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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having kids doesn't mean that a woman is loose. Vaginas are elastic & muscular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I don't find having kids makes that much difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some woman I've been with have had kids and are tighter than those whom haven't!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

Salty sweet please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

If your sharing. Might need it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they had Caesarean, pussy won't be any worse for wear.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

If your sharing. Might need it.

Please!

Be my guest!

*dusts off the sofa and gets out the fine china*

Hotting up nicely, isn't it?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I understand your first reason but not your second

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets"

Fair enough...

"2/ tighter pussy"

You haven't had many meets, have you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not trying to be a dick. It is just in my experience, i have found that a vagina isn't as tight. I've put this purely down to having kids. So my preference now is meeting women without kids. That is on fab and for dating of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some woman I've been with have had kids and are tighter than those whom haven't! "

This

I've been with a woman who has slept with a lot of people, and she's had a child, and she was incredibly tight even when turned on.

An ex girlfriend who'd never even slept with a man could accommodate my fist if she was turned on, yet she still remained tight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

Fair enough...

2/ tighter pussy

You haven't had many meets, have you?"

Possibly won't get another after this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not trying to be a dick. It is just in my experience, i have found that a vagina isn't as tight. I've put this purely down to having kids. So my preference now is meeting women without kids. That is on fab and for dating of fab."

So what about the Caesarean question then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tight pussy isn't the be all and end all anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

Fair enough...

2/ tighter pussy

You haven't had many meets, have you?"

I have been on and off fab for nearly 4 yrs now. I have met a few women. Just something i've noticed recently.

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

If tight is the requirement dude why not just specify only chicks that love anal only?

And no kids... Well go for dudes!

Hang on... You another one of those "fab straight" dudes in disguise?!!!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Oooh, controversial you say?

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children.

"
No.

"For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets "
Sounds very practical, not controversial at all

"2/ tighter pussy"
Now we're getting somewhere....

Try putting "No bucket fannies" on your profile.

But you realise they'll all just be thinking "my, he must have a tidgy todger", right?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, to answer your question, OP, it appears it would be contravercial.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well personally speaking my vagina is as tight as a virgins untouched temple and I've had 3 kids naturally

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Well personally speaking my vagina is as tight as a virgins untouched temple and I've had 3 kids naturally

Like the ear of a mouse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, to answer your question, OP, it appears it would be contravercial."

You can tell who was a good student! I completely forgot the original question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know a couple of woman who had never had an orgasm through sex. Until after they had kids. So there's a plus point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I can only imagine that a fair percentage of women on this site are mothers so you'd be limiting yourself based on a passing judgement.

Crack on.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Your age goes up to 40 op. What if its a 40 year old whose kids have flown the nest and given birth by ceasarean

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By *LUKCouple over a year ago

Loughborough

"I'm not trying to be a dick."

It's amazing what you can achieve without even trying.

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

Poor guy was only trying to increase the chances of a tight wet dream and avoid a dead mans handshake

Tough crowd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If tight is the requirement dude why not just specify only chicks that love anal only?

And no kids... Well go for dudes!

Hang on... You another one of those "fab straight" dudes in disguise?!!!!

To be fair, if tightness is the priority then you can't really beat anal...

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

If tight is the requirement dude why not just specify only chicks that love anal only?

And no kids... Well go for dudes!

Hang on... You another one of those "fab straight" dudes in disguise?!!!!

To be fair, if tightness is the priority then you can't really beat anal... "

See

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So what about the Caesarean question then? "

Fair point. Women with c-sections would be different.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

If tight is the requirement dude why not just specify only chicks that love anal only?

And no kids... Well go for dudes!

Hang on... You another one of those "fab straight" dudes in disguise?!!!!

To be fair, if tightness is the priority then you can't really beat anal... "

Bend over then there's a good fella

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Isn't anal really tight up to a point though? And then it's a bit looser?

Anyways, OP you undoubtedly knew it would be at the very least slightly controversial. Are you going to check medical notes to see if the child was a vaginal delivery now or cesarean? Or will you rely on your cock to tell that difference?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

Ha ha go go super Joe

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

I read a profile the other day that said he didn't want to meet any women with a pussy like a shoe!

I am still trying to work that out!!!

