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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok.

Following on from some comments. I'd like to point out, that i am not looking arguments. I'm not judging either.

I am just interested to understand why this may be controversial for me or any man to not want to meet women who have had kids. My second reason is the controversial point. If anyone hasn't read it. Please look at the first thread.

My reason comes from personal experience. Of the majority, not all, of women with kids that i have been with. I have found that the sensation and pleasure i get from intercourse is less with a woman that has had children, naturally and not c-section. This has meant that it has been harder for me to climax. Now, as a result, i have decided to avoid this by choosing my said preference. I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants. I would also like to say that i, from reading etc, have a bigger than average penis. Not much mind you but bigger than average.

This is not a back at women thread for looking vwe, bbc etc. It is just a wondering of why it is so controversial to have this preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because the assumption that all mums have baggy fannies is the same as the assumption all black men have big cocks. Just that - an assumption. I get that you've met mums who should've done more pelvic floor exercises, but you're tarring all mothers with the same brush. You're just as likely to find a mum tight as you are a non mum. It's all a bit daft really.

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Because the assumption that all mums have baggy fannies is the same as the assumption all black men have big cocks. Just that - an assumption. I get that you've met mums who should've done more pelvic floor exercises, but you're tarring all mothers with the same brush. You're just as likely to find a mum tight as you are a non mum. It's all a bit daft really.

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not controversial. I'll informed perhaps.

Not sure why you need to repeat yourself in another thread. The world of Fab hears you.

You only want to meet childless women as you believe it is logistically less challenging and they have tighter fandangos. Lots of people have different _iews, you are firm in your beliefs based on experience.

Here endeth the lesson.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

But why is it 'tarring'? Unlike the OP, some guys may have a preference for more 'manoeuvrability'. Just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Again?! I'm sure it was pointed out to you in the first thread that your experiences do not justify a sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The mums you've had sex with, when you've found it difficult to climax, did you complain to them? I'm assuming not. Just kinda blows your 'I've had no complaints' theory

Yes having children can no doubt affect how a woman feels, but if you have a larger than average tool I doubt you're really finding it difficult, probably more in your head. I've had kids, and have had sex with below average size guys which has been pleasurable for both parties.

In short, I don't think mums quite have the bucket fannies you're making out.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not 'tarring' anyone. Why do some women see it as a personal attack. It shouldn't be controversial but it is. That's what i want people to think about. It's a question of perceptions. Some make a choice to see it as an attack or tarring. Why? If a women wants a hung guy only. Men don't give to sh*ts. We don't see it as a personal attack.

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not read the first thread ...but wow ...his descision has been made and so be it ...

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!"

Either that or he's got game! Maybe he thinks we will all see it as a challenge

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The mums you've had sex with, when you've found it difficult to climax, did you complain to them? I'm assuming not. Just kinda blows your 'I've had no complaints' theory

In short, I don't think mums quite have the bucket fannies you're making out. "

Actually i have had the conversation.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!"

Just to clarify, I am most definitely not a mum in any sense of the word.

Don't judge me!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants. "

Women lie as well you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your preference mate, you stick to it.

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. I'm sure they would word it how they wanted to too. Don't feel like you have you justify yourself or likes on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not 'tarring' anyone. Why do some women see it as a personal attack. It shouldn't be controversial but it is. That's what i want people to think about. It's a question of perceptions. Some make a choice to see it as an attack or tarring. Why? If a women wants a hung guy only. Men don't give to sh*ts. We don't see it as a personal attack.

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence. "

Okay, we get it. You have a preference based on your own experiences, that may or may not be factually correct. Any chance you can accept that you're going to continue to have people disagree with you, instead of starting another thread?

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

It's reverse psychology, he wants a mum to offer him sex to prove she's tight.....good game OP!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

I don't

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

I was hoping at least a handful would be wanting to prove him wrong by now. You women are so fickle - why not put your money where your mouth is

OP: Is it controversial? Any thread that makes it to 175 is.

Why is it? Now you're asking us to understand the inner workings of a woman's mind. Surely you realise there is no logic to be found there? Just fluffy kittens

(the true answer may be that society has programmed them to be more body-conscious than men)

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is always Anal OP lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, your preferences are your preferences. Up to you who you wish to meet, no different to those that will only meet BBC's, won't meet BBW's or will only meet gym fit guys etc.

If you don't want to meet Mums, your prerogative 100%!

I haven't read the first thread (or this one) so don't feel qualified to comment further on how the debate has panned out, but I can understand why point two has caused controversy.

I guess it's a stereotype that mothers are, erm, looser and there will be those that are, those that aren't.

We're all different in our bodies and we are all like we are. We should celebrate what we are and enjoy what we've got!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

I was hoping at least a handful would be wanting to prove him wrong by now. You women are so fickle - why not put your money where your mouth is

...

Mr ddc"

Mr ddc; did you flunk your anatomy lessons at school?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

I don't

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Nor me of course,if a guy is a shit shag I'll tell him

. I'm now of to wash my mouth out this place is not good for me

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

And we can fake an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!"

As he doesn't want to meet mothers it's hardly a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP have you asked the question to yourself that your cock is too small and they can't feel you. Stop blaming the ladies and look at yourself as this is your problem no one else's!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well my Ex and i have a daughter and hers got even tighter after givijg birth. All about building the pelvic floor muscles back up. She still is very tight

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"OP have you asked the question to yourself that your cock is too small and they can't feel you. Stop blaming the ladies and look at yourself as this is your problem no one else's! "

Yeah, OP. Show us your c**k so we can evaluate you too

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Not read the first thread ...but wow ...his descision has been made and so be it ...

