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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

Today's meet was with a guy who could accommodate. When I got there the place didn't look great. Unbeknown to me as I arrived he locked the door. Then he got higher and higher on Vodka and drugs. I was very frightened but felt I couldn't antagonise him.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

That must have been very frightening. Unfortunately you can't always tell who the wrong'uns are. Hope you're not too shaken up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he's on here report him to admin.

David

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

er police!!!??

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"If he's on here report him to admin.

David"

This

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Blimey, that's horrible.

Report him though.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

I terrified myself the other day by doing a Google search for FabSwingers and news.

*shocked face*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my goodness. Glad you are ok OP

Kinky X

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That's awful,report at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope you're Ok OP. That sounds an awful experience!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"er police!!!?? "

Police? With what? Has he actually done something wrong apart from being scruffy (apartment description), pissed up and high on drugs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

jeeze luv, hope youre okai. agree that if on here report him, id actually go further n get on the blower to the police, you just never know what people are capable of... take care x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"er police!!!??

Police? With what? Has he actually done something wrong apart from being scruffy (apartment description), pissed up and high on drugs?"

locked her in against her will??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe"

Has he actually done something wrong to you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I terrified myself the other day by doing a Google search for FabSwingers and news.

*shocked face*"

Say it ain't so, Joe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh OP that's awful, report him if he is on here - that at the very least.

*hugs*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"jeeze luv, hope youre okai. agree that if on here report him, id actually go further n get on the blower to the police, you just never know what people are capable of... take care x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"er police!!!??

Police? With what? Has he actually done something wrong apart from being scruffy (apartment description), pissed up and high on drugs?

locked her in against her will?? "

I always lock my front door, does that count as locking someone against his will?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe

Has he actually done something wrong to you?"

What the actual fuck???

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I hope your ok..please block and report.

Also let a good friend know where and when and who your meeting in future just to be safe x

Red

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Bloody hell, he might have fucked you! there's some queer people about.

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By *elloIntrigueMan over a year ago

North West UK

Glad you got out of there okay! Would hate for people to put themselves at risk.

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By *irceWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

Yep that is a reality for a lot of us, had a few scares and guys wacked out on is very unnerving...best wishes op..

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe

Has he actually done something wrong to you?"
you are kidding, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I hope your ok..please block and report.

Also let a good friend know where and when and who your meeting in future just to be safe x

Red "
this xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh my goodness. Glad you are ok OP

Kinky X

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him..."
there is l;ocking a door, and then there is locking a door..if the OP was scared and felt she couldnt leave, then i believe her..people can do normal things in an intimidating way...

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That sounds like a completely crappy experience OP, as others have said, block, report and move on. All the best of luck in the future

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him... there is l;ocking a door, and then there is locking a door..if the OP was scared and felt she couldnt leave, then i believe her..people can do normal things in an intimidating way..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"er police!!!??

Police? With what? Has he actually done something wrong apart from being scruffy (apartment description), pissed up and high on drugs?

locked her in against her will??

I always lock my front door, does that count as locking someone against his will? "

wen you have to persuade them to open the door YES!!!! are you for real?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You guys are pretty quick when it comes down to conclusions based on just one side of the story. Just saying...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

"I eventually got out after PERSUADING him to unlock the door"

That isn't a comfortable situation for anyone! God forbid you ever end up there.... Not apologising or caring if I get banned from forums.

You sound like a complete fucking idiot. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe

Has he actually done something wrong to you?

What the actual fuck???"

my thought too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys are pretty quick when it comes down to conclusions based on just one side of the story. Just saying..."

go back to your hole pal.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

If you're going to meets then have someone know where you are and potentially call or text you're ok. Consider meeting them outside of their place first too op - you might decide not to continue.

Have your next meet arranged a little differently, so it concludes better.

Always report anyone who may be harmful or trouble to others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

youv just let the whole of fab know wot to expect when they arrange a meet with you pal!! welll done!

Nah pal - only the too sensitive ones with no sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Glad you got out of there op, sorry you experienced it though...that level of intimidation is scary as hell...up your level of safety back up though and maybe look at neutral venues as the lesser of the two evils.

As for the guy trying to belittle what you experienced today...ignore this type of condoning!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him..."

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you "

So your idea of safety is to leave front door wide open when you're about to have sex with someone? Makes sense.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

"
you make using the block button so easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

AHhhhhhhh. Another ALT-Right woman hating troll.

Great to have you on board

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Glad you got out of there op, sorry you experienced it though...that level of intimidation is scary as hell...up your level of safety back up though and maybe look at neutral venues as the lesser of the two evils.

As for the guy trying to belittle what you experienced today...ignore this type of condoning! "

Well said... Op just take care as I said before

Ignore the ppl here who just want the attention by chatting shite.

If you are still worried /concerned talk to the police.. They are really nice ppl

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

A little respect goes a long way you know,it was clearly an unpleasant experience why make light of the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

you make using the block button so easy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"er police!!!??

Police? With what? Has he actually done something wrong apart from being scruffy (apartment description), pissed up and high on drugs?"

Are you serious?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP plenty of people here supporting you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you

So your idea of safety is to leave front door wide open when you're about to have sex with someone? Makes sense."