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Isn't anal really tight up to a point though? And then it's a bit looser?

Nice pearl necklace

Wasn't concentrating on your point sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Replies have been pretty swift. As i mentioned. It is just been my experience that i have come to the conclusions that i have. I'm not trying to offend anyone and knowing the forums, some will think i am. However it isn't my intention. It's just something that i have come across over the past couple of years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't anal really tight up to a point though? And then it's a bit looser?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

On a serious note dude, I've met women who have had or not had kids on both sides of the spectrum

So I don't think it's a good benchmark personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't anal really tight up to a point though? And then it's a bit looser? "

Yes tight at first, but then it loosens up very nicely.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Mine has been affectionately called refurbished as I've had surgery so I've been told I'm quite tight. I've had three kids too.

Surely it depends on how thick a guy is, how tight a woman is to him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well personally speaking my vagina is as tight as a virgins untouched temple and I've had 3 kids naturally

I require proof.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And how would you know? Check their medical records or shout up their foof to see if it echoes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a profile the other day that said he didn't want to meet any women with a pussy like a shoe!

I am still trying to work that out!!!

Probably relates to the smell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Isn't anal really tight up to a point though? And then it's a bit looser?

No, anal is a lot tighter... better overall in my humble opinion

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I read a profile the other day that said he didn't want to meet any women with a pussy like a shoe!

I am still trying to work that out!!!

Probably relates to the smell"

Oh gross! I hadn't even thought of that!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,"

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

Bedtime for you

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

*gazes lovingly at the piles of popcorn filling up the room*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've just found that women that i have been with, that have had children, have a looser vagina. So my preference, naturally is for a tighter one. As i'm sure other guys will concur, is better for feeling and continued arousal as the girl becomes wet. There is no difference in my want for this and a some womens desire for a hung guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*gazes lovingly at the piles of popcorn filling up the room*"

Tea or coffee babes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well personally speaking my vagina is as tight as a virgins untouched temple and I've had 3 kids naturally

I require proof."

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

That's it settled then... Anal for everyone!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

Bedtime for you

Who me?

I just meant if he wanted a tighter fanny maybe people would think he had a narrow cock? What did you think I meant?.....

Oh, you didn't!

Really?

Honestly, your mind.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

Bedtime for you

Who me?

I just meant if he wanted a tighter fanny maybe people would think he had a narrow cock? What did you think I meant?.....

Oh, you didn't!

Really?

Honestly, your mind..... "

You're never implying that it might be the fault of the man but not of the woman?!

Blasphemy

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"*gazes lovingly at the piles of popcorn filling up the room*

Tea or coffee babes?

XX "

Tea please, milk n' two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've just found that women that i have been with, that have had children, have a looser vagina. So my preference, naturally is for a tighter one. As i'm sure other guys will concur, is better for feeling and continued arousal as the girl becomes wet. There is no difference in my want for this and a some womens desire for a hung guy. "

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

Bedtime for you

Who me?

I just meant if he wanted a tighter fanny maybe people would think he had a narrow cock? What did you think I meant?.....

Oh, you didn't!

Really?

Honestly, your mind.....

You're never implying that it might be the fault of the man but not of the woman?!

Blasphemy

I will take this one, I was previously married, it's always clearly the mans fault... Tut obvious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it depends on how thick a guy is,

Didn't we already establish that from the OP?

Bedtime for you

Who me?

I just meant if he wanted a tighter fanny maybe people would think he had a narrow cock? What did you think I meant?.....

Oh, you didn't!

Really?

Honestly, your mind.....

You're never implying that it might be the fault of the man but not of the woman?!

Blasphemy

I will take this one, I was previously married, it's always clearly the mans fault... Tut obvious "

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority? "

Man totally loving your hard push on anal

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By *andH83Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm not trying to be a dick.

It's amazing what you can achieve without even trying."

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

You're never implying that it might be the fault of the man but not of the woman?!

Blasphemy

I will take this one, I was previously married, it's always clearly the mans fault... Tut obvious "

Always safest to admit culpability, even when you're not even sure what you've done wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority? "

Anal has never interested me with a woman. Nor men for that matter.

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

You're never implying that it might be the fault of the man but not of the woman?!

