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"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? " Depends what you're trying to achieve. | |||
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""Pof"?" Plenty of cod roe  | |||
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"I was on POF but not looking to date & find this site more discreet for what I want." I've found more relaxed people on pof... Strangely enough | |||
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"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate "I failed when it said "marital status". | |||
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"And I'm in preston" Quite a Preston bias to this thread! | |||
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"I'm currently on most dating sites. As you can, it's going well...." Ok ok. Im sur it is. No need to brag  | |||
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"I'm currently on most dating sites. As you can, it's going well.... Ok ok. Im sur it is. No need to brag "Tumble Valiant is what they call me. Top shelf dusting is my speciality  | |||
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can. | |||
"Used to be. Have a hidden profile on there now "Oh how do you hide a profile on there? | |||
"And I'm in preston" I read that as, "I'm in prison" | |||
"Used to be. Have a hidden profile on there now
Oh how do you hide a profile on there?"Just go into your profile settings. It will talk you through it | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF " Really? Doesn't that rather dismiss all the couples on Fab? 
Mr ddc | |||
"And I'm in preston I read that as, "I'm in prison"" Probably get more action ....!! | |||
"And I'm in preston I read that as, "I'm in prison" Probably get more action ....!! " I'm straight, that's the problem....!! | |||
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"Most people on fab are on POF Really? Doesn't that rather dismiss all the couples on Fab?
Mr ddc"Most fab members are probably single. And male. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can." | |||
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"Most people on fab are on POF Really? Doesn't that rather dismiss all the couples on Fab?
Mr ddc
Most fab members are probably single. And male."Really? I thought even a high proportion of the single males were married?  | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
"i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile. | |||
"I'm currently on most dating sites. As you can, it's going well.... Ok ok. Im sur it is. No need to brag
Tumble Valiant is what they call me. Top shelf dusting is my speciality "Plenty of dusting here. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile."I did! | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!"i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway. i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me. | |||
"I'm on both but rarely bother with Pof I prefer fab at least here the guys are honest about only wanting a fuck " | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
"Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there. | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there."i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted). | |||
what's the harm with a drink | |||
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""Pof"?" You get a sticker shaped like a fish and put it on the back of your car | |||
"I'm going out for a drink tomorrow with a guy who messaged me on POF sex hasn't even been brought up as yet but I will see... what's the harm with a drink "One drink will lead to another then before you know it you're hitched, pregnant, divorced and then hating men. Don't do it | |||
"By PoF do you mean that site called Plenty of Freaks?" Lol. | |||
"I'm on "top of the world" it's a site dedicated to fans of titanic who like so sing the songs while dating/fucking " That sounds like my kind of thing. Giving a blowjob whilst belting out Celine Dion tunes!! What man could resist  | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF Really? Doesn't that rather dismiss all the couples on Fab?
Mr ddc
Most fab members are probably single. And male.
Really? I thought even a high proportion of the single males were married?
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"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? " Why have you made a link between the two? | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted). "I'm not a stalker honest! | |||
"I'm going out for a drink tomorrow with a guy who messaged me on POF sex hasn't even been brought up as yet but I will see... what's the harm with a drink
One drink will lead to another then before you know it you're hitched, pregnant, divorced and then hating men. Don't do it "I don't think all men are cunts...just a few but not all | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest! "you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time. | |||
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"Surprised this iost has lasted as the site buries it's head in sand over competition. Can't speak don't speak won't speak " tbf most of us are slagging off POF | |||
"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? Why have you made a link between the two?" Take a wild guess | |||
"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? Why have you made a link between the two? Take a wild guess" Seriously dude no idea, never been on pof heard it was some shit dating site Which clearly this isn't... | |||
"Surprised this iost has lasted as the site buries it's head in sand over competition. Can't speak don't speak won't speak tbf most of us are slagging off POF "POF is an evolutionary dead end. | |||
"Surprised this iost has lasted as the site buries it's head in sand over competition. Can't speak don't speak won't speak tbf most of us are slagging off POF
POF is an evolutionary dead end. "there's only been me slagging it off really. i checked the thread. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time."In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way! | |||
"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? Why have you made a link between the two? Take a wild guess Seriously dude no idea, never been on pof heard it was some shit dating site Ok Which clearly this isn't..." | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate "I ain't, and I'm not on bookface either | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!"can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can. | |||
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"I've been on pof for a little while, had plenty of sex from pof, nothing from here "Agreed | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can."On here I can, not sure about POF! | |||
"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? " I am not on POF! | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF! "it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones."I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested "true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me. | |||
"I was on them all, I had a few messages from guys on them saying they saw me on here, nothing ever came of it, daft thing is, I was on 'proper' dating sites and then I go and find my soul mate on here!! G xx" I would imagine if I were to find someone to spend my life with (which I'm not looking for in particular) that here would be better as I'm not looking for, and am not suited to mutual monogamy! | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate "I keep mines separate .. but I own a salon and have had some funny moments when people say I know you from somewhere .. heart beats fast like please say pof and not fab lol x | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me."I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me! | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me.
