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over a year ago
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"Do women ever take the lead and message guys first on her? not had any yet but i live in hope! i must be a lovely feeling and a confidence boost.  "
Yes they do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do women ever take the lead and message guys first on her? not had any yet but i live in hope! i must be a lovely feeling and a confidence boost. "
It's not either, it's just them making initial contact that's all. If it's a good message and they have a profile that I'm looking for then we'll chat. If their profiles not for me then we won't |
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If i like the look of a profile i get dax to have a look and then i send a message.
However dax tends to deal with single men if they inbox us. Whilst i get to speak to the ladies and we both talk to couples
Boo |
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Some do, some don't.
I only make first contact if a man's profile and pictures really draw my attention. I don't randomly message loads of men hoping for a reply.
I'm not desperate for a shag. For me it's quality over quantity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, some don't.
I only make first contact if a man's profile and pictures really draw my attention. I don't randomly message loads of men hoping for a reply.
I'm not desperate for a shag. For me it's quality over quantity."
This for me too. To be honest, I rarely message people, there are so many crap profiles that very few are worth messaging to be fair. This does however, make the good ones stand out! |
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By *rimo4u OP Man
over a year ago
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"Some do, some don't.
I only make first contact if a man's profile and pictures really draw my attention. I don't randomly message loads of men hoping for a reply.
I'm not desperate for a shag. For me it's quality over quantity.
This for me too. To be honest, I rarely message people, there are so many crap profiles that very few are worth messaging to be fair. This does however, make the good ones stand out!"
but a profile don't really mean much, you meet a person in the flesh to no if you click? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do, some don't.
I only make first contact if a man's profile and pictures really draw my attention. I don't randomly message loads of men hoping for a reply.
I'm not desperate for a shag. For me it's quality over quantity.
This for me too. To be honest, I rarely message people, there are so many crap profiles that very few are worth messaging to be fair. This does however, make the good ones stand out!
but a profile don't really mean much, you meet a person in the flesh to no if you click? "
How do you know if there is any initial attraction to meet then? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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"Some do, some don't.
I only make first contact if a man's profile and pictures really draw my attention. I don't randomly message loads of men hoping for a reply.
I'm not desperate for a shag. For me it's quality over quantity.
This for me too. To be honest, I rarely message people, there are so many crap profiles that very few are worth messaging to be fair. This does however, make the good ones stand out!
but a profile don't really mean much, you meet a person in the flesh to no if you click? "
Think of your profile as the first glance you or the lady make across the bar .... It's the first impressions someone gets of you... If they find it (you) appealing they'll initiate contact.. if they font just like in a bar they'll blank you.
And yes I get a few messages from ladies initiating contact first   |
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But a profile don't really mean much, you meet a person in the flesh to no if you click? "
Except sometimes the converse is true. Sometimes it only takes one post to know you won't click with someone. Someone's profile should be worth a thousand words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have in the past but of all the guys I've ever mailed first not a single one ever mailed me back so just seems a waste of time
Now I just reply to guys I like who mail me first |
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By *rimo4u OP Man
over a year ago
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"Do women ever take the lead and message guys first on her? not had any yet but i live in hope! i must be a lovely feeling and a confidence boost.
wanna f**k?  "
Ok As you asked so nicely lol.. i only wish you were meeting hun!! X |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Do women ever take the lead and message guys first on her? not had any yet but i live in hope! i must be a lovely feeling and a confidence boost.
wanna f**k?
Ok As you asked so nicely lol.. i only wish you were meeting hun!! X "
How about a virtual f**k then  |
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