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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can some of u ladies be toooo picky?
Has this stop u meeting some great guys u wouldn't usually go for?
Any of u guys get weird msgs off other guys?
Just general thoughts please no negative comments. Cheers |
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i have been picky because i wasnt picky enough at one time and met people i shouldnt of had. Im not that picky compared to some regarding looks or size i am more interested in how clean, how nice and do we like the same things. You can get a feeling about someone by the way they look though.  |
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I'm really picky. I got bored one night and agreed to meet a guy I never would've gone for but he sent me a message that amused me.
I met him for a social and wasn't that interested but agreed to a second one as he was just looking for friends locally really.
One thing lead to another and he's my best Fab meet and it was an ongoing thing until we moved away (for an unrelated reason I might add!).
However most of the time I've given people the benefit of the doubt, and should have trusted my judgement initially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there's such a thing as too picky on a swinging site. If I am going to have sex with someone, it's going to be with someone I fancy like crazy, and like as a person. I can't compromise on that.  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm too picky. Been single over 7 years because of it and I'm not getting younger, looks fading, body getting more and more out of shape because I substitute the love of a good man with love of a take away or a kg bar of galaxy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People should be picky. Not everybody likes the same things or are attracted to the same type of people. People also have to feel comfortable with who they talk to and meet, and from reading some of the threads on here, feel safe. Regardless of this being a swinging site it's still a big thing to invite a pretty much complete stranger into intimate acts.
I know I'm not everybody's cup of tea, that's just the way it is. I may never get picked, that's fine, it's just the way it is.
I've had messages off other men, no harm in being polite. I just say politely that I'm not looking for other men. Have had decent conversations afterwards. Of course there is the ability to block certain groups messaging using the filters.
Just have some fun and then you never know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's partly the internet effect. The ratio of men to women here is so high that they can afford to be picky. As they should. However, online is not a good way to meet and judge someone so inevitably someone they might have liked, had they met face to face in a pub for instance, will get binned as they didn't come across well on here. Tough breaks but there you go. I find it relatively easy to meet women when out socially but here is very difficult. Makes me wonder why I came back........?  |
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I'm picky, I can get laid in the vanilla world, I can't get kinky sex tho hence why I'm here. If I wanted shit sex with average people Id go into town and pull. Hence most of my meets are repeat meets and I keep a handful of hotties for this.
Quality over quantity any day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm too picky. Been single over 7 years because of it and I'm not getting younger, looks fading, body getting more and more out of shape because I substitute the love of a good man with love of a take away or a kg bar of galaxy. "
Try being my age  . I don't mind being picky to be honest, as I haven't the time for all and sundry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some very fare comments for those who elaborated thanks guys much appreciated just know am not here to judge or make anyone feel like they have to explain there self's so please dont take offence just want thoughts |
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I am also very selective as its not all about a quick fuck for me
I like a guy I'm attracted to and has all the qualities I like
It's a personal choice for me as I'm happy with what I have at home so it's not desperation
To be invited into our happy marriage is an honour so it's nice when guys respect that
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Its not about being picky its about finding some you are compatable . Yes i base a small part of my selection on looks but the rest comes from other stuff.
Never had a no show, bad meet or crap shag while ive been here |
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Not picky in term of looks, don't have a type. It's more about the initial approach. As a single woman here, you have to wade through a lot of "hey how are you", "nice pics" and copy n paste drivel before you find the gold |
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