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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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Swinging ...................................dateing
(swinging)You see hoo you like the look of
(dateing)you see hoo you like the look of
(swinging) you arrange a meet
(dateing) you arrange a meet
(Swinging) you meet at a shoshall
(dateing) you meet at a shoshall
(swinging) if you like hoo your with you fuck
(dateing) if you like hoo your with you mite fuck.
(swinging) you may fuck them agen or find sum one els or both.
(dateing) you bild a relationship with that one pursoun.
APART FROM THE LARST 2 LINES SWINGING AND DATEING IS 90% THE SAME.
Wot wood you say. |
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over a year ago
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Although the steps are similar the motivations and intentions underpinning both are different. Therefore I'd expect different behaviour from those engaging in each with a different attitude |
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"I have a headache from trying to read that 
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too "
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't date. Ever.
No blurred lines unless misinterupted by the other party. I could be no clearer, I don't date.
Or FWB's or multiple repeat meets.
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I don't either but it's not by choice  |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other  "
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I don't date. Ever.
No blurred lines unless misinterupted by the other party. I could be no clearer, I don't date.
Or FWB's or multiple repeat meets.
I don't either but it's not by choice "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc"
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point."
Up to a point - and then they become two entirely different things. Like skiing and swimming are both sports. Show up to the ski slopes in a swimming costume and you see there's a massive difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc"
as I'm reading it I'm hearing it! It's him!! |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french "
Im not French lol im english but im also dislexsic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Swinging ...................................dateing
(swinging)You see hoo you like the look of
(dateing)you see hoo you like the look of
(swinging) you arrange a meet
(dateing) you arrange a meet
(Swinging) you meet at a hotel and have sex
(dateing) you meet at a shoshall
(swinging) you go back to your separate homes.
(dateing) if you like hoo your with you mite fuck.
(swinging) you may fuck them agen or find sum one els or both.
(dateing) you bild a relationship with that one pursoun.
APART FROM THE LARST 2 LINES SWINGING AND DATEING IS 90% THE SAME.
Wot wood you say.
Fixed it for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french "
Don't mention the war.... oh sorry wrong program.  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french
Im not French lol im english but im also dislexsic"
You do look French xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french
Don't mention the war.... oh sorry wrong program. xxx"
Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french
Don't mention the war.... oh sorry wrong program. xxx
Haha! "
There's a lovely Italian restaurant near me and one of the waiters looks n sounds just like Renee. Thing is my dad is like a naughty little school boy. So the whole time we were there last Xmas he kept crackin up. My mother on the other hand is very strict so she spent the whole meal scolding us which just made us worse. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
That too
Oh give over you pair.
If you read it in the voice of the policeman in 'Allo 'Allo, it makes perfect sense. Every time.
OP: True, but sometimes people have different criteria for dating or swinging too.
Mr ddc
Just re read it in the accent and you are correct, my apologies op didnt realise you were french
Don't mention the war.... oh sorry wrong program. xxx
Haha!
There's a lovely Italian restaurant near me and one of the waiters looks n sounds just like Renee. Thing is my dad is like a naughty little school boy. So the whole time we were there last Xmas he kept crackin up. My mother on the other hand is very strict so she spent the whole meal scolding us which just made us worse. xxx"
Hahaha that is incredibly funny, i would of been the same myself
Mark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I assume you're talking about 2 singles hung singles hooking up? So - swinging or dating? Fuck knows. There are a lot of similarities but that's like saying we share 90% of our DNA with a slug or something.
If I was single and was both swinging and dating - in one situation I'd talk about my love of Star Trek and the other I wouldn't.  |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, I assume you're talking about 2 singles hung singles hooking up? So - swinging or dating? Fuck knows. There are a lot of similarities but that's like saying we share 90% of our DNA with a slug or something.
If I was single and was both swinging and dating - in one situation I'd talk about my love of Star Trek and the other I wouldn't. "
Y not talk about it on hear ? You mite end up having sum sort of star trek swinging party with overs hoo like it. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Hi Op. Interesting debate. As a couple we don't see swinging and dating as the same thing. Swinging for us is pretty much nsa sex between strangers. With singles, I guess it could turn into dating, which I would see as a more committed relationship. Just my opinion!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I assume you're talking about 2 singles hung singles hooking up? So - swinging or dating? Fuck knows. There are a lot of similarities but that's like saying we share 90% of our DNA with a slug or something.
If I was single and was both swinging and dating - in one situation I'd talk about my love of Star Trek and the other I wouldn't.
Y not talk about it on hear ? You mite end up having sum sort of star trek swinging party with overs hoo like it."
