I've met people on here who have turned into genuine friends, people for who I'll babysit their kids, or will be invited over for dinner. There may still be sex involved from time to time, but the main thing that has stayed is the friendships. So it can and does happen. |
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I had thought I had formed meaningful friendships but it turnout that when it goes down to the wire, the aim is to get it in a hole.
That's just my experience |
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"I had thought I had formed meaningful friendships but it turnout that when it goes down to the wire, the aim is to get it in a hole.
That's just my experience "
Sorry to hear that, it seems most people paint men with that same brush haha |
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Yep I've made two lifelong friends from here, sex isn't involved anymore as they're both now in exclusive relationships. We all meet up from time to time to catch up and keep in touch via whatsapp and the like. |
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"Not yet, we'd love to but so far although we've met some very nice people it's never got as far as friendship."
Yea same with me, so many lovely people but never manage to keep the connection unless its naughty haha |
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"I've met people on here who have turned into genuine friends, people for who I'll babysit their kids, or will be invited over for dinner. There may still be sex involved from time to time, but the main thing that has stayed is the friendships. So it can and does happen."
I would really like something like this.  |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Has anyone found a decent freindship on here.. Or is it all about sex?  "
I may have found a platonic friendship op time will tell though as such friendship with the opposite sex are rare in my case .
I'm on the look out for a male friend who swings for friendship as you know how it is you can only talk about shit in the swing world with someone who is in it . |
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"I had thought I had formed meaningful friendships but it turnout that when it goes down to the wire, the aim is to get it in a hole.
That's just my experience
Sorry to hear that, it seems most people paint men with that same brush haha"
I just coming off 24 hours of abuse from people I thought were my friend |
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Maybe not conventional friends but there are definitely those that I've met who I chat & share parts of my private life with.
I like having people that I can share the madness of what goes on, on here & get it. |
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I have a really good friend on here who if I never logged on again, I would still be friends with. I'm sure he'd prefer we continued fucking, but we could sustain the friendship without. |
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"I have a really good friend on here who if I never logged on again, I would still be friends with. I'm sure he'd prefer we continued fucking, but we could sustain the friendship without. "
I bet he would prefer haha, lucky guy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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2 friends in 18 months
But personally I find the fetish scene a lot more friendly. Come to think of it I wouldn't call the swinging scene friendly at all!
You get what YOU want then f off seems to be the order of the day!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone found a decent freindship on here.. Or is it all about sex? "
We've made some wonderful friends on here who we love to see in a social capacity just as much as a playing one, and no worries of that awkward drinking too much and letting slip about the lifestyle when we are in their company lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've made some good friends here some have left then come back and for some reason or another they won't or don't want to, even thought they know I'm a decent bloke.
Nowt as queer as folk. |
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I've made lots of friends off this site whom I no longer fuck Mainly couples that I still chat with regularly
I have an FB now and we can literally talk about anything Definitely makes a hige difference having that kind of connection |
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Yep 2 - 1 found out was married (posted story on another thread so won't repeat) took me 2 years to forgive him for it too. The other still very good friends with. He's in Glasgow so we don't play obviously. Still 2 good friends all being said and done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a loner.
I've always found that the problem with being a loner is you're always alone!
I prefer it. People are over-rated."
I generally agree but every now and again I find someone special that I reminds me just how much I miss close friendships.  |
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