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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site. "
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll let you know when it happens.
Things usually just fizzle out if I've been messaging someone I'm not attracted to.
I prefer to get a handle on their personality before I make a decision solely on looks.
I've changed my mind about people based on that.
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it."
What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.
What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?"
I guess I'm a bit of a softie  |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.
What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?
I guess I'm a bit of a softie "
You shouldn't say you are a softie on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?"
No there isn't really.
I just delete it.
There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.
Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?"
Say yes. You might not get another chance.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?
No there isn't really.
I just delete it.
There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.
Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there. "
It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?
No there isn't really.
I just delete it.
There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.
Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.
It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest. "
*interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.
What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?
I guess I'm a bit of a softie "
You shouldn't feel bad about it. You are putting it in a polite way, and they'll find someone who is their type. Better to be polite but honest up front, than drag it out. Nobody wants a pity chat, best that they move on to someone who wants to chat to them OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel bad when someone sends through their pictures and they just aren't my type. Is there any nice way to say thanks but no thanks?
No there isn't really.
I just delete it.
There is no point talking if there is absolutely no attraction at all.
Attraction isn't everything (to me) but it HAS to be there.
It's harsh but true. I know women have said it on here before but replying invites conversation and it's kind of awkward when someone asks specifically why you aren't interest.
*interested"
I know what you mean't mate. 
...but yeah..I'd agree with all that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice picture, but you're not my type, unfortunately. I hope you have fun on the site.
That's nearly always what I say, but still feel bad saying it.
What is it you feel bad about - hurting their feelings, you having the right to say no or have preferences?
I guess I'm a bit of a softie You shouldn't say you are a softie on here. "
Lol, I think that may qualify as a definite Forum faux pas! |
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