Well I wasn't being completely serious, I rarely am.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences"
social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's fair to say that everyone has their own take on it OP.
For example some swingers dont do a social. I think the bottom line is expectation. With dating their is an expectation (or hope) that a relationship will develop, if you click. With swinging that expectation is usually "parked".
So the mindset for each "similar" circumstance is completely different from the start. Thus although the activities may appear similar their motivations are different.
So... (getting there) expectations and motivations are different and as the state of mind is initially the most important aspect of any meeting and will dictate how it plays through, swinging and dating are not the same... from the outset to the end... well that's my take anyway.
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differencessocial"
Ah, I see now. Thanks. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences"
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect... |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences"
Believe op means social.
And as usual you've made the point I was trying to make far more eloquently. |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect..."
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP? |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Believe op means social.
And as usual you've made the point I was trying to make far more eloquently. "
Just means I'm manipulative when dating |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differencessocial"
Thanks  |
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My take on it would be as follows:
Swinging is meeting people off here, having a laugh and sex, even becoming friends.
Dating is the same but off PoF.
Neither are a relationship nor need to lead to one.
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect...
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP? "
Im beging to see the bigger pitcher |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differencessocial
Thanks "
you day when you dont understand one of our words and we will say when we dont understand one of yours |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differencessocial
Thanks you day when you dont understand one of our words and we will say when we dont understand one of yours"
Yep its onley fear. |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect...
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP?
Im beging to see the bigger pitcher "
Try now... |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect...
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP?
Im beging to see the bigger pitcher
Try now... "
I think I see the pitcher now its not the big bits that's the same. It's all the small things you dont do in swinging |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect...
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP?
Im beging to see the bigger pitcher
Try now...
I think I see the pitcher now its not the big bits that's the same. It's all the small things you dont do in swinging"
Yes that's true. Actually that's a big part of what we like about swinging. When you are married, you don't get the nervous excitement feeling of dating. Swinging can feel like that again, which is fun, and you do it together. |
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McDonalds calls themselves a restaurant, as do others where they have Michelin stars. Dating and swinging steps may seem superficially similar but are as different as a happy meal and an expensive dining out. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"McDonalds calls themselves a restaurant, as do others where they have Michelin stars. Dating and swinging steps may seem superficially similar but are as different as a happy meal and an expensive dining out. "
Ya im beginning to see that now thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I assume you're talking about 2 singles hung singles hooking up? So - swinging or dating? Fuck knows. There are a lot of similarities but that's like saying we share 90% of our DNA with a slug or something.
If I was single and was both swinging and dating - in one situation I'd talk about my love of Star Trek and the other I wouldn't.
Y not talk about it on hear ? You mite end up having sum sort of star trek swinging party with overs hoo like it."
Good debate OP. x |
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"Sorry what's 'shoshall'? I'm not taking the piss, that's the only bit I couldn't follow.
No I don't agree with 90%. More like 30%. I've never pretended to be interested in someone's pets to swing with them. I'd never meet their family. I wouldn't ask someone if they visit the GUM clinic on a date... to name a few differences
Soshall....going out sumwrar.....pub / club / restraint ect...
Got it thanks. What do you think of the other differences I've mentioned OP?
Im beging to see the bigger pitcher
Try now...
I think I see the pitcher now its not the big bits that's the same. It's all the small things you dont do in swinging
Yes that's true. Actually that's a big part of what we like about swinging. When you are married, you don't get the nervous excitement feeling of dating. Swinging can feel like that again, which is fun, and you do it together. "
It's very different being able to share the experience with a partner. |
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"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point."
You are looking at swinging from the perspective of a single man on a website.
Arguably meeting people of the opposite sex off the internet for sex is not what swinging is about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that! "
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic "
I am English im just dyslexic. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic "
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point.
You are looking at swinging from the perspective of a single man on a website.
Arguably meeting people of the opposite sex off the internet for sex is not what swinging is about "
In sence ya. wot I had wos the rong vue of swinging. But if your new to it Thar is not ezakley a gide dook about swinging. |
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
I am English im just dyslexic."
Fair enough Even worse that people are point scoring over your spelling then |
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"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point.
You are looking at swinging from the perspective of a single man on a website.
Arguably meeting people of the opposite sex off the internet for sex is not what swinging is about "
You could actually say that these are people matching sites.
