mercenary approach. But funny |
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I did used to go out and get d*unk many moons ago.
But I never had sex with someone I didn't fancy. I'd get offers and even end up snogging etc. but I always stayed wise to the walk of shame scenario |
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"I've been the "other person" and fair play to her, she didn't even try and hide her dissapointment.
She did say she thought I was my better looking mate, all I could reply with was "Soz, he's in the other room with your better looking mate!"
So quick and witty, I always think of good comebacks way after the fact."
Yep. That's a great response .
I'm the same, and I often think "if only I'd said this or that" after the event. The French actually have a phrase for it - L'esprit de l'escalier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
No to both of the situations. |
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"Wow are the couples telling me you have only met people where both of you find both of the other couple attractive?? Really? "
Yup. No pity shags here, or "taking one for the team".
We have even turned a couple down because I (Mart) didn't "gel" with the bloke, even though I wouldn't have been shagging him lol!
We have to like the whole package, or its hasta la vista, baby! |
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"Wow are the couples telling me you have only met people where both of you find both of the other couple attractive?? Really?
Yup. No pity shags here, or "taking one for the team".
We have even turned a couple down because I (Mart) didn't "gel" with the bloke, even though I wouldn't have been shagging him lol!
We have to like the whole package, or its hasta la vista, baby! "
I think we have a different viewpoint. There are very few people we meet that I would say attract me. But then I'm not looking for a new partner I have the one I want. I think for that reason I prefer orgy rooms and clubs where the sex and stimulation are the key. It is about the experience not feeling attracted to the person giving it to you. Attraction is for different things entirely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Commando roll out the bed n take a running jump,smashing out of the window screaming "FREEEDOMMMMM!" at the top of your voice.
Then loudly wheelspinning away in the motor in a cloud of tyre smoke while every curtain in the street twitches away!
Then off for a cool sharp harp  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hey Xx great post, always being told I don't quite make the grade, or not for me blah which is fair enough but don't half break your confidence  I'm a really attentative lover and really in for complete pleasure of the partner, love being sensual,and am easy going, love a laugh, and always willing to try new things, had some awesome meets from my last profile, usually with mature women, as my age and below dont seem to look at me twice, which is a shame as I have a soft spot for late teens, early twenties too, some girls have never had their toes licked and sucked and beg for more it can be that enjoyable LOL , and I love to tear apart tights and use my lips and tounge to please, x afew of my meets have almost kidnapped me in the early hours/ next morning LOL,(didn't want me to go ) so I must be doing something right just seem to not get that initial chance, but I just tell myself its not my loss and hop on, all you can do LOL x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could / would / have not / ever had sex with someone I'm not attracted to.
I'm surprised to read some guys could, just to see some pictures from here and go from erect to flaccid in less than a second.
Dreams |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever been in a situation either you have spent a night with someone you didn't fancy next day be it lighting or bein sober or had sex with someone coz it was expected and the easiest way to get away without hurting there feelings"
I have...A Few times. I just end up not doing anything or in times where ive been d*unk ive got tf out of there the next day lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No cause to me personality is better then looks but I have slept with unattractive women yet amazing personality I have slept with what most people would class as gorgeous yet personality was horrible.
Unattractive over horrible personality any day in my honest opinion. |
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