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Closed shop, or do women want to chat with guy?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, been on site for few months and been a bit surprised by lack of community appeal, I am genuine guy who has a major slut fantasy but not in a degrading way but like women who are experienced and want to explore a bit, anyone out there?
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"Good question.....
I don't know for sure, the fab pictures for example seems to be bit of a competition....that make sense?"
what has fab pictures got to do with anything.
Do you want to be in them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good question.....
I don't know for sure, the fab pictures for example seems to be bit of a competition....that make sense?"
No competition on pictures. Who cares. It's the whole person not just the pictures that matter. OK so some like being a top ten on the most fab ones. As there are a lot more single males we need to stand out more than the rest. I will say it once and for all that best thing is to attend clubs. You get alot that are on here that attend them regularly and just be yourself. Please if you do go don't be expecting to play go for the social side. Some really nice people to become friends with. Don't treat this like a competitive sport it's far from it. Sorry if ranted on a bit that's not what I trying to achieve OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No wish to be in pics, just noticed a bit of a crusade in getting pics tabbed, its a bit party politics in a way "
So basically you expected a "slut" to turn up and fulfil your fantasies and it hasn't actually happened. Can't imagine why not! |
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"Good question.....
I don't know for sure, the fab pictures for example seems to be bit of a competition....that make sense?"
The only thing to focus upon is how to sell yourself well, so that you're communicating the right things about you, when searching for the people you like.
Comparing yourself to others is often inappropriate, unless you're learning from them. Likewise if you don't like something about a site, then use the parts that you do.
There are some great people in Fab - a few of them have replied here. If you want to feel more of a part in something, a community, the forum is a great place. Single guys can find it tough here, potentially isolated with limited success - due to the massive competition levels amongst you.
Put your energy into expanding your profile text and photos - you can become more inviting to others that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think that's a bit broad, not expecting anything.... was merely putting feelers out and as mentioned welcome any advice, comments noted, as for fan pics, not bashing was just asked to substantiate 'community' aspect, thanks |
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Yes, apologies for the flippant reply earlier... seems the thread's gone well.
Yes, to echo what's been said already get some pics - not dick pics, let's see that athletic body. Something tasteful.
Chat some more on the forums?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a great fab community, you just have to put the effort in to find it. Yes there are arseholes, people with egos the size of a mountain, however there are also genuine people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You just have to try and get involved. It can be quite daunting at first, just take comfort in knowing we all started somewhere, in regards to involving ourselves in the fab community
As for meets. May I suggest a club, or even one of the social events? You can chat to other fab members, and its a good way to get your face out there, and possibly even verified. Or even a cam veri, just to get yourself verified . Good luck OP, you seem like a good guy. I hope you are not a stranger around the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You just have to try and get involved. It can be quite daunting at first, just take comfort in knowing we all started somewhere, in regards to involving ourselves in the fab community
As for meets. May I suggest a club, or even one of the social events? You can chat to other fab members, and its a good way to get your face out there, and possibly even verified. Or even a cam veri, just to get yourself verified . Good luck OP, you seem like a good guy. I hope you are not a stranger around the forums. "
Not a stranger anymore, thanks for advice
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There is a great fab community, you just have to put the effort in to find it. Yes there are arseholes, people with egos the size of a mountain, however there are also genuine people. "
Thanks Shel |
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