Blasphemy

I will take this one, I was previously married, it's always clearly the mans fault... Tut obvious

Always safest to admit culpability, even when you're not even sure what you've done wrong.

Pmsl love your profile pics btw what an eclectic mix of crazy public nudity, keep it up guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tightest woman I've ever experienced was the mother of two kids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Man totally loving your hard push on anal

I'm a truth seeker

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Anal has never interested me with a woman. Nor men for that matter. "

That leads me to conclude that tightness is not your priority then

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Man totally loving your hard push on anal

I'm a truth seeker

You appear to be a tenacious anal seeker too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Man totally loving your hard push on anal

I'm a truth seeker

You appear to be a tenacious anal seeker too

Nah, tightness isn't a priority for me. Not opposed to it, but you can have a lot of fun with a wizards sleeve so I take them as they come. It's all about the face for me, couldn't fuck a woman who didn't have a cute face even if she cracked walnuts between her thighs

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

Well best turn around good lady push up that fine ass and get ready for some pillow biting

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Pmsl love your profile pics btw what an eclectic mix of crazy public nudity, keep it up guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

I'll bring my head lamp and some rope so I don't fall in

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

Well best turn around good lady push up that fine ass and get ready for some pillow biting

Oh hell no!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tightest woman I've ever experienced was the mother of two kids"

It's understandable mate kids are expensive.

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Man totally loving your hard push on anal

I'm a truth seeker

You appear to be a tenacious anal seeker too

Agreed, as long as there is an attraction. I've found it can be anything from, beautiful eyes, a smile, those little dimples above the nape of the back, thighs... Their mind and wit...The choices are endless and its what makes each person a unique adventure

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan over a year ago

Willenhall

"Tightest woman I've ever experienced was the mother of two kids"

Same here.

Mind you, she was still waiting for her tax credits application to go through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So again, why not just go for anal if tightness is your priority?

Anal has never interested me with a woman. Nor men for that matter.

That leads me to conclude that tightness is not your priority then "

How so?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

Well best turn around good lady push up that fine ass and get ready for some pillow biting

Oh hell no!"

Sigh shame.. I liked those backless panties you had on...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

I'm crying with laughter. Should have put on waterproof mascara. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pelvic floor exercises: they are a wonderful thing for tightening up the cuff and stop the sleeve flapping about like a 1970's flare. Personally it sounds like OP has an issue with a slim jim rather than gaping girls. At the end of the day, driving a Mini through a tunnel is easier than a truck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

Classy, never been called slim dick before.

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By *idsBiGuyMan over a year ago

Tamworth

This thread is facepalmingly glorious!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

erm

hmmm

nope I can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

As i have pointed out, this has been from my experience. I will also point out, that it was the case with the majority but not all the women i have been with, that have had children. It may also be the case that some of the women have been quite wet during sex, which is also a contributing factor. So my preference is for women without kids. Thus reducing the chance of having sex and not enjoying to a full extent, the experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

To be fair bud nobody said small. They implied "narrow" or "thin" just keeping the record straight

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Don't worry, OP, we're just joshing you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

does anyone bat an eye lid if a woman requested only hung or vwe men? No, they don't. Why is it so controversial or frowned upon for me or any other man for that matter, to request a women with a tighter vagina. Preferring women without kids, obviously doesn't ensure this but it does increase my chances of meeting up with a woman with a tighter vagina. Is that wrong of me to look for? Of course it is not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?"

Why not? It's interesting to know other peoples opinions. Is that not what a forum is about?

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

Chill bro.. Just messing

Jeez people ask for all kinds of specifics on here!!! Well hung, black, white, no bald, no beard

It's the fab Argos catalogue

You have what you want buddy there's someone for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Chill bro.. Just messing

Jeez people ask for all kinds of specifics on here!!! Well hung, black, white, no bald, no beard

It's the fab Argos catalogue

You have what you want buddy there's someone for everyone

I'm not getting annoyed. I'm just telling it from my side. My thoughts. Just because i'm questioning a view point, doesn't mean i'm taking it thick. I'm completely chilled.