I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me!"i only use here and POF. i don't blame guys for not bothering, it's really hard finding what you want and half the time it turns out disappointing when you think you've found it. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me.
I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me!
i only use here and POF. i don't blame guys for not bothering, it's really hard finding what you want and half the time it turns out disappointing when you think you've found it."It goes with the territory! I could choose to let any rejection get me down but, it's better to see it as oh well, you weren't for me. As long as I haven't led someone on by offering something I can't give and vice versa then there should be no room for upset. As long as you're honest with yourself and those you interact with. | |||
"I'm on both but have more luck here which I think is due to the fact that a lot of females are after just sex on pof but like to make out they're after a relationship so they don't come across as being easy! I swear the longer I'm on fab the worse I'm getting at 'normal' dating! Not that I was any good at it to begin with "So much this. I suck at POF but get meets here. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me.
I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me!
i only use here and POF. i don't blame guys for not bothering, it's really hard finding what you want and half the time it turns out disappointing when you think you've found it.
It goes with the territory! I could choose to let any rejection get me down but, it's better to see it as oh well, you weren't for me. As long as I haven't led someone on by offering something I can't give and vice versa then there should be no room for upset. As long as you're honest with yourself and those you interact with."yeah it's confusing as the guys i message aren't honest about what they want, and the rest i'm not interested in because they're honest and i don't want what they want. i'm not gonna give up. but i am gonna be shady and fuck other guys but not the ones i'm dating, which makes me feel like shit a bit because i don't work like that when i want to invest myself in someone else but i can't see any other way of not being conned by people wanting 'relationships'. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me.
I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me!
i only use here and POF. i don't blame guys for not bothering, it's really hard finding what you want and half the time it turns out disappointing when you think you've found it.
It goes with the territory! I could choose to let any rejection get me down but, it's better to see it as oh well, you weren't for me. As long as I haven't led someone on by offering something I can't give and vice versa then there should be no room for upset. As long as you're honest with yourself and those you interact with.
yeah it's confusing as the guys i message aren't honest about what they want, and the rest i'm not interested in because they're honest and i don't want what they want.
i'm not gonna give up. but i am gonna be shady and fuck other guys but not the ones i'm dating, which makes me feel like shit a bit because i don't work like that when i want to invest myself in someone else but i can't see any other way of not being conned by people wanting 'relationships'.
"It is difficult, but if you want me as that person in a 3 or for the cuddling kissing type. Or if I'm on your radar then you know where I am. Who knows what dynamic could develop. | |||
"Used to be. Have a hidden profile on there now
Oh how do you hide a profile on there?
Just go into your profile settings. It will talk you through it "You have to now pay for the priviledge | |||
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"I'm on both but have more luck here which I think is due to the fact that a lot of females are after just sex on pof but like to make out they're after a relationship so they don't come across as being easy! I swear the longer I'm on fab the worse I'm getting at 'normal' dating! Not that I was any good at it to begin with
So much this.
I suck at POF but get meets here. "I should clarify as I didn't word the start of my post very well....I'm crap at pof as I probably wear my heart on my sleeve too much...I'm rubbish at the 'lets fuck but pretend it could be something more than that so the lass doesn't feel easy' game! In short,I'm crap at the whole seduction thing,which is why I do better on here with the kind of lass that doesn't need to be seduced/chased n is comfortable/confident enough to let me know she wants me as much as I want her. Christ,that was a bit of a ramble!Hope it made at least a wee bit of sense | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
i've surprisingly still had a lot of messages. i don't think anyone reads my profile.
