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Whats is with being called Babes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I have ones i canna call hun.
I have ones i canna call babe.
I have ones i canna call love.
So what do ya do fa the best? lol
Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.
Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx  |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.
Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.  "
DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate hate hate it from strangers. It's only ever appropriate in a relationship, whether friends or partners.
Anyone on here who calls me hun or babe in a message will be blanked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i absolutely hate being called babe, especially, from people who dont know me, and have never met me. Anytime, we get mail and they call me this, it gets deleted. |
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"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.
Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.
DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx"
What ever you say my little swamp duck. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hate hate hate it from strangers. It's only ever appropriate in a relationship, whether friends or partners.
Anyone on here who calls me hun or babe in a message will be blanked. "
Good to hear i'm not the only one, not sure why but it really puts me off people |
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"Pet names do nothing for me. Babe and hun in particular make me shudder.
Occasionally I'll refer to people as chick or lovely but I'd rather people didn't call me anything. DG is fine.
DG, can I call you PANTY lover xx"
Fuck off! No you can't! Bint!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just depends who ur with, I call some of my fem friends slut, and thats the affectionate term. I do think some people, and of course its mainly women who get pet name annoyances, really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol
p.s women are allowed to call eachother babe n hun more than men I've noticed..... |
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There are worse things you van be called to be fair. Only the other day I got a message off some guy calling me a fat cunt 
So in the grand scheme of things babes ain't that bad
Oh and just so you know - fat cunt =instant turn off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol
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Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?
I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.
And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the context,in a patronising way then no but for me they're just friendly terms of endearment and don't bother me at all,I use some myself and yes I agree Eve there are far worse things you can be called but again in the right setting and context they're also a turn on
Not fat cunt of course!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If people are trying to get into my knickers by thinking calling me babe/hun etc in a first mail, it wouldn't work as it is an instant turn off.
They only have to say " can I get into your knickers" instead and I will give them a straight answer  |
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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago
the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands |
Just my OP but I consider that informality; whether you like it or otherwie as wholly inapproprate untill you have built up a relationship and people are comfortable at allowing one another to be less formal and use terms of endearment |
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I had someone call me 'my dear' in a message today - and they were about 10 years younger than me! Grr!
I don't mind babe/ hun from people I know (usually tongue in cheek style) (note, 'don't mind' as opposed to something more positive such as 'quite like') However, I do find them irritating in messages from random strangers. It won't get them an instant 'no', but it does earn them a big black mark, especially if they're younger than me. I really, really don't like bitch/ whore/ slut or anything of that nature, though - instant total turn off, whatever the situation  |
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"I'll hold my hands up...
Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...
nothing in it.... it's just me
so shoot me!!!!
gun cocked and aimed!! "
Don't shoot the dude/pal/matey/bro!! |
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"I'll hold my hands up...
Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...
nothing in it.... it's just me
so shoot me!!!! "
For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.
As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.
~author is contrary~  |
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"I'll hold my hands up...
Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...
nothing in it.... it's just me
so shoot me!!!!
For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.
As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.
~author is contrary~ "
That you are babe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol
Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?
I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.
And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets... "
Ohh! we just cant say anything right can we...I'd be more concerned if I sent fuckmenow messages or Im 11inches wanna meet......what next, lets ban the words gorgeous or sexy when mailing or posting???-and I would really not entirely find the forums as being reflective of what all women think(site wise or unsite wise), its all about taking the way people talk and act variably, and not jumping down the throat!-fair enough if u have said on your profile about ur preferences to one mans(or womans) probably pretty genuinely thinking compliment not being read.As said before theres worse messages incoming as we speak I imagine!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rather hear suck it bitch than suck it babe. im no ones babe but i am a bitch."
Beautiful
individual
that
caues
hardon-ons
yeah i'd prefer that, at least in the right place
I'm fine with a lot of terms it's just BABE just i don't why it buggs me so much
I do know it's not meant in offense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"really should ease up a bit instead of sounding angry when they are called babe,darling,hun(Rangers girls hate that lol) etc...pretty easy enough just to ask not to be called it. Remember people have been saying "Babe" before it came out as a film lol
Why should we ease up? Pretty much all the women on this thread so far have said they hate it. Does that not tell you something?
I have it on my profile not to address me as such and STILL they do it. So clearly, politely asking makes no difference.
And single men on here wonder why they struggle to get meets...
Ohh! we just cant say anything right can we...I'd be more concerned if I sent fuckmenow messages or Im 11inches wanna meet......what next, lets ban the words gorgeous or sexy when mailing or posting???-and I would really not entirely find the forums as being reflective of what all women think(site wise or unsite wise), its all about taking the way people talk and act variably, and not jumping down the throat!-fair enough if u have said on your profile about ur preferences to one mans(or womans) probably pretty genuinely thinking compliment not being read.As said before theres worse messages incoming as we speak I imagine!!"
