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We used to do mainly private meets. Then we got let down a couple of times and as our playtime is restricted we decided to look at clubs.
We had a look at one or two and then found the vanilla alternative. Using their hotel it gave us the choice of playing in the club or going back to our room for something more intimate. Now we sometimes a range to meet at the club but if we get let down we still have a club night ahead of us. We do still do the private meets but generally with people we have already met on a night out so we have a better idea that they are genuine and grief free lol
We have found that the clubs very much depend on what club you pick and what night you go on.
Go on a couples night to a club like VA, if you're prepared to step and chat to people you should have a great night! |
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Depends on the club I suppose. I used to frequent a well known one in Bham with a partner and we both loved it. Not as intense as private as we could swan off and do our own thing when we wanted. Private meets you're always with the others I'd suppose. X |
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over a year ago
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Clubs are ok...too limited though in that you have to work around them time wise, their opening hours etc..have to finish when they shut..use their rooms, wait for others to finish in there and stuff. No conrol over who else is in the place etc..
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We have nothing against clubs but we have always preferred private meets in the past as it gives us chance to see if we click with people beforehand and if we do then we meet them, we have always thought if you are at a club then you don't get the time to get to know people and see if that connection is there, we're not ones for playing with random people in the spare of the moment (not saying that everyone who goes to clubs is into that btw)  |
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"We used to do mainly private meets. Then we got let down a couple of times and as our playtime is restricted we decided to look at clubs.
We had a look at one or two and then found the vanilla alternative. Using their hotel it gave us the choice of playing in the club or going back to our room for something more intimate. Now we sometimes a range to meet at the club but if we get let down we still have a club night ahead of us. We do still do the private meets but generally with people we have already met on a night out so we have a better idea that they are genuine and grief free lol
We have found that the clubs very much depend on what club you pick and what night you go on.
Go on a couples night to a club like VA, if you're prepared to step and chat to people you should have a great night!"
Sounds like what we have been thinking. Have looked at VA a couple of times, but been told the odd story of the openness of play area's. Although you hear stories about everywhere. |
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We also only do club meets now...and like many visit clubs with hotel facilities...so a choice of private or club rooms...at least if they didn't show your not left wondering what to do... |
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"We have nothing against clubs but we have always preferred private meets in the past as it gives us chance to see if we click with people beforehand and if we do then we meet them, we have always thought if you are at a club then you don't get the time to get to know people and see if that connection is there, we're not ones for playing with random people in the spare of the moment (not saying that everyone who goes to clubs is into that btw) "
This was our thoughts originally, and our meets have been great, been let down couple of times recently though which made us think of trying clubs more. |
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"Just wondering, people's preference on meets? We have mainly done private but considering trying just club meets."
prefer club meets for a variety of reasons... dont mind private if its a hotel that we can use after... but if we are visiting... then nope.. much prefer clubs. Meets tend to be quicker and lots of variety. And find it less pressure.
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Clubs.
Did private meets years back but found them awkward. Clubs I find simpler and when the bloke lasts a grand total of 2 minutes leaving me frustrated it is easier to find someone who can finish the job properly in a club. |
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"We also only do club meets now...and like many visit clubs with hotel facilities...so a choice of private or club rooms...at least if they didn't show your not left wondering what to do..."
Never had a no show yet, i'm confident enough in my choices for meets that i don't need a back up plan |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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We've only met in clubs so far with the exception of one couple who we met privately having already met them previously in a club.
We're fairly regular at VA and the social area there allows time to get to meet and chat to people before playing, even though neither of us are particularly great at breaking the ice in that respect!! We actually quite like the openess of the play areas there as for us it adds to the whole experience being able to catch glimpses of others at olay while we're playing ourselves.
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"We used to do mainly private meets. Then we got let down a couple of times and as our playtime is restricted we decided to look at clubs.
We had a look at one or two and then found the vanilla alternative. Using their hotel it gave us the choice of playing in the club or going back to our room for something more intimate. Now we sometimes a range to meet at the club but if we get let down we still have a club night ahead of us. We do still do the private meets but generally with people we have already met on a night out so we have a better idea that they are genuine and grief free lol
We have found that the clubs very much depend on what club you pick and what night you go on.
Go on a couples night to a club like VA, if you're prepared to step and chat to people you should have a great night!
Sounds like what we have been thinking. Have looked at VA a couple of times, but been told the odd story of the openness of play area's. Although you hear stories about everywhere."
The play areas are more open there. But if you stay away from the beds into he same room as the hit tub which are considered communal you may be asked if someone can join in or invited to join others but nothing else. The management are very very quick to sort out any issues.
There is also a quieter area between the two main play areas at the back and the main room without the hot tub in has an area you can curtain off if you choose.
It is a very different vibe to most clubs. Don't listen to rumours just go have a look lol |
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"Clubs.
Did private meets years back but found them awkward. Clubs I find simpler and when the bloke lasts a grand total of 2 minutes leaving me frustrated it is easier to find someone who can finish the job properly in a club."
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I prefer private meets I tend to use clubs more because it's just easier to get a taxi and go to my local club that arrange a meet when you don't drive or accommodate |
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Club meets only for a variety of reasons - love the club atmosphere, safety as a single fem , lots of choice of who to play with and great social scene. Can't think of a positive reason to have a private meet. |
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"We used to do mainly private meets. Then we got let down a couple of times and as our playtime is restricted we decided to look at clubs.
We had a look at one or two and then found the vanilla alternative. Using their hotel it gave us the choice of playing in the club or going back to our room for something more intimate. Now we sometimes a range to meet at the club but if we get let down we still have a club night ahead of us. We do still do the private meets but generally with people we have already met on a night out so we have a better idea that they are genuine and grief free lol
We have found that the clubs very much depend on what club you pick and what night you go on.
Go on a couples night to a club like VA, if you're prepared to step and chat to people you should have a great night!"
Private meets are all well and good if it's someone you've met before but clubs better for first meets as like you say if you're let down still got a club night ahead Looking forward to showing my FB off at VA nearer xmas |
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