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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
North cardiff area |
Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours? |
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"Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours? "
I don't swear  |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
North cardiff area |
"Manners... Costs nothing to be nice to people and cannot bear people that look down on others"
Agree completely, people who look down on others or who are rude to people like waiters etc for no reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm the only one keeping the conversation going, while they sit there happily pontificating about themselves, totally uninterested in me. Or when the first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
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"When I'm the only one keeping the conversation going, while they sit there happily pontificating about themselves, totally uninterested in me. Or when the first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' "
Yeah the story toppers, or its all about me people.
For the record I would be really interested in you. You're a stunner ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours? "
For some reason I actually have you in my whatsapp contacts saved under casino, must've had your number either from here or pof a few years back! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours? "
The usual. People who do not read the profile or assume that our preferences do not apply to them. |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
North cardiff area |
"Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours?
For some reason I actually have you in my whatsapp contacts saved under casino, must've had your number either from here or pof a few years back! "
Oh really.. Then I must have done something to break the deal! Ha ha
Or you did ?? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and someone who only talks about themselves. Had a social meet, where the guy spoke about himself for two hours straight, every time I tried to get a word in, he'd steer the conversation back to himself. I just ended up smiling and nodding, and watching the clock till I could get my arse out of there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"long verified list is a huge turn off
Even if they are social ones? I've got a fuck load. 50 ish? Prob less than 5 play veris  "
that's different, but a quick read usually tells you if they've fucked half the site or not  |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
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"long verified list is a huge turn off
Even if they are social ones? I've got a fuck load. 50 ish? Prob less than 5 play veris "
I think some get put off by the number, even though in fairness most will be social, most guys won't bother reading them and be put off by the number.
One woman on here has over 350! |
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I don't like people that are hung up on manners and call other people rude. It's a personal pet hate.
If you'd ever known or working with someone with autistic traits, you'd know how much mental and emotional effort it is to try and remember all these arbitrary meaningless rules.
Someone on here said "manners cost nothing" (grr that phrase sets my teeth on edge). They cost an awful lot to some people.
I like non-judgey, open minded people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can's stand guys who tune out while I'm speaking to them. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect if he can’t be bothered listening to me when I'm speaking. It’s doubly insulting to get that treatment from a man you’re in bed with; someone who’s presumably meant to be interested. Mark my words, fellas: Men who don’t listen don’t last long.
And I don't like Chauvinism; men who consider themselves the superior sex belittling women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like people that are hung up on manners and call other people rude. It's a personal pet hate.
If you'd ever known or working with someone with autistic traits, you'd know how much mental and emotional effort it is to try and remember all these arbitrary meaningless rules.
Someone on here said "manners cost nothing" (grr that phrase sets my teeth on edge). They cost an awful lot to some people.
I like non-judgey, open minded people.
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I totally agree with you..
My son is autistic so he doesn't 'get it' most of the time... picking up on social cues for him are a nightmare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for fun.
What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
It could be related to someone's profile or real life meets/ relationships
I've had a few uh oh moments when with someone.
I'll start with mine being casual racism and a woman that swears too much
What's yours?
For some reason I actually have you in my whatsapp contacts saved under casino, must've had your number either from here or pof a few years back!
Oh really.. Then I must have done something to break the deal! Ha ha
Or you did ?? Lol"
Just checked it was on my old phone that got ruined with shampoo in a swimming bag so would've been before may 2015. I remember your pictures but not your penis so maybe it was from pof, 2014 time I was on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can's stand guys who tune out while I'm speaking to them. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect if he can’t be bothered listening to me when I'm speaking. It’s doubly insulting to get that treatment from a man you’re in bed with; someone who’s presumably meant to be interested. Mark my words, fellas: Men who don’t listen don’t last long.
And I don't like Chauvinism; men who consider themselves the superior sex belittling women."
Sorry you were saying? Mr L  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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The ones who put how they look above everything and everyone. A couple once told us how lucky we were to be receiving a message from them as they're considered by others to be exceptional, how arrogant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pushy people, people who lie. People who aren't honest about their situation. I'd rather know what I'm getting into and make my own decision to continue! |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
North cardiff area |
"The ones who put how they look above everything and everyone. A couple once told us how lucky we were to be receiving a message from them as they're considered by others to be exceptional, how arrogant! "
Really! That happened?!
I can believe some people on here that believe they are better than anyone else and look down on people! Fab is like an alternative universe sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who make demands about what I wear and what sort of make-up I use. One bloke was very insistent that I paint my nails before meeting and mentioned it over and over despite me saying that I probably wouldn't. I didn't meet him.
Also, people who send first messages with detailed descriptions of what they are going to do to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
No kissing.
I couldn't imagine having sex without it...."
This too... I wouldn't meet someone who stipulated no kissing. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"The ones who put how they look above everything and everyone. A couple once told us how lucky we were to be receiving a message from them as they're considered by others to be exceptional, how arrogant!
Really! That happened?!
