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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?"
Talk to your fb. If you want and expect different things then there could be problems ahead.
I met someone every 4-6 weeks for four years. We didn't speak to each other except to arrange to meet and we only ever met at hotels or went to clubs. It's all we wanted and expected of each other. It worked for us but it wouldn't necessarily work for someone else.
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?"
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on the FB. I have 2 - I expect different things from them both due to their personal life's. One i get to spend more time with and visit clubs with, one ads the extra into ordinary and leaves
Me on edge and wanting. They are what ever you want them to be |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?"
Wonder how you find yourself here?
I don't like the term FB really. I have a few guys I have a friendly relationship with. We can chat, text and when we're free meet up for some good sex. It doesn't need to be any more complicated than that. There's no set rule or regulation about these things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved. "
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction."
Have you lost the plot?...cos I think I've found it in my pocket...  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction."
Where did that post state there was a pecuniary consideration? That is required for it to be prostitution.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
Wonder how you find yourself here?
I don't like the term FB really. I have a few guys I have a friendly relationship with. We can chat, text and when we're free meet up for some good sex. It doesn't need to be any more complicated than that. There's no set rule or regulation about these things."
I don't use the term FB either.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
Have you lost the plot?...cos I think I've found it in my pocket... "
Don't think so, just a realist I guess, really what is the difference? Don't have a problem with it, just think that's what it is, free prostitution.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction."
I will recant nothing. Just because that's how you see it. Someone who has sex with someone with no emotional attachement is not a prostitute. If I went out and shagged a man I met, I would not class myself as a free prostitute. Just the same as if I had a FB... It's mutual pleasure. It would be because I happen to love sex. |
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction."
Grab a dictionary, check it out, get back to us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
Have you lost the plot?...cos I think I've found it in my pocket...
Don't think so, just a realist I guess, really what is the difference? Don't have a problem with it, just think that's what it is, free prostitution. "
Ah you're much cleverer than we are. Why haven't we thought of this? Thank you. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
Have you lost the plot?...cos I think I've found it in my pocket...
Don't think so, just a realist I guess, really what is the difference? Don't have a problem with it, just think that's what it is, free prostitution. "
So you are entering loving relationships with everyone you meet on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
I will recant nothing. Just because that's how you see it. Someone who has sex with someone with no emotional attachement is not a prostitute. If I went out and shagged a man I met, I would not class myself as a free prostitute. Just the same as if I had a FB... It's mutual pleasure. It would be because I happen to love sex. "
I agree, that's your opinion and mine is mine...no right or wrong answer on this one is there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't think so, just a realist I guess, really what is the difference? Don't have a problem with it, just think that's what it is, free prostitution. "
I don't agree with any bit of what you're saying...just to be clear.
But just to play devils advocate, by your own terminology by using the word "Free"..
If it is in fact, "Free"..how exactly is that fucking prostitution?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
I will recant nothing. Just because that's how you see it. Someone who has sex with someone with no emotional attachement is not a prostitute. If I went out and shagged a man I met, I would not class myself as a free prostitute. Just the same as if I had a FB... It's mutual pleasure. It would be because I happen to love sex.
I agree, that's your opinion and mine is mine...no right or wrong answer on this one is there? "
No, there really is a right and wrong answer, yours is wrong by definition |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
I will recant nothing. Just because that's how you see it. Someone who has sex with someone with no emotional attachement is not a prostitute. If I went out and shagged a man I met, I would not class myself as a free prostitute. Just the same as if I had a FB... It's mutual pleasure. It would be because I happen to love sex.
I agree, that's your opinion and mine is mine...no right or wrong answer on this one is there? "
I genuinely pity the women who would chance a casual meet with you. Given what your thoughts are in regards to them. |
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What utter nonsense, I've never thought of any of my fb's as free prostitutes, they've all been charming chaps who enjoy my company as much as I enjoy theirs.
Some become more of a friend than others, and we spend hours chatting on the phone or go to gigs or out dancing together. It just depends what the dynamic is, what naturally develops - there are no rules except mutual respect and enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a fb is a free prostitue then what are all the singles on Fab?
Its a fuck buddy pure and simple. Someone you meet up with on a semi regular / regular basis to have sex with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
Truth be known - many guys see it as this  "
 I've found the same.
I understand what he's saying. Some people (men in my experience) do think a fb is a free prostitute situation.
Not all of course.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you mean what do we individually accept and expect or what one should accept and expect?
Like all relationships, you negotiate what's right for the pair of you.
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Everyone has a different opinion on what a fb or fwb or relationship means. Always discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people have to get nasty about an open and innocent question? "
Because some see the negative in everything. Either that or they aren't getting any and it's made them grumpy.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?  "
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one."
You could have meaningless sex with a partner, couldn't you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction.
I will recant nothing. Just because that's how you see it. Someone who has sex with someone with no emotional attachement is not a prostitute. If I went out and shagged a man I met, I would not class myself as a free prostitute. Just the same as if I had a FB... It's mutual pleasure. It would be because I happen to love sex.
I agree, that's your opinion and mine is mine...no right or wrong answer on this one is there?
I genuinely pity the women who would chance a casual meet with you. Given what your thoughts are in regards to them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what do we individually accept and expect or what one should accept and expect?
Like all relationships, you negotiate what's right for the pair of you.
Everyone has a different opinion on what a fb or fwb or relationship means. Always discuss. "
Seems like that's true but only if you agree with them and not dare offer a different perspective! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one."
The obligation in prostitution is that at least one person in the scenario is getting paid by the other. It's a transaction for sex. And the person being paid is working.
An FB relationship is they're having sex with each other for mutual pleasure and no other obligation or commitment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one."
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis. "
Interesting, having a view on a subject is a seedy hypothesis then is it? But sleeping with someone without obligations or prostitution isn't seedy according to you then?
