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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just pondering and guys I'd like your thoughts here.
9 out of 10 women have the above which seems to be the "Im ready for sex" uniform round here. Indeed they look great on some ladies.. and you chaps seem to like em but whats the alternative ? Do you actually care given it all comes off at some stage ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the ceremony of preparation and the unwrapping. So, yeah, it makes a difference.
I also like relaxed "jump straight into bed" meets.
I also like everything everything in between 
It's not that I don't care, it's that there's elements of everything that I like for different reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lingerie is fantastic and if it makes the woman feel sexy then surely that's what you want
Hottest a girl has ever looked for me was in a plain white short dressing gown and nothing else...but the way she looked at me was just... . For me it's all in the eyes though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh crap I must have missed the ready for sex uniform memo (I jest)
I don't tend to dress up like that as I'm usually meeting from a work event so unless I bring a corset / basque / stocking / suspenders with me to change into then it's hardly unlikely to happen.
I do make sure I have nice lingere on, not my Bridget Jones style pants & 80 denier opaque tights, well except on one occasion but that's a different story all together...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefer body stockings and baby dolls, or just nothing at all. corsets just don't fit me, the body is too long and the boobs part goes up to my neck nearly, didn't think i was that short until buying them.  |
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"For me (so as not to generalise); its the anticipation of a wonderful experience; like when you go to a restaurant and the food comes out and you just take a moment to enjoy the smell and the look of it, before gorging yourself... 
So; things like perfume and beautiful lingerie are similar (for me again), "mind salivation", (do we have mind-buds as well as taste buds?) The anticipation; the way the female form is accentuated. If there is a drink or two before-hand; with snatches or glimpses; so much the better; fuck my mind first; then my body..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me (so as not to generalise); its the anticipation of a wonderful experience; like when you go to a restaurant and the food comes out and you just take a moment to enjoy the smell and the look of it, before gorging yourself...
So; things like perfume and beautiful lingerie are similar (for me again), "mind salivation", (do we have mind-buds as well as taste buds?) The anticipation; the way the female form is accentuated. If there is a drink or two before-hand; with snatches or glimpses; so much the better; fuck my mind first; then my body.....
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I've come over all unnecessary (it's okay I promise to wipe it up)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i prefer body stockings and baby dolls, or just nothing at all. corsets just don't fit me, the body is too long and the boobs part goes up to my neck nearly, didn't think i was that short until buying them. "
Other way round for me. Too tall for them. So annoying  |
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"For me (so as not to generalise); its the anticipation of a wonderful experience; like when you go to a restaurant and the food comes out and you just take a moment to enjoy the smell and the look of it, before gorging yourself...
So; things like perfume and beautiful lingerie are similar (for me again), "mind salivation", (do we have mind-buds as well as taste buds?) The anticipation; the way the female form is accentuated. If there is a drink or two before-hand; with snatches or glimpses; so much the better; fuck my mind first; then my body.....
I've come over all unnecessary (it's okay I promise to wipe it up) "
It was the 'fuck my mind first' part the clinched it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a contrasting opinion, I can't be bothered with stockings etc at all - they just feel so artificial and, well, just too straight...
I'd much rather be stark naked, for all my body faults - just me, as I am, bare and honest...
Besides which, there is nothing so proudly liberating as occasionally getting to walk around a car-park, late at night and after some good fun, stark naked and with very wet legs...
Ok, so I'm just pervy, but we all have different likes and dislikes!
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"For me it gives me confidence rather than being about dressing for the man.
Paul loves it when I dress for Sex and meets seem to enjoy it too "
My FB is the same Likes me naked but I must admit for evening meets I like to dress for the occasion It gets me more turned on dressing slutty
Morning meets I love being naked and getting woken up by him sliding into bed with me naked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some intriguing insights here from the ladies aswell as the guys. I love the ritual of getting ready., the bathing and grooming ... maybe I just havent found the right "identity" I choose my lingerie for how it feels first, then visual stimulus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find myself more turned on by a women stood there in underwear then I do stood there naked.
I guess it's what you can't see that's arousing for me and there is nothing better than unwrapping a present that has quality wrapping paper too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a huge fan of sexy lingerie/basques/stockings/suspenders and heels and oh my it's been so long since a girl has dresses like that for me! Even if it comes off its the unwrapping which is the fun bit! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah Stockings and suspenders with high heeled boots have me rock hard.
Though like other people its the whole package - nice perfume, nice short dress so can occasionally see tops of stocking mmm That said its the person in the clothes that counts above all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh crap I must have missed the ready for sex uniform memo (I jest)
I don't tend to dress up like that as I'm usually meeting from a work event so unless I bring a corset / basque / stocking / suspenders with me to change into then it's hardly unlikely to happen.
I do make sure I have nice lingere on, not my Bridget Jones style pants & 80 denier opaque tights, well except on one occasion but that's a different story all together...
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If that's the case best bin my request for a meet then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't tend to wear basques, just the occasional corset. But I completely have a sex uniform, getting dressed in lingerie is part of the preparation for me and I'd much rather have something to be unwrapped from than just start out naked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't tend to wear basques, just the occasional corset. But I completely have a sex uniform, getting dressed in lingerie is part of the preparation for me and I'd much rather have something to be unwrapped from than just start out naked."
