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over a year ago
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They changed their mind and decided no further chat was needed.
Shit happens here. Overanalysing it in your head will drive you to distraction. Move on is the best tip. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People find on chatting further to someone that they're not interested for whatever reason, something you said etc may have put them off or they just found no interest. Personally I'd just say thanks but I don't wish to take it further before blocking but it happens a lot on here. don't take it to heart or waste time over analysing when you are never going to meet them. |
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over a year ago
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"I get that,vut it wasn't like I was pestering them"
They probably didn't think you were, just thought, for whatever reason, that they wouldn't get on with you so didn't want to waste your time further. Its really not worth worrying about, its a common occurrence on here. |
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"Chatting to a couple on here yesterday,all going well,everything was running smoothly,went to say hello today,and I'm blocked.
I give up."
Who knows bud, but chalk it up as a lucky dodge of weirdos
Civility costs nothing
Onwards and upwards |
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Also, the trouble with couples is that you have two people to deal with. Perhaps one was keen, but the other wasn't.
This is why we're crap at 'couple' mail - we only ever answer it together, and when we're together we sometimes have other things on our minds...
We once had an exchange that went something along the lines of
Hi, fancy meeting?
Ok
Sorry, we're not interested.
It's nowt you've done wrong.
Mr ddc |
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"Maybe you were talking to one half and the other half said no later on?"
That's what I thought, or they saw something on your profile that caused them to change their minds. This happens with us far more than we care to mention
Beard |
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"Maybe you were talking to one half and the other half said no later on?
That's what I thought, or they saw something on your profile that caused them to change their minds. This happens with us far more than we care to mention
Beard"
Yes, your profile is great till you realise that you're part of the deal, Beard.
(this is jokes! I have an overwhelming need to clarify that ) |
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