I did!
i deleted that one, i delete them once i find out i'm 'dating' a fuckboy so he thinks i've left the site and can't contact me by making a new profile. although one guy keeps finding me on there anyway.
i deleted the sex thing on this new one now, it just says it will take months for me to trust someone now and that being lied to hurts me.
Yeah I noticed you've had quite a few profiles on here and there.
i only just noticed the looked at me feature on pof so only knew about you seeing my last profile (that i just deleted).
I'm not a stalker honest!
you sound like one though.
haha, i can't say anything. fuck knows what i look like deleting and making new profiles all the time.
In that case I shall back away with eyes lowered in a non stalker type way!
can't men hide that they showed up in looked at me? women can.
On here I can, not sure about POF!
it's the first thing i do when i rejoin.
have a look in settings, i think it might be in the mail ones.
I don't actually mind if people know I've looked at them, at least they know I'm interested
true. i've messaged the last guy i met from that look at me.
I think across any sites, wether it's messages, Winks, forum posts, looked at me notifications, fabs, pokes or whatever. For guys certainly it's just a "hello, I'm here, have a look and let's talk if you like what you see" or maybe that's just me!
i only use here and POF. i don't blame guys for not bothering, it's really hard finding what you want and half the time it turns out disappointing when you think you've found it.
It goes with the territory! I could choose to let any rejection get me down but, it's better to see it as oh well, you weren't for me. As long as I haven't led someone on by offering something I can't give and vice versa then there should be no room for upset. As long as you're honest with yourself and those you interact with.
yeah it's confusing as the guys i message aren't honest about what they want, and the rest i'm not interested in because they're honest and i don't want what they want.
i'm not gonna give up. but i am gonna be shady and fuck other guys but not the ones i'm dating, which makes me feel like shit a bit because i don't work like that when i want to invest myself in someone else but i can't see any other way of not being conned by people wanting 'relationships'.
It is difficult, but if you want me as that person in a 3 or for the cuddling kissing type. Or if I'm on your radar then you know where I am. Who knows what dynamic could develop."haha, just been on POF and had a look at looked at me, you're not hidden.
yeah, dunno what i'm doing right now. think i'm gonna do fab hookups during the day and POF at night for chatting and see how that goes. | |||
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"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here" i've had a lot of nice messages on there today but my profile is quite 'soppy' and says i get hurt easily and i'm sensitive and so it seems i'm attracting decent enough guys. i actually chatted to one guy earlier (until he mentioned my tattoos) and left about 5 other messages to reply to tomorrow night. | |||
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"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here i've had a lot of nice messages on there today but my profile is quite 'soppy' and says i get hurt easily and i'm sensitive and so it seems i'm attracting decent enough guys. i actually chatted to one guy earlier (until he mentioned my tattoos) and left about 5 other messages to reply to tomorrow night." | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can."Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can."Same! | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you "It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great | |||
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"I was on them all, I had a few messages from guys on them saying they saw me on here, nothing ever came of it, daft thing is, I was on 'proper' dating sites and then I go and find my soul mate on here!! G xx I would imagine if I were to find someone to spend my life with (which I'm not looking for in particular) that here would be better as I'm not looking for, and am not suited to mutual monogamy! " That's where I guess we're strange as neither of us want to sleep with other people so we are mutually monogamous and always intend to be Ads | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great"Any contact I make through POF, I try to ensure early on that I explain that I don't want mutual exclusivity. | |||
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"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here" What would you recommend for opening line then! . . .? Surely hi is just being polite | |||
"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here What would you recommend for opening line then! . . .? Surely hi is just being polite" Yes, but it doesn't really initiate much if a conversation and is pretty boring. It's an irrelevant complaint anyway as you can set a minium number of characters on a first message. | |||
"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here What would you recommend for opening line then! . . .? Surely hi is just being polite" Hi by itself is dull as dishwater,hi how are you is good enough for me | |||
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"I used to be on POF years ago until I got kicked off for being "fake" (which was news to the people I'd actually met) when they had a massive purge of anyone who didn't claim to be looking for a relationship on there. You used to be able to be upfront about just wanting sex, then the site decided that was unseemly and now it sounds like it's full of men pretending to want relationships. " Real life is full of men and women pretending to want a relationship....I think I'm just going to grow old disgracefully and get eaten by cats | |||
