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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh Er that's interesting.
I guess I would very much leave it to the pregnant person to decide.
Would I play with a pregnant woman?
Yeah probably, if she seemed to have her head screwed on right.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When my wife was pregnant her sex drive went through the roof literally she wanted it 7-8 times a day gentle sex was amazing being that close to the bump was very intimate and it probably was the best sex we had apart from the first six months when we met. |
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?.."
There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant, and from finding out at 2 weeks pregnant I stopped playing straight away, it just doesnt seem right to me personally, however a lot of that's down to the fact we lost our first child and have now had lots of complications with this pregnancy so I've been on pelvic rest majority of the time 
Lots of women's sex drive heightens and I guess as long as their safe and know their limits it's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..
There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts."
Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment! |
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..
There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts.
Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment!"
Actually I was trying to be helpful as these threads NEVER end well as people get very judgemental, but hey ho your comment tells me all I need to know about you so enjoy your day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do think that when pregnant you should only play with your partner the health risks involved to not only you but the unborn child are not worth taking the risk even if you practice safe sex its not always 100% safe. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..
There are 101 threads on this if you really want to know people's thoughts.
Oh i am sorry..i dont spend my Days on the forums must have missed them!!...no one asked you to comment!
Actually I was trying to be helpful as these threads NEVER end well as people get very judgemental, but hey ho your comment tells me all I need to know about you so enjoy your day. "
You dont need to know anything about me?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would be an absolute no for us.
Having had 8 miscarriages playing with random strangers would be the furthest thing from our minds. "
Sorry about that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it.
Better to be safe than sorry x"
yeah, that's my first thought.
i think i'd probably not do it even if i was high risk. i'm the type of person who thinks their body doesn't belong to themselves any more when pregnant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I declined a FFM years ago, in 30s because one of the ladies was pregnant. She was very visibly with baby and I did fancy her but my instincts said leave well alone. I know that the feeling wasn't self preservation, disgust or judgement, it was concern for the nipper.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i'm also high risk when it comes to pregnancies so i wouldn't do it.
Better to be safe than sorry x
yeah, that's my first thought.
i think i'd probably not do it even if i was high risk. i'm the type of person who thinks their body doesn't belong to themselves any more when pregnant."
Yep x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's incredibly sad if sex with strangers is more important than the wellbeing of their unborn child. "
^^ This. I wouldn't play whilst pregnant myself, and I wouldn't play with someone who is pregnant. When I was pregnant i did absolutely everything I could to keep my baby safe, there's no way i'd ever have taken any unnecessary risks. Even safe sex isn't 100% safe, I'd never forgive myself if something happened to the baby. I'm of the opinion that for those months, you stop doing anything that might cause harm... paté, alcohol, smoking, rollercoasters, sex with strangers... your first job as a mum is to protect your baby from unnecessary harm. |
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My sex drive went through the roof when I was pregnant but Bradley was the only person I wanted near me.
It's up to the individual to calculate the risks but having seen what herpes can do to a Newborn and knowing what other STI's can do to babies, in utero or out, it's not a risk I would've taken.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?.."
I really don't mind it find pregnant women are hornier
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V"
If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!.. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V
If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!.."
But that's a whole other argument entirely.
It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something I agree with personally
But what others do is nothing to do with me
Though the risks maybe small they are still to hight for me to put on my unborn child
If I played with a guy and cought a STI its a trip to the clap clinic and a dose of antibiotics, for the unborn child your carrying the result could be life changing, more so in the early stages, if my child came out blind as a result of my sexual actions I'd have to live with knowing what I'd done for the rest of my life
No sex is 100% safe, even with condoms, its just not worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also often wonder how many of the guys in here wanted to fuck pregnant women would let guys off a sex site fuck their Mrs while she was carrying their child |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V
If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..
But that's a whole other argument entirely.
It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it "
What like you just did hahaha |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V
If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..
But that's a whole other argument entirely.
It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it
What like you just did hahaha "
I wasn't arguing - just making a simple point All the best  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't agree with it.
I think it's selfish.
Which is the last thing a mother should be.
And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V
If people dont like a post they have no need to comment!..
But that's a whole other argument entirely.