Good luck OP "

I did and hoped for a second one, it was a good read. This one's gonna get better I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP has made his point. Its his choice what he likes and dislikes.

Shame though as you are limiting yourself but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand - what was the question? Or were you just announcing this?

It's your dinkle - stick it where you want.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

As he doesn't want to meet mothers it's hardly a problem "

Well it is if most of the women on here are mothers,it doesn't leave him many to choose from

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Not that it matters now because you've probably been blocked by all mums on here anyway

I was hoping at least a handful would be wanting to prove him wrong by now. You women are so fickle - why not put your money where your mouth is

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Mr ddc

Mr ddc; did you flunk your anatomy lessons at school?

I went to a good, strict, almost Catholic, all-boys boarding school. Such things weren't taught. (I'm not sure women were even mentioned

)

I learnt everything I know from American hardcore porn mags. (Mrs ddc used to kindly hold them while I worked out what went where)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence.

I don't give two hoots if anyone agrees with or not. That isn't the point. You seem to think that i should simply shut up and not continue a discussion. Can't think why personally. It has been the most commented on thread in the past 12hrs in the lounge. Why cut it short? If you are bored with it. I think you know, as an adult, that you neither have to read nor comment. So why do either? You tell me.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I don't understand - what was the question? Or were you just announcing this?

It's your dinkle - stick it where you want."

Fleshlight...

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"There is always Anal OP lol"

That's what I said in the first thread

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"I don't understand - what was the question? Or were you just announcing this?

It's your dinkle - stick it where you want."

Erm, he can only 'stick it' where and if it is wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence.

It's not a discussion. You're just repeating yourself. You have your _iews, which have been clearly and succinctly expressed. Others haven't agreed. Neither party has budged.

Some parrots can talk, but it wouldn't amount to a conversation would it dear?

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

Difficulty to climax ???

Ok let's think about it this way ... a lot of that comes down to how sexually attracted you are to the person rather than how tight a pussy is of how big a cock is ...

I have been with guys that even before the 'intercourse' starts and just giving head I have had to keep stopping as they might cum just the same as someone pounding away with a huge tool has done nothing for me !!

Maybe if the sexual chemistry was better the 'size' would be the last thing you were thinking of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't give two hoots if anyone agrees with or not. "

I'm not sure why you're asking for opinions on an open forum then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

As he doesn't want to meet mothers it's hardly a problem "

It is if you make it a problem.

I agree though.

He's alienated the people he doesn't want to meet???

Not sure how that's fab suicide?

It's heavy handed filtering at best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP have you asked the question to yourself that your cock is too small and they can't feel you. Stop blaming the ladies and look at yourself as this is your problem no one else's! "

There is no blame and no accusing and to answer your question. I did ask myself the question. I also had an honest conversation with one of my ex's. We looked at the problem together. As it is important for both parties in a relationship to be fulfilled and i value honesty. No matter how hard hitting it may be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coincidentally, this reminds me of when a small child is continuously acting up because any attention's good attention.

You have your opinions OP, I have mine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no issue having a preference it's just that there are other factors aside from childbirth that can cause slack muscle tone in the vaginal walls, so you may still not find what you are looking for. Age for example.

Also how would some women know what they actually are, I have no idea. For example, I can feel my muscles clenching & find it a struggle to accomodate someone who is VWE. Now does that mean I'm tight or that my vagina has clamped shut at the sight of such a huge penis?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence.

It's not a discussion. You're just repeating yourself. You have your _iews, which have been clearly and succinctly expressed. Others haven't agreed. Neither party has budged.

Some parrots can talk, but it wouldn't amount to a conversation would it dear? "

Lol don't try and patronise me, dear.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's no issue having a preference it's just that there are other factors aside from childbirth that can cause slack muscle tone in the vaginal walls, so you may still not find what you are looking for. Age for example.

That's cock fright Roxi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Difficulty to climax ???

Ok let's think about it this way ... a lot of that comes down to how sexually attracted you are to the person rather than how tight a pussy is of how big a cock is ...

Maybe if the sexual chemistry was better the 'size' would be the last thing you were thinking of

Have to agree with Scarlet, a guy ejaculates when a signal is sent from the brain down to the cock. Sensation isn't from the touch alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I am seeking the reason why the majority see it as controversial and different from other preferences. I don't see it as any different. I'm not saying it isn't controversial. I'm saying it shouldn't be.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Difficulty to climax ???

Ok let's think about it this way ... a lot of that comes down to how sexually attracted you are to the person rather than how tight a pussy is of how big a cock is ...

Maybe if the sexual chemistry was better the 'size' would be the last thing you were thinking of

Have to agree with Scarlet, a guy ejaculates when a signal is sent from the brain down to the cock. Sensation isn't from the touch alone"

To the c**k from where???

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Could be a new Channel 5 Game Show "Fuck a Fanny" then guess (or in OP's case "accurately judge") whether or not she has kids.

Sally

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Could be a new Channel 5 Game Show "Fuck a Fanny" then guess (or in OP's case "accurately judge") whether or not she has kids.

Sally"

Actually lol at that

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well it makes a change from the incessant hordes who want to meet MILFs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

As he doesn't want to meet mothers it's hardly a problem

It is if you make it a problem.

I agree though.

He's alienated the people he doesn't want to meet???

Not sure how that's fab suicide?