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By *avrick15Man over a year ago

glasgow

Chill bro.. Just messing

Jeez people ask for all kinds of specifics on here!!! Well hung, black, white, no bald, no beard

It's the fab Argos catalogue

You have what you want buddy there's someone for everyone

I'm not getting annoyed. I'm just telling it from my side. My thoughts. Just because i'm questioning a view point, doesn't mean i'm taking it thick. I'm completely chilled.

Good man.. Relaxation is the name of the game. Life's got enough stresses this place is supposed to be fun

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Tight pussy isn't the be all and end all anyway

Nah, you just shove it up their arse instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?

Why not? It's interesting to know other peoples opinions. Is that not what a forum is about?"

I don't like how you manage to insult a lot of women.

So, no.

It's not what it's all about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?

Why not? It's interesting to know other peoples opinions. Is that not what a forum is about?

I don't like how you manage to insult a lot of women.

So, no.

It's not what it's all about. "

How am i insulting a lot of women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?

Why not? It's interesting to know other peoples opinions. Is that not what a forum is about?

I don't like how you manage to insult a lot of women.

So, no.

It's not what it's all about.

How am i insulting a lot of women? "

Really?

you're really asking me this?

Good luck on Fab.

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By *uddlybear2015Man over a year ago

BEDFORD

Having kids doesn't mean that a woman is loose. Vaginas are elastic & muscular."

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

Why share it with the forums?

Why not? It's interesting to know other peoples opinions. Is that not what a forum is about?

I don't like how you manage to insult a lot of women.

So, no.

It's not what it's all about.

How am i insulting a lot of women?

Really?

you're really asking me this?

Good luck on Fab."

It's a preference. Exactly the same as a womens preference for a hung guy. Do you see men being insulted by that? Nope. Why is this?

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

At first when I clicked on this post I was expecting it to be posted by and 18 year old newbie and I'm shocked to find that the OP is an alleged 40 year old man who's been on here several months who clearly has no idea how a woman's body works....

Anyways best of luck OP I think you'll need it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"At first when I clicked on this post I was expecting it to be posted by and 18 year old newbie and I'm shocked to find that the OP is an alleged 40 year old man who's been on here several months who clearly has no idea how a woman's body works....

Anyways best of luck OP I think you'll need it!"

Why?

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

Anyways best of luck OP I think you'll need it!

Why?"

I think I'll leave it here but good luck finding what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Anyways best of luck OP I think you'll need it!

Why?

I think I'll leave it here but good luck finding what you're looking for"

Thanks. It's an interesting response Luther.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP it is perfectly reasonable to have a preference, after all fab is for your own pleasure and you set the criteria for your own experience

To ensure others you approach are aware of this, then put it in your profile so women who searching are aware instantly and if they are mothers then they need not waste time messaging you and can block if necessary.

Alternatively when messaging women, advise them of your requirement from the start and again they need not waste their time contacting you.

There are many women who are mothers. Your choices are going to limit you quite substantially I would imagine, but at least any meets you do have will be perfect for you

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

Toffee popcorn for me, please x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good luck with that one

. Your going to need it....

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

Ok, so guys vastly out-number women on Fab. Well done, OP, you have just sucessfully reduced your chances of getting a meet to 0.1%!

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Your entitled to your preference op but a very tight pussy can be a hindrance to some more kinky and interesting play

Mine you the process of loosing it up can be very erotic and super filthy

I prefer one that can enjoy a real good seeing to myself that really is my only concern can it take what I have in mind for it .

not tightness but that again fucking one with my cock is only a small part of play I have in mind when faced with a sexy pussy and even sexier woman attached to it

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

OP, any question on FabS is controversial once the bloodhounds are let loose

1) Yes, correct; people who have children will have less time to meet and may need more of an advance notice

2) Yes, unless the woman has had a C-section, the chances are that her vagina will not recover completely. However that would also apply to women who insert large objects inside of them including those who list 'fisting' as one of their interests

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

No I haven't seen your watch. Have you seen my milk float?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No op. Not controversial. Why would your meet preferences have any affect on anyone else?

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

I see what is happening in this thread.....it amuses me...carry on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's amazing how something like this brings people to the conclusion that i have a small penis.

It's amazing how you've reached the generalized conclusion that all women who've had children aren't tight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, any question on FabS is controversial once the bloodhounds are let loose

1) Yes, correct; people who have children will have less time to meet and may need more of an advance notice

I am not sure why but I had to check...I hope you aren't offended.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aside from the bit where having a c section doesn't impact all the hormones and actually being pregnant that can affect a pelvic floor.....

