I learnt along time ago single guys are bottom of the pile and trying to arrange a social in Essex being a single guy I suspect I have more chance in walking lol
There is a regular one in Southend. Not sure what the single male policy is though.
There is plenty of fet socials in Thurrock. Including one in Lakeside Costa on a monthly basis.
Nothing happens in North Essex, Mingles is a great club but is limited to the numbers it can take.
Kent seems to have more going for it in respect of socials & clubs.