What those people get up to when they meet can be anything from steam train watching to playing in a dungeon ( though those two activities are not necessarily mutually exclusive)  |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"If I were looking at someone as a potential partner I wouldn't be having sex with him from the word go. I'd make him wait "
Good point. And on a date I woodount be in a rush. That see im not rushing on this ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean "
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging....more of an expectation of sex. If you are single then On rare occasions may lead to some kind of relationship. (Certainly not if you are a couple)
Dating....expectations of relationship....maybe leading to a sexual relationship. You wouldn't expect to find couples on a dating site? |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
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"Swinging....more of an expectation of sex. If you are single then On rare occasions may lead to some kind of relationship. (Certainly not if you are a couple)
Dating....expectations of relationship....maybe leading to a sexual relationship. You wouldn't expect to find couples on a dating site?"
You got a good point Thar. I think even I wood be surprised if I found a couple on a dateing site. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling?"
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling?
Nobody did"
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling?
Nobody did
So the first 2 posts I've quoted are what then?"
Lord only knows; but nothing about his spelling |
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean "
so know you understand what the op has to deal with on an every day basis when he cant read or process certain words at least its only one thread on a forum for you and has no impact on your daily life.
Its good to have an incite |
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"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites."
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling?
Nobody did
So the first 2 posts I've quoted are what then?"
They were shown the error of their ways, BM, and apologised to him further down if you check... |
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over a year ago
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean so know you understand what the op has to deal with on an every day basis when he cant read or process certain words at least its only one thread on a forum for you and has no impact on your daily life.
Its good to have an incite "
Not really. But it doesn't bother me as by spending a little more time I can kind of understand what he means. If I couldn't then I wouldn't bother commenting on his thread |
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"Obviously from the other thread in one ear and out the other
No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point.
Up to a point - and then they become two entirely different things. Like skiing and swimming are both sports. Show up to the ski slopes in a swimming costume and you see there's a massive difference. "
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean
Then take the time or ignore the thread. It's not difficult to do either
Why does anyone need to run the guy down by commenting on his spelling?
Nobody did
So the first 2 posts I've quoted are what then?
They were shown the error of their ways, BM, and apologised to him further down if you check... "
And?
Does that make it okay? It's the action of jumping on a new poster to try and look clever or funny that is seen so often on here that is wrong. |
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"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying."
hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault |
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They were shown the error of their ways, BM, and apologised to him further down if you check...
And?
Does that make it okay? It's the action of jumping on a new poster to try and look clever or funny that is seen so often on here that is wrong."
That's down to the OP to decide. Personally if someone apologises to me I tend to take it in the spirit it is meant.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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They were shown the error of their ways, BM, and apologised to him further down if you check...
And?
Does that make it okay? It's the action of jumping on a new poster to try and look clever or funny that is seen so often on here that is wrong.
That's down to the OP to decide. Personally if someone apologises to me I tend to take it in the spirit it is meant.
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"I have a headache from trying to read that
Boggled mind from getting through that!
It's pretty obvious English isn't his first language. It's also pretty easy to follow what he means
Does there really need to be smart arse comments belittling his literacy? It just comes across as as spiteful and pretty pathetic
Read his profile. He has stated that he is Dyslexic, not foreign or illiterate
And no, it is not pretty easy to follow what he writes. It takes me time to figure out, using context, what he could possibly mean so know you understand what the op has to deal with on an every day basis when he cant read or process certain words at least its only one thread on a forum for you and has no impact on your daily life.
Its good to have an incite
Not really. But it doesn't bother me as by spending a little more time I can kind of understand what he means. If I couldn't then I wouldn't bother commenting on his thread"
and thats what people should do, either take a bit extra time or just not read it. |
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They were shown the error of their ways, BM, and apologised to him further down if you check...
And?
Does that make it okay? It's the action of jumping on a new poster to try and look clever or funny that is seen so often on here that is wrong.
That's down to the OP to decide. Personally if someone apologises to me I tend to take it in the spirit it is meant.
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same here a genuine apology was made |
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Personally if someone apologises to me I tend to take it in the spirit it is meant.
but, but, but, but, but, but .......................... "
Ok, ok. I know I should have used the subjunctive mood, since such a situation has never *actually* happened to me
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only the people on here know that you just want sex and what type of sex you want. On dating sites men are more likely to be judgemental, especialy with women whose husbands let them meet other men for sex. im talking about dating sites on the internet. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault"
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun. |
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"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun."
op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it |
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun.op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it"
Mabey I shod put im dislexic in caps at the top of every post lol at lest that way everyone shops understand then. |
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"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun.op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it
Mabey I shod put im dislexic in caps at the top of every post lol at lest that way everyone shops understand then."
you have a nice humerous laid back approach.. you could say that on each thread but if someone just wants to pick at you they still will. But you could try it for a while and see |
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"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun.op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it
Mabey I shod put im dislexic in caps at the top of every post lol at lest that way everyone shops understand then."