OP of course a preference is fine. The more time point is perfectly valid.

But despite all the messages to the contrary (from men with experience) you apparently don't want a discussion. You're just here to tell us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is gonna be good.

Popcorn, anyone?

"
pass me that chair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tight pussy isn't the be all and end all anyway

It is when you have a you're a small knob."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Sorry slim dick, I've had children therefore my vagina is like a wizards sleeve.

Oral is like gazing into the abyss.

I'm crying with laughter. Should have put on waterproof mascara. Lol

XX "

Glad to be of amusement

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't know if it's controversial or not I've never given birth so don't really know the answer. I do have kid's though so that's me crossed off. Are you going to ask in future if someone has given birth,I think if someone was to ask me that it would be deleted pretty quickly. You have your preference though so stick with it.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

I have had 2 kids so meets take a lot of planning.

I have a rather tight (gets tighter the less I have sex, ask my partner) vagina, my children were born via c-section.

I prefer non judgemental men to meet and love curvy women. All personal preference. Good luck op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's pelvic muscles that determine a vagina's tightness...not c-section or a vaginal birth

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Morning all.

I love the forums. For the few that read posts. Cheers. It seems that many take in and digest what they want and take some things out of context or do not read the full thread.

It is completely reasonable for this preference. It is not a slight on anyone with children nor did i say that it is a fact that all women who have had a natural birth have, for want of a better expression, a loose vagina. I would also like to say that i do have this on my profile. So there is no misunderstanding. I'm always honest with myself and others. I do not waste peoples time and my intentions are not to offend. Predictably this preference of mine is quite the comment magnet. Comments that, for the majority, have not taken into account why i have this preference. Instead, they have predictably been on the defense of the mothers on the site and of female genitalia. The problem with this is that i have not attacked either. As i have clearly stated in my posts.

If this thread lessens my chances of meets. So be it.

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By *horley GirlWoman over a year ago

Local-ish

Well this entertained me this morning lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh i forgot. Why am i judgemental for this personal preference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a little bit at a loss as to why you want us to discuss your preferences, op. They're your preferences and don't affect any of us.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Oh i forgot. Why am i judgemental for this personal preference? "

Because the forum has decided and spoken

Now I am orf to find a BBC, BWC, VWE

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's akin to me saying I will only meet men with one testicle.

It does not make sense.

Oh and if you post a thread, expect feedback.

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids..."

I've 3 children and its not my bits that give it away.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Oh i forgot. Why am i judgemental for this personal preference? "

So basically what you are saying is that you don't want a fanny that's like a Wizard's sleeve

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

2 kids and stitched back up nice and tight after a third degree.....I think the OP has just self pushed his meet list a lot!!!! And made a lot of block lists!

And fwiw. The bag is a muscle. Like all muscles the more you use it the stronger it gets, women who have had kids do pelvic floor exercises so could actually be tighter and be able to clench harder......just saying

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"2 kids and stitched back up nice and tight after a third degree.....I think the OP has just self pushed his meet list a lot!!!! And made a lot of block lists!

*vag not bag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Morning all.

I love the forums. For the few that read posts. Cheers. It seems that many take in and digest what they want and take some things out of context or do not read the full thread.

If this thread lessens my chances of meets. So be it.

It's a good read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How come practically every woman has "the tightest pussy he'd ever had"? Is this like how every woman gives the most amazing blow jobs ever?

I've had men tell me I feel tighter because I haven't had children. Probably the same men who have then gone and told the mother of four she's the tightest they've ever had. Take it all with a pinch of salt ladies.

I probably wouldn't meet someone who I thought only wanted to meet me for my lack of procreation though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see what is happening in this thread.....it amuses me...carry on"

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

Well.said Ruby, and I own a fanny trainer, a weight I hold inside to train it, amazing purchase, maybe I'll eventually become a virgin again! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or... Free during school day for meets/lunch breaks etc. In every evening and often bored and wishing I had a *nice* man to entertain me (notice the emphasis on nice).