All I asked if it was just me that didn't like it |
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"I'll hold my hands up...
Chick... chuck... flower... petal.... I have probably used all of those...
nothing in it.... it's just me
so shoot me!!!!
For me they're better than babe/hun. For one thing, I'm not a babe. I'd never class myself as such and it just makes me cringe a bit.
As has been said, I don't really like pet names from anyone but especially not strangers... it's over familiar and unnecessary. From someone I know and if its specific it can actually make me warm slightly inside.
~author is contrary~
That you are babe x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I asked if it was just me that didn't like it "
The comment(s) made where in specific response to the other posts, I know what ur post was, i dont center on people, but I dont agree with much of the forum ppls opinions, I wont just sit and agree with the smartest person who posts, or listen to in MY opinion crappy comments about single guys not getting meets for calling women babe etc lol so with regards ...er...woman person, i like u!-just dont want to label u with a complimenary pet name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a rule I don't call anyone babes.
Some women do call men babes. I've been called it and I don't mind if she's being friendly and it just her way of getting into my pants.
In answer to your question BG: I don't find it a turn off.
I do think some people need to chill-out a little around here though.
Some of the rants are more revealing than some of the profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had someone call me 'my dear' in a message today - and they were about 10 years younger than me! Grr!"
I've had two men in the past fortnight call me "young lady" and both of them were only a couple of years older than me! The context was entirely inappropriate - nothing to do with paying me a compliment but just coming over as really patronising. One of them started "now them young lady..."
Yuk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for the last 30yrs I've been called "Oy"
I prefer to address ladies by their names rather than pet names, it's something I've always done, but then, I'm a Gentleman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for the last 30yrs I've been called "Oy"
I prefer to address ladies by their names rather than pet names, it's something I've always done, but then, I'm a Gentleman "
Im waiting fa the punchline Jack xx |
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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago
Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree |
Being called 'babe' has me looking behind me for a pram and as for 'hun', well I go looking for my german helmet ....
*opens up notebook to record all the helmet references/jokes that will surely now follow* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being called 'babe' has me looking behind me for a pram and as for 'hun', well I go looking for my german helmet ....
*opens up notebook to record all the helmet references/jokes that will surely now follow*"
removes the spike....now its ready n wont hurt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?
I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?
I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm."
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?
I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm."
now imagine he or she said, let me slide this between ur bacon rashers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol I have ones i canna call hun.
I have ones i canna call babe.
I have ones i canna call love.
So what do ya do fa the best? lol
Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.
Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx "
But STILL you do it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it with being called babes.....does anyone else find this a turn off?
I do find it a turn off when he has me lubed up doing me anal and asks me to..... squeal like a piggy babe...... a huge turn off, knocks me right off my rhythm.
now imagine he or she said, let me slide this between ur bacon rashers!"
....think I'd tell him to take his man sausage and pork orf. |
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I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".
With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.
Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".
With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.
Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely?"
Would rather be called babes than "allsorts" |
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"I'll (martin) hold my hand up and admit I use "hun" quite a bit, especially in the chatrooms. Many of the replies I get contain it too. I call all the guys "dude", and many others say "m8".
With ladies I know well I use allsorts, especially when taking the piss lol (hunni, sweetie, sugar knckers etc) but not babe, just not my style.
Considering what we are on here for, a little informality isnt such a bad thing, surely?
Would rather be called babes than "allsorts" "
See I'd rather have allsorts!
Contrary Mary will do though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does any else find this a turn off"
oh my god.. It annoys the hell out of me.. Baby, babes, darling, princess I even had the other day.. it pretty much always means block..
Master calls me as he likes but I like it when Master does it. but I am his Babe.
Katie. x |
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By *ideboyMan
over a year ago
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"I don't much like love - it's usually accompanied by some patronising comment as a bloke tries to reason with an unreasonable woman e.g. "look, love...""
Or it is reminiscent of Bruce Forsyth.
"n-n-n-n-n-n-n alright my love?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't much like love - it's usually accompanied by some patronising comment as a bloke tries to reason with an unreasonable woman e.g. "look, love..."
Or it is reminiscent of Bruce Forsyth.
"n-n-n-n-n-n-n alright my love?""
I hadn't thought of that but....good point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol I have ones i canna call hun.
I have ones i canna call babe.
I have ones i canna call love.
So what do ya do fa the best? lol
Sometimes ya needs a term of endearment ta make mail etc less formal.
Personally couldn't give a monkeys what folk call me lol and boy they do sometimes xx "
I know what you hate being called, don't I duck? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who frequents those awful Chatrooms on this site (an unforgivable sin of course) I think the use of 'hun' 'babe(s)' etc by people on first conversation is really quite patronising and is normally a cack handed attempt at a fast s**g.