It's a forum and full of arguments - likewise if you don't like a comment you don't need to reply to it
What like you just did hahaha
I wasn't arguing - just making a simple point All the best "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh Er that's interesting.
I guess I would very much leave it to the pregnant person to decide.
Would I play with a pregnant woman?
Yeah probably, if she seemed to have her head screwed on right.
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Any pregnant woman will wait until she is not carrying a child until she plays with others(not the father)..if her head is screwed on right. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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In my opinion. They should embrace the pregnancy and new life growing and developing. To put the health of an unborn at risk is, and this is only my opinion, rather selfish. Xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.
So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.
Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you
Just my two pennies worth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.
So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.
Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you
Just my two pennies worth! "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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And OP your comments to another forumite up there are very telling. You can't ask for public opinion (which is what this is) and then kick off when you get a reply that you don't like.
V"
But the post wasn't answering the question, it was telling the OP that there were other threads on this subject in the past. I think I would have taken that post as the OP did, that she should read other threads instead of posting.
To the OP, my thoughts are, I would never have taken any risks with my unborn children if we were swinging when I was pregnant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're pregnant, I think the safety of your baby should be paramount, and swinging whilst being pregnant could very well jeopardise the baby's health, so for that reason, I'd say no. |
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"This is one subject I am highly opinionated on. Pregnancy is a gift and should be treated as so. Due to loosing numerous pregnancies and having a ectopic pregnancy 10 years ago I have had that chance taken away from me.
So woman who risk the safety of their babies royally piss me off. You could ask what's unsafe about it? Well your playing with a playmate and the condom breaks thus you put your baby at risk. Genital herpes can be passed with condoms on - again puts baby at risk.
Safety aside I also feel pregnancy is a sacred time and it's something where your body changes all the time and only your partner should get the chance to enjoy that with you
Just my two pennies worth! "
I totally agree,I just don't understand it. |
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I think it should be up to the individual, everyone is going to have an opinion on such a touchy subject. Yes the female is pregnant here & she still enjoys watching others in clubs but the judgemental looks & comments when we go to play ourselves - i.e. not with others - is ridiculous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's incredibly sad if sex with strangers is more important than the wellbeing of their unborn child.
^^ This. I wouldn't play whilst pregnant myself, and I wouldn't play with someone who is pregnant. When I was pregnant i did absolutely everything I could to keep my baby safe, there's no way i'd ever have taken any unnecessary risks. Even safe sex isn't 100% safe, I'd never forgive myself if something happened to the baby. I'm of the opinion that for those months, you stop doing anything that might cause harm... paté, alcohol, smoking, rollercoasters, sex with strangers... your first job as a mum is to protect your baby from unnecessary harm. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have sex unless with partner. You can't guarantee that people will be gentle, if something bad did happen you'd never forgive yourself. And is a shag with strangers really worth the risk?
Add to that you might get struck down with inconvenient vomitting and throw up over someone.
Pregnancy sex can be sexy, but mostly its not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't have sex unless with partner. You can't guarantee that people will be gentle, if something bad did happen you'd never forgive yourself. And is a shag with strangers really worth the risk?
Add to that you might get struck down with inconvenient vomitting and throw up over someone.
Pregnancy sex can be sexy, but mostly its not."
for the last line.
Uncontrollable body motions ain't sexy |
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I'm not sure if it's a hormonal thing but in my experience, ie my missus, her juices felt absolutely amazing almost like a waxiness or more viscous quality to them. The best fuck I ever had (yet) were when she was pregnant. I'd love to fuck another pregnant lady to compare so message if you're interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..
I'd play..."
Ohhh my god....are you pregnant?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are peoples _iews on Women playing while pregnant..i know its each to there own but wondered what people thorght?..
I'd play...
Ohhh my god....are you pregnant? "
Nooooo |
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Am four months pregnant only have sex with my Huby doesn't feel right to us to have sex with other people , if other people are comfortable doing so whilst pregnant that's completely up to them we don't judge X |
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I wasn't into the scene when I had my kids, bit when I was pregnant I was always seriously demanding of sex .... more so than usually .... those days are behind me now, but it never did any harm to my kids |
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