It's heavy handed filtering at best.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also, and I don't want to cause any offence, but Roxi's comment about age changing a woman's body is true.

There's a menstrual product called a moon cup which comes in two sizes - one size is slightly smaller and it's suggested for women under 30 who haven't given birth and the other slightly larger cup is suggested for women over 30 OR women who have given birth vaginally.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I am seeking the reason why the majority see it as controversial and different from other preferences. I don't see it as any different. I'm not saying it isn't controversial. I'm saying it shouldn't be. "

I got that OP, but you should have titled it "Why is it controversial?" this time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well it makes a change from the incessant hordes who want to meet MILFs. "
....how about milfs who have never had kids......wait...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

As he doesn't want to meet mothers it's hardly a problem "

I beg to differ, As I don't like general sweeping negative statements about anybody I wouldn't be looking to meet the OP. Even if I was childless,single & available, with a fanny the size of a coin slot.

Just my thoughts, as the OP has his.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I noticed the original thread just as I was dropping off last night and thought to myself that it was it was going to be popular

OP - I think there might be something Freudian to this. Perhaps you should have a wonder about why you are scared of children

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol "

I like otters. I like that they hold hands so they don't lose each other. I'd like to get one and call him Ray. Ray the otter.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

Lobsters, find a soul mate and link claws for life....never cheat or swing!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Could be a new Channel 5 Game Show "Fuck a Fanny" then guess (or in OP's case "accurately judge") whether or not she has kids.

Sally"

Sounds like a plan

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol "

Technically that isn't allowed. The OP is allowed his own discussion.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

Penguins ... they walk funny and the male looks after the egg

Top guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I noticed the original thread just as I was dropping off last night and thought to myself that it was it was going to be popular

OP - I think there might be something Freudian to this. Perhaps you should have a wonder about why you are scared of children

I have children and i love them. I am not scared of kids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol

Technically that isn't allowed. The OP is allowed his own discussion. "

And badgering him away isn't going to help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol

Technically that isn't allowed. The OP is allowed his own discussion. "

Also, what's the point? He could start part 3 if he wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lobsters, find a soul mate and link claws for life....never cheat or swing!"

But what happens when one half of the couple is cooked up and served in a posh seafood restaurant?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Can we just now waste the rest of the comments naming animals or something so that it's closed lol

Technically that isn't allowed. The OP is allowed his own discussion. "

But there is no discussion, except for what you suggested earlier: "why is it controversial?"

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Lobsters, find a soul mate and link claws for life....never cheat or swing!

But what happens when one half of the couple is cooked up and served in a posh seafood restaurant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I see some have chosen to try and ruin the thread. Not very adult of you. If you don't like the thread. Don't post. Simple. Seems that this may be your only way of resolving or concluding things. Probably why you find this controversial

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Could be a new Channel 5 Game Show "Fuck a Fanny" then guess (or in OP's case "accurately judge") whether or not she has kids.

Sally

Sounds like a plan

Five guys with cocks from 5-9" five women from small to large "accommodation" all contestants blindfolded and then they have to dress and guess who's bits go with who.

Anyone guessing all right gets to take their favorites away for a night of debauchery.

Don't see why Mr average cock should have all the fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lobsters, find a soul mate and link claws for life....never cheat or swing!

But what happens when one half of the couple is cooked up and served in a posh seafood restaurant?

... I just ruined it didn't I.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I see some have chosen to try and ruin the thread. Not very adult of you. If you don't like the thread. Don't post. Simple. Seems that this may be your only way of resolving or concluding things. Probably why you find this controversial"

Lol lighten up OP the said people that hace tried to 'ruin it' with humour have also expressed valid and inciteful opinions on this thread

Just saying ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why don't you just ask for tight cunts?

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

OK you prefer kid less women, end of, no need for part 3!

Lol

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Why don't you just ask for tight cunts? "

He is not interested in guys

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

OP, Your "want" for a tight fanny is not controversial & neither is my dislike of large cocks. What is incorrect and possibly controversial is your assumption that if you have kids you have a big fanny. It's quite simply utter crap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't understand what it is you are trying to achieve?

There is unlikely to be methodologically sound scientific research in this area which can prove your theory one way or another, and so therefore it is simply a matter of opinion surely?

You are entitled to your own opinions, however bonkers and controversial they may be to others. The more ridiculous they are, the more controversy you'll create.

But you knew all this when you started the threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't you just ask for tight cunts?

He is not interested in guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Why don't you just ask for tight cunts?

He is not interested in guys

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's only controversial in your mind, do you think anyone cares who you WANT to meet? If you are of the opinion that all women who haven't had children have tighter foo-foos then knock yourself out looking for them.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Don't disrupt the thread please just because you don't like the subject, maybe go find a thread that you do like and leave the thread to the people who want to discuss it

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Why don't you just ask for tight cunts?

He is not interested in guys

;-)"

Thanks, I've got to go change my top now, tea everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't you just ask for tight cunts?

He is not interested in guys

Yeah, ha!

But the point is, he's welcome to ask for a specific attribute, but to join that preference to the assumption that only childless women gave tight vaginas is asinine. Never mind deliberately shit stirring.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I haven't read the first thread or indeed any of this one but you're entitled to ask for anything legal and consensual. Don't insult people outwith your preference (as far as I know you haven't) and I personally don't see a problem. I'm excluded from meeting you but that's fine, I like to concentrate on people I am compatible with.

Good luck in finding what makes you happy

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

is this the tight thingymyjiggy thread...