Let the unwrapping commence!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some intriguing insights here from the ladies aswell as the guys. I love the ritual of getting ready., the bathing and grooming ... maybe I just havent found the right "identity" I choose my lingerie for how it feels first, then visual stimulus. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done the whole lingerie sex uniform thing for meets but I think I prefer not to actually. I feel sexiest in my light cotton bathrobe, or in a thin cotton dress with nothing underneath. I feel like an imposter when I don the sex uniform. |
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i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human."
Am I allowed to feel no shame about my food-induced stomach, or do we have to have procreated to be permitted this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human.
Am I allowed to feel no shame about my food-induced stomach, or do we have to have procreated to be permitted this?"
That's a food baby and totally allowed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human.
Am I allowed to feel no shame about my food-induced stomach, or do we have to have procreated to be permitted this?
That's a food baby and totally allowed! "
Thank gawd for that, I had pizza for tea and I'm bloated to hell |
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By *uffyMan
over a year ago
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"i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human.
Am I allowed to feel no shame about my food-induced stomach, or do we have to have procreated to be permitted this?"
Nothing wrong with your stomach. You look lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blokes like women in stockings but leave your socks on and all hell breaks loose.
Not in my experience. I don't own a basque and have regularly kept my socks on during sex."
Mwah.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dress to impress everytime. Corsets, body stockings, little black numbers and the appropriate underwear. I love seeing the look on his face as he realises what I'm wearing. That's enough for me to feel ready for debauchery. |
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I prefer naked for sex, nothing worse than a hard corset and polyester undies Rubbing.
Foreplay starts with the mind days before, unwrapping the present is the final act.....nothing better than skin on skin and feeling eachoghers goosebumps. I feel like franken furter Fucking with all that gear on lol |
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"i honestly don't mind I'm grateful for the sex. but i seem to think some women need something around their middle as they don't like their mummy tummies gives them more confidence when thats hidden. I personally think they should be proud having created an mini human.
Am I allowed to feel no shame about my food-induced stomach, or do we have to have procreated to be permitted this?
Nothing wrong with your stomach. You look lovely x"
i second that |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy "
what about open crotch tights?? (keep you all in) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a huge fan of sexy lingerie/basques/stockings/suspenders and heels and oh my it's been so long since a girl has dresses like that for me! Even if it comes off its the unwrapping which is the fun bit! X"
I did lol xxxx
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy "
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it! |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!"
I think you'll be fine! |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
I think you'll be fine! "
Noooo hold ups are the devil.to thunder thighs Pmsl get em off asap! |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
I think you'll be fine!
Noooo hold ups are the devil.to thunder thighs Pmsl get em off asap!"
Like a joint of rolled pork  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!"
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry  |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
I think you'll be fine!
Noooo hold ups are the devil.to thunder thighs Pmsl get em off asap!
Like a joint of rolled pork "
Pmsl I'm a veggie u know that no pork.for me! |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry "
U can feed me cake naked |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
I think you'll be fine!
Noooo hold ups are the devil.to thunder thighs Pmsl get em off asap!
Like a joint of rolled pork
Pmsl I'm a veggie u know that no pork.for me!"
That's what they all say |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
I think you'll be fine!
Noooo hold ups are the devil.to thunder thighs Pmsl get em off asap!
Like a joint of rolled pork
Pmsl I'm a veggie u know that no pork.for me!
That's what they all say "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm not a big fan of basques and suspenders etc, prefer a nice bra and undies set. Mrs feels the same. But if it helps a lady feel more confident and sexy it's all good.
Bodystockings: that's a different matter, they drive me crazy.
-Mr  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry
U can feed me cake naked "
can I eat it myself and feed you something else |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry
U can feed me cake naked
can I eat it myself and feed you something else "
Well seeing as you're behaving tonight and asked so nicely I may let u.......no pork tho ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry
U can feed me cake naked
can I eat it myself and feed you something else
Well seeing as you're behaving tonight and asked so nicely I may let u.......no pork tho ok lol "
does that mean you will or wont suck my dick lol |
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"Stockings are also the first thing off......so unflattering with thighs splayed out over the top too!
Is that like a muffin top for the thighs? Sexy
Cup cakes yeah lol.hate wearing stockings cuz of it!
muffings and cup cakes mmmm now I'm hungry
U can feed me cake naked
can I eat it myself and feed you something else
Well seeing as you're behaving tonight and asked so nicely I may let u.......no pork tho ok lol "
I'm still laughing at this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a huge fan of sexy lingerie/basques/stockings/suspenders and heels and oh my it's been so long since a girl has dresses like that for me! Even if it comes off its the unwrapping which is the fun bit! X I did lol xxxx "
And that was too long ago |
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All that dressing up then ripping them off...lol
Some women look good in stocking and some don't
I personally feel very uncomfortable in them even tho I think they look hot
I like killer heels and nothing else or thigh boots with a tiny mini dress |
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"All that dressing up then ripping them off...lol
Some women look good in stocking and some don't
I personally feel very uncomfortable in them even tho I think they look hot
I like killer heels and nothing else or thigh boots with a tiny mini dress"
Think u have nailed the right look! |
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