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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have psoriasis and currently refuse to play as I have a bad flare up. 
The hubby says I'm being silly and that no one will notice. Now my own skin makes me cringe so Lord knows what other people will think lol
What about you? What would put you out of action or put you off meeting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad Hygiene, Smelly nether regions."
That's what stops you playing? Why don't you just shower! I think the OP means what puts you out of action, not what in others stops play
Beard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its rare but sometimes my body dismorphia gets so bad that I just want to hide away.. and just lately my arthritis is getting so bad that I wake up and want to cry.. |
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"I have psoriasis and currently refuse to play as I have a bad flare up.
The hubby says I'm being silly and that no one will notice. Now my own skin makes me cringe so Lord knows what other people will think lol
What about you? What would put you out of action or put you off meeting?"
I once had a foursome with a mate, his girlfriend who had psoriasis and my fb at the time.. didn't bother me one bit. Especially once I seen her clit piercing and she got a hold of my cock
I never knew beforehand either   |
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site  "
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im fit as a butchers dog..but I cant handle women with hard skin on there feet ( heels)...ooooooh noooooo"
You know it takes weeks of walking miles every day to get a good crust on your heels. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I have psoriasis and currently refuse to play as I have a bad flare up.
The hubby says I'm being silly and that no one will notice. Now my own skin makes me cringe so Lord knows what other people will think lol
What about you? What would put you out of action or put you off meeting?"
My psoriasas has flared up too and I'm far too fat that I don't feel comfortable.
Dick says there are much bigger ladies out there and not to worry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes i lack confidence so that stops me wanting to meet. Pain often makes me want to say no to meeting but i do try to ignore the pain as much as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
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A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter |
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter "
Aww, I didn't know you were such a sensitive soul |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter
Aww, I didn't know you were such a sensitive soul "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have psoriasis and currently refuse to play as I have a bad flare up.
The hubby says I'm being silly and that no one will notice. Now my own skin makes me cringe so Lord knows what other people will think lol
What about you? What would put you out of action or put you off meeting?
I once had a foursome with a mate, his girlfriend who had psoriasis and my fb at the time.. didn't bother me one bit. Especially once I seen her clit piercing and she got a hold of my cock
I never knew beforehand either "
Psoriasis can be any size/quantity
Some barely noticeable some the size of 10£ notes guess depends on the person and how long they had it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter
Aww, I didn't know you were such a sensitive soul "
there's a lot you don't know Mr |
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter
Aww, I didn't know you were such a sensitive soul
there's a lot you don't know Mr "
Says the man with the black eye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very rarely feel like I wouldn't be able to match up to standard, but there are a couple of forumites, that I feel intimidated by, not in a bad way, its just I get it into my head that they are such awesome sexual beings, that I convince myself that I'll blow my load after about 30 seconds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"puts me off other people is a huge verified list
not here to dick half the site
Yeah, people occasionally have a hissy fit about that.
It's just silly.
a) verifications are slightly misleading in that all they mean is the other person is real, not necessarily that you've fucked
b) who fucking cares? It's a SEX site.
A, a quick read tells you if they've fucked or not
B, I care obviously Poindexter
Aww, I didn't know you were such a sensitive soul
there's a lot you don't know Mr
Says the man with the black eye "
my eyes not black now and I'm still saying it ...so there |
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"I very rarely feel like I wouldn't be able to match up to standard, but there are a couple of forumites, that I feel intimidated by, not in a bad way, its just I get it into my head that they are such awesome sexual beings, that I convince myself that I'll blow my load after about 30 seconds"
Well that's exactly what will happen... get it in your head they are just another person, just like you, no more or less important or potentially awesome.. be happy in yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a bad back problem - i dose up on extra meds usually and refuse to let it stop me unless its crippling - the next day i often wish i hadnt moved out of the house but smile to myself for the recent why  |
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if i dont put cream on my face and ears i get psoriasis i wont meet anyone because i would feel self conscious and probably uncomfortable.They may not notice but i just wouldnt feel right so prefer to wait for it to clear up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have psoriasis and currently refuse to play as I have a bad flare up.
The hubby says I'm being silly and that no one will notice. Now my own skin makes me cringe so Lord knows what other people will think lol
What about you? What would put you out of action or put you off meeting?"
I know how you feel....I have eczema n though most of the time it's nothing more than dry skin n hardly noticeable,every 7 or so years it seems to flare up for a few months so I'm walking about all bandaged up like a mummy.
Not very sexy! |
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I had psoriasis but am clear for now. I hid it on my legs with really thick denier hold ups (from Amazon if you're interested!) but then it got worse, arms covered too.
So I quit Fab. Guys would say they didn't mind then suspiciously go quiet when discussing an actual meet.
I tried to upload a photo of my body here and Fab rejected it/refused it. Yeah that made me feel just lovely. Husband said it would be because they thought the marks were self inflicted. But really? My legs were covered and some patches were the size of my hand so how the hell did they think I managed that?
I'm clear now but still nervous about meets, I feel less confident having gone through all that. |
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