I can believe some people on here that believe they are better than anyone else and look down on people! Fab is like an alternative universe sometimes "
Absolutely did. Have to give them credit they we're in very good shape but came accros cosmetic and materialistic, we didn't find that attractive tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"long verified list is a huge turn off
Even if they are social ones? I've got a fuck load. 50 ish? Prob less than 5 play veris
I think some get put off by the number, even though in fairness most will be social, most guys won't bother reading them and be put off by the number.
One woman on here has over 350! "
Mine are mostly social.. My veris will get larger.. Its sad you find it off putting. I'm really nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the biggest turn offs for you or deal breakers?
No kissing.
I couldn't imagine having sex without it....
This too... I wouldn't meet someone who stipulated no kissing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"long verified list is a huge turn off
Even if they are social ones? I've got a fuck load. 50 ish? Prob less than 5 play veris
that's different, but a quick read usually tells you if they've fucked half the site or not "
So how many sex partners in one year sits comfortably with you?
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking like a drug dealer....I'm not into Hugo Boss trainers tight jeans and a Boss t shirt that tight ya steroided up physique is a warning to others and a signal to girls that the 'Cokes Here's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find a lack of common sense can drive me insane, if you can't figure out why you're late because you've turned left and it was actually right seven times you will definitely get on my nerves. I think common curiosity of others is a must as well. There is nothing wrong with being polite and pleasant even if you're not getting what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they kiss and its obvious they haven't cleaned their teeth for a very long time. XXX"
I once kissed a man on a d*unken night out (he was d*unk, i was d*unk) who had just eaten a takeaway chicken curry and a bit of the chicken got transferred to my mouth.
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"long verified list is a huge turn off
Even if they are social ones? I've got a fuck load. 50 ish? Prob less than 5 play veris
I think some get put off by the number, even though in fairness most will be social, most guys won't bother reading them and be put off by the number.
One woman on here has over 350! "
Someone we know has 580+
Fair play, they're getting everything they want out of the site though.
Another deal breaker for us is the speaking to just one of us after we've made light reference that we'd like to addressed as a couple, but on it continues so we end the chatter. |
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People who are somehow disconnected from me, possibly they are focused on something else, such as technology, too preoccupied to not listen or want to hear etc.
Those who are rushed - I had an offer of 45 minutes from time of arrival to departure this week - I expect parking takes some of that, so it's insufficient and would debase it for me.
Those who try to change the terms of what's agreed - in life or meets.
There are the obvious such as poor hygiene, time keeping and communication. And any lack of respect for myself or others is a fail.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can's stand guys who tune out while I'm speaking to them. It's the ultimate sign of disrespect if he can’t be bothered listening to me when I'm speaking. It’s doubly insulting to get that treatment from a man you’re in bed with; someone who’s presumably meant to be interested. Mark my words, fellas: Men who don’t listen don’t last long.
And I don't like Chauvinism; men who consider themselves the superior sex belittling women.
Sorry you were saying? Mr L "
Ha ha very funny...bog off |
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By *asinoLucky OP Man
over a year ago
North cardiff area |
Some great ones in here. Another couple from me are user names like
Suckmebig69 or fuckmy@sstonight.
I mean come on. It's a swinging site but don't be crude.
If they use the word "moist" it's an absolute deal breaker. Cards are off the table lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooh lots
Guys who aren't into kissing...guys who are given your kik and then think they need to be sent a new naughty pic every 5 mins....too keen as in messaging every 5 min....guys who don't say thanks for the meet/those who don't reply when I say thanks after etc
This was all on my single female profile now I've found Mr Perfect I can leave him to deal with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*Saint here
I myself am far from perfect, I have actually let fantasy down on two separate occasions. I had reasons not excuses and made up plenty.
Turn offs or deal breakers for myself:
Lack of intelligence or false assumption of having it lol
Fucking partners as if they were meat than people.
Be proud of how you look but excess Vanity is a letdown |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm the only one keeping the conversation going, while they sit there happily pontificating about themselves, totally uninterested in me. Or when the first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' "
Maybe when they ask what is with the wheelchair they are actually showing an interest in you? You have photos up both in a chair and without so that's always going to be some sort of talking point.
I do totally agree though on the 'me, me, me' attitude that's common these days. That goes in one ear and out of the other.
Back to deal breakers.... Those that demand this and that and have rules, don't this, don't that etc. Life's short, we're here to enjoy precious little free time so why make things difficult.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I'm the only one keeping the conversation going, while they sit there happily pontificating about themselves, totally uninterested in me. Or when the first question is 'what's with the wheelchair?' "
I see the person not the disability. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My deal breaker is women who start going an about a possible relationship. Sorry not gonna happen I got hurt bad last time and there is no way im doing that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not sure if its the inability to chat but we have met a couple of couples in the past that do nothing but talk about what they have- this big car - this place in spain - no need to work - good for them but comeon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who lack honesty and respect. Really irritates me.
People who smoke, and people who stink. I had a meet once with a guy that smelled so bad of BO I had to offer him use of my shower |
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