Clearly when you know someone very well you will find your own 'terms of endearment' for each other but when its "Hi hun / babes / sexy fancy a PM?" its just crap basically. The users are normally of a high opinion of themselves and can't understand why a woman won't just part her legs immediatel...
Having said that I do have to be very carefulk because I am from the West Country where 'moi luvver' or 'my lovely' are pretty common and used between blokes as well as between different sexes. And this can be misconstrued. So its not used unless I know the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As someone who frequents those awful Chatrooms on this site (an unforgivable sin of course) I think the use of 'hun' 'babe(s)' etc by people on first conversation is really quite patronising and is normally a cack handed attempt at a fast s**g.
Clearly when you know someone very well you will find your own 'terms of endearment' for each other but when its "Hi hun / babes / sexy fancy a PM?" its just crap basically. The users are normally of a high opinion of themselves and can't understand why a woman won't just part her legs immediatel...
Having said that I do have to be very carefulk because I am from the West Country where 'moi luvver' or 'my lovely' are pretty common and used between blokes as well as between different sexes. And this can be misconstrued. So its not used unless I know the person."
Term of endearment, exactly right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.
Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.
I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.
I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T
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"I tend to call a lot of my friends (and my family) babe, it's just a term of endearment to me and comes out of my mouth without me even realising. Lynne"
we are exactly the same. People are just being friendly. We are not that easy to offend. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.
Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.
I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.
I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T
XXX"
But is it not a bit too presumptuous? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Babe, Love, Darlin', Honey, Poppet, Cherub, Chick, Angel, Sweetheart.
Can't see the big deal, after all they're only harmless terms of endearment.
I'm sure people get called a lot worse,no doubt I have been.
I sometimes think people are too reactionary over things of little consequence. T
XXX
But is it not a bit too presumptuous?"
Just as long as they presume that I'm a friendly person,who doesn't get offended by light hearted banter,then I can't see a problem.
As I said,life's too short to let friendly terms,that mean as little to the user as they do to recipient,offend me. T
XXX |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"it doesnt bother me one bit"
It would seriously bother me in the world of work as it is demeaning and disrespectful to working women ... on here it is not my preferred way of being spoken to but it is ok. Better than some namesI have heard lol |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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don't call me hun,
don't call me love
don't call me babe,
don't call me dear,
don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol
then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.
your looking great hun.
she gives you that look,and says,
why don't you ever say anything like that to me.
ffs give us a friggin chance.
its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.
guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.
as long as yous get your laughing gear,
round our knobs.
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signed
ex swinger tom. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"don't call me hun,
don't call me love
don't call me babe,
don't call me dear,
don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol
then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.
your looking great hun.
she gives you that look,and says,
why don't you ever say anything like that to me.
ffs give us a friggin chance.
its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.
guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.
as long as yous get your laughing gear,
round our knobs.
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signed
ex swinger tom. "
Please dont resign xx |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"don't call me hun,
don't call me love
don't call me babe,
don't call me dear,
don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol
then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.
your looking great hun.
she gives you that look,and says,
why don't you ever say anything like that to me.
ffs give us a friggin chance.
its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.
guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.
as long as yous get your laughing gear,
round our knobs.
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signed
ex swinger tom.
Please dont resign xx"
lol
thanks hun,oops.
that post may have been my resignation letter,for some.  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"don't call me hun,
don't call me love
don't call me babe,
don't call me dear,
don't call me,etc etc,(they hate that most)lol
then yous are out one day,she hears a guy saying to his wife/girlfriend.
your looking great hun.
she gives you that look,and says,
why don't you ever say anything like that to me.
ffs give us a friggin chance.
its like walking through a minefield,whilst yous throw grenades at us.
guys are much easier,yous can call us anything,yous like.
as long as yous get your laughing gear,
round our knobs.
.
signed
ex swinger tom.
Please dont resign xx
lol
thanks hun,oops.
that post may have been my resignation letter,for some. "
I ll employ you again ther very second not even a second of garden leave for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok we have pet names that might be sweet and stomachchurnerly, I can be found in chat alot chatting and perving etc, i say "yaride","yashag","tastyfuck"....yet to be blocked lol....so gettin to my point,we all have our acceptable levels depending on how well we know or want to know a person...I just think anyone deserves a 2nd chance unless they were a total fud in the 1st message lol
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"it doesnt bother me one bit
It would seriously bother me in the world of work as it is demeaning and disrespectful to working women ... on here it is not my preferred way of being spoken to but it is ok. Better than some namesI have heard lol"
i can see where ur coming from but i use the terms myself so i cant really say anything! hehe |
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