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"I'm on PoF. Sucks arse. The "hi" and "hey how are you ?" openers are worse than here What would you recommend for opening line then! . . .? Surely hi is just being polite" Hey there , loved your profile, what have you been up to and hope to hear more about you sometime... Please reply, I really want this. My ex said I'd never find anyone else, I can prove her wrong. I am good looking aren't I? I am ... | |||
"I'd be very interested if those on dating sites as well as fab could let me know which they think is 'best'? I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship - but neither do I want to just have sex - I want friendship/socialising too - and I'm not looking for monogamy! Just wondering where the best place is to find that! X" Misscheekychops dating thread | |||
"I'd be very interested if those on dating sites as well as fab could let me know which they think is 'best'? I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship - but neither do I want to just have sex - I want friendship/socialising too - and I'm not looking for monogamy! Just wondering where the best place is to find that! X Misscheekychops dating thread "Thanks! I'll take a look! | |||
"I used to be on POF years ago until I got kicked off for being "fake" (which was news to the people I'd actually met) when they had a massive purge of anyone who didn't claim to be looking for a relationship on there. You used to be able to be upfront about just wanting sex, then the site decided that was unseemly and now it sounds like it's full of men pretending to want relationships. " I think it's full of men who 'think' women are there looking for sex. I have a profile on there but it's currently hidden. I WAS looking for a relationship but it's full of very ordinary women with very high expectation levels. So I came to fab....lol | |||
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"I used to be on POF years ago until I got kicked off for being "fake" (which was news to the people I'd actually met) when they had a massive purge of anyone who didn't claim to be looking for a relationship on there. You used to be able to be upfront about just wanting sex, then the site decided that was unseemly and now it sounds like it's full of men pretending to want relationships. I think it's full of men who 'think' women are there looking for sex. I have a profile on there but it's currently hidden. I WAS looking for a relationship but it's full of very ordinary women with very high expectation levels. So I came to fab....lol"
Nice legs for an old 'un btw! | |||
"I'd be very interested if those on dating sites as well as fab could let me know which they think is 'best'? I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship - but neither do I want to just have sex - I want friendship/socialising too - and I'm not looking for monogamy! Just wondering where the best place is to find that! X Misscheekychops dating thread
Thanks! I'll take a look! "I'll put a new one up soon I've been out the "game" for a while so will get back to it | |||
"I'd be very interested if those on dating sites as well as fab could let me know which they think is 'best'? I'm not looking for a 24/7 relationship - but neither do I want to just have sex - I want friendship/socialising too - and I'm not looking for monogamy! Just wondering where the best place is to find that! X Misscheekychops dating thread
Thanks! I'll take a look!
I'll put a new one up soon I've been out the "game" for a while so will get back to it "Thanks! Much appreciated! X | |||
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"I used to be on POF years ago until I got kicked off for being "fake" (which was news to the people I'd actually met) when they had a massive purge of anyone who didn't claim to be looking for a relationship on there. You used to be able to be upfront about just wanting sex, then the site decided that was unseemly and now it sounds like it's full of men pretending to want relationships. I think it's full of men who 'think' women are there looking for sex. I have a profile on there but it's currently hidden. I WAS looking for a relationship but it's full of very ordinary women with very high expectation levels. So I came to fab....lol
Nice legs for an old 'un btw! "Thank you | |||
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"I used to be on POF years ago until I got kicked off for being "fake" (which was news to the people I'd actually met) when they had a massive purge of anyone who didn't claim to be looking for a relationship on there. You used to be able to be upfront about just wanting sex, then the site decided that was unseemly and now it sounds like it's full of men pretending to want relationships. I think it's full of men who 'think' women are there looking for sex. I have a profile on there but it's currently hidden. I WAS looking for a relationship but it's full of very ordinary women with very high expectation levels. So I came to fab....lol" Possibly. And there *were* women there looking for sex until the site owners decided we weren't allowed to be. | |||
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"I've been on POF and think it's great. The search function is brilliant. There are people on there just looking for sex but in my opinion they're easy to spot. I've had a couple of relationships from POF, the only trouble with it is that decent guys on there want monogamy. " Can I look you up on pof | |||
"I've been on POF and think it's great. The search function is brilliant. There are people on there just looking for sex but in my opinion they're easy to spot. I've had a couple of relationships from POF, the only trouble with it is that decent guys on there want monogamy. " Not all of us! Oh hang on, decent.... | |||
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"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working? "I'd say first date, as soon as he takes a sip from his first drink, and time how long it's is before he chokes and splutters on it! | |||
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"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working?