Why wouldn't it make sense? If your sacred that they might have someone else that's going to walk in and jump you you shouldn't meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well there is a cautionary tale for everyone...

if it looks dodgy, don't go in, as it probably is dodgy.

trust your instincts and get the fuck out of there...

however, good to know you managed it eventually OP and hope you blocked/reported the person in question..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you

So your idea of safety is to leave front door wide open when you're about to have sex with someone? Makes sense.

Why wouldn't it make sense? If your sacred that they might have someone else that's going to walk in and jump you you shouldn't meet them"

It wouldn't make sense because it's stupid. That's why.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you

So your idea of safety is to leave front door wide open when you're about to have sex with someone? Makes sense.

can you spell idiot??

Sure, it goes - petertab. Happy now?

delighted!! keep shooting pal, keep spreading the word!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

A little respect goes a long way you know,it was clearly an unpleasant experience why make light of the situation.

he is bein a total fool!! "

You have your own opinions.. Now let others have theirs..

Or are you not capable of that..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been a TV for a long time with lots and lots of meets. I've never had any trouble until today.

I have always been keen to meet guys who can accommodate. It's more comfortable than the open air or in a car.

I eventually got out after persuading him to unlock the door by which time he was on a different planet

So do take care. I have never been so scared.

Chloe"

Did he threaten you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

A little respect goes a long way you know,it was clearly an unpleasant experience why make light of the situation.

he is bein a total fool!!

You have your own opinions.. Now let others have theirs..

Or are you not capable of that..? "

Don't even try to stay neutral - they're going to eat you alive. After all this credible and how well documented story triggered many.

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Op, if you feel like you can, do report it to the police..

Seriously.

They probably will not do anything but they will make a record of it and if you have the guys name and address, obviously it will make identifying him easy.

He may do something similar again, he may have done so in the past.. We can only speculate, but should something happen to someone else at least there is already a report about the guy on file.

For all we know, he could be a wanted sex offender and the little information you give may be enough to help the police.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op, if you feel like you can, do report it to the police..

Seriously.

They probably will not do anything but they will make a record of it and if you have the guys name and address, obviously it will make identifying him easy.

He may do something similar again, he may have done so in the past.. We can only speculate, but should something happen to someone else at least there is already a report about the guy on file.

For all we know, he could be a wanted sex offender and the little information you give may be enough to help the police."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well if you guys want to report someone to the police for locking the door then there's seriously something wrong here but not with him...

And you know nothing about safety let alone swinging. God help anyone stupid enough to meet with you

So your idea of safety is to leave front door wide open when you're about to have sex with someone? Makes sense.

Why wouldn't it make sense? If your sacred that they might have someone else that's going to walk in and jump you you shouldn't meet them

It wouldn't make sense because it's stupid. That's why."

I can't argue with that logic. You should be a lawyer with reasoned arguments like that. You would win every case.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all of those replies.

I agree that locking a door is no big deal. But locking the door and hiding the key is rather different.

And to whoever called me an idiot - they were totally right!

Thanks you fab lot!

Chloe xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear about this OP. Please look after yourself, and sending virtual hugs.

Report and block, if on here.

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

A little respect goes a long way you know,it was clearly an unpleasant experience why make light of the situation.

he is bein a total fool!!

You have your own opinions.. Now let others have theirs..

Or are you not capable of that..?

the op had to 'persuade' there meet to open the door to let them out? this fool thinks thats acceptable behaviour, wots your opinion on this? "

My opinion is that no one can tell me what to do or when but saying the op is an idiot is just rude.

As man you will never experience what a woman does

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

youv just let the whole of fab know wot to expect when they arrange a meet with you pal!! welll done!

Exactly, nice one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for all of those replies.

I agree that locking a door is no big deal. But locking the door and hiding the key is rather different.

And to whoever called me an idiot - they were totally right!

Thanks you fab lot!

Chloe xx

You've failed to mention that tiny little detail about hin hiding the key though...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks for all of those replies.

I agree that locking a door is no big deal. But locking the door and hiding the key is rather different.

And to whoever called me an idiot - they were totally right!

Thanks you fab lot!

Chloe xx

You've failed to mention that tiny little detail about hin hiding the key though... "

Get back!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Oh and for the record - it wasn't me locking up the door in this particular situation.

You guys make trolling soooooo easy

A little respect goes a long way you know,it was clearly an unpleasant experience why make light of the situation.

he is bein a total fool!!

You have your own opinions.. Now let others have theirs..

Or are you not capable of that..?

the op had to 'persuade' there meet to open the door to let them out? this fool thinks thats acceptable behaviour, wots your opinion on this?

My opinion is that no one can tell me what to do or when but saying the op is an idiot is just rude.

As man you will never experience what a woman does "

I don't think it was him that called the op an idiot!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

If you are going to post on the forum do so without abusing others or you will end up banned.

If you are going to abuse people but then say you will take the ban, please don't complain on the forum when you come back from that ban as you know it is against rules.

To the OP, if you think a crime has been committed you are best going to the police, in the meantime report the profile if it is from here.

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