I saw it last night and thought, no not getting involved

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!"

I am a mum and wasn't offended. Not everyone springs back into shape, even with pelvic exercises, he may well have met those women and is speaking from his own experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not controversial just I'll informed and possibly a slightly immature _iewpoint. If you choose to not meet women who have had children then that's your choice. If it's due to the possible difficulty arranging meets I can understand but to generalise that all women who have had kids now have Pussy that Is rather on the loose side is way off the mark and a bit childish. You may have met a few that have been larger than your average but that will have very little to do with childbirth and more to do with genetics. Some who have not had kids will be larger just as some who have had kids will be tighter as they may have concentrated more on pelvic floor exercises post childbirth. Maybe you haven't sampled enough to gauge a true representation. If I met a few Irish men who happened to be have small cocks would I then be correct to assume all Irish men have small cocks ? And surely it must also be true that women who have had lots of sex or lots of sexual partners have large pussies also ?

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

I'll make it simple for you. No one has a problem with your preference, just the ill informed reason behind it.

Example:

Person A: "My preference is to not meet black/asian/inuit people."

The forum: "That's fine, it's your preference"

Person B: "My preference is to not meet black/asian/inuit people because of a woefully misinformed stereotype."

The forum? See the previous 250 replies.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

OP.

To the best of my knowledge, "Preference" by default CAN be controversial if the parties belonging to the "non-prefered" category oppose your preference... And maybe take it up in themselves, etc.

So, I don't think your preference is in anyway controversial. You justification for the preference on the other hand... Well, that's very very debatable. Although I agree with the logistics aspect, the fanny measurements criteria I don't agree.

Now, I've read through the entire thread which makes me wonder.

You mentioned your size and how you always please but find it hard to be pleased. I'm not questioning the validity of that... But I'm curious as to how that happened... If I'm wearing shoes which are too big for my big feet... Then either I'll float around or wear multiple socks... Or stick something else in there to fill the gap... Maybe my feet are just smaller than I thought.

The preference I highly doubt bothers anyone on here... The reason behind it... That's the problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

and it's summed up nicely.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OPs original question was 'would it be controversial to say I only want to meet women without children?'

I think the answer is simple isn't it?

Yes. Yes it would.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

I see your point but I have seen forum posts where women have mentioned a preference for big cocks and there has been some responses along the lines of only sluts like big cocks or you must have a bucket etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

As have I, and they are usually hastily shot down in flames for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anal sex with a milf..it's the way forward and tight as any teenager hole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

As have I, and they are usually hastily shot down in flames for it."

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here."

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

As have I, and they are usually hastily shot down in flames for it."

There's a difference between "ooh I love a big cock/big tits/tight cunt

" and "you must have this because you're this" though.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience. "

"Of the majority, not all, of women with kids that i have been with. I have found that the sensation and pleasure i get from intercourse is less with a woman that has had children, naturally and not c-section"

Right at the top, 3rd paragraph

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My wife has a lovely tight pussy.

Lots of veris from satisfied guys too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience.

Right at the top, 3rd paragraph"

Ok, how about this.

"Of the majority, not all, of the men below 5'10" that I have been with. I have found that the sensation and pleasure I get from intercourse is less with a man who is smaller than me. Therefore I'm only looking to meet men who are taller than me."

I might get a few "we're all the same height lying down" responses, but I doubt it would engender the same collective condemnation of me, suggestions there must be something wrong with me and declarations that I've committed forum suicide.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As for assumption. It doean't matter if it is or not. It is my experience. So factually based or not, is of no consequence. "

Your really right you can chose who play with and absolutely able to have a specific preference, as i see it a man who is well endowed the tool speaks for its self and you are able to see it etc but by choosing not to play with women who have children your eliminating (I would say a good 70% of the females on this site bases on a few poor experiences, and if you didn't share your complaint with the woman in question how are you so certain that they we happy with you performance? Lots of assumptions and id say in the end it will be your loss....

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

'forum suicide'...... the large chuck of us don't meet so it means fuck all in real terms...... and only a very small percentage use it anyway.

it's a declaration to try to make you feel shit.

just search for what you seek in the much wider population of the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok. It seems that it is controversial. However, the comments saying that i am immature, childish, etc etc are pathetic. You ironically say that i am judging but it would seem that you are judging me. I am basing my preference on my own personal experiences. Is it childish or immature? No it's not. It's moronic to think it is and naive to suggest it. It's like saying swinging or bondage is outrageous. Of course they're not. There's nothing wrong with it at all. Just because a majority of people think it's outrageous doesn't mean it is. Ok, my original question should have been 'why?' I conceed that. Why in this day and age are we still making the same mistakes and judgement. We as a species profess to being intelligent, yet from looking at everything happening in the world, we are far from it. In fact we are stupid. Complete imbeciles and we do nothing about it. It's interesting the rational that people use for their actions and words.

Right. I'm off to sleep. I've another nightshift later. Everyone, have a great day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op has a point. I've had children n now find that I get more pleasure from a larger cock. But given that op has no pics nonone of us can judge. Id hazzard a guess that hes on the smaller side of things ir surely he would have proof of his above average manhood.

Btw my slack cunt helped bring the most precious and beautiful girls into my world. I wouldn't change that for anything.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would also like to say that i, from reading etc, have a bigger than average penis. Not much mind you but bigger than average."