I'd say first date, as soon as he takes a sip from his first drink, and time how long it's is before he chokes and splutters on it!"I'll try that out | |||
"I'm currently on most dating sites. As you can, it's going well...." It should be. Pretty lady like you | |||
"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working?
I'd say first date, as soon as he takes a sip from his first drink, and time how long it's is before he chokes and splutters on it!
I'll try that out "You may get quite wet! | |||
"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working?
I'd say first date, as soon as he takes a sip from his first drink, and time how long it's is before he chokes and splutters on it!
I'll try that out
You may get quite wet!"Trust me I could write a book with my first dates and break ups | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate "Hahah yeah actively seeking relationship on POF but 99 veris in fab | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate
Hahah yeah actively seeking relationship on POF but 99 veris in fab "What's wrong with that? | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate
Hahah yeah actively seeking relationship on POF but 99 veris in fab
What's wrong with that? "I think he is implying you can't be looking for a relationship and having sex at the same time. Everyone knows the best way to find a partner is to abstain... | |||
"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working?
I'd say first date, as soon as he takes a sip from his first drink, and time how long it's is before he chokes and splutters on it!
I'll try that out
You may get quite wet!
Trust me I could write a book with my first dates and break ups "When you do, I'll have a signed first edition please! | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great"yeah it is the lies that are pissing me off. why can't i like sex and be dateable? | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate
Hahah yeah actively seeking relationship on POF but 99 veris in fab
What's wrong with that?
I think he is implying you can't be looking for a relationship and having sex at the same time. Everyone knows the best way to find a partner is to abstain..."Haha! Oh dear lord! I'd never be able to date in that case then | |||
"I have a question what number date should I ask the man if his baby making sperm is working? "Just sneak a used condom to the freezer and send it off to be tested. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great
yeah it is the lies that are pissing me off.
why can't i like sex and be dateable?"It's finding a person compatible with that. | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great
yeah it is the lies that are pissing me off.
why can't i like sex and be dateable?
It's finding a person compatible with that."how do i find them if people are lying to me? | |||
"I've been on pof for a little while, had plenty of sex from pof, nothing from here "Well if you were closer I certainly would! | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great
yeah it is the lies that are pissing me off.
why can't i like sex and be dateable?
It's finding a person compatible with that.
how do i find them if people are lying to me?"There's the eternal question, trust your gut instinct I guess. But I can't really answer it. | |||
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"Glad im not looking to date seems to much like hard work" i seriously worry for my kids at times and hope they never have to do internet dating. i'm gonna go to the POF social again, i had more luck there (ie. i didn't fancy anyone so didn't fuck anyone but still had a good night out). | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great
yeah it is the lies that are pissing me off.
why can't i like sex and be dateable?
It's finding a person compatible with that.
how do i find them if people are lying to me?
There's the eternal question, trust your gut instinct I guess. But I can't really answer it."my guts too trusting. suppose experience will force me to learn eventually. or i might just become a hermit, or prostitute seeing as guys are fine with using me i will get something outta that too. | |||
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"and all the guys looking for genuine... genuine what? genuine free fuck? genuine relationship? wtf do they want even..." Cake and eat it comes to mind but that goes for women too | |||
"and all the guys looking for genuine... genuine what? genuine free fuck? genuine relationship? wtf do they want even... Cake and eat it comes to mind but that goes for women too " i'm gonna presume they want sex only. they're gonna be disappointed haha. it's sad i have to become shady like them though and fuck other people so that i don't fuck them. i hate liars though and won't give them anything, despite being one myself. | |||
"and all the guys looking for genuine... genuine what? genuine free fuck? genuine relationship? wtf do they want even... Cake and eat it comes to mind but that goes for women too i'm gonna presume they want sex only. they're gonna be disappointed haha. it's sad i have to become shady like them though and fuck other people so that i don't fuck them. i hate liars though and won't give them anything, despite being one myself. "You gotta do what you gotta do, I learnt a valuable lesson recently about people's intentions and motives... | |||
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"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? " I had my account deleted for reporting someone selling their services | |||
"Dont use pof, I'm not looking for a relationship and don't pretend to want one. " | |||
"and all the guys looking for genuine... genuine what? genuine free fuck? genuine relationship? wtf do they want even... Cake and eat it comes to mind but that goes for women too i'm gonna presume they want sex only. they're gonna be disappointed haha. it's sad i have to become shady like them though and fuck other people so that i don't fuck them. i hate liars though and won't give them anything, despite being one myself.