Nah just stick around. The more you post the more people get used to it. I've realised I just need to read your posts phonetically and then it's not so hard. In that sense I see far worse spelling every day from people that aren't dyslexic. |
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun.op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it
Mabey I shod put im dislexic in caps at the top of every post lol at lest that way everyone shops understand then.you have a nice humerous laid back approach.. you could say that on each thread but if someone just wants to pick at you they still will. But you could try it for a while and see"
I've got nothing to loos lol. I think I will try it just to see if it works. |
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Spell check before posting... even if dyslexia is a problem you can do this.
Big difference between the two tho.
That's why I'm on a swingers site.
I'm not on any dating sites.
I don't think he needs spell check I can understand perfectly well what he saying.hes explained on other threads why he cant use spell checker.
He shouldnt have to keep explaining himself.
If people cant work out for themselves he has severe dyslexia then its hardly the ops fault
It's wors in the evening to cos wen im tiyourd I just can't keep up the hi focus and consurtrashoun.op some will try and undestand some wont. My spelling is always at its worse at this time of day and evenings.
But the more you are posting op the more people are getting used to it
Mabey I shod put im dislexic in caps at the top of every post lol at lest that way everyone shops understand then.
Nah just stick around. The more you post the more people get used to it. I've realised I just need to read your posts phonetically and then it's not so hard. In that sense I see far worse spelling every day from people that aren't dyslexic. "
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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OP, if you don't mind, I have a question for you. I am just curious. People here have to spend a little time understanding how you spell because of your Dyslexia. Do you have the same issue understanding what they write?
This is a genuine query |
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"Nah just stick around. The more you post the more people get used to it. I've realised I just need to read your posts phonetically and then it's not so hard. In that sense I see far worse spelling every day from people that aren't dyslexic."
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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"OP, if you don't mind, I have a question for you. I am just curious. People here have to spend a little time understanding how you spell because of your Dyslexia. Do you have the same issue understanding what they write?
This is a genuine query"
Sum times yes if its a word I've not seen or hard to purnounce or its like 20 letters long ect |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, if you don't mind, I have a question for you. I am just curious. People here have to spend a little time understanding how you spell because of your Dyslexia. Do you have the same issue understanding what they write?
This is a genuine query
Sum times yes if its a word I've not seen or hard to purnounce or its like 20 letters long ect"
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If you felt like it op you could start an awareness thread about dyslexia, theres been all kinds of awareness threads. How it affects you. You could have it like a question and answer thread
Just a thought, but if you decide to put it up about 8pm when most people are about |
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over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"OP, if you don't mind, I have a question for you. I am just curious. People here have to spend a little time understanding how you spell because of your Dyslexia. Do you have the same issue understanding what they write?
This is a genuine query
Sum times yes if its a word I've not seen or hard to purnounce or its like 20 letters long ect
OK. Thanks"
And I realey don't understand a lot of short hand ever....eg BBW MILF and so on...... I sor sumthing about BBC on a tether a fue days agow wots BBC ????? cos larst I thort BBC is a TV chanall. That sed im not shor if i want to no wot thes short hands meen ever lol...Can't people just tipe the words ???? I no I use ..ect.. But I think everyone knows wot that means. |
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over a year ago
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"If you felt like it op you could start an awareness thread about dyslexia, theres been all kinds of awareness threads. How it affects you. You could have it like a question and answer thread
Just a thought, but if you decide to put it up about 8pm when most people are about"
Lol just as my spelling is at its worst lol.... But it is sumthing to think about. I wont say no to that yet. Need to think about it 1st. |
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"If you felt like it op you could start an awareness thread about dyslexia, theres been all kinds of awareness threads. How it affects you. You could have it like a question and answer thread
Just a thought, but if you decide to put it up about 8pm when most people are about"
I understand where you are coming from, but personally I disagree on the grounds the OP doesn't need to justify himself to anyone further.
Put it this way, one of the reasons I much prefer the politics forum over the lounge is that there's far too much anti-islam bullshit that goes on here for my liking. There used to be a lovely forumite who was a Muslim and I personally noticed a massive decrease in the number of anti-muslim bullshit on the forums when she was around. Unfortunately, she left after being outed by a neighbour.