Honest, ill-informed and a bigger dick than average?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oohh dangerous thread this one,everyone has there preferences and thoughts,

personally you cant judge everyone as the same experience

each individual experience should be valued and savoured for what it is.

and on this site,i would say you are lucky to get any experiences at all,

so enjoy them tight loose or otherwise

all the women are fun,sexy and sassy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cock pic up for anyone who wants to have a nosey. Not that it makes a difference.

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By *iverpool LoverMan over a year ago

liverpool

Well this thread has been enlightening for sure.

some good posts by some posters like ruby woo and _iew.

some awful posts like the one that wanted to fill the thread up with animal posts so it gets closed which was thankfully discouraged by one of the mods quite quickly as that was pathetic behaviour.

The OP hasnt been rude to anyone and seems like an ok guy that from experience just finds that women with children have "looser" bits.

sure thats not always the case but in his experience it has been and hes entitled to have that preference without being jumped all over by people who take offence for no reason.

good luck OP.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience.

Right at the top, 3rd paragraph

Ok, how about this.

Umm.. First of all, I never stated that I agreed with the forum suicide stuff as I'm not one who's ever really used the forums for anything other than events and so, generally speaking, it was never of interest to me... But today, Ii have a lot of free time... I was bored...and Found this... I read through it all... and it was an interesting read, I don't know if you've read through this thread... But if you haven't you should... And more importantly, take note of the OP's responses. My first post on this thread is just above yours I believe.

I am not on a wagon of attack or defence or whatever. I respect his preference, but his reasoning behind it is phrased and defended wrongly. Sometimes we all have preferences, not always do we even have reasons for those preferences. But when you put a reason/claim to have a valid justification... Then for God's sake, make sure it's bulletproof before putting it out there... if you don't want attacks, that is.

About the height preference, well I don't go with anyone between 5'10 and 6'2... Because we're not all the same height lying down and it affects the "physics of MY chemistry....and biology." So...

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ok. It seems that it is controversial. However, the comments saying that i am immature, childish, etc etc are pathetic. You ironically say that i am judging but it would seem that you are judging me. I am basing my preference on my own personal experiences. Is it childish or immature? No it's not. It's moronic to think it is and naive to suggest it. It's like saying swinging or bondage is outrageous. Of course they're not. There's nothing wrong with it at all. Just because a majority of people think it's outrageous doesn't mean it is. Ok, my original question should have been 'why?' I conceed that. Why in this day and age are we still making the same mistakes and judgement. We as a species profess to being intelligent, yet from looking at everything happening in the world, we are far from it. In fact we are stupid. Complete imbeciles and we do nothing about it. It's interesting the rational that people use for their actions and words.

Right. I'm off to sleep. I've another nightshift later. Everyone, have a great day.

I wonder why you have to specify WHY you want to meet women without children? The ease of making arrangements to meet is a perfectly valid point, and your profile reads well, but I am afraid I would find the phrase 'tight little pussy' so condescending it would be an instant delete at that point, and it begs the question why you feel the need to make such a big deal of this in the first place??

Oh yeah, and speaking as a woman with no kids and a lifetime of horse riding I can assure you I have no axe to grind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this thread has been enlightening for sure.

some good posts by some posters like ruby woo and _iew.

some awful posts like the one that wanted to fill the thread up with animal posts so it gets closed which was thankfully discouraged by one of the mods quite quickly as that was pathetic behaviour.

The OP hasnt been rude to anyone and seems like an ok guy that from experience just finds that women with children have "looser" bits.

sure thats not always the case but in his experience it has been and hes entitled to have that preference without being jumped all over by people who take offence for no reason.

good luck OP.

Thanks dude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience.

Right at the top, 3rd paragraph

Ok, how about this.

About the height preference, well I don't go with anyone between 5'10 and 6'2... Because we're not all the same height lying down and it affects the "physics of MY chemistry....and biology." So...

I think you're missing my point. I think his preference is probably based on flawed information and is badly expressed. But I've read this and the previous thread in full and the double standards being demonstrated are blatant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most preferences will offend someone, we're all here for our own pleasure so why make allowances? Please don't take this as a attack on your manhood but I wonder if op has some penis desensitization, very common, easy to test for and would require more friction to accomplish an orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I'll just stick to guys who want to meet me for being me regardless of whether I have a tight foof or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Most preferences will offend someone, we're all here for our own pleasure so why make allowances? Please don't take this as a attack on your manhood but I wonder if op has some penis desensitization, very common, easy to test for and would require more friction to accomplish an orgasm. "

This may be something i can look into. I do wank a lot! Could this cause it?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"My wife has a lovely tight pussy.

Lots of veris from satisfied guys too

Do they also have to complete a 10 point customer satisfaction survey questionnaire?

And more to the point, do you use Excel or a hierarchical database to collate the results

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This may be something i can look into. I do wank a lot! Could this cause it?

It can indeed but there can be other factors too. Give it a Google, easy at home test and advice at how to increase sensitivity.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

Man says "I only like a tight fanny". I don't think anyone would have a problem with that.

Man says "I don't want mothers(vaginal delivery) as all those i've been with aren't tight". Forum goes crazy.

Tight fanny isn't exactly the issue here.

But maybe all those he's been with *weren't* tight. So he's basing his preference on personal experience.

Right at the top, 3rd paragraph

Ok, how about this.

About the height preference, well I don't go with anyone between 5'10 and 6'2... Because we're not all the same height lying down and it affects the "physics of MY chemistry....and biology." So...

