"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"
Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear.
There should usually be a reason. Something they dont like on your profile, something you have said or maybe they came across veris they didnt like. All sorts really but shame they didnt tell you why they were going to block you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I'd wonder for a while why they'd blocked me if we'd been getting one well.
On the other hand if they haven't got the balls to tell me maybe it's just as well they did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not a stalker so that definitely not am option, for anybody for that matter.
I'm a big boy and will move on but just taken a back that's all, came out the blue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?
As opposed to???...."
Crying into your pillow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not OP.
You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.
Don't forget to use reverse image search on the saved photos you have of them. "
If anyone did that with my face photo they'd just find a load of old poems  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not OP.
You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead."
I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest. |
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"Absolutely not OP.
You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.
I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest."
Then what did you think the answer would be, if not "yes"? As many have asked, what is the alternative here then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not OP.
You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.
I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest."
To be fair, I wasn't saying you'd do that but someone did do that to me... I gave him a mouthful & blocked him every which way. Definitely learned my lesson though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"
Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If anyone did that with my face photo they'd just find a load of old poems
There once was Woman from Leeds ......  "
More like a poem about lesbian sex called Strawberry Cornetto...
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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago
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I got blocked by a bloke because I tore a strip off him , because he sent me a pic of him with a couple their faces in full view ..
Didn't get the concept of discretion obviously.
Aren't I glad I didn't send my face pic to him or my number ..
Tool !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not OP.
You then need to use their number to look them up on Facebook and pester them on there instead.
I know I've actually got quite a wicked forum persona but I don't find that amusing, even in jest.
To be fair, I wasn't saying you'd do that but someone did do that to me... I gave him a mouthful & blocked him every which way. Definitely learned my lesson though."
I know, sorry for being brusque and rude.  |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.
Or have I been doing it wrong?  "
we've already been blocked by 3 of our new accounts.
We're still waiting for face pics from the other 2.
Fingers crossed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?
Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on."
how clearly?... maybe they are just rude? why must it be his fault? or maybe theyv done it bcos they just wanted too?.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?
Clearly you have pissed them off. I'd leave it if i were you and move on.
how clearly?... maybe they are just rude? why must it be his fault? or maybe theyv done it bcos they just wanted too?....
You'd have to read between the lines a bit to be honest. I
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we are both obviously taking it on face value, yes i agree he has to just forget it and move on, but i wouldnt automatically blame him x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?
Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been? "
Exactly  |
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?
Surely that's the preferable option? What other choices are there? Post a thread? Have a whinge? Long for what might have been? "
All of the above apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me."
... and without the chance to apologise or make it right. I know what you mean. x
They may have replied to your mail and hit the 'reply and block' button (or whatever it's called). No way of knowing if it was on purpose or accidental.
Hope you feel better today. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me."
That's happened to me before & I'd met the person Like SS said they could have hit the block button by mistake it's easily done.
I've just left them unblocked my end in case they want to get back in touch.
If not you know the ole saying ~ "its their loss"
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"No, no! You open up 5 new accounts and harass the person from those.
Or have I been doing it wrong? "
Someone did this to me for ages and in the end i did actualy meet him with another man i think it was and guess what, he moaned about a girl who was also blocking him on here he said he was sending her realy nice messages as well.
Oh well takes all sorts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think you're getting on well with someone but without warning you're blocked.
Do you just shrug your shoulders and move on!?"
I do a heavy sigh. Shrugging shoulders takes effort. A heavy sigh is an increase of oxygen, so has health benefits as well. |
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"It's not the being blocked that particularly bothers me, that's peoples choice. It's the fact that I would appear to have upset, hurt or annoyed a person so much, without realising it, that they've felt they've had to block me."
Why do they have to be hurt or upset to block you? They could gave gotten bored by you, realised you weren't compatible (just because you thought you were getting on ok doesn't mean they felt the same), there are lots of reasons why but to obsess over them is a waste of time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you everybody, know it wasn't a mistake on their part, new day, shrugging shoulders and sadly moving on.
Not an ironing board, cheeky sod, it's a quickly to be removed arty shoot of my derrière, taken for one of those stupid "today's thread" themes!
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