What I'm saying is that I think the OP will have a positive effect, just by being a regular poster, rather than needing to frequently explain himself. |
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Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. |
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"If you felt like it op you could start an awareness thread about dyslexia, theres been all kinds of awareness threads. How it affects you. You could have it like a question and answer thread
Just a thought, but if you decide to put it up about 8pm when most people are about
I understand where you are coming from, but personally I disagree on the grounds the OP doesn't need to justify himself to anyone further.
Put it this way, one of the reasons I much prefer the politics forum over the lounge is that there's far too much anti-islam bullshit that goes on here for my liking. There used to be a lovely forumite who was a Muslim and I personally noticed a massive decrease in the number of anti-muslim bullshit on the forums when she was around. Unfortunately, she left after being outed by a neighbour.
What I'm saying is that I think the OP will have a positive effect, just by being a regular poster, rather than needing to frequently explain himself. "
im not saying he should justify himself ive already said he shouldnt have to repeat himself but with all the threads about spelling and people using dyslexia as an excuse i just thought he would be an ideal person to explain it. Not to do with the op himself but dyslexia in general. It was just a suggestion to the op |
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"If you felt like it op you could start an awareness thread about dyslexia, theres been all kinds of awareness threads. How it affects you. You could have it like a question and answer thread
Just a thought, but if you decide to put it up about 8pm when most people are about
I understand where you are coming from, but personally I disagree on the grounds the OP doesn't need to justify himself to anyone further.
Put it this way, one of the reasons I much prefer the politics forum over the lounge is that there's far too much anti-islam bullshit that goes on here for my liking. There used to be a lovely forumite who was a Muslim and I personally noticed a massive decrease in the number of anti-muslim bullshit on the forums when she was around. Unfortunately, she left after being outed by a neighbour.
What I'm saying is that I think the OP will have a positive effect, just by being a regular poster, rather than needing to frequently explain himself. "
I partly agree with your point but define regular poster? Sorry if I'm taking OPs thread of topic but I don't have the time or inclination to post about various subjects whilst also mentioning I have Asperger's, I'd feel like I was constantly repeating myself - which is an autistic trait funnily enough lol.
I'd rather get it over and done with in one big session. |
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No just trying to make a point that swinging and dateing are VREEY similar. So its hard to say its not a dateing sate up to a point."
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"Swinging ...................................dateing
(swinging)You see hoo you like the look of
(dateing)you see hoo you like the look of
(swinging) you arrange a meet
(dateing) you arrange a meet
(Swinging) you meet at a shoshall
(dateing) you meet at a shoshall
(swinging) if you like hoo your with you fuck
(dateing) if you like hoo your with you mite fuck.
(swinging) you may fuck them agen or find sum one els or both.
(dateing) you bild a relationship with that one pursoun.
APART FROM THE LARST 2 LINES SWINGING AND DATEING IS 90% THE SAME.
Wot wood you say."
No I don't feel swinging and dating are more or less the same. However I think there can be overlaps. What you have described, OP, is serious relationship dating versus casual NSA dating. And although NSA dating can take place within swinging, and can be found via a swinging site, I would not regard NSA dating as swinging in itself.
I regard swinging as an umbrella term for an assortment of more unconventional types of sex providing an outlet for more sexually liberated people. It tends to be associated with sex involving more than two people, e.g. partner swaps, threesomes, sex parties. Dating by definition can only involve 2 people.
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over a year ago
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"Swinging ...................................dateing
(swinging)You see hoo you like the look of
(dateing)you see hoo you like the look of
(swinging) you arrange a meet
(dateing) you arrange a meet
(Swinging) you meet at a shoshall
(dateing) you meet at a shoshall
(swinging) if you like hoo your with you fuck
(dateing) if you like hoo your with you mite fuck.
(swinging) you may fuck them agen or find sum one els or both.
(dateing) you bild a relationship with that one pursoun.
APART FROM THE LARST 2 LINES SWINGING AND DATEING IS 90% THE SAME.
Wot wood you say.
No I don't feel swinging and dating are more or less the same. However I think there can be overlaps. What you have described, OP, is serious relationship dating versus casual NSA dating. And although NSA dating can take place within swinging, and can be found via a swinging site, I would not regard NSA dating as swinging in itself.
I regard swinging as an umbrella term for an assortment of more unconventional types of sex providing an outlet for more sexually liberated people. It tends to be associated with sex involving more than two people, e.g. partner swaps, threesomes, sex parties. Dating by definition can only involve 2 people.
Mrs"
Thank you
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"Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe."
This is bralleint.....and also very true. Seen it before.
But the OP actually asked about the difference between swinging and dating. 90% of the replies on here seem to be about dyslexia..... btw. I also have sexdaily! |
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