I believe I do get your point. Your original point was questioning/pondering why he, the OP ( a guy) is getting attacked for stating his preferences.. And why a lady say "... big cock ...." or you could say "...over 5'10..." and you wouldn't get total attacks and stuff...

I do not agree with the double standards... But when someone states on his profile, "tight little cunts" and in the opening post, about his "measurements", etc. Then that is what brings up the debate.

Maybe it's just me, but I don't think anyone would attack anyone, male or female for having preferences.... And although like I said, I don't agree with a lot of the responses, the OP's phrasing sends a lot of wrong messages....Maybe unintentionally... But the fact is they do.... And I believe that's the whole basis of the... controversy.

Yes, there's an obvious double standard... But it's interpreted as a generalisation, after the fact... In a war which is irrelevant...

There's an obvious double standard, there always is, it'll always be there.

But you have to see the obvious fact that a lot of what was stated was wrongly phrased/redundant... Except the forum war was the actual intention.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Cock pic up for anyone who wants to have a nosey. Not that it makes a difference.

You call thaaaat big???

THIS is big

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are free to have any preferences you want. We all are

However i find it hard to believe that women who have had children have a less tight foo, every women i know does pelvic exercises after having a baby and we are very elastic in that area obviously

I know (from being told in the past) that im tight and i have given birth naturally twice.

Maybe you were just unlucky in who you met or maybe the problem lies with you ?

Good luck though as you have most likely allienated (sp?) most women on Fab now lol.

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By *iverpool LoverMan over a year ago

liverpool

"You are free to have any preferences you want. We all are

However i find it hard to believe that women who have had children have a less tight foo, every women i know does pelvic exercises after having a baby and we are very elastic in that area obviously

I know (from being told in the past) that im tight and i have given birth naturally twice.

Maybe you were just unlucky in who you met or maybe the problem lies with you ?

Good luck though as you have most likely allienated (sp?) most women on Fab now lol."

"You have most likely aliented most women on fab now lol"

Hardly as only a very tiny percentage of fab use the forums...id say less than 10% but thats just a guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had one natural birth and the only person that could test the difference before and after I had a child would be my ex, hell would freeze over before I had sex with him so I'll never know if having a baby did anything to my tightness.

I didn't have sex for 2 years after I had my child, actually I haven't had sex regularly for the last 7 years so my fannys pretty underused and I think that contributed to it's tightness. Feel like I'm breaking my hymen for the first time each time I have sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do not agree with the double standards... But when someone states on his profile, "tight little cunts" and in the opening post, about his "measurements", etc. Then that is what brings up the debate."

I do not state "tight little cunts" on my profile. If you are going to quote. Quote.

As for "measurements". I briefly mentioned size due to a lot of comments suggesting it was all down to cock size. Which i don't agree with.

The real reason is purely from a sensation pount of _iew. I'm not getting the sensation during sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, there's an obvious double standard... But it's interpreted as a generalisation, after the fact... In a war which is irrelevant...

There's an obvious double standard, there always is, it'll always be there.

But you have to see the obvious fact that a lot of what was stated was wrongly phrased/redundant... Except the forum war was the actual intention. "

I don't see a "war", just a whole lotta butthurt responses to a badly worded preference. Which was probably the intention behind the thread(s). Just because a double standard is there doesn't mean you have to go along with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""I do not agree with the double standards... But when someone states on his profile, "tight little cunts" and in the opening post, about his "measurements", etc. Then that is what brings up the debate."

I do not state "tight little cunts" on my profile. If you are going to quote. Quote.

As for "measurements". I briefly mentioned size due to a lot of comments suggesting it was all down to cock size. Which i don't agree with.

The real reason is purely from a sensation pount of _iew. I'm not getting the sensation during sex. "

You could specify that you only want "tight little cunts" you're perfectly entitled to state what your preferences are, I applaud people that have preferences, I have many.

But you should just keep it at that, state you want tight fannies and then you'll get people with tight fannies, you could say don't want anybody that's had a vaginal birth and in doing so you could dismiss lots of tight fannies, you could have a woman that hasn't had a child yet still has a slack fanny. Do you see what I'm trying to explain?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Something is only controversial if it affects or is important to someone.

So I'm guessing those that maybe aren't as tight or feel that childbirth has affected their vagina / sex life probably feels your preference is controversial.

I don't as I explained earlier up the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women have slack fannies some women have tight fannies.

I think that definately popping out a couple of kids can have an affect on a ladies fufu, but thats not always the case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I do not state "tight little cunts" on my profile. If you are going to quote. Quote.

As for "measurements". I briefly mentioned size due to a lot of comments suggesting it was all down to cock size. Which i don't agree with.

The real reason is purely from a sensation pount of _iew. I'm not getting the sensation during sex.

You could specify that you only want "tight little cunts" you're perfectly entitled to state what your preferences are, I applaud people that have preferences, I have many.

Yes i do and thank you. I am purely going on my experience. The thread is NOT intended to cause argument but to engage in a discussion. I thank you for the point you are making. Maybe it has been worded wrongly but it is just an honest reason. So if i just put "tight pussy" would that be less controversial? I'm not convinced but to have this discussion is to see what others think. This may be a problem i have physically with sensation. I can't say either but it is something i haven't thought about. So i thank you and others constructive comments on the thread. It is very much appreciated.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

I do not state "tight little cunts" on my profile. If you are going to quote. Quote.

As for "measurements". I briefly mentioned size due to a lot of comments suggesting it was all down to cock size. Which i don't agree with.