Also, mega tight foof. Had a c-section but I don't suspect just because a woman has had a natural birth she's necessarily going to have lost tightness.

Either way by talking about 'vaginas' you've met and tightness and completely objectifying women you've probably completely put off most women on this thread. Childless or otherwise!

Well done, OP! Smooth!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kegel exercises are very effective.

I do them all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

it's akin to me saying I will only meet men with one testicle.

It does not make sense.

Oh and if you post a thread, expect feedback.

Oh and if you block someone (due to their view point on this thread), please don't attempt to contact them via the forum. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"does anyone bat an eye lid if a woman requested only hung or vwe men? No, they don't. Why is it so controversial or frowned upon for me or any other man for that matter, to request a women with a tighter vagina. Preferring women without kids, obviously doesn't ensure this but it does increase my chances of meeting up with a woman with a tighter vagina. Is that wrong of me to look for? Of course it is not. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss....."

1 wouldn't be controversial

2 is just woefully ilinformed and makes you look a bit stupid. But not really controversial.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

1 wouldn't be controversial

2 is just woefully ilinformed and makes you look a bit stupid. But not really controversial. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it's akin to me saying I will only meet men with one testicle.

It does not make sense.

Oh and if you post a thread, expect feedback.

Oh and if you block someone (due to their view point on this thread), please don't attempt to contact them via the forum. Thank you.

I'm not trying to contact you?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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I'm guessing that if I can't use a trampoline for fear of wee coming out then I'm not going to have a chance of meeting OP.

This has ruined my day.

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By *inchyorksMan over a year ago

huddersfield

If your big enough all pussies are tight!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

This thread is fun, I so hope there's gonna be a part 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It amuses me how keen everyone is to fall over themselves to state how tight they are. Did he hit a nerve, per chance?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"If your big enough all pussies are tight!"

And are you big enough?

[ this will be fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

it's akin to me saying I will only meet men with one testicle.

It does not make sense.

Oh and if you post a thread, expect feedback.

Oh and if you block someone (due to their view point on this thread), please don't attempt to contact them via the forum. Thank you.

I'm not trying to contact you?

You are speaking directly to me. That is making contact. I'll refrain from responding to you from here on. Many thanks.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"It amuses me how keen everyone is to fall over themselves to state how tight they are. Did he hit a nerve, per chance?"

Quite the opposite for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I read a profile the other day that said he didn't want to meet any women with a pussy like a shoe!

I am still trying to work that out!!!

Must of been trying on some pretty unusual shoes hey???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love threads like these.. very effective as a to use as a twat filter

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids..."

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It amuses me how keen everyone is to fall over themselves to state how tight they are. Did he hit a nerve, per chance?"

I believe there is a very real experience post children where you genuinely wonder if that's it now.

Then the hormones fade, you exercise and it all pops back into shape and you go about your life (sexual and otherwise).

Then a know it all makes sweeping generalisations and assumptions. So yes, it will touch on some people's insecurities. Although some people are just happy to point out that the OP is making sweeping generalisations and assumptions.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman over a year ago

BRISTOL

"I'm guessing that if I can't use a trampoline for fear of wee coming out then I'm not going to have a chance of meeting OP.

This has ruined my day. "

Damn air hops out then as a trip!

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X "

A woman with 3 kids and hopefully, only the one scar if the surgeon was any good

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

1 wouldn't be controversial

2 is just woefully ilinformed and makes you look a bit stupid. But not really controversial. "

There is nothing stupid about my experiences. As i have stated in subsequent posts. I have not stated that all woman that have had children, have a big gaping wound!

For a start, there is nothing wrong with what i have said during this thread. So it amazes me, actually scratch that. It doesn't amaze me at all, that many have pounced to burn me at the stake. The amount of criticism i have had just shows how others are quick to judge. I'm not being abusive, judgemental or attacking anyone. Yet i am the one who is in the wrong. Wake up, there is no right nor wrong here. Why should this be controversial and other preferences are not. Why is a vagina controversial and a penis is not? Why? is a question i want the answer to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

1 wouldn't be controversial

2 is just woefully ilinformed and makes you look a bit stupid. But not really controversial.

There is nothing stupid about my experiences. As i have stated in subsequent posts. I have not stated that all woman that have had children, have a big gaping wound!