You gotta do what you gotta do, I learnt a valuable lesson recently about people's intentions and motives..."i wanna be myself so much and just find my people. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that. "There's a setting, which can block people who are looking for sex/Intimate Encounters - and/or block anyone who has contacted Other people, who are looking for those things. That should narrow down the 1-night-bonks. Intimate Encounters is a bit like herpes... once you've had contact, it sets a permanent, non-removable flag on your profile, which others can block you for. (I'm not a member but I did do some reading about the site, before deciding not to join). | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
There's a setting, which can block people who are looking for sex/Intimate Encounters - and/or block anyone who has contacted Other people, who are looking for those things.
That should narrow down the 1-night-bonks.
Intimate Encounters is a bit like herpes... once you've had contact, it sets a permanent, non-removable flag on your profile, which others can block you for.
(I'm not a member but I did do some reading about the site, before deciding not to join)."i did see that one others profiles but i couldn't find the setting. | |||
"Surprised this iost has lasted as the site buries it's head in sand over competition. Can't speak don't speak won't speak " PoF is no competition for Fab | |||
"Do I ask who's on POF or do I go on POF and ask who's on FAB.....? " Been on it but prefer fab | |||
"I've been on pof for a little while, had plenty of sex from pof, nothing from here
Well if you were closer I certainly would! "Would that offer extend to me xx | |||
"i did see that one others profiles but i couldn't find the setting." Can't pm you with the link but if you google "datingposts4201689" the relevant FAQ page should be top of the list. | |||
"i did see that one others profiles but i couldn't find the setting. Can't pm you with the link but if you google "datingposts4201689" the relevant FAQ page should be top of the list." found that. i think they got rid of the feature, or maybe only upgraded members can access it? | |||
"i did see that one others profiles but i couldn't find the setting. Can't pm you with the link but if you google "datingposts4201689" the relevant FAQ page should be top of the list. found that. i think they got rid of the feature, or maybe only upgraded members can access it?" thanks. | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
There's a setting, which can block people who are looking for sex/Intimate Encounters - and/or block anyone who has contacted Other people, who are looking for those things.
That should narrow down the 1-night-bonks.
Intimate Encounters is a bit like herpes... once you've had contact, it sets a permanent, non-removable flag on your profile, which others can block you for.
(I'm not a member but I did do some reading about the site, before deciding not to join)."They took that off years ago in the big crackdown on casual sex - they wanted it to be for dating proper only. | |||
"Most people on fab are on POF but I keep the two seperate
I failed when it said "marital status". "haha me too | |||
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"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great"Yeah I understand what you're saying, and I appreciate it. But men are like that. What I'm saying is make them wait and if they're still interested then you know they just not with you for sex | |||
"i'm on POF, supposed to be for a relationship but every guy i've met has fucked me then done one. so i'm back on here for sex and i am gonna not fuck anyone i meet on there, my profile even says that.
plus you can't get a date with 2 guys at once on POF, here i can.
Maybe don't be so easy then they can't Fuck you
It's not about being easy. It's about being lied to. I've had this experience and a guy who you thing you're dating etc does this...not so great
Yeah I understand what you're saying, and I appreciate it. But men are like that. What I'm saying is make them wait and if they're still interested then you know they just not with you for sex"i've been in relationships with men who i've had sex with from the off. there's no problem with fucking people asap, and relationships develop over time anyway so i don't expect everyone i fuck to want to be in relationship, that's not possible. the problem for me is that men are lying about their intentions. i do suspect they have no success at trying to get one night stands or casual sex and so have to lie to get sex with women. | |||