The real reason is purely from a sensation pount of _iew. I'm not getting the sensation during sex. "

My mistake, cunt, pussy, fanny... Cunt = Swear word apparently. Mea culpa on that one.

Let me explain to you what I am referring to... I have read both threads... You continuously say, (so i don't get accused of misquoting again...) something along the lines of " I don't mean to be a dick....... I have come to this conclusion based on my experience."

It means that yes, you did experience what you did experience... And based on your experience, with the mothers you've been with, there's been a not so tight sensation with most of them.

As you said, it's a conclusion generated based on your experience. A conclusion.

You don't have to (for lack of a better word) justify the size of your cock.."bigger than average" or whatever... as all you're doing is giving even more openings to... "it's the size of your cock".

Big, small, average...

Tight, bucket, swimming pool...

It's all relative.

I'm an advocate of sensation... So, yes, go for it...

i personally don't think it generally speaking has much to do with childbirth...but that's my own opinion/experience.

In general, like I said, your phrasing, and some responses haven't been to your advantage... that's all I'm gonna say.

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

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By *heCookieMonsterMan over a year ago

Nice

Yes, there's an obvious double standard... But it's interpreted as a generalisation, after the fact... In a war which is irrelevant...

There's an obvious double standard, there always is, it'll always be there.

But you have to see the obvious fact that a lot of what was stated was wrongly phrased/redundant... Except the forum war was the actual intention.

If that was a personal statement, I have never gone along with the double standard...

If that wasn't, then yes... Sure, just because it exists doesn't mean one must go along with it.

The original question of this thread... was if it will be controversial, to... based on a "controversial 2nd point"

It is a controversial 2nd point for obvious reasons.

The preference wasn't necessarily badly worded... The (possibly redundant) justification was what was badly worded... and the reason for "a whole lotta butthurt"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand - what was the question? Or were you just announcing this?

It's your dinkle - stick it where you want.

Fleshlight... "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do not state "tight little cunts" on my profile. If you are going to quote. Quote.

As for "measurements". I briefly mentioned size due to a lot of comments suggesting it was all down to cock size. Which i don't agree with.

The real reason is purely from a sensation pount of _iew. I'm not getting the sensation during sex.

You could specify that you only want "tight little cunts" you're perfectly entitled to state what your preferences are, I applaud people that have preferences, I have many.

I think if you say you want "tight pussy only" that would be more accurate. You'll still put people's backs out that don't have a tight fanny, but they are people you don't want to meet anyway so it shouldn't really be a problem.

I am very specific about the penis size that I like, I want minimum 7 inches in length with a circumference of at least 5.5 inches. I like to look at willys that size, they're nice to hold in your hand and whatever, I also like to feel the sharp slightly painful stretchy feeling when it first goes inside me, it's my kink, I get off on it, ow, oooh, you're hurting me, whilst the guy still continues to fuck. It's like a role play thing then, a normal or smaller sized penis would still make me cum I expect (I've never tried one) but it's just what I enjoy, it a preference.

Be true to yourself and have preferences, state them in a way that doesn't upset the camp that you aren't looking for and nobody should feel put out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's as if you have no chemistry with your meets other than anatomically ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"it's as if you have no chemistry with your meets other than anatomically ?"

it's nothing to do with the mental chemistry

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

It's not a double standard though, you're comparing apples and oranges.

Stating a preference for BBC is not the same as coming out with something nonsense like "I don't meet bald men as they have small willies"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not a double standard though, you're comparing apples and oranges.

Stating a preference for BBC is not the same as coming out with something nonsense like "I don't meet bald men as they have small willies""

Not really. Saying you only (in your own experience) get sexual pleasure from big cocks, so I only meet men with size 12 and above feet, would be a more accurate comparison. Based on a combination of personal experience and nonsense science. The double standard arises from the fact that if I stated that as my preference for those reasons, I wouldn't be met with the response he's been.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wonder if we asked these women if they ever had a guy not enjoy sex with them before or since meeting you? Somehow I doubt it. I think the problem is you.

During female arousal, the muscles contract, gradually increasing until they do so maximally during orgasm. Maybe these women just weren't that turned on?

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

It's not a double standard though, you're comparing apples and oranges.

Stating a preference for BBC is not the same as coming out with something nonsense like "I don't meet bald men as they have small willies"

Which would be fine if he stated he just wanted to meet women with tight vaginas.

He didn't.

He said he wouldn't meet women that have had kids because he didn't like flicking a grain of rice into space.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Which would be fine if he stated he just wanted to meet women with tight vaginas.

He didn't.

He said he wouldn't meet women that have had kids because he didn't like flicking a grain of rice into space."

Where did he say that? Could you quote the post?

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

The original post that sparked all this off?

I was paraphrasing but this is it

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss....."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The original post that sparked all this off?

I was paraphrasing but this is it

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....""

I'm not seeing anything about grains of rice or space here.

Neither are any of those statements offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cock pic up for anyone who wants to have a nosey. Not that it makes a difference.

Ah. Now we see what the problem is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I mean it's weird. I've had sex with people with:

- large vaginas that were tight

- large vaginas that were loose

- small vaginas that were tight

- small vaginas that were loose

and absolutely none of those things have anything to do with if the person had children. They were far more to do with, well, it's just how their bodies were. Some people are tight, some people are loose, some people are big, some people are small.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i was 'big'/wide before i even had kids. having kids doesn't necessarily do this to a woman.

measured my fanny the other week and it's only 5 inches deep.

anyway idk why i'm posting here, must be boredom, so going to find something better to do.