You are being judgemental though.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Morning, OP!

"It's a preference. Exactly the same as a womens preference for a hung guy. Do you see men being insulted by that? Nope. Why is this?"

That's why I assumed your OP was tongue-in-cheek, OP, and responded accordingly.

Thank you for taking it in that spirit.

Try this thread:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/418031

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Demanding a tight pussy is no different to demanding a huge cock in my book, just a little more difficult to establish before the deed.

But "insults" to women are not tolerated in fabland.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Demanding a tight pussy is no different to demanding a huge cock in my book, just a little more difficult to establish before the deed.

But "insults" to women are not tolerated in fabland."

Are you saying that i have insulted women?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X "

Too posh to push?

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X "

Fucking sexy as hell

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

1 wouldn't be controversial

2 is just woefully ilinformed and makes you look a bit stupid. But not really controversial.

There is nothing stupid about my experiences. As i have stated in subsequent posts. I have not stated that all woman that have had children, have a big gaping wound!

You are being judgemental though."

How?

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X

A woman with 3 kids and hopefully, only the one scar if the surgeon was any good"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Demanding a tight pussy is no different to demanding a huge cock in my book, just a little more difficult to establish before the deed.

But "insults" to women are not tolerated in fabland.

Are you saying that i have insulted women? "

Not at all, as should be obvious from the inverted commas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Demanding a tight pussy is no different to demanding a huge cock in my book, just a little more difficult to establish before the deed.

But "insults" to women are not tolerated in fabland.

Are you saying that i have insulted women?

Not at all, as should be obvious from the inverted commas. "

Sorry, didn't pick up on that.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X

Too posh to push?

Sorry Scarlettx, not laughing at you but you gotta admit that this funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It amuses me how keen everyone is to fall over themselves to state how tight they are. Did he hit a nerve, per chance?"

Booooooom!

I'm not surprised at the double standards here either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss.....

.........

You are being judgemental though.

How?"

Ok, I get that you're here to try and start a fight. And I'm not attacking your personal preferences. If you had messaged me I would have read your profile, and sent a message back to explain I have kids so not what you're looking for. No offence taken, preferences are preferences. But you wanted to come and discuss on the forums if it was controversial.

So yes, big sweeping statements that aren't necessarily true are judgemental.

If your argument is "but women do it to men" then I'd agree that is also judgemental. Especially if they start threads in the forum about how men with small cocks are crap shags.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X "

My ex's sister had 4 sections and after a few drinks brags about her perfect pussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, would it be controversial to only want to meet women without children. For two reasons.

1/ easier to arrange meets

2/ tighter pussy

Discuss....."

You can do what you like OP. Maybe it would be easier to arrange child free meets, they are a commitment after all. I work full time, have a busy social life and don't always want to meet. No children, but already my meeting time is limited. My point being children aren't the only commitment a woman might have.

With regard to your second point, like you I can only speak from personal experience, I have had children, I'm older, not once has anyone found a problem. I have sometimes had the comment that I'm very tight. All open to interpretation of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Late to the party. Did I miss anything?

Oh - the end!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

"Come on. They're not quite the same after kids...

I have 3 kids and have had 3 c sections ...

What does that make me ? lol X

My ex's sister had 4 sections and after a few drinks brags about her perfect pussy

Persian or siamese ?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

It is upto you, OP

Frankly your preference is no different to women who want a BBC or women, like myself, who only want someone who is average sized

You are not going to get any more meets or any less meets because of your preference. You will probably get the same number of 'meets' as any other single guy here, which won't be many; so you haven't lost anything

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By *edRidingWolfCouple over a year ago

Lydney

Well this certainly beat reading the papers this morning!

I do have a question to the OP if he would care to answer. I noticed you mentioned about a woman being "too wet". In other words her state of heightened arousal is a problem for your own pleasure. I'm sure I'm mistaken but that could read that your pleasure is more important than hers. Could you clarify?

May as well strike me from your list OP. 2 children (I guess you won't know if they were vagina or Caesarian births, and neither will you know if they were 13lb or 2lb preemies). I'm not bashing your preferences, just your delivery of them.

I'll take my massive foof and go chat up the council builders outside. They're installing bollards.... I might see if there is one going spare

Red xx

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