Pleased I live in the grown up world where people can offer an alternative view point without being castigated for it! |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis.
Interesting, having a view on a subject is a seedy hypothesis then is it? But sleeping with someone without obligations or prostitution isn't seedy according to you then?
Pleased I live in the grown up world where people can offer an alternative view point without being castigated for it! "
It's a weird view to have when you are looking for a FWB yourself 
Prostitution is some thing that's a world away from mutual sexual enjoyment with someone you meet on a regular basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what do we individually accept and expect or what one should accept and expect?
Like all relationships, you negotiate what's right for the pair of you.
Everyone has a different opinion on what a fb or fwb or relationship means. Always discuss.
Seems like that's true but only if you agree with them and not dare offer a different perspective! "
It's interesting that you get slated, but I agree with your comment and I get no hassle. Must be cos I'm a woman.  |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis.
Interesting, having a view on a subject is a seedy hypothesis then is it? But sleeping with someone without obligations or prostitution isn't seedy according to you then?
Pleased I live in the grown up world where people can offer an alternative view point without being castigated for it! "
Are you on here looking for a wife? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one."
I'm assuming you're talking about the woman being the free prostitute. I have sex with men that isn't "meaningless". We have emotions as well as physical pleasure, without any responsibility to each other, other than the moments we are together. You may see that as getting a prostitute for nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean what do we individually accept and expect or what one should accept and expect?
Like all relationships, you negotiate what's right for the pair of you.
Everyone has a different opinion on what a fb or fwb or relationship means. Always discuss.
Seems like that's true but only if you agree with them and not dare offer a different perspective!
It's interesting that you get slated, but I agree with your comment and I get no hassle. Must be cos I'm a woman. "
I wholeheartedly agree and alas that's the general case in the forum is it not? (I don't mean you, just generally ) |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
I'm assuming you're talking about the woman being the free prostitute. I have sex with men that isn't "meaningless". We have emotions as well as physical pleasure, without any responsibility to each other, other than the moments we are together. You may see that as getting a prostitute for nothing. "
I suspect the assumption by my slaters is that I meant just women but no, I didn't. |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
I'm assuming you're talking about the woman being the free prostitute. I have sex with men that isn't "meaningless". We have emotions as well as physical pleasure, without any responsibility to each other, other than the moments we are together. You may see that as getting a prostitute for nothing.
I suspect the assumption by my slaters is that I meant just women but no, I didn't. "
You knew people would assume women. You crafty doc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a FB I meet up with every few months when he is free to do so and we talk the rest of the time building up on the sexual thrill of what each other has been doing between meets (yes he knows I'm on here and meeting other guys and that turns him on) that's it as we know neither of us wants a commitment plus if we did I'd put a stipulation in the relationship that meant I'd still be allowed to fuck others (completely with his knowledge of course) |
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but I agree with your comment and I get no hassle. Must be cos I'm a woman. "
I can't speak for anyone else but I'd have said exactly the same thing if a woman said it.
To suggest a FWB is nothing but a "free prostitute" is fucking dick'ish imo. |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis.
Interesting, having a view on a subject is a seedy hypothesis then is it? But sleeping with someone without obligations or prostitution isn't seedy according to you then?
Pleased I live in the grown up world where people can offer an alternative view point without being castigated for it!
Are you on here looking for a wife?"
He already has one of them! |
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but I agree with your comment and I get no hassle. Must be cos I'm a woman.
I can't speak for anyone else but I'd have said exactly the same thing if a woman said it.
To suggest a FWB is nothing but a "free prostitute" is fucking dick'ish imo."
It is. Implying that all those in a respectful, caring, regular fb friendship on here were just using each other as free prostitutes is ludicrous.
If you say 'Some people come here and try to use other people just like free prostitutes' then no-one would disagree, you see that all the time. |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
I'm assuming you're talking about the woman being the free prostitute. I have sex with men that isn't "meaningless". We have emotions as well as physical pleasure, without any responsibility to each other, other than the moments we are together. You may see that as getting a prostitute for nothing.
I suspect the assumption by my slaters is that I meant just women but no, I didn't.
You knew people would assume women. You crafty doc "
Hand on heart, I didn't, just an off-the-cuff comment.* |
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"Free prostitute isnt it?
You position yourself in that light?
No, absolutely not. The point I was trying to make was that it was meaningless sex. Dark Temptation herself described her sex with men as such didn't she.."spend time having sex together but have no obligation to each otber", "completely physical", " free to do as you please". Now if she hasnt basically described the transaction of "prostitution" I can't think of a better one.
You think prostitutes have sex with men for money because they derive pleasure from that act? It's a job for them. Fb is based on mutual attraction and lust, and satisfying sexual urges Do not try and skew my words to fit your seedy hypothesis.
Interesting, having a view on a subject is a seedy hypothesis then is it? But sleeping with someone without obligations or prostitution isn't seedy according to you then?
Pleased I live in the grown up world where people can offer an alternative view point without being castigated for it! "
You need to stop bringing my name into it. I disagree with your opinion, so let's just leave it at that. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some thoughts from others? I am a so called fb and not really sure what to give/take?
They have to be on terms you both adhere to. Some have different expectations. The general consensus is that you spend time having sex with each other, but have no obligation to each other at all. You are both free to do as you please... Completely physical. FWB is a little different again... With more emotional attachment involved.
Would you like to recant your previous post because what you've just discribed above is a prostitution transaction."
does it make you feel better to call me a prostitute...? or are you just flaming? i dont accept money for sex..but if you dont like it for free, you are free to pay someone, who will accept..
ill do what i want, with whom i want under what terms i want..whatever name you call it, is fine by me
however if you just have sex envy, this type of commenting, isn't going to help you any x |
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