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

"Neither are any of those statements offensive. "

It's not offensive, just woefully misinformed and peabrained

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Neither are any of those statements offensive.

It's not offensive, just woefully misinformed and peabrained

I've never disagreed with that. But offensive it is not, which is why the double standard I described is alive and kicking.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

During female arousal, the muscles contract, gradually increasing until they do so maximally during orgasm. Maybe these women just weren't that turned on?

That's what I was thinking or, and apologies if this has already been mentioned, whether the OP has a small cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When i was still with my ex husband the father of my children he did often say "is it in yet" depending on what position we were in. This I did find offensive as I could always feel him despite him being on the smaller side of things. I found it depended on how hard he was. But by this time I was out of love with him and didn't really care if he got any pleasure or not. He was very careless with his words and when I got upset he would say "I'm not treading on eggshell around you". So yes I would be offended by your wording. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cock pic up for anyone who wants to have a nosey. Not that it makes a difference.

Ah. Now we see what the problem is

That's cruel, whereas my own comment that provoked OP's response was only meant as 'throwaway humour'.

But yes, contrary to my own beliefs, it seems I am bigger than 'bigger than average'. Lol, if only....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Neither are any of those statements offensive.

It's not offensive, just woefully misinformed and peabrained

I've never disagreed with that. But offensive it is not, which is why the double standard I described is alive and kicking. "

It's not offensive.

It's just touched a nerve with some & others have jumped on the 'outrage' bandwagon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Man says "I only like a tight fanny". Outraged forum says "you must have a small penis".

Woman says "I only like a big cock". Outraged forum wouldn't dare suggest that's because she has a loose fanny.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

whats that film with Meg Ryan again?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

Either that or he's got game! Maybe he thinks we will all see it as a challenge

Maybe he has just got the balls to say it as he actually sees it and isn't trying to do the fab thing and attempt to be all things to all men/women? Just a possibility?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

Either that or he's got game! Maybe he thinks we will all see it as a challenge

Maybe he has just got the balls to say it as he actually sees it and isn't trying to do the fab thing and attempt to be all things to all men/women? Just a possibility?"

Absolutely! And good for him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can see someone been butthurt by end of this

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By *essiCouple over a year ago

suffolk

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

whats that film with Meg Ryan again?

When Harry met Sally ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

whats that film with Meg Ryan again?

When Harry met Sally ?

Yes!! Yes, yes.....yesssss yes yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread will forever live in my memory as

"The wizards spell"

Where upon you do a chant, wave your stick in a big black cauldron, and people disappear.

All its done is pointed out the double standards and the parallel world of FAB

Fair play though OP for jumping over the parapet bollock naked into the awaiting horde.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread will forever live in my memory as

"The wizards spell"

Where upon you do a chant, wave your stick in a big black cauldron, and people disappear.

All its done is pointed out the double standards and the parallel world of FAB

Fair play though OP for jumping over the parapet bollock naked into the awaiting horde.

Agree. I love it when threads like this come up as it really gets people talking about stuff that lots of people think to themselves.

Personally I don't like any labels or presumptions about me and my body but I also don't project such things into others. I'd never refer to a woman as BBW or assume that a black guy is hung, but lots of people do those things yet feel offended when the same is done to them (or specifically their gentialia) so it's an interesting topic.

Well done OP

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Lol op has just committed fabicide as a lot of us are mums!!!!

Either that or he's got game! Maybe he thinks we will all see it as a challenge

Maybe he has just got the balls to say it as he actually sees it and isn't trying to do the fab thing and attempt to be all things to all men/women? Just a possibility?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had 6 of the little buggers, all naturally, and my vag just sprang back to its tight old self........very proud of it. 52 years old, and I'm still told it's tighter than women in their pre child years........so tbh all a load of nonsense, we are all different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well peeps. Hasn't this been insightful? Before the thread closes, i'd like to thank everyone for their input. Even those that felt it necessary to say i have a small penis, brainless, ignorant, disrespectful etc. I've also found myself at the end of a few block buttons. None of which do i mind. To those that were respectful, whether they agreed or disagreed with what i said, i thank you. Some people in life sit on the fence, some people hide behind it, some people lower themselves down slowly before letting go and some people stand up and jump off. Life isn't a dress rehearsal. Stand up and jump off the fence. It's more enjoyable.

By the way, muscles in a woman down below, do stretch during child birth and pelvic exercises can help to strengthen these after child birth. Does every woman do them? I seriously doubt it. So it is reasonable to expect a percentage of women to have, for want of a better expression, a looser vagina after child birth. So it is also reasonable for me, based on this and my own experience, to seek a woman who has not had children. Why? I believe I will, in all likelihood, have a higher chance of coming across a woman with a tighter vagina. Thus enhancing my sexual pleasure. This is of course, what Fab is about. Isn't it? Your sexual pleasure. Controversial? My ass it is. Have a great day everyone.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

" I would like to state, that the women i have been with have all been able to climax and have loved sex with me. They have had no compliants.

Women lie as well you know

whats that film with Meg Ryan again?

When Harry met Sally ?

Yes!! Yes, yes.....yesssss yes yes

[ heaven forbid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So not controversial at all then?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

the end......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it's controversial. I've seen lots of verifications stating that the woman has a nice tight cunt, so they are popular.

I can only speak from experience of different thickness of cock and have found that how tight I am around them differs with my wetness and how thick they are (obviously). I've yet to have someone not be able to cum.

You're well within your rights to ask for women who haven't had children, if you enjoy them more.

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