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Are you too picky?

By *ureTemptation OP Woman over a year ago

Off the grid

I've been on an off Fab for ages. Not played much. After the longest of long breaks, I'm actively looking for a meet and after trawling through profiles, either I just can't tell from a profile if I'd like someone, or I'm too picky.

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm "picky".

But I do without a doubt tend to lean towards certain "types" of people.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

I can help.

Have a look at our profile.

If you don't fancy us, you're too picky.

If you do, you're too desperate.

Sorted

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not too picky, but I won't just shag anyone, I have spoken to some really desirable women on fab, but either they have been to far away, or the conversation has just fiuzzled out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been on an off Fab for ages. Not played much. After the longest of long breaks, I'm actively looking for a meet and after trawling through profiles, either I just can't tell from a profile if I'd like someone, or I'm too picky.

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging."

I'm very selective

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think I am yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If knowing what you like & what you don't is picky then that's me, makes a change from being called shallow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, it is nsa, variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am picky aswell op. It's good to be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If knowing what you like & what you don't is picky then that's me, makes a change from being called shallow."

^ this. X 1,000,000

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging."

Yep, we're experiencing exactly the same thing, and like you can't decide whether we're picky or profiles are just not jumping up at us. Even the mallets thing is turning us off someone's profile at the moment....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not picky

I just take my time getting to know someone before deciding i want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm picky, maybe just shallow

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

I see all kinds of folk.

But I'm a sucker for a pretty face of any gender

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say I'm picky. There has to be attraction and mutual respect.

I certainly don't just go for anyone who sends a message. Nor do I put up with GVS.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

depends on the profile? if they're vague with crap pics then you're probably not picky.

i tend to go off pictures first, if i like the look of someone then i'll see if anything on the profile text puts me off. if not then i'll message the guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*smallest,

Not mallets.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On here? Holy shit yes.

Not meeting the people I don't fancy is way more important than meeting the ones I do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that.

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By *ureTemptation OP Woman over a year ago

Off the grid

"*smallest,

Not mallets.......

So glad you said that. I was very, very confused. I was even picturing a profile with Timmy Mallet's mallet in the photos and thought that would understandably put anyone off!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know what i want and im happy im finding it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that. "

ooh. never thought i'd see the day but that's kind of good.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

If I am horny and I am mildly attracted to someone, I will fuck em.

I'm not marrying or moving in with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

Being selective isn't picky

I'm as much about finding someone that's mutually attractive as about finding a fuck

If there isn't that frisson, that electric spark, then I'm not rubbing the shag pile up the right way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think I'm picky

I just think I've lost the will to make Fab a full time job!

It's exhausting .. I find myself getting on with someone, they tick most of my boxes and then - something puts me off!

I'm not looking for perfect I just want some sort of something ...

Does that make sense!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being selective at all. I've become even more so recently but I know exactly what I'm looking for now.

Wait until you find what you want as it's supposed to be fun with no regrets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm. When I was younger and dating I think I was really picky. But when it comes to swinging I think I strike a good balance. I have plenty of fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging."

Definitely agree with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm picky and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think I'm picky

I just think I've lost the will to make Fab a full time job!

It's exhausting .. I find myself getting on with someone, they tick most of my boxes and then - something puts me off!

I'm not looking for perfect I just want some sort of something ...

Does that make sense!?

I actually get where your coming from

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

I am not here to hand out charity f**ks; so, yes, I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*smallest,

Not mallets.......

So glad you said that. I was very, very confused. I was even picturing a profile with Timmy Mallet's mallet in the photos and thought that would understandably put anyone off!"

Hehe was trying to see how id missed mallets!!!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that. "

What's that in hand potatoes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am not here to hand out charity f**ks; so, yes, I am"

Charity fucks love it and storing it for laterx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am not here to hand out charity f**ks; so, yes, I am"

excellent response

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm a fussy bint and getting fussier the older I get.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with being selective about who you meet or play with. For socials I like down to earth fun people, I've met quite a few forumites in my other life and it was lots of fun chatting and swapping stories. Beyond that do I want to just fuck anyone? No

Beard

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

Over time we have worked out what we like and what works and what doesn't.

We tend to play less now because we decided 'what's the point if we already know that it won't be what we enjoy the most or be potential grief'

I don't think that makes us picky just good at finding our type of fun. Not to mention we'd rather not play and just have a blinding night out if we know it's not going to be right.

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm extremely selective. I'm only here for a few "regular" fwbs x

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

I'm not sure what "too picky" is, really.

I only meet people that I want to meet.... But doesn't everyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not sure what "too picky" is, really.

I only meet people that I want to meet.... But doesn't everyone?"

^^ this!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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I think we are allowed to be right?

I'm not going to meet someone I'm not attracted to in some way.

That's what the hotlist is for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being picky I am too . Lots of men on here so you can take your pick hard to find sexy geninue ones . Now and again they pop up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be picky you must first have something to pick from.....

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have the same problem if I try to go searching - so many bad pics and badly written profiles, no-one looks appealing at all!

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By *lue NarwhalMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging."

Your location probably don't help..

I have just spent the last hour looking at nearly every profile on here and I can hand on heart say you are the only person from off the grid..

Wherever that is, cos according to Wikipedia, it's a long way away and it's only inhabitants are five sheep.

I suggest you put your best wellies and wooly jumper on and get out there where the action is..

"Baaahh" is the best chat up line I could find.

Just thought I'd save you all the bother and heartache of finding out yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find it hard to find someone that I find interesting & attractive enough both on here and real life.

I'm also too lazy at the minute too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Incredibly picky, someone has to have the whole package for me to be interested in them. I get bored easily too so if the messages are crap It won't go further. I rarely message first either unless someone really takes my interest, if they do then it's because of a combination of things that's attracted me to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought I was, but actually I think I'm pretty easy to please. I only have two deal breakers, and I've generally got at least one person I would very much like to fuck on the go at any one time. I'd certainly meet a lot more if I had more free time.

Can I be considered picky, but within a really broad range of parameters?

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By *andsonjohnMan over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Possibly a bit of both?

Gah. It's driving me nuts! I've said it before, there really needs to be speed dating for swinging."

if you looking at male profiles OP its no wonder your not being impressed .

it pains me to say this but the general standard of male profiles on this site is alarmingly poor the worst I've ever seen on a adult site if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that.

What's that in hand potatoes? "

I honestly don't know, I haven't held one that size yet, 2 at a guess!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that.

What's that in hand potatoes?

I honestly don't know, I haven't held one that size yet, 2 at a guess!"

I thought it might still be three, but without the sticky out bit. I assume you still want the girth, as that wasn't mentioned?

As someone else said, it's progress.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I'm too picky for my fading looks and expanding body. I've taken a couple of inches off my size requirements, the new revised measurements are as follows...

Minimum height 5'11, I can be up to 5'9 in high heels so still want the dude to be taller than me.

I still like dark hair but I like salt and pepper hair as well, that's dark hair with bits of grey.

Still like nice jawlines and big eyebrows so the handsome face requirement remains.

Penis size, I will consider 6.5 inches in length, minimum circumference of 5 inches. I can't shave anymore off than that.

What's that in hand potatoes?

I honestly don't know, I haven't held one that size yet, 2 at a guess!"

Nevermind hand potatoes, Fabs needs to know what it is in both Lynx Cans and Sky Remotes...

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